lofty900:
if only he was still single, dis would have been d perfect thing 4 him 2 do but not when he is already married. Asking a married man 2 go with his family 2 see another woman's family is a very fuNny thing 2 do. There's no way he won't be asked 2 marry d girl as compensation 4 everything

Not a word of condemnation for what he did, used to love your posts but am soo disappointed, Op why take away the one thing dat gives the lady joy? Leave the boy alone black soul.

smokescreen4:
Not a word of condemnation for what he did, used to love your posts but am soo disappointed, Op why take away the one thing dat gives the lady joy? Leave the boy alone black soul.

who r we 2 condemn others ? "He dat is without sin, let him cast the first stone"

Like seriously you did jazz for ......Jesus....which son do you want to give a rightful place? after you don do jazz for the pikin mama head? this is so not right op, you don't deserve the boy, allow him have peace with his mum please. Live your life as you have been doing and allow them be.

Just remember op, juju dey fade o.

lofty900:
who r we 2 condemn others ? "He dat is without sin, let him cast the first stone"

SMH

lofty900:
as women, I know u all will feel inclined 2 support the woman in dis matter but it is not d right move. Wat if d guy is having difficulty in having kids now hence his need to bring back his kid ? U don't knw wat he is passing through so don't condemn. I'm sure he is trying 2 undo dat mistake and dats y he is seeking advise

pls shut up

some really nansense post here oh.

smokescreen4:
Not a word of condemnation for what he did, used to love your posts but am soo disappointed, Op why take away the one thing dat gives the lady joy? Leave the boy alone black soul.

Hahahahahahhahahha.

More comments please.

lofty900:
who r we 2 condemn others ? "He dat is without sin, let him cast the first stone"

Will you remember this your statement when you find out your girlfriend/wife used voodoo on you?

lofty900:
who r we 2 condemn others ? "He dat is without sin, let him cast the first stone"

Pretend this poor girl was your blood sister for a minute . . . .
Would you still offer the same advise.

10 years later, the poor girl is probably still in her fathers house, being ridiculed for getting pregnant and not knowing the father.

People should fear God o! Ha!

Sophyrocks:


Will you remember this your statement when you find out your girlfriend/wife used voodoo on you?

someone's gonna get stabbed if dat happens but I pray it doesn't

lofty900:
someone's gonna get stabbed if dat happens but I pray it doesn't

So you are going to commit murder for that but you are advising your fellow men wrongly and preaching that no man is perfect for us here. why dnt you remember such when it happens to you? Why is hypocrisy always glaring with folks like you?

chaircover:


Pretend this poor girl was your blood sister for a minute . . . .
Would you still offer the same advise.

10 years later, the poor girl is probably still in her fathers house, being ridiculed for getting pregnant and not knowing the father.

People should fear God o! Ha!

madam chaircover, longest time no see, hw far na ? Back 2 d problem @ hand, I never supported his actions, infact in my first post I called him a wicked guy. He is seeking advise not abuse and ridicule.

lofty900:
madam chaircover, longest time no see, hw far na ? Back 2 d problem @ hand, I never supported his actions, infact in my first post I called him a wicked guy. He is seeking advise not abuse and ridicule.

Read the very first statement of the OP

Please I need your advice on how to get my 10 years old son from her mother.

He didnt look for advise on how to go and beg this poor lady or his innocent son. He is not asking how to make amends, but the first thing he said was to seek advise on how to get his son back from the boys mother. Is this the first step? after all he did?
He was and still is a wicked man.

Sophyrocks:


So you are going to commit murder for that but you are advising your fellow men wrongly and preaching that no man is perfect for us here. why dnt you remember such when it happens to you? Why is hypocrisy always glaring with folks like you?

he asked for advise and I gave it. U all are just insulting him up and down without coming up with a solution. Hw will u feel if u ask 4 an advise and get a truckload of insults ? By the way who is Sam smith ? Abeg change dat signature Jor ...

chaircover:


Read the very first statement of the OP

Please I need your advice on how to get my 10 years old son from her mother.

