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Romance / Re: . by smartjackie(f): 1:48am On Feb 25, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:My child shall never be as indecisive as that woman. The thing is this.. she knows who among those two men is more responsible but because of her feelings she is blinded. This is where that saying love is blind cones into play. It is not a mental condition.. it is simply the matters of the heart and as we all know women, well 97% of women are more loyal to their emotions. Even after seeing all the red flags they still stay loyal to their emotions. In this case, there is nothing you can do about it. No matter how hard you advice her or how many times that guy treats her like trash she will keep loving him. I've been in a similar situation like this before so I know what I'm talking about. Well, only difference was that I wasn't married.. in fact I was trying to forget about the guy but it was so difficult. If she is still pondering over her ex even when she's married it means that she never loved her now husband. She just married him probably because she wanted to answer married woman or because of his money or sth else but definitely not love. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: . by smartjackie(f): 4:20pm On Feb 23, 2023 |
The best thing for her to do is to leave her husband, go back to her ex and then feel the SHEGE.. Nonsense and ingredient.. e be like say suffering no dey tire some people. |
Romance / Re: Why Is Sex With Virgin Very Stressful by smartjackie(f): 4:11pm On Feb 23, 2023 |
GeneralPula:Some men say they want a woman who has sexual experience. Some others say they prefer a virgin. Well, personally I think everyone has their own preferences so this topic really shouldn't be something to debate about. We all have our own reasons but when it comes to marriage virginity is not a key factor that that marriage will last. It's all about mental maturity, emotional maturity, understanding and respect. These are things you should be more concerned about. Anyways, that's my two cents. Have a nice day y'all! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Crime / Re: Can My Bank Account Be Wiped With The Last 6digits Of Card And My Atm Pin? by smartjackie(f): 2:54pm On Feb 23, 2023 |
It's good that you transferred all your money from your account. That's a very smart move. But do ensure that you block your card and I hope this reaches you a lesson. 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Peter Obi Vs Tinubu This Coming Saturday by smartjackie(f): 1:28pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
I support you OP. Peter Obi all the way! |
Romance / Re: She Keeps Telling Me Her Son Is Not Mine, But Still Make Me Spend On Him by smartjackie(f): 8:22pm On Feb 19, 2023 |
LarochelE:Guy open your eyes. This girl does not love you yet you keep on spending so much money on both her and her son. And look at the way she was even talking to you. You're just there for the money and btw what does she do for a living? Can't she cater for her son? The first mistake you made was taking responsibility for a child that isn't yours without tying the knot with the lady. As long as you guys aren't married then you are not supposed to spend on the kid. Yes you can decide to buy things like toys or snacks for the kid but paying for his school fees is overstepping the line. |
Romance / Re: What's The Average Money An Average Guy Should Spend On His Babe Per Month by smartjackie(f): 7:50pm On Feb 19, 2023 |
Which one be monthly spending per month again |
Crime / Re: Kaduna Man Organizes Kidnap Of His Mother, Gets N1m As Share From N30m Ransom by smartjackie(f): 7:33pm On Feb 19, 2023 |
With everything that's going on in this country bikonu! Some people get PhD for wickedness and foolishness. |
Romance / Re: "You Have A Bad Character" Man Tells His Girlfriend To Leave His Lagos Home (vid by smartjackie(f): 7:56pm On Feb 16, 2023 |
zed7: Sex that you can get elsewhere. |
Phones / Re: Why Do You Nigerian People Buy Expensive Phones? by smartjackie(f): 12:43am On Feb 13, 2023 |
Jovialjune1: I've been holding myself back not to reply to this stupid comment but I just see the need to address it. I guess you don't know what having a budget is because a reasonable person wouldn't be talking the way you just did. The OP was clearly asking a question on how people could afford such luxurious gadgets like iPhones while they had little to nothing in their bank accounts. And in your comment you stated that just because they have nothing after buying something doesn't mean that they won't have something later. Now you are clearly missing the point here. That's not how the world works. Things come up. You don't base everything on luck. The OP wasn't talking about rich people.. he was talking about people with nothing to show for who feed from hand to mouth. Take note! There's a clear difference between someone that's rich and someone who's source of income doesn't match up with their expenses. If you have more than enough money then yes, nothing is holding you back from buying an iPhone but for the fact that you don't have enough.. you know you don't have enough.. but you still go ahead to buy it is clearly out of question. That is priotizong your needs over your wants. Why would you buy an iPhone if you know you're going to run short of cash? For what reason? Most times, people that make such decisions do it just to brag and feel among. A person with responsibilities and expenses wouldn't make such a decision. What if after buying the iPhone something urgent comes up and because you don't have enough in your account you start running helter skelter.. running around for money. I know you're going to get upset and blurt out some unreasonable words because since you entered this thread you haven't said anything reasonable. But all in all, the point I am trying to make is this: Cut your coat according to your size. If you have more than enough money then yes go ahead. But if you don't, just kukuma respect yourself.. and when you've finally made enough, you can buy it. A word is enough for the wise. Shege full this country I dey tell you. Whatever money you have, hold it tight. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by smartjackie(f): 1:18pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
MallamChukwudi: Exactly, that's where most men get it wrong. They go around comparing women to their own gender forgetting that women are different. Everyone has to own unique abilities. Men and women are here to balance and complement each other, not to compete with each other. This gender war is just like a losing war, you can never win it because we can't survive without each other. Both genders are just like Ying and Yang. The sooner we get to understand this the better. I want to be able to scroll through social media without seeing anything negative being posted by these so called feminists and redpillers. There is this peace that comes when we accept each other and at the same time work at our flaws. 3 Likes
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Romance / Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by smartjackie(f): 1:00pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
OLULAW: Bro you're on point! 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by smartjackie(f): 4:48pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
@KlausMichaelson I really understand your pain and even as a female at times it pains me to hear the words that come out of the mouth of people my gender. I once read a book some years back titled "The Manipulated Man" and in the book the writer explains that women are emotional beings but can become rational overtime through proper exposure. When I mean exposure I mean, by getting exposed to what's happening around them: the news, politics, reading books, etc. It also pains me to see the kind of comments that the females in this topic make. None of them can make a valid point which could wow a person. I can beat my chest and tell you that there is nothing wrong with you. You are just a man who has high standards in what you look for in a woman. You want someone that's logical, someone that you can have mature conversations with and not someone who always nags and tries to drain your wallet with useless things which will soon go out of style. What attracts you to a woman is not her body or her beauty. You are looking for someone with brains. Such women are hard to find these days. But I can assure you, there are reasonable women out there. I have met only two in my lifetime plus my mother, that's how rare they are. For now just focus on yourself and being the better version of yourself. I am sure you will find that woman who will sweep you off your feet someday with her intelligence and maturity. 8 Likes 1 Share |
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