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greatiyk4u:
RARE VIRTUES THAT CAN ONLY BE FOUND IN VILLAGE GIRLS


Village girls in this context encompasses ladies who were born and spent a good part of their lives in the less developed cities with good education,training but with less exposure.

City girls are very sophisticated,social, approachable and good to be with, but village girls are mostly pure hearted . Girls when given excess freedom and education, develop ego and do not care for Man any more, which is rampant among the exposed city babes. Though with good family background, education and sound moral upbringing, u can hardly differentiate between the village and city ladies but we are talking about majority here.

This write-up is not without short comings, but I believe the errors in it is within tolerable limit. To a very large extent,these virtues are prevalent among village brought up ladies.


ATTITUDE

Village ladies grow up with the right orientation, and attitude that boast their moral values and norms this can melt the heart of every man of "goodwill" Village ladies are brought up with a drilling knowledge of respect and attitude.


FIDELITY

The city lifestyle is a wild one and most ladies in the city have been swept away by the tide. Some women find it
difficult to deal with the sexual strength and capacity of their husband/BOO because they have been exposed to different
sexual escapades. Ironically, even their fellow city men feel that their already explored sexuality might pose the possibility of marital infidelity. They feel more confident in marrying village ladies who to an extent can guarantee fidelity.......will u blame the men? When most of these city ladies have allowed their numerous ex(es) drill and suck away all the necessary "ingredients" of reproduction in their "kitty cat"....lolz


SUBMISSIVE

Either by nature or nurture, men feel they are superior to women and like it when they get a lot of respect from
women-a reason they hate any woman that will challenge their superiority. City girls have been so exposed to similar and equal life styles that can lead to tension in the home. Men know that village ladies pose no threat when it comes to class and level and feel more comfortable with that rather than engaging in a class tug of war from city ladies


HOMELY

Village ladies have very homely qualities that make a man
happy. They know it is their duties to do the dishes, laundry, cook, make the home and still take care of the children where necessary. city ladies however feel that the modern world in its unwritten law desire men to also help in the house chores.....


CAREER

The issue of career is always a big problem to men. As
much as every man love successful women, they dislike it
when a woman’s job becomes her priority and he his relegated to the second position. The higher a woman goes,
the more a man finds her unapproachable. Village ladies are very enterprising instead and know how to combine the two~her career and home.


UNDERSTANDING

Village ladies are cool-headed and have learnt to tame their emotion so as to allow them understand their spouse.
city ladies though educated and intelligent sometimes lack the basic sense required in understanding the mood and turmoil of a man and this can lead to tension when they cannot act appropriately. Every right thinking man would rather marry a village lady knowing that there is a telepathic understanding between the two of them.


ECONOMICAL

Village ladies understand moderation and have learnt the
skills to economize. city ladies find it difficult to deal with less than they have been exposed to and some can even
raise hell if they do not get what they are used to. the humble upbringing of most village ladies equips them for any situation whether rain or shine. this is main reason most village ladies are not "GOLD DIGGERS"


Oya let me see all my village brought up ladies support this thread........happy sunday.

OP wen last did u visit ur village, if u did recently am sure u no go even open this thread self...I jst dey laugh u, beta look for a good girl where ever u can find n stop promoting village girls wen don dey imitate city girls n now even do worst self...

Afta boys don blow city babes finish dem go dey find good village girl 2 marry, who go marry d ones Wen una don spoil 4 city na?

OP wen last did u visit ur village, if u did recently am sure u no go even open this thread self...I jst dey laugh u, beta look for a good girl where ever u can find n stop promoting village girls wen don dey imitate city girls n now even do worst self...

Afta boys don blow city babes finish dem go dey find good village girl 2 marry, who go marry d ones Wen una don spoil 4 city na?

Dohmeenick:
But she is my last hope..I don't have anyway of getting income

She is not ur last hope were did u put God den...I was in a similar situation in d past bro but I didn't give in and now am a graduate God did it at d last minute, don't doubt his ability to help u

Countrygirl:
Hahaha......dis is just me but where d communication is sound, i don't kip tinz inside i speak out.

Hmmmmmm una wahala ehn, una expect ppl to know watin dey una mind witout even saying anytin as if we be mind readers

If u dey speak out dats a gud one shaaa, I hope u r not lying sha, because introverts don fall my hand well well, love dem 4 friends but. 4 relationships is a no no

halfricanadian:
we are not boring

Says who? If we meet now u go jst all of a sudden turn mute, na because na social media u dey form boss nah, I have gone out wit introverted babes twice nofin 2 write home abt, and una dey stingy wit una puna ehn

Anyways u guys have ur good side shaaa

Speechless3:
You must be one of a kind then. Will you prefer to settle down with an outspoken, social lady than a reserved one?

Yea 100% ...is easier to cope, d journey is a long one so I wudn't like it to be a boring one u know

Dymitri:
Ladies Please name the guys who are sexstarved and bombing your inbox with emails

Hmmmmmm orishirishi mtcheeeeeeeeew

u r d one dat is sex starved d way I dey see u so, but I can help ur condition shaaa

Check ma profile

Speechless3:
You must be one of a kind then. Will you prefer to settle down with an outspoken, social lady than a reserved one?

I love outspoken ppl dey r easier to deal with, introverts stock everything inside even wen dey r bitter n jst explode on u one day...

I 4 jst bash u but I dey good mood dis evening, na introvert dey easy pass nah but relationship wit dem dey dey boring sha don't say I didn't warn u, bin down dat road b4 bro. so so boring

Nope, but d average guy in naija knows how 2 cook, even beta Dan some babes self


Eg. Me #TeamChefNiggaz

Nope, me I no like introverted babes, dey r usually boring....like seriously

QueenValerie:
no.but you where on time with that comment before,i needed ta smile.

