Family › Re: My Life Sucks by smartr: 3:53pm On Oct 15, 2023 |
Hideaki: Tinder and Badoo are filled with street girls
I'm a decent man that wants a decent girl just like myself There are decent girls as lonely as you. You have to search well sha. |
Family › Re: My Life Sucks by smartr: 3:27pm On Oct 15, 2023 |
Hideaki: Being outside is not my thing unless it's something interesting or I enjoy doing like writing or chess
2. A loner will need someone or at least something
3. Those are not mental health clinics , those ones are clinics for mad people
4. I've made efforts to get friends but I'm quite selective in having friends, not everyone I like being friends with
Plastic doll cost , perhaps you should get me one Stop answering that fellow. |
Family › Re: My Life Sucks by smartr: 3:26pm On Oct 15, 2023 |
Hideaki: Okada is expensive here . The only reasonable place one can go to is a church and restaurant
I was a loner in school, not much people around me
3. Mental rehabilitation is expensive , it's for only rich folks and I can't afford it
I just want a girl that'll cuddle me that's all Nothing do you, move to your own place, package well, chat up girls on badoo and tinder. |
Family › Re: My Life Sucks by smartr: 3:18pm On Oct 15, 2023 |
lashout1: You really do not know what your life pattern have been saving you from.
There are lots of troubles out there. There really isn’t much outside for him to enjoy. The billing is massive, betrayals massive. Although I understand his need for a woman. |
Family › Re: My Life Sucks by smartr: 3:14pm On Oct 15, 2023 |
pansophist: Most people's lives suck, not just you.
Just like no matter how hot water is, it will revert back to its default temperature, which is lukewarm. Human life is like that. Those that you think their life does not suck are just in a state of a boil, so the distraction kind of entertains them away to not reflecting on the fact that life sucks and they need help.
You havent engaged in that exercise, so you think there is some reward there. If you start having friends, going out, and engaging in more activities, you will see the challenges there, and you will have scars, that your solitude will later become your preferred state of being.
So you will be betrayed, maybe be introduced to money-draining addiction (eg gambling), heartbroken, nonreciprocal efforts, envy, users, waste money chasing the wind, maybe try to impress people that on a good day, want to stab you, etc.
Introverts are usually people who understand all these and just prefer not to engage much with the world because it's just more problem than it's worth. So-called extroverts are those who when they even need help, all their friends will give them the middle finger. So how are they better?
So, my guy, you are in a state of unspoiled. The only disadvantage here is that it may be boring, just like wealthy neighborhoods are dry and boring, but it's just a good way to live, otherwise, is to become rugged to your own detriment, and still return to the same place you started from.
Then boredom becomes peace, a place you will arrive at after you have been through the boil. Spoken with wisdom. I’m trying to embrace the boredom. |
Properties › Re: Nigerians Are Very Wicked by smartr: 3:06pm On Oct 15, 2023 |
MrOjay1: I myself is struggling.I just saw it as helping a fellow struggling nigga because nobody knows where we fit jam ourselves tomorrow That’s why it’s not good to watch Africa Magic. Nothing like tomorrow bros. |
Properties › Re: Nigerians Are Very Wicked by smartr: 3:03pm On Oct 15, 2023 |
Kestolove: That's y I don't keep friends... Its me my family and I I’m going to follow this. I haven’t been lucky with good friends, but I have a wonderful and supportive family. |
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Business › Re: Why Did The Bank Remove Opay, Kuda, And Moniepoint From Their Online Banking? by smartr: 12:48pm On Oct 13, 2023*. Modified: 1:32pm On Oct 13, 2023 |
I can confirm this on Fidelity.
Had to ask two POS operators for other bank accounts yesterday.
I wanted to pay my palmpay debt today, I didn't see palmpay among the options on my fidelity app.
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Health › Re: Alcohol Quitting Challenge Thread by smartr(op): 5:52am On Oct 13, 2023 |
Day 1 |
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Health › Re: Alcohol Quitting Challenge Thread by smartr(op): 7:51pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
Zonefree: Wetin innocent alcohol do you? E too cost. Make i face my problems instead of drinking to forget them temporarily. |
Health › Re: Alcohol Quitting Challenge Thread by smartr(op): 7:44pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
Zonefree: I got many problem, alcohol is not among. Good |
Health › Alcohol Quitting Challenge Thread by smartr(op): 7:39pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
Just paid my bar man the last 11k that I owe him. I’m done with alcohol. It has become too expensive. Gaining weight too and becoming too “konjified” for my liking.
Please everyone should share their alcohol struggles here and how they’re trying to combat it. |
Celebrities › Re: Ned Nwoko & His Wife, Laila At An Event (Pics, Video) by smartr: 6:46pm On Oct 11, 2023*. Modified: 4:30am On Oct 12, 2023 |
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Nairaland General › Re: What Is Worse Than Being Broke? by smartr: 3:32pm On Oct 10, 2023 |
oladipuposadeeq: yes ooooooo and also debt but bad health is even worse than debt self 😔 Bad health can put you in debt very easily. |
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Nairaland General › Re: What Is Worse Than Being Broke? by smartr: 3:25pm On Oct 10, 2023 |
[quote author= post=126207739]What is worse than being BROKE ?[/quote]Bad health. Bad friends and family. |
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Celebrities › Re: Burna Boy Is Still 'A Work In Progress' - Mother, Bose Ogulu by smartr: 11:09am On Oct 09, 2023 |
Freemood1: Everyone wants to trend You sef trend make you see food chop. |
Celebrities › Re: Burna Boy Is Still 'A Work In Progress' - Mother, Bose Ogulu by smartr: 11:07am On Oct 09, 2023 |
Creamypie: Y Nigerian songs dey pain me for ear self? Because you listen to them with an empty belly. |