₦airaland Forum

Arizona1:
. I always stay @ home,help her with domestic work and take care of children coz we hav two kids and no house help. .

Just curious, r u not meant to do some domestic shores and take care of ur children? Its default for u to do those stuffs not highlight it.

bellong:
I don't offer any advice without putting myself in the situation. It is based on what I would do if I were in it.

If you think your fulfillment, joy and happiness is dependent on the other person and cannot do without them, it is easy for you to hide info about you.

Marriages crash today because toddlers are marrying toddlers. People do deceive their spouses about who they are and after the marriage, the game changes.

No matter how difficult, honesty is the best policy. In fact telling him and being opened about you is an eliminating strategy to know if the guy is sincerely i interested in you and can stand with you in the times of storm.

We may share different opinion about marriage, so we understand differently.

No matter the situation, I wouldn't advise anybody to lay a foundation of deception, dishonesty and partial sincerity for a relationship. They are recipe for marital destruction. Too many cases abound.

The temporal relief you get from hiding stuffs is nothing but temporal compared to the pains and regret that awaits in the future.

If you sow wind, you shall reap whirlwind.

U right but, at dat moment, many tins run ones mind but I feel, at least, she should hint him about the problem to know his reaction b4 dropping d bomb.

bellong:
Not telling him is laying a foundation of deception. What gives the people this idea that every guy is first interested in the woman becoming a baby factory than in her alone first?

If she doesn't tell now, they will still go for medical tests after marriage and the truth would be revealed. Better face the demon now than be put to double annointing of shame, rejection and regret.

It's easy to advise ger to tell him but put ursef in her place, its very hard.

To me, she shud hit him abt d issue but coming out 100%, I no fit sabi.

drtwist:
Not from aladja , just a concern Urhobos

D uhobos dont ve a leader. Dey shud drag other investment other than oil and gas.r u Male or female

drtwist:
But the fed govt sold it to Amcon now, they should better look on how to resuscitate it . Cos it will go a long way to reduce unemployment rate

Federal government didn't sell to amcon. Dey sold to d Indians Wu ran it into debt but wen d debt was too much, amcon bought over d debt and took control of d company. So its for amcon to sell to an investor.

Same as amcon has taken over tinapa.

I bliv u from aladja. U show passion for d only industry der.

drtwist:
Don't want to hold him on his campaign promise cos without that you would not have voted for him( all politicians need that to succeed).
Just want Buhari to provide constant light, reduce fuel price, resuscitate D.S.C. And other company, ban the use of generator and implement confab report

Dats no excuse bobo. He has to deliver has promised.
Abt dsc,it belongs to amcon and nt fg. Dey jus need buyer .

CR77:
Good work from Mallam Rabiu Musa Kwankwaso, I wish all governors could b like him. Not all those who don't know where to start from.


Allah ya albarkace ka

All governors can't b like him becos dey r many beta Dan him.#bigot

Pangea:
Probe before merging
Stolen money must be recovered and the perpetrator prosecuted .

Probing is waste of time. U create institutions dat can probe and check mate future events.

kestolove95:
if she get corrt. kpekus..y not?

Lol@kpekus. U b warri person?

Freciprocal:
One of the healthiest political relationships I must say!

So is d oba lying?

midolian:
This man behaves like a kid at-times. > >

Fayose should stop attacking Muazu because he managed to deliver Ekiti for PDP.. Mua'zu couldn't hav done better.."GEJ should have done better"

Even Sambo couldn't deliver kaduna for PDP. He promised 2million votes buh in the end, couldn't get up to quarter of what he promised..So I wonder why this man won't let Muazu be..

PDP was defeated because the party failed in every way and Nigerians wanted a CHANGE of govt...Simple.


#BlameGEJ

Weda gej failed or nt, pdp leaders r suppose to resign for new ideas to flow in d party.
Dat d reason y Africa leaders (Nigerian) r called shameless. Never take responsibility for der mistakes.