OK am glad I made u smile anyways

if der anytin else I can do lemme know My QueenValerie

ipledge10:
I can take all the insult,but unfortunately am not d bf...well I was really joking

Take ur joke sumwhere else she's even over ur so called friend wot a pity fighting a lost battle

ipledge10:
Trying To Tell You,She Don Get Bf

Is funny am having dis conversation wit u, u wud have jst lock her up in da hux n seize her mobile fone Mr BF congratulations wot nonsense

So u r stocking ur GF conversation on social media wot a bitch ass nigga, mehn am disappointed in u, u r embarrassing real nigga like us dat don't give a shit, @QueenValerie come and carry ur BF such a bitch ass nigga

ipledge10:
now I see u not smart at all

ipledge10 or wot ever u call ursef, take ur mumulity somewhere else

So ur point is ?

ipledge10:
that gal above you is someone else chick

what is he saying? Don't get you bro

QueenValerie:
I cant, I don't want you ta mess around an kill em.I can't have you in jail. you make me smile though

I have my ways to handle such ppl, dat y they call me Smartguy001

I made u smile really, I will do more if u let me

myfantasies:
Wen will it be obvious to u dat u r dating a gold digger

Wen he gets in2 a hole six feet below....

QueenValerie:
eh maybe or not.but let's drop it,I dont wanna argue.I've done enough of that taday. see ya.

Who d hell !!! Was arguing with my QueenValerie, and u didn't tell me to handle d person


Oya give me the person's moniker

kimnicki:
#teamVirgin

All dis team virgin give us a break nah, even borehole go dey claim #TeamVirgin Metcheeew

QueenValerie:
Smart clear up yo english for me please.American remeber

OK sori, She might have talked wit her husband to no avail b4 doing this,

Men can be stubborn u know especially wen they r enjoying the thing (puna)

QueenValerie:
Them hands woulda meted out the law a lot better if she went fer the man.

U know wada she done talk taya b4 she do dis one

daveson07:
so what u are sayin is that it was God that made cloths for them with animal skin,,if u ask me i would say that is getting the fact wrong

So na ur problem b dat...go strip club u go see enof unclad girls who r not ashamed to flaunt der assets...watin dey hungry u no dey market sef.... nonsense

QueenValerie:
what?! she outta be tellin' that ta her husband

Lolz she took laws in2 her hand...no time

brighthp:
This one strong gan o

No be small

bellassimo:
I met a man online 5 weeks ago.As with online relationships, I withheld info and told him the age I have on my id and not my real age.I never expected the relationship to go anywhere, but we fell in love quickly we are even planning marriage. He has found out the truth about my age and is taking it badly.he compares me to his ex who he claims is a great liar and had refused to forgive me.He is doubting everything I ever told him about me and is ignoring me.I have apologized and explained to no avail.we are meeting for the first time next weekend, but he has changed totally. He ignores my calls and msgs and I can't eat or sleep. I love this man and want to be with him.I'd it fair that he has refused to accept my explanation? Its not as if I just picked the age from the air, its the age in my ids.how do I remedy this situation? Do I keep begging him? He doesn't even read msgs.this is his first on line relationship ( to the best of my knowledge) but this is not my first online relationship and I was just being cautious cos I have had my fingers burnt online before. What do i do? I am confused.He is a 43 yr old divorcee with 3 teenagers.I am turning 35 this yr( i don't look it though) i told him i was 32 yrs old.I need advice before I go crazy.why is this age issue such a big thing for him.has he got another woman? I am confused
We live in different places but I plan on going to see him next week .I am confused right now.Help!
P:s- it wasn't a random connection online, a mutual friend linked us up because he wants to settle down and I also want to settle down.She decided to connect both of us.We are going to meet and date face to face for sometime before getting married.
I am not desperate even at this age.I have had my fair share of heartbreaks. God makes everything beautiful in his time.this is not about the marriage, its about clearing my name first.Most people living outside Naija have "football" ages on their passports and other ids.I am not trying to justify myself but he found out the truth from me.I could have kept on lying if I really wanted to but seeing how serious we have become, I owned up when he asked.

OP practice dis wit ur next relationship...35 or 32 wats d difference self y lie ?

Luvlgenius:
I need help

I traveled out of town and chilling at a family friends house for some time till I sort myself out. His only daughter is amazing, beautiful and sexy. She singlehandedly takes care of their home and has been nice to me. I chat her up once in awhile and she is a good girl. Any man's dream wife. My dream wife.

I fell for her, tried to kiss her once and she warned me against it. Then last week we were alone and she cuddled up to me. I enjoyed touching and kissing her neck cos she won't let me kiss her lips. Having her in my arms turned me on and I almost forked her if not that she ran from me. Since then she changed. I don't know what to do.

I love this girl and my host will feel disrespected if he knows I m finding it hard to resist his daughter. I m confused cos I still have like 2 weeks to stay at their place and seeing her everyday is killing me.

Ur intentions says it all u jst wan fvck d man daughter dats all...leave d small girl alone b4 u spoil her life 4 her papa...but if by mistake u r 4 real den wait till lata, but I no trust ppl like u ....hmmmnn bros use ur no6 abeg not ur mumu third leg shikina....

Ur intentions says it all u jst wan fvck d man daughter dats all...leave d small girl alone b4 u spoil her life 4 her papa...but if by mistake u r 4 real den wait till lata, but I no trust ppl like u ....hmmmnn bros use ur no6 abeg not ur mumu third leg shikina....

***Modified***. What do you make of this?

How do u know you're in love and not jst wasting your time in a relationship...


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