Why would it spoil. The problem with inverter is battery. If you get a good one, you don't need public power except when you want to use things like ac, washing machine or pump water at night. I use my solar for over a month 247 with no power supply. So I'm talking from experience.
Foodempire: I'm just so tired of the exorbitant fee on the band A. I spend 90k/100k per month. I only put on just one AC 1&half horse power for three hours in a day, I have to stop using the other four AC. 4 ceiling fans-2 wall fan for 15 hrs, 1 TV for like 14 hrs, 22 bulbs,1 fridge, occasional use of washing machine, pumping machine and air fryer.
Is this normal? It's is so draining, just like I'm paying a house rent in my own house. Could this be as a result of bad wiring or na so everyone dey feel am.
Go and get like 10kva solar system for your house and off public power supply from 6am to 6pm and possibly at night except when you are expecting visitors
Walai: Na ceremony we end with fight. The inlaw people carry their food and other Items put inside bus waka. Husband and wife went back to their honeymoon lodge while we and community boys and elders stayed back to enjoy the remaining food and drinks. The elders and community boys dey even hail me for helping to fight strangers wey get mind to fight them in their own land.
Walai: This one small na. Back then when we dey school, I follow my guy go his big sis white wedding. At the reception venue for hotel, one of the guys that came with the inlaws carry their small sister wey dey SS2 but looks mature in the ashebi wear to the back of one of the buses they came with dey talk to her while touching her inappropriately, naso my guy find out confront the guy burst him head. The other boys that came with them join the fight, I gat to join the fight with some community boys. Las las na fight end the wedding. Dey no even cut cake or do last dance . The story long sha
Please continue. Did the wedding of husband and wife end or it was the ceremony?
Wickedness is not an excuse. It's terrible when with 200k and above monthly salary, you see one bedroom, two bedroom apartments in wrong locations even in small states going for over 100k monthly. They just tell you 1.2m. like you are working to pay house rent and transport alone. No eating. This house is fine and spacious and nothing less than 3m yearly. There are many small substandard houses going for above 1.5m, 2 Years house rent needed. And if you are privileged to get a loan, you would repay in over a year with high interest rates. So a bank loan which is the cheapest of 1m, would lead to a repayment of over 1.3m. that means at the end of one year or more, you may need another loan to renew the rent. If not that I ensure I avoid loans for rent and pay less than my one month salary for a one year rent, you can see why most Nigerians would never progress.
tommy589: Do due diligence before renting out. It may take time to get a tenant that meets expectations but it won't come with regrets
Very important. Also everything is not about money. A higher bidder for an accommodation with more money may not care for the property like someone with less money. So choose a responsible person over someone with more cash that has probability of strong head. One that you need several reminders to get subsequent house rent from.
The caution fee is not the issue. How much is the rent? Landlords and agents are looking for the highest bidder. One of my girl, paid 320k for a single room self contained apartment. The money was refunded because another person paid 420k. That house per annum is more than 3m and you rent it to a yahoo boy that can afford it than a family person. You got what you wanted. Please I insist caution fee is not important. You need to screen or interview the person you want and not pay High fees on rent but getting a responsible person.
Adexgentle005: I just drove pass ikate heading to V.I. I saw one girl across the road looking frustrated so I decide to ask her what’s up. She said she’s going to Eko hotel but she lost her money. I can see the tag of the mall she worked for and she look so decent.
She spoke so softly .Told her to hop in, as we are getting along then she said I can have her for the night that she do coded hook up short time 15k, and all night 25k. I asked her to get down of my car immediately. Imagine doing 9 to 5 job and still add hookup ontop. Omo, Like wtf!
This type of girls can steal from there employer. But why pick her in your vehicle if you have no immoral intentions. I always drive past girls, but I don't have the guts to pick anyone. You never can know who would put you in trouble.
Okeytech: I went to greet my mother in-law and along the way i separated the money i wanted giving her from the money i kept for myself, so when i was leaving i deep my hand into my pocket and removed the money which i just gave her... So immediately she collected it, i realized it was the wrong money i gave her but i couldn't collect it due to shame, i felt so bad and angry. What would you have done if you were in my shoes?
If you love your spouse/wife, there's no money that is too much to give your mother in-law.
Okeytech: I went to greet my mother in-law and along the way i separated the money i wanted giving her from the money i kept for myself, so when i was leaving i deep my hand into my pocket and removed the money which i just gave her... So immediately she collected it, i realized it was the wrong money i gave her but i couldn't collect it due to shame, i felt so bad and angry. What would you have done if you were in my shoes?
