₦airaland Forum

docdes:
True. I was saying same yesterday but many people said I was simping. And, I'm not also in support of Natasha because I know how manipulative her type can be.

PulaPower:
Nature has never been against it..

Nature does not discriminate based on age..

bigpicture001:
Women move on easily cuz they really never loved any man... Only men do love women... Women are in it for benefits

okerekingsley90:
Hi brother. Can you help suggest an inverter for me. I just need to power about 6 bulbs laptop and fans in the night I already have a big generarot but to on am everyday na stress due to noise and maintenance

boldsleek:
So sad.

I hope they get over this experience strong and move on to do better for themselves onwards.

As for the pimps and madams that traffick and force other people's children into prostitution, while you keep yours at home and even raise them up with the money you made from such biz.., hmmmmm.

Your own children will bring so much pains to your life that you will end up commiting suicide out of misery.

I can't believe some people are actually laughing and teasing this girls sef. No empathy again?

Imagine coming from a poor home, someone came and took your sister of 12-14years with promise of job. And, this is someone you all trust.., only to get to city and force your sister into prostitution.

Drella:
My palour is like this but I no get 5m for account.

Jostoman:
Kemi don't want this government to do their wickedness against Nigerians in peace.

Jennyclay:
Why would he have 4 kids when he knows he’s broke and poor

Gone are those days when people born as many as possible.

Take care of your wife and have just 1 or 2 kids that you can cater for without stress. Simple!!

ibechris:
Na men dey like to suffer.

When u are in your 20's start early and awake ur investment mindset.

If u can do this early enough,at your 40's ur passive income should be enough to take care of your family expenses while u continue to grind with life.

I learnt this technique at an early age...not from my father but from someone whom I lived with years back.

Example is. If u have 30million,invest it for one year,use the proceed to settle all family expenses for one year,after that u can rest and be happy. Not all the time,waiting for salaries that isn't enough.

May his soul rest in peace and may this serve as a lesson for all our able young men especially our teenagers.

For those who may not find this feasible,this theory is working for me and u can always adjust it to suit ur figures especially if u think the figure is too high. remember na advice ooooooh.

skywalker240:
It is what it is

Even this year now we are battling how to make payments for school fees, house rent around the corner, the expenses keeps building up

Most times when I get home from work, after taking my bath, i just pretend that am sleeping and take a quiet place to reflect on what and what to do to improve the condition to favour

Life goes on

Nowadays, I don't work myself up, elders over here say

"Na the one WEY you chop for your Belle, na im be your own"

So most times when am at work and I see anything that i long to put in my stomach or for my satisfaction, I buy it, even if it means telling my wife a lie

Try to rest mostly on Sundays and when you get any chance off, lock yourself in the room and sleep

I'll never forget what A Man in his late 60s told me almost 10 years ago

He said if you as a family Man fall down and die today, the children you left behind will still achieve their goals and life purposes and yes they'll survive even without you.

Bobodee09:
Is so bad that has a married man you can't even buy yourself new wears.

Throughout last year I couldn't get myself a new set of jeans trouser even tho I needed it badly despite having the money.
All the money I made last year 90% when into paying bills and household expenses.
It so crazy how you has a man you will have over 200k in your acc and you be scared to even buy yourself something of 10k cos of fear of the unknown.
In all of this my wife and kids still has many clothes they haven't worn I paid for you.

Last weekend my wife bought herself over 10 new shirt and when I saw it I reminded her how I couldn't even buy myself new jean....she told me nah me no wan buy nah.
It really hurt me cos whatever money I make the family expenses come first before my own personal needs but it isn't same for women.

I just feel marriage is design for men to suffer honestly.
People just taking from you and no one really care about what you need.

smasher1:
It's people with such behavior that does such to their husband. My friend a man has four kids, the first about to graduate. The wife is asking for the fifth. Now, the main issue is to keep on having money, because, a middle class family or person in 2023 is currently poor. And a rich man in 2023 that the income is not increasing astronomically like the inflation can not meet up in 2025. I had twins 2022 and the cost of feeding the last born 2024 and clothing her is four times the cost of feeding one person two years earlier. So if the income is not there, one would become poor.

Jennyclay:
Why would he have 4 kids when he knows he’s broke and poor

Gone are those days when people born as many as possible.

Take care of your wife and have just 1 or 2 kids that you can cater for without stress. Simple!!

ceejay80s:
hello guys
a friend came from port Harcourt to see me on 24th morning he was with me till 25th ,
we were at night gisting and I ask about his wife.....
to cut the long story short,

the father in-law is still alive but the wife, sister and her sisters husband called him that they will be coming to his place to return the bride price,
I asked him , who did u give the bride price to?
he said the father, I told him to ignore them until the father in-law calls u or ur father before u go and collect it.

Nairalanders I hope I am right?

