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Suigeneris93:
Where is the 18+ now

Iranu

ILOVEFOOD:
U've not seen doesn't mean dat there isn't

U cn only say dat dey r few

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Hi all, do you guys think I'm ugly?

I have never really been in a serious relationship all my life.

Could it be based on my looks?[/color]

fleps:
Guy: Hey, babe

Girl: Hi, baby

Guy: What if I told you my ex wanted to see me and we were planning to hang out?

Girl: I wouldn't say anything

Guy: ...you wouldn't?

Girl: No, I wouldn't

Guy: Why not?

Girl: Because I trust you

Guy: But do you trust her?

Girl: Honestly? I don't give a Bleep about her. It's not about me trusting her, it's about me trusting you. Of course she wants to see you. She's your ex. She'll miss you from time to time. That's what ex girlfriends do. Obviously, she knows you and I are together, and all that matters to me is that you know we're together now, too. I trust you enough to know if she tries to lean in for a kiss, you'll back off or stop her and tell her she shouldn't do that. I trust you enough to know if she tries to randomly get on top of you, you'll push her off and tell her to cut it out and it isn't appropriate. I trust you enough to know that if she tries to sleep with you, you'll get up and walk away. At least, I hope I can trust you. I'm not trying to be that girlfriend who tells you who you can't see and who you can't talk to. I'm not trying to be that girlfriend who's controlling and makes decisions for you. I'm not trying to be that girlfriend who doesn't trust her man enough to know what's right from wrong. So if you want to see your ex and feel like you two can have a normal functioning friendship, then go ahead. If you know that some things might happen if you two are around each other, then you know you shouldn't and how that would make me feel. Again, I'm not going to tell you what to do. But I will say this; if something does happen and you allowed it to happen, you'll lose me and I won't even think twice about leaving you. Am I stupid for trusting you? Maybe, because most girls wouldn't. Am I uncomfortable with you being with her? Maybe, considering how she used to mean something to you, or I don't know if she still does. Am I going to trust you despite all of that? Yes, because I love you and that's how it's supposed to be. I know you love me enough to not hurt like that way. At least, I hope you do.

AVRS:
I live and work in one of the cities in Southwest Nigeria. I'm single, male with a female working class neighbour who is also single.
For some months now, we've been seeing each other and it's now driving me nuts. It's clear than we can't date talk more of getting married. Our romance started sometimes mid last year after we spent some time gisting in my apartment and has continued since then.
I have tried to keep away from her but after a month at most, we come back together.
She has started to fall in love with me and I've got to stop this as soon as possible.
I need advice please.

cruzita:
PLAIN RUBBISH

deyemia:
The Person I Intend To Marry Just Told Me This!!!


Dear Nairalanders,

I've come again to hear your views about this issue.... especially married "Egbons"

So it all started like this, My new fiancee and I just finished a sunday service and I was about going to drop her at home when one of her single friends asked if she could join us which we agreed.

On our way they started talking all wife stuffs sharing their views on a marriage and shii, then one thing led to a financial topic where my fiancee started saying she can never support a husband financially, that a man should be a man and take all responsibilities of every penny to be spent, that the reason she's working is to be able to afford all the things she wants that all the responsibilities of the household is for the husband . I acted cool at first.

Her friend was even saying that she doesnt like to be a liability that at least it should not be the man's responsibility 100% that the wife should be able to support financially, My fiancee outrightly disagreed with her saying support doesnt have to be financial from the wife, that it could be through prayers.

I couldnt keep mute anymore I had to ask her "what does it mean when people say supportive wife? " she replied she doesn't know, that she's sure it doesnt have to be financial.

At some point when the friend had already alighted, I asked what if the man is building a house and needs immediate support for just window frames, she said never!

She even said if she has money in the bank and their is no food at home, we will all drink Garri.

Now here are the facts,
-We got introduced through match making,
-there are some good things about her that is worth consideration.
-I dont think she has dated before because she obviously has no experience whats so ever when it comes to relationship behaviours. she's "efikko" kind of.
-This her ideology seems deep rooted in her upbringing and family., her mum is rich.

My Challenge is,
Should I stick around and try to change that ideology or just move on because I am sure it's a destructive ideology.

charliboy654:
In Warri, u can't tell the difference between teen and adult female o, cus all of them package.

Ilaje44:
Well, people in the "age" bracket between 13 and 19 are called Teenagers, because they are in their "teen" ages i.e. ThirTeen, FourTeen, ..., NineTeen. Have a wonderful weekend from this midage man.

namedonfinish:
wey am?








bro is ur name linus?

dre11:
18-yr-old student runs away from home in Enugu; found pregnant for Lagos boyfriend

A teenage girl who ran away from home in Enugu has been arrested in Lagos after she became pregnant fro her boyfriend





http://opera.pulse.ng/gist/mad-love-18-yr-old-student-runs-away-from-home-in-enugu-found-pregnant-for-lagos-boyfriend-id4763173.html

namedonfinish:
ain't seeing no belle here... abeg if anybody see am, make he call me oo..

midehi2:
kikiikiikikikiki crush on you a harsh guy Lmao

midehi2:
its like the weather is too hot for this thing

midehi2:
its like the weather is too hot for this thing

midehi2:
its like the weather is too hot for this thing

midehi2:
why quoting unnecessarily

tens4real:
see dis bad guy chai i pity dat ur gurl lips oo cos d way ur stress dat kiss no b 4 here oo

tens4real:
Simply for the ladies what are the 3 things that you love in a man's body?
Personally wat i love in a woman's body is big butt,killer hips and sexy legs

ladies lets hear your opinion pls!!!

Lagban:
I like Boobs (moderate size), fair beautiful ladies with nice fig.8 , hate virgins and like does who will make go crazy in bed.

QueenValerie:
Smart tell me you don't think I'm MrCork !!

The Op's just tryin' ta coerce me inta uploadin' a pic.

misspicy:
Count your loses and move on,the man does not want you,that's a silly excuse for breaking up, he is supposed to be remorseful after been caught instead he emotionally manipulated you and still blamed you,it will be a disaster getting married to a USER,that is just a tip of the iceberg


most times,women needs to open their eyes and see beyond the physical,God just saved you from a disaster waiting to happen and you are here been hurt cause of love,mtchwwww,aunty go for Thanksgiving next Sunday ,and to think you have once experienced marriage, you sure have a lot of learning to do

midehi2:
yea you gat to feel the pain but sooner it will be over, i dont think he is your destiny, dou you were very wrong checking his phone, i dare not o, thats inviting HBP na,hian! guys must flirt on social media, thats 100% sure....the only once i tried it, all i saw was 'your waist is wicked, let me come and touch'... i was like abeg i never wan die because of man matter

Lolz



@op, sorry ok

MzPecs:
Dear OP, don't waste your curse because it won't even have any effect on him!

Sometimes we create our own heartbreak through expectations. What were you expecting to see when you went ahead to check his phone? A saint or what?

You even went ahead to set him up! For what nah? Ladies should always try and trend carefully with men nah..

He's done with you so just take your curse far away from him and move on with your life!

Shikena!

PushPlay:
I have proof and I'm convinced beyond doubt that the two handles and the same person.

delectablegyal:
A girl will do what's on my dp, a woman will not.