Always recount the money you brought out from your pocket before handing it out. But as it's your mother in-law, it's all good! It's still the family's money. Work harder to cover up any shortfall.
100k goes to fuel for vehicle monthly. 50k house rent, 50k to thank God, feeding of a family of 4 200k, 150k for savings or investment, no money for vehicle repairs, paper renewal, utility Bill, medical expenses, to send to family members etc. you can see that the money is not enough.
Englishisamust: I have this my friend. He is a single tech guy. Just got a job of 550k per month. The guy was like the money no freak he dey too small.. Omo I won first slap aam say make I tell am how many people that are collecting below that amount as salary.. I just dey envy the guy... I wish I can be like him.. . Omo tech guys dey make moneyooo!!!
It's still small. The most important thing is that if you are earning such an amount as salary, you should start earning similar amount in your personal business. That way, you won't have issues if you stop working.
geoworldedu: That's the similar story with almost everyone in Nigeria o. Mine pained me pass Sha. Just when my income increased by 600% and I was happy that my profession has finally paid off after many years, then Mr. Oloriburuku's inflation brought me back to ten years ago with his outrageous inflation policies. Now I'm back to square one
That's the fact. Even when your income has quadrupled in the past five years, you are struggling to acquire what you can easily buy with far less income just five years ago. In every thing we thank God, but truth be told, the inflation is really frustrating everyone.
As someone who has spent almost that same time as a full time staff graduate in a financial institution, I won't say he is wrong. Because we are in the same shoes.
We4all: Lol... I can relate, but I don't see it as a big deal. Nonetheless, there is a difference between 'thanks', and 'thank you very much, I am very grateful'. The later will make your benefactor do more for you, but the former can make them think twice. Whenever I complete a gig and I receive my credit alert, I always aclnowledge with a 'thank you'. Some people won't see the need since they feel they are getting paid for their services, but I do it all the time because I was raised to acknowledge a kind gesture with a 'thank you', no matter how small.
Sometimes I write credit alert received with thanks. At other times, I continue with I really appreciate it.
I'm not a Yoruba person, but they have a saying, eni dupe ore ano, a ri omiron gba. Meaning someone who said thank you for yesterday good, would receive another one.
The act of being grateful or thankful cannot be overemphasized.
jocelynor: Why do new president always come in just to make things worst, all the promise they say just flies out the window then they start seeking 2nd term to undo their errors just to make it much worst
Because Satan the devil selects the worst person to lead.
INTEGRITYA1: she’s open to having more children with her ex-husband, even though she has no interest in rekindling their marriage.
Which kind talk be this one, you want more Children from your Ex-husband and you don't want the marriage.
Why is it that some of these our women are living in denial? You want more frikifriki from him in order to produce more Children from him? But you don't want togetherness. What a mindset.
Sane people on Nairaland should please help me to explain how these can match.
What is it that our women are turning into?
Lesson to someone that is reading my post, don't let feminism push you out of your husband house or else you rue it.
Abusive marriage I don't support but if the man is trying and doing little little. Support your husband and work things out with him.
Honor your husband
Husbands, let love our wives.
There is no perfect relationship anywhere in the world yet numbers of people out there are enjoying there relationships, not necessarily because they are perfect but with understanding, right mindset and good characters.
We need ourselves to have meaningful life.
She wants something from him beyond babies and it would definitely be to his disadvantage. Let every man be very careful of an ex. An ex can ruin your new relationship or marriage, because they have the mindset, if I can't have you, no one will.
immortalcrown: What can make a woman leave a man and still want to sleep with him to the extent of wanting to have more babies with him?
Is she targeting all his wealth in the name of child support? How can she be comfortable with him fathering her children but not comfortable to live with him in marriage?
How can she see him as a good father but sees him as a bad husband? A good father can never be a bad husband, the same way a good husband can never be a bad father. So, she has not said what is in her mind.
When you end a relationship with a woman, she's like a wounded lion and can kill you easily.
immortalcrown: What can make a woman leave a man and still want to sleep with him to the extent of wanting to have more babies with him?
Is she targeting all his wealth in the name of child support? How can she be comfortable with him fathering her children but not comfortable to live with him in marriage?
How can she see him as a good father but sees him as a bad husband? A good father can never be a bad husband, the same way a good husband can never be a bad father. So, she has not said what is in her mind.
She wants to collect something from him and that May be to the man's disadvantage.
eastOFwest: I will never understand why black women (especially in America) get pregnant for a man that they are not sure of. I will never understand. In fact, I don't want to understand.
