HeatSeeker: It takes two to tango. If your wife gets pregnant outside marriage, then there must be another man involved. You cannot punish the wife and let the man go. The same goes for adultery.
While your point make sense, this is all on the woman. She's married, she cheated and by her act of non disclosure of the true paternity of her child , she should face the music .
The man she cheated with can deny knowledge of her married status.
Middleborn: I just got a job offer in New Zealand, I am to earn 30 New Zealand dollars per hour.
I have been pursuing a career in academics and I currently run a PhD program in a federal University. I am currently in the field gathering my data.
Should i move to New Zealand or should I turn down the job to complete my PhD? Or is there a way to continue and finish my PhD program via video conferencing since I just have to present my research work. Please help me. Tell me what may work in this situation.
That's 2.4m monthly in naira terms..
However, so what's the living standard there??
If expenses won't overshadow major part of the money pls go to new Zealand.
yungzed360: This is my girl. Our problems are she most times receives calls and chats with lots of guys and she lies to me alot, I've told her severally to stop and always tell me as it is, although I get angry very easily bt it would be better to digest the truth than lies cus it's hurt me a lot. So I've broken up with her many times and she sometimes swear never to come back again. But after a few days or weeks. She will come begging, calling and texting again and then I keep forgiven her.
Below is a screenshots of our most recent quarrels when she came back begging and the reason for the quarrel was she was at my house when another guy called again, and she couldnt tell the guy she was at her boyfriend's house even though the guy kept asking where she went, she only said she went out.
What exactly could be the problem? Is it me? Is it her? I'm I too over protective or feeling insecure? Please guys what should I do?
She is not legit, we probably send you and the rest same message. I will assume she's still within the age of 18 to 24. Most of the ladies in the age bracket are still testing waters and enjoying the attentions from the diff corners
thesilentman: Because we live in proximity-same town, she wouldn't quit checking up on her daughter virtually every day or at least every other day.
I felt a deep intrusion on my privacy so yesterday I summoned the gut and asked her if she didn't have a house. Before she could reply, I told her, 'learn to stay where you belong! I did not marry daughter and mother!` She has since disappeared into thin air.
This evening am thinking whether i bleeped up or not.
That was too harsh bro.. dropped the message with you wife in a subtle manner. Tell her to caution her mum on her frequent visits.
Fira09: All the 4 matches will, Assnal have not been phenomenal this season!
Losing to Sporting at home in an ordinary UEL is way average.
Logically, Prems club are bums; I expect Loserpool to either draw or win the match; Man City straight demolishing, Dry gin can also draw against them or maybe win the match; Castle clear win, so😏
Meanwhile as at yesterday Labour Party has no evidence to present to the Presidential Tribunal. Obi claiming he won on TV will be used by INEC and the APC to destroy LP.
Obi later saying he's not challenging the winner but the process on Arise TV is another dent on his legal case...
Reno knows how to get attention sha.. and people keep giving him the attention he crave. Bankers like me don't attend rally, we can't be rented by other political parties.
Me Ednut, the difference is artist promote for people to come out and pay money to watch them perform while politicians pay people to come out and give impression that they are popular.
Take the Tech company.. Put eye for wet in dem de do, learn and develop yourself. Tech is the way. This is actually a no brainer. It's straight forward decision.
youngsahito: Some Nigerians are very superstitious when it comes to Japa affairs. Some are afraid of being in an environment whose language they don’t understand while some are scared of the cost of living and some are uncomfortable about their safety in their new location.
Let’s talk, what scares you the most about relocating abroad?
kanupapilo: Who do you think is the best Nigerian musical artist talentwise?
I am not talking of commercial success the likes of Davido,Rema and Burnaboy have enjoyed. I am talking about raw and natural musical talent that hardly misses with the tracks they release.
My top 5 in order of talent and who create consistently good songs:
LesbianBoy: First I want to say congratulations to Argentina but....
Why was Messi given the best player of the tournament instead of Mbappe? Even if it was given to Messi I think it should have been shared with Mbappe! That is 2 best players of the tournament!
Someone said because Messi won the world cup.
Let me remind you all that in 2014 Germany won the world cup yet Messi who didn't win the cup still was given best player of the tournament that year.
This is the reason many people still prefer CR7 because he is not pampered like this. And all his achievements were done with so much hate from even people around.
Oga carry your bias mind go.. Messi won the most number of MOTM award (5), most assist (3), second most goals scored (7) And you are here spitting rubbish.
On your opinion of 2014 world cup. That's the difference between Messi and Ronald. Messi combines goals and playmaking, he can win a man of the match award without scoring a goal but that can't be said of Ronaldo. This is the basic reason why CR7 fans always feel cheated or crying fowl play becos to them football revolves around heading, tap in and occasional long range
StagethemTVee: Dino Melaye has reacted to Peter Obi's outburst during the town hall meeting which held last night, asking that the former Governor of Anambra state should apologise to him.
He claims he did not say anything to warrant such a call-out by Peter Obi saying there is no way he could have spoken loud enough from where he sat for the presidential candidate to hear him.
Dino Melaye also said Peter Obi's temper shows he is the type that would slap his ADC when he becomes president if he felt offended which according to him is not the rght temperament for one who wishes to rule a complex nation like Nigeria.
Which kind party be this? Are these the clowns that want to rule us?
When you are so used to abnormality, constitutionality/normality becomes a stranger! May you become fortunate again in life to know that what LP was is the right thing.
I know you are use to APC and PDP covering up party officials misdeeds, reinforcing indiscipline and corruption.
Please hold a honest conversation with your wife to be, let her know the truth as u have shared here. Let her know you were not aware of this situation on until now.
Let the mother of ur son understand you have moved on but you will be responsible for the boy.