₦airaland Forum

Strike that my office won't consider and many other big private firms... So they should just reduce the people on lagos road anyway make I get home on time after work... They shouldn't use their strike to disturb my reggae.. Anyway, no one would even follow the strike.. They should use other means.

So pitiful, had I been a passenger, we would gang up, when he slows down, push him out of the car, I would rather drive the bus than risk my life, He would meet us in Lagos biko. Now that some are Dead, the deed is done already, the devil that pushed him had left him finally. Young shall grow, me I no dey first fancy them.

PMB till 2023, PDP can come out then, all our corrupt leaders would use their hands to destroy themselves. The return of pmb would bring sanity to the political space, we need a system that works even before development, this present system only favors a few who even corners the development. Atikulate ko, matriculate ni

If ranting online and shouting from twitter is been fearless and courageous, then many nairalanders fit in to this category but the real fearless, dogged and courageous ones are the ones in Nigeria fighting For the opposition from front. Not the ones at the back shouting up and down.

So fortunate she was not shot, try it at night, you'd be long gone. Whenever any lady accuses any One, we need to carry out deep analysis because Just as money, female rule the world and could swing things easily under any situation to their favor. That was how a female assaulted a road safety officer then and hit him on his head with her heel.some Ladies are Just pathetically thoughtless, desperate and extreme only to make things go their way.

Rityonyi:
This is the most paying job on planet earth right now.



Only if I was a boy, I would have been a footballer



If I have a loved one that is talented in it, I'll gladly support the person as much as I can.

See u, If u were a boy, you would have been a musician, maybe shatta wale sef but anyway, been the chef that you're as a lady, I'm not complaining.

So 109 senators earning huge can't wade off invaders of about let's say 50 trying to snatch maize or Na mace, despite heir huge take home. Infact, they should throw the mace away, who e epp....

Good, seize it and throw it away, because me, I've never seen its benefits to the masses, even disband the Senate or collapse the NA to one section.

Only in Nigeria we even kill someone without hearing from the person's side or even take steps further that the person accused is the real culprit. This is the media where falsehood and propaganda attract readers. How do we confirm that's a club? and with the blurred picture, how do we even know that's kiki.? Nigerians and slander! Anyway, kiki doesn't care what you all think sef.....

People are investing in their future, career, you're investing in a woman that can leave you anytime, better invest in your family instead if you are confused on what to spend your money on.

Na normal thing nah, umunya!!! In Anambra .Chai...to those who did, they know themselves, but very very illogical but cares about logic when Brian is doing the thinking.

National Assembly wants to checkmate the executive, but who checkmate the NA?.. hypocrite.... Best public place to serve is the house, in there, we only haunt ourselves.

Who cares about after one, I can't even roll with you talk more of a friend, funny enough, davido is still busy with Chioma, he cares less, else, u dare not utter this rubbish.

dataking:
You need medical treatment. I pity ur people

How?
Stop been pitiful and petty, raise a constructive, valid point, Ohh, u want to suggest the pastor should given shoot at sight order, it doesn't work that way. They're both guilty boy, both the robber and whoever supported a robbery are both robbers, they're better ways to have nailed him than this...she should have nailed him well, this is petty!

The girl and the pastor should be dealt with to deter others, the girl should be suspended for two academic sessions for trying to engage in an illicit act against the oath she signed while lecturer should be demoted and suspended for an academic session, after all it didn't happen from both in the long run.

The professor wasn't so sharp enough to see the trap laid ahead of him. The girl didn't really need the grade, she just wanted to set up the man. Had they both agreed a term, she would have still leaked it. That he's a pastor, he has been in the University system for more than 30yrs and a married man, he should have known caution Is the order of the day on campus. Despite the trend, some girls still fall in love with their single lecturers and tie the knot in the long run.

Mcy56:
LOL @ your first statement.
We are paying for the disobedience and weakness of man as well.
Okay. I agree. You are right................but it should be both ways.

Happy new week, hope you ready for the week

Mcy56:
Oh, so he too can call her cheap and assume that's how she's been going about doing same to other men?
Anyway, I didnt say who loved her more but who showed her love instead of the one she loved. A serious man's love should be more at first, so I believe.
Of course, I earlier mentioned that the love needs be mutual.
Please know that its not all you love that will love you back sha...... but if the other party reciprocate, you two are good to go.

At bolded, you would always have answers to all questions
The love should be showed more at first for the guy, but in the long run, the lady should show love more..it is always safer when the lady shows love more and u know it except u want play with the truth. More deaths had resulted for guys from girls reason been that the girl never loved the guy. Needless do I need say U and I are even paying for sins committed by a woman. ...The world would be safer if lady's love more.