The man is married; them go still born for am.
The man get 7 baby mamas; them go still born for am.
The man dey inside jail; them go still born for am.
The man dey beat am every day; them go still born for am.
The man na known criminal/gangster; them go still born for am.
They seem to attracted the same thuggish head-no-correct type of guys.
This is because responsible men abroad, don't sleep around. They know the implications of this both to their wives and to the ladies outside. They can get into serious trouble that would be difficult to get out of it.
MosesBlack: Bro when you marry you and your wife cannot love yourself forever now not after the whole see-finish and everything... That’s where deliberate commitment comes in... very important in marriage.
After a few months of marriage, a married man sees his wife for what she is, a true companion and not a sex mate. And that companion is more important than a sex mate. A woman that gives you sex non stop may not be a companion and that marriage may not work.
I have a girlfriend who's been with me for 2 years, she's a very good girl, respects me to the core, she is beautiful and has no faults, she loves me so much and has also suffered with me even when there was no money and we've been through it all, she's every man's dream and a complete wife material in terms of character and also a great chef.
Problem is I am not sexually attracted to her, I can be in same room with her for a week and not touch her, even when she's totally naked running around the house.
I'm only attracted to light skin girls with big ass but she's chocolate and average ass, I don't want a sexually boring marriage.
She's good in bed and knows how to make love, but I just don't feel sexually attracted to her, is it because we've been having sex for 2 years? am I tired of her? I don't even know, she has never insulted me, she supports me and we hardly have disputes.
Married men in the house should I go ahead and marry her? Can lack of sexual attraction to your spouse be a big problem?
I don't want to break up with a good woman just because of sex.
She loves me so much and I know breaking up with her will hurt her so much, I know how much she cries anytime we have issues, most times over minor issues. I love her too. But this sexual attraction thing is a problem.
She no de hungry me to fvck at all. How person wan take marry woman wey no de hungry am to fvck.
Is it see finish? Will I get sexually attracted to her if we give each other space? Or is it because she's not my spec physically? But I love her so much and I'm just confused.
I don't even know if it's love, because she has no one, I'm her everything, her family is poor and I always feel pity for her whenever I want to break up.
Of recent we had issues and she went to discuss it with her ex and that made me so angry. I don't tolerate women that still keep in touch with their ex and I considered breaking up but she cried so much and was apologising, she even fell sick and was begging.
I have a soft spot for her because I know she doesn't have anything or anyone, I'm the person that supports her financially and everything, so whenever I want to break up, I think about those things and I feel so much pity for her like if I chase her away where will she go? and this is a girl that has been there for me few times when I was low.
I'm just confused.
When you get married and have kids, having sex once in a month may be difficult for you the man. That's the reality on ground. Everything is not sex. When you have bills to be paid, clothes to buy for the kids, shoes, house rent, building a house etc, I want to know how a responsible man with many targets would have time for sex.
Judolisco: Dem Don freaky ur account Thank God, you came out to say d truth .... May God and all your friends help you.....money nowadays no dey last, iswr if u get 50k dis night and u jst stroll out of your house for a walk, iswr na 20k go follow u come house.... Sometime me sef dey Wonder, hope I'm not financially wreckless until I start calculating, the situation of d country now requires having multiple and constant source of income.... Make God help us
abiolert2: Last time it was, Mark Angel today it is Macaroni.
Stars, be it in entertainment, government officials etc are reckless with spending. If they can lose hundreds of millions, they ought to be billionaires but they want to make quick money and not grow a business.
I agree with your response. Even if you are a Star in this world, you don't need to respond on every issue, not to talk about using wrong comments about a person. We are not supposed to call someone who God created well ugly.
JASONjnr: I carefully went through her petition and it's a piece of trash....
She claimed her husband was there when Akpabio fondled her hands and he didn't see it .....
She claimed that he told her she should make her happy.... Apparently, Akpabio never asked her for sex.... Making someone happy could mean so many things.... Could mean, help me with contracts or Information.
Also, she visited him after he called her on a legislative matters after 7pm which she claimed took permission from her husband who was abroad at the time..... If Akpabio was sexually harassing her and with this exact boldness, she would have refused meeting him at odd hours. But she went regardless.
Again, all these things happened years back and she never spoke up. But just when she violated the house rules and was to be punished, she decided to bring sexual harassment as a defence tactics....
This is a cleverless move......
Women are manipulators....
I don't support her. Women have played victim on being maltreated by her husband. I have personally witnessed this twice from two different women. So I understand it. Even when I'm in the right.
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