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Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by smarttm: 12:54pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
Chinnyrita27: Why must he visit when he wasn't around...I don't trust any friend... Madam don't ever beg him,just tell him his friends should visit him and not you... |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Richy4(m): 12:54pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
This is what I tagged revised standard version story.... This lady omitted a lot of things here... He was driving yet he sent you to buy something... There are lots of stuff that didn't add up here... The man would have given us the King James version of the story When someone is sincerely looking for advice you should try add add important detail..I believe that man might give something so different from this |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by baby124: 12:55pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
15ssDRIVE:Lmaooo. So you rely on friends and strangers to convince you on who to marry and give regular updates to reassure you that you made the right decision. Lmaooo |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Omoagro: 12:56pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
Your husband is suppose to be angry that the friend is turning his wife to an errand girl. He should have also known that it is not wise for you to leave his friend alone in the house no matter the trust. Is that your husband friend also married? Your husband has a very wrong perception about what marriage is. |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by alert01(m): 12:58pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
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Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by gbagyiza: 12:59pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
JasonScoolari: Truly this is a wrong advice as stated in your last line. Your suspect of d husband as a guy may be false because you don't have concrete evidence. My advice to her is to involved her husband trusted family members into this. She should not resolve n issue of this nature alone with d husband because d whole thing seems suspicious. |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Kfed4ril(m): 1:00pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
Nairaland30: Lol, so you are going to beat your wife because if something as silly as this. Lemme ask you self what right does the guy have to come and start sending his friends wife on errand? Me as a guy I can’t tolerate it it’s total disrespect to me. Ok why didn’t he buy the card from he’s account or strol out himself to buy it. Mehn guys we should be reasonable at times na. Wetin the husband and him friend do no gel at all. A real friend will know not to send your wife on errand at least if for nothing but for the respect he has for his friend. |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by san316(m): 1:01pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
No 1 . My friend cannot come to my house without Informing me first. No 2. If he comes and I'm not around, he must not cross the door line . He either drops a message and leaves or do a 180° turn and go. If he even attempts to gist with my wife, na war let alone send her to buy credit. He dey craze ni? My own wife. @Op, your husband is an idioot but he's your idioot. Make peace with him, apologise to his scallywag friend and from there, find a way to break ur husband up with that guy, he's up to no good. |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Viicfuntop(f): 1:01pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
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Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Nobody: 1:03pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
IamD18: She can’t leave for security reasons to me it’s suspect why he should send her on an errand in her own home as a visitor I will also offer to recharge but will apologize if he feels insulted before he leaves |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by sisisioge: 1:03pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
Whew! All these unnecessary issues people are escalating sef! Smart you would have called his friend the next day to "seemingly" apologize. All your words will say sorry and your countenance will say " now the battle line has been drawn". All those unnecessary familiarity of keeping him company, offering to get him food and whathaveyou would stop! You remain polite without unnecessary friendliness... like an aloof politician. Try to study Remi Tinubu fa As for your husband who didn't think you might have your side of the story...hmmm, na you see am marry. You would have noticed in the days of courtship his tendency of placing others above you! He's your palava. Apologize to his dannn friend for your peace. Then go and learn how to manage idiaaats. |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Macgreat(m): 1:03pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
make sure you keep your daughter away from your husband friend. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by alert01(m): 1:04pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
Barigaboy: Hmm,May God bless you sir. This is the truth 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by BARYGOLD(m): 1:06pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
JasonScoolari: |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by alert01(m): 1:07pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
tosyne2much: If there's a way to like a post more than 1000times,I'll like your comment over. |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Noblefirstlady: 1:13pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
That friend of his has a very bad plan for you. He wanted you to leave the house so he could carry out his plan if not what stopped him from accepting you offer or better still do it himself . Apologies and pretend everything is fine then set him up and break their friendship if not you are leaving your marriage before you know. That guy doesn't like you and he will do anything to make you leave so attack him before he attacks you |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by alert01(m): 1:13pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
chally100: no wonder your moniker is chally. UGly thing |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by alert01(m): 1:19pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
hrykanu231: Lol. Bad guy.I see what you did there |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by alert01(m): 1:24pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
Twoclans: If I'm the husband and I'm deriving some financial benefit from the said friend, there is no such manipulation you can do that can make me discard him. forget the women apparent power and card .,This is money issue |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by mranova(m): 1:24pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