Raiders:
so you expect APC to correct PDP wrong in less than 1 yr. buhari needs time and Nigeria support to make change. change is always slow and we should judge his government after 4 yrs. If he perform below expectations, Nigerians should vote him out. I hope he success because if he fails then Nigeria fails too

Apc made lots of outrageous promises for d vote of masses now dey ve to honor der words. After all dey came as d messiah dat has d magic wand to change Nigeria's fortune over night.

dulaman:
seriously naija should calm down. PDP did 16yrs and did nothing, baba should be given time

Calm down?he came as d messiah and Wu can change everything within 4yrs so y is he playing down hs strength?or is he doubting himsef?

SirChelseaAmb:
3. Creation of Sure-P and Related Programmes
The Subsidy Re-investment Programme (SURE-P), Graduate Internship Scheme (GIS), Youth Enterprise with Innovation in Nigeria (YOUWIN), Community Service Scheme (CSS), National Industrial Revolution Plan (NIRP) and Growing Girls and Women in Nigeria (GWIN) were some of the palliative programmes created by the federal government in response to the partial fuel subsidy removal of 2012. Together, these collaborations between the Federal Ministry of Finance and other federal ministries, parastatals and agencies have yielded almost 2 million direct, indirect and temporary jobs across the country.

https://m.facebook.com/profile.php?id=756822227770836

Sure p was meant to b gud but ended up bin a waste of money so I cant call it achievement but a failed scheme

Y r dey complaining to d media? Dey shud go to court or report to police for beta investigation.

Well, pdp became arrogant to der subjects and now to Demselves. Lets c how long der rebuilding will take.

ijustdey:
but I always thought the the higher the price..... the more responsible the lady will be.....



I did made the comment after reading the words from a moniker (stolen)

Depends on family and d culture of dat village. But some pple use qualities like education,beauty to set price sha but its NT a standard.

ijustdey:
yep.... but the guy is Igbo and believes that spending such a money means he has married a good wife...


that's why I said Igbo and their expensive wedding

Doesnt justify ur comment. Most Ibo guys I've met complain abt d bride price and if possible, try to reduce it to d lowest minimum.

ijustdey:
Igbo and their expensive marriage ceremony.....
Now the lady don waka after you have spent such a huge amount of money

Sefinat doesn't sound like an ibo name?

Martins301:
If Buhari is said to have made some mistakes since winning the election, then Jonathan blunders since he lost his re-election bid must also be brought to light. Now lets consider them briefly.

1. Releasing The PwC NNPC Audit Report
Why didn't he release the report prior to March 28th? Yeah! You guessed right. He knew he would have even lost Bayelsa state if Nigerians saw the content of the report. By releasing the report afterwards, he has shown Nigerians that he abhors corruption even though he himself MAY be innocent. He has also shown that he was prepared to win the election even at the cost of surpressing the truth

2. Sacking Galore
Choi! Baba GEJ has sacked over 4 persons since he lost his re-election bid (less than 1 month ago). From NPA boss to NHIS boss, FAAN and even the Inspector General of Police, non has been spared the wrath of a sour loser.

3. Accepting & Then Questioning His Defeat
Why did he publicly accept in the first place?
Is he now jealous of the attention Buhari is getting?

4. Hindering A Smooth Transition
Moving the date already agreed for handing over notices to be submitted from April 20th to May 14th is a covert way of jeopardizing a smooth transition. He probably doesn't want the incoming government to do a thorough job of screening and scrutinizing the handover notes.

5. Covertly Removing Fuel Subsidy
By doing this, he is openly setting a trap for the incoming government. But angry Nigerians should know where to direct their anger.

Feel free to add to the list. I will come and add more later. I wan go cook my funky okro soup.


Source: Martins301

Y do u feel his hindering smooth transition?
Fuel subsidy was removed while dey were passing d budget and apc legislatives r aware of that so y d fuss?

Wont he question his defeat before. If u tink accepting defeat is easy, try losing Pdp has to question it to know der faults and next Lyn of action.

Dat released d audit Na problem nw. If he didn't, u guys will say his hiding something.

Dannyset:
The same guy he congratulated before Sanusi was crowned the Emir of Kano. Yeye dey smell.
Anyways, he should hold on to it while it last.