He didnt look for advise on how to go and beg this poor lady or his innocent son. He is not asking how to make amends, but the first thing he said was to seek advise on how to get his son back from the boys mother. Is this the first step? after all he did?
He was and still is a wicked man.

I totally agree with u but this is a mistake dat can be corrected and dats y we should help him correct it.

lofty900:
someone's gonna get stabbed if dat happens but I pray it doesn't

So you speak from both sides of your mouth?

Abeg go to bed and stop giving "advice".

lofty900:
he asked for advise and I gave it. U all are just insulting him up and down without coming up with a solution. Hw will u feel if u ask 4 an advise and get a truckload of insults ? By the way who is Sam smith ? Abeg change dat signature Jor ...

which advise did he ask for?
He asked for how to go get the kid he abandoned and shamed the mother publicly. Is that someone you want to advise? What are you advising him to do?

To drag the girl to court after all her suffering and take the child from her?

lofty900:
I totally agree with u but this is a mistake dat can be corrected and dats y we should help him correct it.

What about his voodoo?

Was that a mistake too?

lofty900:
he asked for advise and I gave it. U all are just insulting him up and down without coming up with a solution. Hw will u feel if u ask 4 an advise and get a truckload of insults ? By the way who is Sam smith ? Abeg change dat signature Jor ...

Sam smith has nothing to do with the issue. You dnt have anything to say. You should see nothing wrong with the insults since you will commit murder if u were in this situation. Insults or murder, which is worse? Perhaps u have been involved in voodoo a couple of times since you dnt see anything wrong doing with to someone but can kill when someone plants it on you.

EfemenaXY:


So you speak from both sides of your mouth?

Abeg go to bed and stop giving "advice".

this lofty is not a serious fellow. Same guy that was saying all men are attracted to infants abi wetin sef. I stopped reading his posts for a long time after that comment.

Sophyrocks:


Sam smith has nothing to do with the issue. You dnt have anything to say. You should see nothing wrong with the insults since you will commit murder if u were in this situation. Insults or murder, which is worse? Perhaps u have been involved in voodoo a couple of times since you dnt see anything wrong doing with to someone but can kill when someone plants it on you.

Sophy!!

Sophyrocks:


Sam smith has nothing to do with the issue. You dnt have anything to say. You should see nothing wrong with the insults since you will commit murder if u were in this situation. Insults or murder, which is worse? Perhaps u have been involved in voodoo a couple of times since you dnt see anything wrong doing with to someone but can kill when someone plants it on you.

sophyrocks, cococandy, efemenaXY, chaircover forgive me oooooo, I'm not d voodoo guy pls take it out on him and not me. TNX

EfemenaXY:




Sophy!!

Its true na. Something as serious and dangerous as Voodoo, is what someone here is treating like its a piece of cake? That says a lot.

Some people's insensitivity depravity and high level wickedness is mind boggling. Unbelievable!




and as for you op nemesis will soon catch up with you.i have nothing to say to you because I don't consider you as a human being much less a man



eyan lasan ikeji aja ni e.okunrin tan fin sepe fun okunrin ni owo yi. O'n shey eyan re.

i have read all the post and i know deserve more jabbing than what some folks posted here. For the first time i opened up to my dad who was really shocked about it...how i kept in the dark for ten years...as for going to the guy... that did it...i am making effort since yesterday...i

francleanflexy:
chia !
Just lookatew.
U dont deserve to have that boy in ur life.

Yes i know but...i just have that load of guilt on my mind

FINATUDE:
i have read all the post and i know deserve more jabbing than what some folks posted here. For the first time i opened up to my dad who was really shocked about it...how i kept in the dark for ten years...as for going to the guy... that did it...i am making effort since yesterday...i

10 years Op but why suffer much a poor girl? I'm speechless .

Who knows, maybe the woman would have been happy to let you be part of the boy's life! Unfortunately, you've already erased yourself from her memory!

In as much as you don't deserve to be part of the boy's life because you didn't want him, the boy may be yearning to know his father. I think you can reach out to mother and child if you know you can add value to theiir lives.