Family / Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by smarttm: 12:08pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
[quote author=comradee1248 post=77621297]We got married in 2013, by 2015 I had a very terrible accident that shattered one of my leg, so I've been down since then, even though the treatment will soon be over, I did up to 6 surgeries costing quite a fotune, which my people paid.
I work with a very reputable Paramilitary organization, my salary has never been stopped. I have never failed to provide the basic necessities in the house, even bought my own 2 bedroom flat in the process.
My wife gets angry at the slightest oppotunity.. She told me 2 times that the only reason she's still with me is our two kids... The 1st time I didn't take it serious but the 2nd time she said it I knew I have to think twice over it.
I know I will bounce back to life and use my legs again in few weeks from now.
My plan is to pack my kids and leave her alone...
What do you Suggest I do.
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my man she can't just say that,you know your wife more than anyone here...no one can tell you how to handle your family issues... running away will never stop any other lady from telling you same words...SOLVE IT AND MAKE HER HAPPY AGAIN A good husband should know how to make her angry and happy...
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Religion / Re: Daddy Freeze Reacts To Pastor Kumuyi On Women Wearing Trousers by smarttm: 5:04pm On Apr 06, 2019 |
No preacher can deceive me...There are female designed trousers... 1 Like |
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Family / Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by smarttm: 12:54pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
Chinnyrita27: Good day nairalanders. I created this account to seek for advice as I am confused and crying as I type this. I have been happily married for 4 years with a daughter of 3 and my husband. Not about a week ago, I had issues with one of his friend in his absence in our home. He had this close friend who came visiting on a faithful evening last Monday(I was not strong enough to go to work),he came when my husband wasn't around so I had to leave whatever I was doing to keep him company while we wait for my husband, at some point I offered to get him food, he obliged and ate, it was not upto 30 minutes after eating, he asked me to go buy him card. Politely, I told him I can't as was so tired and weak to walk about 10 minutes under the sun, i suggested to recharge free for him from my bank, he insisted, frowned his face and asked if I was trying to tell him that he can't recharge from his account, I was shocked, he stood up angry and aggressively and drove out of the compound. I didn't utter a word, I was angry but kept calm.
Not until my husband came back, and when I was about to welcome him but, he angrily yield and screamed at me and asked why I had to insult his friend and call him poor. I angrily asked him why he believed his friend without trying to confirm the from me, we deeply quarrelled and he made statement threatening to end the marriage if I cannot respect his friends and his people. I have never disrespected him or any of his friends and family members before, I'm so confused, we have not be conversing and relating well since Monday. I tried to make peace with him as I wasn't comfortable keeping malice with him but he said I will have to apologise to his friend which is something I don't think I can do.
I am so confused, what should I do? Why must he visit when he wasn't around...I don't trust any friend... Madam don't ever beg him,just tell him his friends should visit him and not you... |
Education / Re: Helping My Son Prepare For Common Entrance...help With These Questions by smarttm: 4:07pm On Feb 24, 2019 |
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Religion / Re: Is It A Sin For Women To Wear Trousers? by smarttm: 10:13am On Feb 17, 2019 |
Okito920: Winning Gullah: There has always been heated arguments among Christians and Christian denominations as regards the position of the Bible on wearing of trousers by women. I also had been conflicted about this at certain stages of my development as a Christian but after thorough and thoughtful examination of this matter, I came to a conclusion and I will outline my own argument on this issue with this thread. I Deuteronomy 22:5 (KJV) The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the Lord thy God.
This Bible passage above is where the entire controversy over appropriateness of Christian women wearing trousers or not emanate from
1. Note that it made not specifically talking about women wearing trousers, it does not even mention the word trouser as it wasn't even in existence then. It was talking about what we call Cross-dressing today so the question is should women wearing trousers today be seen as an example of cross dressing?
Trousers were not our clothing in this part of the world, it was a dressing we borrowed from western culture so if we are to determine if it is male or female clothing or not, we need to look to those that own the culture. From my research, the earliest appearance of trousers in human history were in Asia and much later in Europe and much of what we call the western world today.
The question is did women wear trousers in Asia and the western world or was it only for men? The truth is their women wore trousers and it is not a modern thing, they had been wearing trousers long before Christianity came to Nigeria. If Among the people that invented this trousers, women wear trousers, how did Africans who borrowed the culture come to conclude that it is only a man's wear? There are lots of evidence in historical arts that women wore trousers as far back as even before Jesus came.
2. Deuteronomy 22 is a Chapter with 30 verses all giving commandments to be obeyed by the Israelites in those days. They include commandments like,
Verse 9: Do not plant two kinds of seed in your vineyard; if you do, not only the crops you plant but also the fruit of the vineyard will be defiled.
Verse 11: Do not wear clothes of wool and linen woven together.
Verse 12: Make tassels on the four corners of the cloak you wear e.t.c
The chapter even advocates for the stoning to death of a woman found not to be a virgin on her wedding night. So my question is why do some Christians zero in on only verse five and try to condemn people with it? Why not advocate for the implementation of the entire commandments in that chapter of the Bible? After all, Jesus said if you fail in one, you have failed in all.
My advice to Christians is that Jesus came and became a fulfillment of the law, in other words, he fulfilled all the requirements of the law and introduced an era of grace where it is faith in Him and not observance of the law that brings salvation. It is a deception by the enemy to make us believe that after receiving salvation by grace through faith in Christ, we need to maintain that salvation by trying to observe all old testament laws and commandments.
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Crime / Re: SON Arrests Two Chinese Men In Lagos Over N5bn Fake Tyres (Photos) by smarttm: 2:00pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
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You will remain in darkness if u keep assuming.... research so you can know the duties of customs... |
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Politics / Re: Al-Mustapha Arrives Owerri, Meets With Okoroji (Photos) by smarttm: 9:40am On Nov 28, 2016 |
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