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It's getting harder by the day being a Buhari supporter, they nearly gave me mob beating yesterday for defending President Buharis economic policies...... The guy that was buying me beer and peppersoup stopped

I was believing until the "celibate for life" part.... One thing I have noticed is that the most women go for "my type" instead of men that truly love them and I feel this is one of the major reasons for high rate of divorce......

See country Defence budgets yet we complain of world hunger...

This is how ladies end up as spinsters in their old age.........

Kai!! My week is ruined! Who send me to open

What is Kafayatu wearing nitori Olorun??

The level Wickedness some humans exhibit shocks even the devil.....

He wan kill them with Carbs? No protein??!

Kneel!!!! I hereby knight you Sir Wanksalot of Masturbadia!!! First of his name.....

Hahahhahah!!! See how pastor fresh!!! But people are dumb sha, if I was a practising Christian I cannot belong to any church that the pastor is unemployed and living celebrity lifestyle, you are a pastor not a Drug dealer..

iHart:
What if after all these and you still find yourself in hell? I once had a friend who believed so much in this sex chastity, but she finish school riding on the back exam malpractice. I have an aunt who owns a church and a school. In her church, she is a powerful woman of God, in her school you don't need to "know book" to clear your waec. One of my colleagues during my MSc day is a catholic who runs a prayer ministry, but a simple discussion with her shows that she can go any length to manipulate her thesis to pass her research which she finally did. What's my point? People make it seem as though virginity and chastity shows you are righteous. But the truth is that being righteous goes beyond sex and virginity.

You may want to read:
Matthew 21:31


31 Which of the two did the will of his father?” They said, “The first.” Jesus said to them, “Truly, I say to you, the tax collectors and prostitutes go into the kingdom of God before you

May wisdom not depart from you! Every man alive commits one sin or the other, I hate seeing people form "over righteous", even the bible says in Romans 3:23 "For all have sinned and come short of the glory of God"

So you are saying because you did not "do pishaun pishaun" that is why you are "successful" Black man sha

"FORFEIT" A government official steals billions and he/she "forfeits" a portion and continues to enjoy the rest.....

Sai Baba!!! OUCHHH!!! WHO STONE ME KEKE ENGINE?

My biggest hit ever was in secondary school, I had a friend whose older brother had a printing press so I used to edit any news letter from school that had anything to do with payment, one time we were asked to pay one huge sum so I edited my letter and added 2k extra, I sold the idea to other schoolmates and had so many customers, I charged 100 naira per copy and made so much money but unfortunately nah "social worker" collect all the money las las(first time), story for another day.......

ISWAP" sounds like a Player term on xvideos......

What of feeding and drinks?

QuintessentialW:
I won't lie. I almost regret finding out. Ignorance really is bliss. But looking at the bigger picture, it's a good thing I know. I would have been marrying a rake.

I won't dare touch my hubby's phone when I get married. So much headaches already.

You women need to accept the fact that Love is not a package deal that comes with 'Loyalty' and 'faithfulness'

@ "Advice to marry"

QuintessentialW:
At what point should love stop to matter?

Sometime ago, I created a thread about how to go about my marriage prep... to have my dad receive my bride price or not?

That was because there was a man in the picture and we were soon to start effecting marriage plans.

But, I don't know. Everything's gone awry! I found out he had been cheating. I can't even describe to what extent. It's so debasing! Three-somes and all what not! My heart broke!

Looking at him outwardly, you'll never imagine him capable of such extremes...he's as calm as a dove... totally sweet, innocent-looking, caring. But the things I read in that phone! My heart bleeds. Yes, I went snooping, that's how I found out. At the end of the day, looking through your partner's phone without their knowledge, is quite expedient... not right, yes, but expedient. I would never have imagined him capable of all those things I read about.

The other day, we went to a friend's party and there was some girl who was dancing all over him. Turned out he secretly asked his friend to help him get her number... right under my nostrils. The disrespect!
I confronted him about everything and he owned up... pleaded with me not to tell the friends and family. I broke up with him.

Thing is, he's been apologising endlessly... and making serious promises to change. My better judgement says I must let him go... everytime I contemplate what he did, I just want to cry... the disregard... the shamefulness of his actions.

But I love him still...I don't even know if the way I love him is normal anymore. I'm looking for excuses to forgive him... to get back to how we used to be before all of these happened. But I keep having the nagging thought that he can't change, and if I forgive and take him back, he'll do it again in future... do even worse when we get married. And he's always going to expect that I'll forgive him.

Note that this isn't the first time he's cheating. The first time it happened, our relationship wasn't quite serious then, so I let it go. The second time he cheated, he had a very believable lie... and I bought it.

He's been calling and apologising endlessly. Sending me mails (blocked him on Whatsapp, couldn't block him on my other phone). My head says to break up for good... my heart wants him back and believe he'd never do it again. The thought of starting all over again... of bonding and loving someone else... I don't love easily... and this is one person who's made me happy for soo long... the man I was ready to spend the rest of my life with.

The devil you know....... I dont know why you women like to complicate issues, you had the man of your dreams and everything was going fine but you had to go and be Sherlock Holmes.......

Daddy Oyoyo!!! Daddy Oyoyo!!!

Hmmm!!! This one is strong!!! You will need to purchase certain items for my to clean my spiritual lens and look into it well......

Incoming President......

"The Governor promised he will do everything possible to ease the business environment for investors so they can invest more." Stop it sir

See how them pose like who come Big brother Audition......

Haaaaaaaaa!!!! 158kg!!! Kiloooddeee!!! Even Mr President cannot make call to influence 150kg......

Even POWs in Guantanamo are not treated like this!!!