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Never knew guys gossip more than gurls. Gud evening derailers

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iyabde: This is a thread that struck a chord in my heart. I feel if the couple are matured enough,then they can elope.
Personally I kind of eloped,my husband's family never liked me,for reasons beyond me,so we both looked to God and he saw our hearts.
We just went to the registry and did our thing. 3 yrs on we r still together(totalling 6 yrs together).
Of course we hv our issues ,his people still won't talk to me (sad) but hey! I hv the love of my life...we are happy and going stronger in Christ.

*short of words* Well am the type of being that always want at least 70% of people around me to be happy with me nd wat who eva am with. In ur case, what can i say, seems you are happy. Buh please do you guys travel home?

Urrm.....why am i unable to comment at the debate section? Guez i got the right to knw.

Are these 4 real? If yes am overwhelmed.

lynpetra: They should be allowed to roam free,but the govt shud not legitize their marriage.

Whats your point exactly?

Good morning good people.

doe-eyed:
Guys n Gals,
Some CRITICAL reasoning is needed here,
Not only personal preferences or allusions, which are sometimes shortsighted.
This is an educational forum not just for "laughs"


The thread read...... why do reasonable people elope

It's a question seeking reasons behind an action deemed a societal taboo carried out by people deemed "reasonable"?

Let's offer reasons n solutions not biased judgments.

Thanks.

Thanks, thats my question, buh only just few people hav given me a considerable answer.

Redmosquito: Samrtie geh I'm waiting for your own pic ooo!

gini? Wait for enternity honey.

binger: Smart asz diva...sup girl? u don't wanna say 'hi' to me?

am sowie hun, had a low bat3.

caseless: smartie, not as u think. I'm only trying to help a sister out.

Welcome, the hottest hot-tottie!

i heareth thee.

Idowu is that you? Whatsup with you?

caseless: wow! And u'l be enroute to naija like when?

always sharp. Ride on boy!

Why would som1 be rude to a newbie. @Rita love, tell me the person cuz am sure gonna trash him/her. *winks* your welcome to this section.

alexwrld: Now let me pose this question to this thread: Who is getting married: You or the people around you? Why don't they win your heart by standing by your decision?
Whether you are a Muslim or a Christian..Both religions insist on your happiness. Islam and Christianity both are strictly against the idea of marrying off a girl against her wish. Then tell me who is wrong?

I have seen parents forcefully marrying her daughters to the grooms they choose....Such women will never become a loyal wife. And trust me, the people who orchestrate such marriages have never fallen in love. It is pointless to take their advice either....So keep eloping...Live for love; Live for truth

and you will live happily ever after? My gosh......to me is better you dnt elope at all, if you love the being why eloping? Manup/Womanup to posses your possession than running away. Are you gonna run 4eva? Guez no.

caseless: yeah....i'm up and running...running towards u, to be specific.


*likes her*

wat else do you wanna hear? *my gosh, runs out of the room immediately* *am getting shy* Itsmodella help me!

Eze Promoe: [color=crimson]Smartie gurl, don't mind those okoporo wooing you. They are [/color]

u got 2 trust me My King!

caseless: wooability(u go fear now) of smartie-gal is glaring and starring me in the eye. Abi u wan folo me reach there?

whaaaaatttttt? Are you guz flirting around with me? My gosh!

Acidosis: E wan use style woo smartie girl .... guy u go wound oo Wetin self!!

Acid watch out. I go report you o

caseless: i'm for real. He's taken my women away from me...can u imagine? Smartie-girl i might come for u, but i'm afraid that coquette in d name of acidosis cud also follow me down. Na anythin wey i like, him de like.

Smartie...*winks*

hahehahehaheha, *laughing in spanish* common boy!

@Pque.....thats just the fact..

Acidosis: Shattap.... dunno why u always e-claim my possesions...

Acid, why?

caseless: u nor knw say him de follow anoda woman? Acid na male coquette(permit me to put it dat way).

jeez! Are you 4 real?

tpacalipse: Are we saying eloping is not a good option if it is the only way their lives can be preserved? I still dey laugh! It is someone who has not seen wahala that calls himself a man, when the trouble comes no body will tell you b4 u become elopee. I have seen a man who was ready to kill his child because the child was about to marry frm a family he detested.

lolz, now this is insane!

segun688: the issue of eloping or not eloping is a very personal one. I have seen marriages that had blessings and approval from friends, parents and everyone go down in shambles, i have also seen people that stood their ground still happily married till today. Marriage is a very personal decision, and i personally feel that the issue of "parental blessings" are over stressed. I am not saying their blessings should be discarded or not sought out, but you should realize that at the end of the day YOU alone are in the marriage. YOU are the one living with your spouse, it doesn't get any more personal than this. Approval from people doesn't guarantee success in marriages. What matters is God and the man and woman involved.

that sounds convincing!

Some persons here amuse me. . . . . . When you eventually elope and maybe at the end of the day thngs becomes difficult for you two.. . . . . .lol. .i wonder who you wil run to. Your parents that were against your love affair? Your friends? Jst curious.

Where are the derailers? *searching for someone*

sexkillz: [color=#000030]Did the bible also encourage eloping?
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LOL.

Mynd_44: That is why I said it is bad. I did not say it is good.
I am just trying to see it from the point of view of the person left behind. If the person could do something that evil, then that person left at the altar should be happy

although most people elope to avoid public insults sha. . . . . .buh tell me, would you eva elope with ur lover?

Mynd_44: ^^
Okay that is a separate issue comppletely. There is a good side and a bad side to everything.

But we need to look at the situation where a person discovers that he/she can't marry a person and fails to show up at the wedding. Is it not better for both parties to be separated and not married at all than to have a marriage that can only be compared to hell?

What will happen to the other person's love for you? Why wait til ur wedding b4 taking such action? When asked you wil open ur mouth widely and say "am sorry, i never loved you, am in love with another" just WTF!!

sunny t: I’ve also been wondering why people elope when everyone is against their union, but I see it as a sign of not being thoughtful and loving with the heart.( There is diff btw loving with the heart and loving with the head,) I know most young people can do it so let me explain b4 u buried me.

Most (not all) lovers who eloped had come to regret their actions, I’ve seen many like that and there is something about love, it ends in regret (not all times)

Matured people, come let’s reason together, I’m referring to people who had been in like 10 different relationships. Have you observed that when you started dating someone (like your 1st or 2nd guy/gal), the feelings was so strong at 1st but after sometime the love start dwindling away, u might have seen it over and over again. What if you eloped with the person? Where are your 1st three boy/girl friends?

For a starter, eloping wouldn’t be a surprise (e neva get experience, e no know anything), but I will be surprised if a matured person do it. Why not do everything to prove to your people that you believe this person is the best for you? Why not reason out things with them? Couldn’t they have seen what you didn’t? The madness is, when you have problem or need help, you will still come back to these same people, your parent which you disobeyed, disrespected, rejected.

exactly my point bro, why eloping when you knw u can't bear the consequences.