₦airaland Forum

folake4u:
Marriage marriage marriage talk everywhere.
It's so exhausting.

Why can't we talk about how Cheeseball is underrated and how the cheese is reducing in the pack.

Mtchewww.

Cos it's important to any society. Family structure affects society positively or negatively.

Flora2Sweet:
Marriage is now show offs ohhh , after a week everybody don tire dey find divorce ....
That's why if I eventually decide to get married...

The cost will be divided into 2 between us...
Just incase some decides to leave....

You already planning your exit even for marriage you never decide to enter.

Na wa.

How do you expect something good from marriage you already have a negative impression and expectations from?

Pray that you are good enough for your partner and vice versa.

Plus sfipy using social media stories to decide and plan your life & future.

Psammmy:
Come Finland, amazing country.

Any immigration part you recommend for Finland

webdevprof:
Unless you're considering 2nd tier European countries like Lithuania, etc, that money is small.

Based on this, consider Lithuania or South Africa. The Naira has lost its value. That 3.5m. is just about 5k Euros.

What do you know about Lithuania immigration

It will cost us religion bigotry and tribalism

amp01:
Are yous selling or what?

I want to buy

Please I am in search of a printing press that uses newsprint paper.

Mother03:
Women have now joined men in doing Visa marriage

Before.

We no just dey talk about them

nazicartel:
Is Dino that popular?

Popular online

Rokiat:
Just nasty…..they will marry old azzz pale women but would be saying shit about their own Nigerian women if that is not self hate I don’t know what is.

He needs therapy because this ain’t it.

Just ewwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!!!

Where is Dr Umar Johnson when you need him?

He said he married her for peace of mind

Naija girls no give am peace of mind

AllMight:
1. Toyin - She was my former classmate and friend back in school. She currently works in a bank as a CFC Agent. We met late last year during our school old student get together, we exchanged contact and kept in touch regularly. Our vibes have been good and encouraging. She had helped me very well many times since then. I'd say we are more than friends but ambigously because i haven't really asked her to be my girlfriend, though i have taken her out before on val day. Like i said, our relationship is ambigous. She doesn't have a boyfriend yet, but her mum is trying to matchmake her.

2. Sarah - Based in the States with her family for futher studies, though she's a Nigerian through her grandpa. We met early this year while playing game and since then we have become close that all her family know me. Her paternal uncle is one of my team sponsor here in Nigeria. Though this lady do give me green light steady, but because of Toyin who i haven't even get as my gf, i just laugh it off.

Honest advice please!

Explore both

The one that agrees and gives you peace


Follow that one

concho:
We started dating when she got admission in 2018. She was a novice and a church girl then .
There was nothing like intimacy till 2021 and that was when I deflowered her ,

Since I promised my self that I must marry who ever I deflowered , I started taking care of some parts of her needs hoping that I will get financially stable and settle down with her .

She was the type of girl that everyone assumed to be an angel . I trusted her more than anything on earth .

She is too jealous that she suspects that I’m cheating even when I was not . She misinterprets everything an opposite sex sends to me

Fast forward to 2022 . She visited one day and got upset that another girl referred to me as “babe” on chat instead of saying “hi” . I insisted that she brings her own phone so I check if a guy has never called her babe

On getting to her chat , I noticed this guy that she saved as “my favorite” . They had no chats (she deletes everything) . I decided to dig deeper only to find out that this guy has been going to her house (family house ) to sleep with her . It’s not once , it’s not twice . And it was frequent the period she even said I should give her space that they were doing family prayers

The worst is that I told the mum and elder siblings out of anger. They did absolutely nothing . The mum only denied knowing that the guy comes around when everyone is out

A month later, I saw a chat of the mum asking her why she doesn’t pick the guy’s call again . I almost ran mad

She has promised and vouched that she won’t try such again and doesn’t know what came over her her .

I have tried everything possible to forgive her since no one treats me the way she does , but I keep loosing weight and falling sick by day .

I’m currently depressed and don’t know what to do again

Her mom is against you.

She is caught between respect for her mom and love/admiration for you.

The person with more influence wins


But I have learnt something in life. Don't let anything or anyone steal your joy.

Plus no one is irreplaceable

yrhuhfy113:
they are all related. I am a programmer. I manage programming communities as my remote job and I develop software solutions i coded myself.

Can we link up on another platform

yrhuhfy113:
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SOFTWARE DEVELOPMENT
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IMPORTER AND EXPORTER




currently learning AUTOCAD AND SQL

Which is your strength

deepdeep:
Paternity fraud should have dire legal consequences

Yes.