HAPPY NEW YEAR TO U ALL

wonder233:
Feminists and simps will not like this. They are already frothing at the mouth with comments above.
I commend the man. It takes tremendous courage to overcome the onslaught of a scorned woman. It is especially harder as people outside who are not informed think it is a petty thing, that a woman is a fragile harmless entity and divorcing her is easy.
They don't know of the physical, psychological warfare you have to withstand from a highly dangerous, vicious and manipulative species.
Many men just simply fold and keep taking the shyyt.

advanceDNA:
If someone wants to destroy your life and steal your property.....this level of pettiness is not even enough........in fact, it shouldn't be considered pettiness at this point

Smokeybrain:
Good day nairalanders. My landlord increased our rent from 1 million two bedroom flat to 3 million. What can we do as tenants? . Some suggested we take him to court.

Make Una chuk mouth abeg

Wealthoptulent:
I been thinking na General IBB

But u been read say FAILED INVESTMENT in that COUNTRY abi no be So ?

Who works hard abroad n come Open Business in Nigeria ? I can only Open HOTEL & Club any other no worth am

one seized by AMCON from both of them? u not updated bruv



the "BABAGINDA" NAME attracted me to the TOPIC fess place i meant

Love800:
That means, this your solar wont be effective during raining season. Because there is no good sunlight during the rains!

EmperorCaesar:


All these changes in just 6years?


This is why its very much important to see the mother and aunts of your wife-to-be before you even decide to tie the knot with her(It should give an insight into what your girl should look like in the future)

She already had that 'possible-expansion feature' in those 2018 pictures but my guy went ahead

The guy did what her father couldnt do




In all, its good to marry tall women. I guess she'd look different if she was very much taller than this

EmperorCaesar:


All these changes in just 6years?


This is why its very much important to see the mother and aunts of your wife-to-be before you even decide to tie the knot with her(It should give an insight into what your girl should look like in the future)

I beg to disagree. My wife increased in size after two years, and kids. While her family members remain slim.

She already had that 'possible-expansion feature' in those 2018 pictures but my guy went ahead

The guy did what her father couldnt do




In all, its good to marry tall women. I guess she'd look different if she was very much taller than this

MadamVanessa:



These pictures is trending , and I must say, the transformation is shocking. While it's true that change is life's only constant, this particular change is quite way too much . What could have caused such change in her appearance over these few years, making her look older than her age?

Love800:
You don't use electricity to charge your inverter?

Patriotic9ja:
If your hybrid Inverter has App and WiFi dongle. You just need to connect it to WiFi and download the app on your phone and then do the synching. My inverters are Growatt and has the function

Gbadugbakun:
Make ona go burn their office na

Trippleblessing:
I don't use any other thing on the inverter except lights, 1 tv and the fans.
Most the bulbs used are inverter friendly.
The inverter uses 2 batteries as well.
I felt something is wrong sha

Drella:
That’s what I can afford as a broke student

shortgun:
Solar system is just like a owning a car. If you don't have the money to do it properly, don't waste your little savings on any cheap inverter.
Solar systems are very inefficient, you need to spend big to enjoy any benefits. Even with a 5kva system at home, i still ration power between my basic appliances.
Forget what marketers will tell you, it's all a strategy to make sales.

TenQ:
1. Too bad, you bought a TOY
2. Sellers of Inverters will sweet talk you into bad purchases
Let me break it down for you
1. Your One Panel 18V 30W:
Means that if the efficiency is 100%, as long as the sun is up, the maximum load it can carry is 30W between 9am and 5pm (8 Hours)
If there is no NEPA (Mains Electricity), it means you can use 60W of power for 4 Hours OR 120W for 2 Hours
2. Your battery capacity of12V 12AH Lead-acid battery
Mean that at full capacity, it can store at 100% efficiency 144W of Energy
it means that at best you can use up to 144W of Energy for 1 Hour OR 72W of Energy for 2Hours
3. Your Inverter of 220V 150W.
Mean that at 100% Efficiency, you cannot plug loads up to 150W without blowing up the inverter. This is the maximum power you can draw from it if your battery capacity will allow it.

Now, you are driving it with a load of 95W OX fan
Laptop at 65W

Let me shock you that the efficiencies of solar panel that is properly optimised is less that 50% from the rating
Your Battery can have 80% Efficiency only when brand new, as you use it (especially when overloading it) the efficiency can drop to 40%

So, don't use your inverter for your fan or laptop, restrict it to giving you lights at night.
Don't even bother augmenting with extra panels or batteries because it will still waste your money



Recommendation: Even though costly
1. Two Deep cycle Batteries of at least 200AH capacity
2. Three to Four Solar panels
3. Charge controllers rated for the four panels with a power not less that 1200W
4. Inverter (Sine Wave) of at least 1500W (Much higher is better)
Less is a waste of investment

My Small Advice!