IamD18: The friend even acts suspicious, why must he insist that she goes out to buy card for him? Even after she offered to recharge from her account. He had intentions. I hope he didn't want to pick something or plant something in her absence. |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by ImaIma1(f): 1:24pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
Xaos: I disagree. Though, i am all for peace but nobody should be a doormat. She cannot be dealing with inlaws and friends too. Husband is so wrong and immature. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by 15ssDRIVE(m): 1:25pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
baby124: There is something called,good friends. They sometimes help with good ideas. |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Sarah20A(f): 1:25pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
SIR0:am sorry to say;this op doesn't have any home to protect.how can a man risk his marriage just to satisfy his friend is he a gay? This woman should not apologize to anybody in fact if she knows anybody that the husband respect so much she should call that person to report this issue to.if he's tired of the marriage he should just let her know |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by alert01(m): 1:25pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
Greatzeus: Lol . |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by baby124: 1:28pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
15ssDRIVE:Good friends indeed. Try to make lifetime decisions like the choice of a spouse your own personal decision! Most friendships don’t last more than 20yrs and if something happens to you these friends will Bleep your wife and kids before helping them. That is when you will know the worth of friendship. Try to have a mind of your own. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Bishop(m): 1:29pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
Something is fishy between your husband and his friend,he was trying to get you away from your house for an assignment Which you didn't allow him do. Apologize to his friend,get CCTV device installed without the knowledge of your husband or his friend. What is hidden will be unveiled,at that moment will you take your stand. |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by 15ssDRIVE(m): 1:32pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
baby124: Good friends,are rare. They never find no sexual pleasure in their friends Wife. |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by joedejoe: 1:33pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
Nne, you must have gotten a valid and heavenly advice from most of these Godly people. I however, need to add that marriage is all about loving and cherishing all that your husband cherishes that does not constitute sin against the Lord. You might not know the role God is using your husband's friend to play in your family and/or what God is using your husband to do in his friend's life. As a Christian, you might not know if God was testing your humility and perseverance during this episode. Basically, it might have been very difficult going out to buy the card for the young man but i know that it is the manner of communication that brought the problem. We are all human beings and i feel in my spirit that if you had passionately, respectfully and graciously explain to him your health challenges, he would have changed his mind. He is a family friend and not an enemy, you gave him food and he ate, so explaining things to him in the right tone, body language would have saved this brouhaha. On the part of your husband, you should not have yelled at him not to talk of pick up a deep quarrel with him. He remains your husband and the head of the family and your head too. At worse, you should have kept calm while he was venting his anger over your issues with his friend. Pray for the grace to first of all apologize to your husband with love, respect and reverence, explaining situations to him; how you inadvertently reacted to his friend which was occasioned by your health challenges. That ordinarily, you could not have thought of doing that. At this point, he will opt to talk to his friend on your behalf or even taking you on a visit to his friend so things would be ironed out. i would not advise you to go telling him how irrational his friends was and how he wants to tear you apart and all what not. God will address this aspect at the right time not even from you but your husband or from his friend. May God guide and bless you as you obey Him in Jesus Name. Amen. |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Marcelnali: 1:34pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
Chinnyrita27:madam given to what you have just narrated and the manner your husband responded, I think your husband and his friend planned it all in other to divorce you. I want you to understand that your husband is planning to divorce you but have not gotten a good reason to do that.For your so called husband to have refused to hear your own side of the story means that your husband and his friend are working together for reasons best known to the to send you packing.where did your husband's friend got the courage to send you for an errand? And who told your husband's friend that you were at home? Take it from me, what your husband hope to achieve by sending his friend to visit you in his absent did not work and if you apologise to his friend another set up is coming your way. Apologize to his friend if that would make him happy but be it known to you that you that your husband is a part of whatever happened which is why he is asking you to apologize to his friend. Moreover it is out of ordinary for a husband to choose his friend against his wife. Is your husband behaving normal or has his so called friend has your husband under his control? Be careful for nothing. If you had gone to that errand he would have done something in the house to have you under his control as well. Be as wise as a serpent and a gentle as a dove. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Nobody: 1:36pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
CosmoDroid:full stop. |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by openmine(m): 1:39pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
OKOATA:Seconded! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by sweetilicious(f): 1:39pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
IamD18:So true.The truth is the man couldn't reason well.What if his friend wanted to plant an incriminating evidence in his house.What if he wanted to do something bad.People need to think.To me,op your husband is done emotionally with you.He has been looking for something to hold on to.You are on your own at this point. |
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