It should be punishable by law.

Cos it affects both the child and father

Esortigress:
Hakimi is just a mummy's puppet every woman should avoid, this doesn't mean I support the wife but what sense does it make for a grown man with kids to have all his wealth in his mother's name? Mary these type of men at your own peril.

Easy to talk.

Understand the culture of the people before you conclude.

When they won Portugal in the WC. The Moroccan players snapped with their mothers, not wife or babes.

Also, when they went to see the king after WC. They went with their mothers not wives.

Says a lot about the role mother's play in the lives of their sons.

Jakumo:
Actress and bikini marketer Liz Hurley is 57 years old this year. There is NO excuse to get fat and unattractive at any age below 70

Genetics oh

Pussykills:
I have come to the conclusion that I'm addicted to prostitutes. It started in 2010 when I first slept with a hooker. Its 13yrs now and I still patronise prostitutes. I slept with 155 of them, 55 were without protection.

The problem right now is that I don't have that much feelings for the new girl I'm dating. Since she's been in my life I have been able to stop but I noticed my soul still longs to experience that feeling of getting high and banging a hoxx.

In fact, I'm thinking if ending this relationship should be my next line of action.

This is not the first time, my past relationships ended because the feelings weren't there.

What would you suggest? Does sleeping with many partners make one loose the feeling of love? I don't get it, I can't even love, it's not just there.

You need psychological and spiritual help.

Plus you need determination.

This lifestyle only ends bad.

So stop.

Ban tiktok ASAP

Samantha124:
Umhlanga.

That's a Porsche area

Samantha124:
Much better.. I thought you would get it wrong so I can laugh some more..🤭🤭🤭

I'm from Limpopo, but I am currently based in KZN.

Oh

I am Very familiar with South Africa.

Where in KZN are you based

Samantha124:
What's natal?🤣🤣🤣

Kwa Zulu natal

Moh247:




The Monkey version of Saka is still cute and better than the pig looking pink skinned racist redneck


.

No need to compare abeg

Samantha124:
South Africa.

Okay

What tribe are you?

Are you from natal?

Samantha124:
In my culture it's the woman's family that will pay for the food and the drinks during an introduction.

Same thing applies during the bride price negotiations and the wedding.. Because we do two weddings where I'm from.. one on Saturday which will happen at the bride's parents' place and the other on Sunday which will happen at the groom's parents' house.

Each families pay for their own food and drinks.

Where is that please

TemplarLandry:
Like Morayo of TVC, or Toolz thick.

That really think.

I know someone like that though

TemplarLandry:
True, different strokes for different folks.
As for me, I like my woman naturally thick with a little tummy pouch.

How thick?

I can be cupid for you?

JASONjnr:
If she open for you, you go chop ba?


You can hate her personally but she's cute and sexy!

The curves no align.

Not sexy

crows2ravens:
Do you identify with any religion?
I asked because most will answer you based on their religious perspective, and so will I too.
I've done research on these things, and I can't deny their existence. But in Christianity there is no adequate literature to support or deny them. But personally, anything I don't fully understand, I don't know the benefits, and I know the Holy Spirit of God would not help me through, I don't do. The questions you might start asking is, of what benefit would astral travel be to you? What are the risks? Will it be worth it? My own answer is, it doesn't worth it. When we all die, we will know these things. Why the rush?

In my research I realised some practices like these open up your chakras (gateway to your consciousness, like communication ports in computing), and might affect your perceptions of reality, or even expose you to dangerous energy beams and fields, or targeted "hacking" - just like computer hackers, people who want to exploit your being, essence and consciousness for their own projects. Or worse, they drop a virus - a demonic possession, which is out of your control. These are reasons why some say one can run mad, it's because of such risky exposures.

Can you say Astral projection in Christianity is possible and happens. Some Christians (prayer warriors) usually Claim that during their prayer, they transport to a certain location and fight battles there by destroying or setting a captive free in the spirit realm.

Can that be astral projection.

BloomingDale:
They don’t have laws like that here in Africa. You guys should take your fight to the Oyinbo women, and leave Nigerian women out of it.

The map as your DP is outdated.

CodeTemplar:
Yet his people are running from his war. Did you use your brain as collateral when joining BMC?

Sorry,

I didn't mean Putin. The other Vlad

Creamypie:
Tyrant Vlad.

Vlad wasn't a tyrant to his people. He was a terror to his enemies and was good to his people.