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WriterNig:
Premier League

TundeWX:
1 messi
2 Ronaldo
3 neymar
4 lewndowski maybe
5 ibrahimovic
6 mbappe
7 salah
8
9 Haland
10 de gea

EkehPraise:
Honestly I am not trying to sound like a broken record though I'm hurting badly because I don't know how to feel, but this my babe that I've been dating for the past 2 years hardly calls me. Times without number we have talked about it and she promised to improve but that has not been the case.

We have discussed marriage plans and also introduced each other to our families hoping to give it a go ahead come 2022 by God's grace which I know she will be happy to settle with me but two days ago during my break time from work I checked my phone and as usual was about calling her then it occurred to me that this is what I do everyday from good morning to goodnight no calls from her except I call or chat first so I decided not to call or chat yet till now nothing from her.

She has been online on whatsapp, I am sure she calls other people. I have made up my mind not to call or write to her first and if she doesn't reach out to me then I will just bone and move on gently.

Baamisere:
Help Me! I'm Fed Up

I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years now and she has been a good woman through and through. I've met her parents and we're discussing on the next step. She has been supportive, responsible and caring despite our tribal difference.

However, the problem I'm having with her is that when she's angry she tends to use foul languages and curses on me which I don't like. She end up apologizing after the ranting but I'm tired of going over this. Please how can I deal with this attitude of hers?

I need honest contributions to this thread.

professore:
https://www.nairaland.com/6450072/which-organisation-wish-work#99718033

Courtsy of the above post in which esteemed Nairalanders were of immense help (thank you).
Now the options are between Immigration and DSS so which one should I go with I need the pros and cons of the two.
N.B safety is my topmost priority. Not money.
My qualifications are BSc Political Science (a 4pointer) and a two-year diploma (distinction). Thanks once again esteemed Nairalanders.

Mustiboy:
So, if I understand very well, pastors are tasked with bringing people to the church by all means, even if it means invading their privacy and compelling them to come to your church?

Is this not the idea of more members, more revenue?

It's now glaring that today's churches are business enterprises; churches, since time immemorial, have always been so.

Nothing dey shock me again.

londonbanks:
It's not just the fact that she forgot, it's that she's not invested in what we have. I've taken her out on a couple of dates where the majority of the time she was on her phone and not being receptive to my feelings even though I asked her politely to put it away.

Whenever she wants something from me she uses words like "baby" but soons as I send her money it's crickets from then on. Anytime I text her during the day to see how her day is she doesnt reply back and even when she does its "good" or "okay", quick short answers and doesnt reciprocate by asking about mines.

The birthday was the last straw because I had texted her few days ago and she completely ignored me until the day after apologising but only because hers is coming up in a few weeks and probably doesnt want to burn that bridge. She'll forget my birthday but will post on her stories constantly about other people wishing them theirs. It's clear at this point that she's been using me for money and doesn't care about me. Its always the ones you least expect.

Anyways I appreciate anyone who took the time to read this, your input will be greatly appreciated.

bolaayenimo:
Temidayo Akinsuyi, Lagos 


https://www.independent.ng/pdp-wanted-to-take-advantage-of-endsars-protests-to-return-to-power-in-2023-femi-adesina/

360degreess:
I knew it will lead to that. After SARS was disbanded, I said the protest should be stopped and we should wait to see what they govt will do afterwards. But some frustrated people on nairaland were attacking me. Miscreants are attacking and frustrating innocent citizens on the streets, raping women, stealing from people shops etc all in the name of protest. . But some cowards are supporting them.
Now that the govt wants to deploy soldiers, I challenge all the noise makers on nairaland to go and protest. Let's see if they will come back and type nonsense..

obembet:
Transfermarkt has updated the latest player value with Mbappe remaining on top despite coronavirus devaluation.

Sterling equals Neymar on €128m, ahead of Kane, Salah, Mane and KDB. Messi ranked 9th ahead of Alexander-Arnold, who becomes the only defender in top 10.

Bundesliga stars Sancho, Havertz, Haaland and Gnabry all enter top 30 alongside Serie A trio Dybala, Lukaku and Eriksen.

35-year-old Ronaldo ranked 46th with a valuation of €60m. Ousmane Dembele is only worth €56m.

Source: https://m.allfootballapp.com/news/Headline/%E2%82%AC180m-Mbappe-remains-most-valuable-Messi-9th-35-year-old-Ronaldo-out-of-top-40/2359209

steveneche:
Help My Friend Decide: 5million Or A 100k Job?

A friend of mine just got an offer from his late brother's company few months after his demise.

His late brother having been a prominent personality (head of finance) in the company he worked before he died, made the company to offer his younger brother my friend two options..

1. 5million naira cash or

2. a 100k job per month in the Same company.

we need your professional advice pls

ThierryJay:
I pity all those insinuating that it's a scam because people you know are not dying yet. Don't worry e go soon clear for una eyes.

With the way people have not been taking precautions here in Nigeria, it's a no brainer that it's going to spread widely. Whatever NCDC stands to gain financially does not stop people from infecting one another.

If it's real in Ghana, in South Africa, in Egypt, in Burkina Faso, why wouldn't it be real in Nigeria?Are all of these countries scammers too? Including their European counterparts?

The 27billion grant that you claimed WHO gave Nigeria, Nigeria has lost several multiples of that amount in revenue from unproductivity due to lockdown. So will you as a rational person shut down your personal business that gives you 10million a month, in order to receive a 500thousand Naira handout from good Samaritans? I'm struggling to understand the level of gross stupidity at play here.

espn:
Most of the Argentine players went with messi...while the Portuguese players said both...the bias is clear...

ghettochild4u:
Why burahi no Wan come tell us he has covid already

Fragility6:
'...but if he continues with his development, he can reach d level of Mbappe and Cristiano Ronaldo'.... Lwkmd. Bfor u attack me be realistic for once eh

xynerise:
Please guy, before I start chasing shadows trying to recover the money in my late brother's bank account, I would like to know the steps to take. Until his death, he lived in the northern part of Nigeria where the bank is also located.

1. Do I have to travel to his bank location to make necessary procedures or I can do that elsewhere where the bank has a branch?

2. What are the procedures?

Thank you for your assistance

Ausrichie:
In the eyes of the law it is different even if a thousand witnesses say you did it without evidence nothing go happen na so dem kill Jesus oh for wetin im no do

lonelydora:
Why is 'loose' Busola talking about rape now her friend accused her of infidelity in marriage? Timi should tell us more of what is happening in her marriage. Busola is trying to divert attention.

She was raped twice, and still was a COZA member with her husband ooo for years.

Any aggrieved person should approach the courts. Timi and Busola should go to court

This is not about rape, it's about envy.
NIGERIANS THINK

jideflash:
my papa carry 1st for this exam

funshint:
At this moment stop all calls and messages. Also stop sending people to her; don't continue "bombing" her. You've done your best. She's still hurting for now....okay. Just give her time. A few days or even weeks. When her head finally settles down; she'll definitely contact you. Believe me it works! Thereafter take things slow, one step at a time. Takecare...winks!

wolewolsz:
What happened to ebuehi?