Buhari cant jus remove him frm office. He will spend enuf tym der. Except buhari wants unnecessary attention.

imbless:
I envision buhari as the Messiah of this country, a great leader with great foresight, not as clueless as the out going admin.

Dont judge d painter before he starts paintin

MrOlai:
I can't believe this! So, reverend sisters drink alcohol? Unbelievable!

Look at d pic closely, it edited. She's really drinkin fayrous

vicoson:
My wife says she did me a favour by marrying me, so I should be happy she married me.

We've been married for 3 years with 2 kids. Prior to our marriage we dated for about a year. She even moved in with me when she had accomodation problem for 6 months. During this period I saw hell. She showed me no respect, was playing her games very openly. Her phone rings 24/7, multiple love sms.

When I talk about settling down together, she would say her parents won't agree because my place is far-I'm from Akwa Ibom and she is from Mbaise. Obviously she did not want to marry me but she wouldn't just leave.

She travelled twice to check out some suitors while she was still leaving with me and I got to know from another source. She didn't deny it but said her sister's gave her the connection. One of those guys is an illiterate drug pusher.

Finally things got to a head. I dicovered condoms hidden in her handbag, I had to throw her out of my house. Somehow somehow, we hooked again but this time I only wanted to use her. Not quite long she took in. Although both of us had earlier agreed we won't marry each other, she later claimed she has started loving me but I did not love her anymore.
I went ahead and married her. I even did elaborate wedding. From day one till today, it has always been trouble.

Complaint, complaint,complaint. Nagging,nagging,nagging. She is at the centre of the universe, everybody must worship her, she must be in charge.

Trust me, with this pride I made sure she wields zero power in my house.

Before I forget, I am a Mechanical Engineer, she doesn't have a good O-level.

Yes, my emotions are on vacation, is it my fault?

U amaze me op. Wit all d fights and wars u guys had, u still married her because she got pregnant.

Since wen dos pregnancy determine ur commitment to a relationship. Well, my advice is dat u continue wit ur marriage and dance to wateva tune it plays cos u saw d signs earlier & marriage is forever for worse.

Ezedon:
She is possessed by marine spirit

Na u possess am bah..wat abt d guy? Wats he possessed wit?

Nneka123:
So it's all about reading Cousins having sex and getting pregnant?

Well if this is true.

The girl got issues

Y u blaming inky d girl, is a guy not involved. He may b d one instigating d whole tin sef and she's jus weak to say no

Vickybee:
Well, I can't speak for other ladies.
As for me, it doesn't matter.
Where he works is just an added advantage to me and it's not prerequisite for falling in love with him.

Na so Una dey tlk joor.

Boscojugunu:
Good move. I like that. SAI BUHARI.... my no nonsense president

Smh.we dont need vindictive behaviors. Dis is democracy where from of speech is one of its core attributes.

WisdomFlakes:
Payback's a bit.ch

Ait threw all ethics to the wind during the presidential campaign. They should emulate Channels tv.

Smh...we dont need vindictive behaviors.

PassingShot:
How is warning GEJ/PDP of consequences of their actions amount to acting as opposition?

They're only talking like the boss here.

D boss doesn't shout. His actions speaks for him. It's d small boys dat keep shouting and seeking attention.

PassingShot:
If Jonathan must be probed, so be it. If he doesn't want to be embarrassed, he should call his boys to order.

One would expect that he will choose to bow out honorably having been assured of cooperation and understanding by GMB.

To want to ride on the wave of commendations that have greeted his statesmanship acceptance of defeat to allow looting of the treasury or looting through privatization and unnecessary recruitment, is not of good character.

His boys r already on panic mode. Ders a new Sheriff in town. No shakes, all gwj and his boys can do NW is to clear der track of previous loots and not make fresh 1(if dey r smart o).

But y dos apc still act as d opposition?

Jackeeh:
This is wrong.

I disagree with you. It helps improve d children mentally and also teach dem how to serve and respect each other.

Totally support it. Not wen schools impose pupils dey lyk.

He should merge Dem or scrap nddc. Also merge all efcc,icpc etc and reduce nnpc wit all its plenty sub companies. In fact, scrap all dos plenty agencies in government sef.