Mcy56:
No. I dont think so.
Men has ego, loves to be in charge and tends to be un-serious if it's the woman that first have much love for them.
More reason why sometimes a lady shows green lights but refrain from approaching the guy, believing that the guy will decode, come to her if he wants to reciprocate the love.
In my opinion, a lady should go for a man that loves her.

So that she can call him a fool, disgrace him and for the extremely wicked in thoughts, hurt him... No way! they should both love themselves and tag along. It's normal for lady not to approach a Guy even when she loves him, it's the norm, but that she should go for who loves her more is dicey, it's a two way thing and no rule applies, they should both love themselves and watch each other's back... Looking at many unserious ladies out there after money, it's illogical to even conclude that way, people like me have no time to waste, I show u love and you show me disgrace and hatred... I move ahead, guess we're not meant to be. So she should be waiting for who would love her more, she should just conclude she's waiting for rich boy and not hide under love. She's only trying to play safe.

lefulefu:
even the lady's neighbours will be laughing at such a man.next thing for him na to dey carry d woman car dey drive and dey do houseboy follow the wife.

Lol

Mcy56:
For a man: choose the one you love.

For a lady: Choose the one who love you.

However, the love should turn mutual between the duo in the shortest of time, if not, dont wait for anyone to tell you what to do.

My opinion though.

Reverse should be the case....

tosyne2much:
That was why I said this is "Nigeria"

It takes a VERY humble woman to remain not to disregard such a man

Very true....

lwanga1993:
miss smartii. there is nothing wrong in a man moving into a womans house.. it depends on their terms and understanding.
PS: as for me oo.. i wont wish even my worst enemy to move in with his woman not to talk of me....IMPOSSIBLE.

Miss smarti kwanu.. Biko Na Mr. Smartii o..... Yeah, terms and conditions can even b broken sef with slight misunderstanding, coupled with the rate some ladies murder their husbands when extremely angered or jealousy sets in, I feel for a man to do that, he must have studied and understudied the woman to not be temperamental... Even at that, change is constant.....
Thanks, your contribution had been helpful, To continue to be that man that most honorable men are, she moves into the man's house while they find another way in putting the lady's house to good use just as mcy56 said, even though I almost didn't believe that could come from a lady.

Mcy56:
See contradiction!
A man with self worth will/may choose not to move into a woman's house.
Some women are somehow, they will use it to abuse the man at the slightest opportunity should misunderstanding or disagreement occurs.

Hahahah
Just as men know thyself
Women know THEMSELVES too
The woman could end up been more disrespectful if table tuns round that the guy couldn't even meet up with his responsibilities anymore.
I had a lecturer then in the University who once said in class that he prays daily to God to never allow his wife to be more successful than him, we just castigated, hissed and abused him, though in our mind and behind his back though but I doubt it won't be bad if any of the two is richer.

chris31:
Don't be deceived by western culture coz when u compare their women to naija women mentality differs
If u want to continue to have ur respect in the house don't even try it coz all naija women are mostly the same

Hmmmm
Kk
Thanks.

Mcy56:
How does the bolded applicable here?

If a woman has her own house the better for the couple. She rents out her own and continue living in her husby's house, simple!
Revenue generated from her house will be channeled towards other projects that will benefit the husband and the children.
If she's a kind hearted woman and the husband's head stays in one place, then its a win-win for both of them; she'll be an invaluable asset to her husby, shikena!

Hmmmm...guess most Nigerian men almost think same way, but very unusual of ladies having this kind of disposition of yours, that's good! I attended a radio programme where such was thrown open for discussion, but all the callers both young and old males didn't mind staying in that house so long they're one and there's love. What baffled me was men of old agreeing to same since our culture was well followed to the letters in their days, yeah present generation of youth could agree, wouldn't blame them though probably due to westernization and the quest to not settle for something less.... Your points are valid and it won't be bad if the house was rented out and channel proceedings in more other productive ventures. Good! Thanks.

TheUpsetGirl:
what's wrong with that?

What's your take on the issue?

Mcy56:
Not advisable going by African culture.
Not a bad thing if the wife has a house of her own but the most dignifying thing is to move in with her husby after marriage.

So what happens to her house? Imagine a lady was bequeathed a house, so she should go and stay in her hubby's house and be more of a liability and not help solve issues as regards financial capabilities. Remember whatever affects the man affects the wife as they're one. Don't forget if the man is determined, staying In that house won't limit him from building different houses everywhere throughout the world, it could just be a stepping stone, are there no culture that we have broken as Nigerians and Africans and do we hold on to all cultures even if it limits our potentials of rediscovering ourselves?

kazyhm:
Was it bride price or groom price that was paid ?
as in you won't even stay one year in you own rented apartment but move majestically to your wife's house from the wedding reception

So are you suggesting the woman stays in the rented apartment with the man for a year, they should renew the house rent before packing into the lady's own house..... ?