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Wo ore wa, eran to o danikan pa, iwo nikan lo maa da jee.Alakori Okunrin!

Hey dopehead, were we there when you were doing the "panashuku"?Abi you no know say if you feed chicken well well, e go lay eggs?

That's one of the dangers of internet dating and long distance relationships.Falling into the wrong hands.

You never know.Might be one of them homies in the hood.

@Igwe, we're talking of someone beating a lady "black n blue" here.They're not even married and even if they are, no reason to do such a thing.I understand that some ladies can be pain in the ass and some men got short circuit tolerance for some habits in some women but then what's bad has got no other name men!

@Igwe, whatever skin the woman is made up of, it still doesn't speak well of a man beating his wife, fiancee or girlfriend.There other ways to handle a troublesome woman.However, remember the poster's talking 'bout a guy she's yet to marry and moreso they're not in the same location.You can stay away from the home or refuse to see her or pick her calls and what not.If you really got the fight in you, I suggest you pay a visit to Oshodi or Ajegungle and rock the boat of the jungle junks!

@Toyinrayo, sure you never mistake one of them who's ugly on the inside and outside!

@Toyinrayo, another one who's allergic to the truth!

In a relationship you need two things: trust and communication.
If you have neither, then you don't have a relationship. You
have a project that just creates unnecessary stress. A relationship is like a rose. How long it lasts, no one knows. Love can erase an awful past. To feel that love it makes you sigh. To have it leave, you'd rather die. You hope you've found that special rose, because you love and care for the one you chose.Let's change the way we treat each other in love especially in this "untoward" generation!

@Igwe, beating your partner is an unacceptable and buttfucking way to be a man in a relationship.No excusing away the action of this shit ass of a guy.Some things never change in a man!

Playboys and playgirls would always give excuses for their lifestyle.No use talking to him 'bout it.Certainly he'll give you a thousand and one reasons why you should believe his lies.

@sisterwoman, no player owns up to cheating, okay?

@Polina, you're feeling crazy 'bout the whole thing cause you're not true to yourself and are allergic to the truth.What has obtaining a visa got to do with you being killed slowly but surely?Oh I see, you wanna get a visa to go to your death?

Where's your so-called to be married bloke based?Sure not in the US or UK cause he would be sleeping in jail by now.No man or woman has the right to raise their hands on another.If a relationship isn't working or you suspect foul play, all you can do within reason is to back off.With homo sapien, a fool at forty is a fool forever but not with God.I've heard of women in their forties and fifties getting happily married so drop the idea of your "ideal" age of getting married.To be honest with you, call off the relationship cause if he beat you black n blue for whatever reason, he's gonna beat you yellow and red again and again.Sure you don't wanna live with that for the rest of your life.As to family and friends, the're not gonna be there when he gives you a black eye after marriage or kill you by mistake so wake up from your slumber and take the bull by the horn.By that I mean call it quits with him!

He's got money but no scruples, not sensitive to how you feel and what brings the best outta you.He's loving, caring and understanding.Doesn't care about your heart as long as he meets your physical needs and buys you all you desire.He goes all out to make you happy and fulfilled eventhough he's doing it when it's not convenient.Sounds like the story of the rich man bringing out out his abundance of wealth and the poor man given all he has.Wouldya rather have bad times with a player or good times with the one who truly loves you?

I figure they get stuffed up with regular sex and now that there's no need of condoms and withdrawal methods, the male sperm over-nourishes them.

Lovers opt for a break up in their relationship for different reasons, albeit flimsy or crucial.What would your partner do to get the "red card"?

How risky and tricky is internet romance?What's been your experience with respect to the subject matter?

It's about giving not taking.That's genuine relationship.Should anyone go into a relationship when they got nothing to offer, whether male or female?

You may be too young to recognize true love, but be sure when a lady truly loves you, she loves you with everything she is and all she's got.Categorically, I'll tell you that you're not under any spell.Afterall, she's not after your money or anything you got like other ladies out there.My advice, treat her like the queen she's proved herself to be and help her to be the best woman she could ever have been.

What do you do if the foregoing describes your partner's disposition to your relationship?

When you pick their calls and say it's your family, when you go out and refuse to come back when you said you would, when you make promises you never intended to keep, when you say you love me but it's not for who I am but for what I've got, I ain't mad at ya!

Why do lovers get angry when their partners don't believe their lies?

@iice, you're entitled to your opinion just as everyone else is.If you forget so easily, then maybe you never truly loved in the first place!Depends on what your conception of love is.

Many choose a spouse the way they would a garment; if it looks good and fits, then it’s perfect. I appreciate all that you have, no matter how small. For there will always be someone who dreams of what you have.True love is one that isn't built on lies.An old lover is better than two new ones, cause they've not been tested and trusted.Don't walk in front of me, I will not follow, don't walk behind me, I will not lead, please walk beside me and just be true to me.It takes 1 minute to meet a new friend, 1 hour to admire and respect them, 1 day to love them, but an entire lifetime to forget them!Abuse is present when the abuser undermines the victim´s sense of self-worth by criticing, name calling, the silent treatment, belittling, and making and breaking promises. If these actions in any way describe your relationship, you need to take a time-out and re-evaluate the relationship.You should never love someone because you need them; you should need them because you love them.Has love been good to you?

Why do Nigerians in the homeland think their folks abroad owe them the duty to send money to them barring all circumstances and not minding other commitments of friends and relatives overseas?

@Martho, Money ain't the root of all evil but the love of it.That is, wanting no matter the cost or damage it'll do to others.

Different strokes with different folks!

Another soul saved from the shackles of heartbreak.To God be the glory!

Well, Sango and Ogun once lived but they're stone cold dead now.Better listen to reason!

I quite understand but that's the only way to unlock your mind to be able to reach out again.Don't let any man cage you in.

Must you keep waking up on the wrong side of the bed every morning?Such prayers are never answered, okay?Learn to forgive and let go of your pent up emotions.