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Romance / Re: Nairalanders Help by softcara: 8:20am On Apr 19, 2016
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Romance / Re: Nairalanders Help by softcara: 6:48am On Apr 19, 2016
MRBrownJ:


how can people contact her and confirm the story, if the email given is yours?!


She doesn't have an online contact....reach me me her number...get intouch with me a I will give u her phone number. Good morning
Romance / Re: Nairalanders Help by softcara: 9:16pm On Apr 18, 2016
tee59:
There is more to ds issue on ground. How are u sure d father is d real biological father of d girl? Did d father treated d other siblings ds way? Evn d mother couldt do anything. Dis tin is common among d igbos. Cus dey belv, d female children hav no inheritance in d family, dat s y they prefer male children. Why wil parents nt want to see thei kids again?

My dear the tin tired me.... he doesn't treat her siblings dis bad.....although he was hard on dem. But not as my frnd, my frnds situatn is too bad...like like morning.. jst woke up at hit her her stick on her head for no reason,ask her to leave before he kills her
Romance / Re: Nairalanders Help by softcara: 7:49pm On Apr 18, 2016
Sunkyphil:
there must b something behind it because her parents can't just abandon her like dat

U think so?....pls read the post again
Romance / Re: Nairalanders Help by softcara: 7:48pm On Apr 18, 2016
Sunkyphil:
there must b something behind it because her parents can't just abandon her like dat

U think so?
Romance / Re: Nairalanders Help by softcara: 7:46pm On Apr 18, 2016
smileysmiley:
Op your story get k leg... Why can't you accommodate her? What about extended families of the girl in question? Her papa no get family? Her mama nko?


Abt accommodate her....am still under my parent....if I cn this post won't exist in first place.. Her extended family have never met any. The little I know are all in the village. Her mum cnt do anythng to help. She has under her husband
Romance / Re: Nairalanders Help by softcara: 7:42pm On Apr 18, 2016
layla129:


The Op can't answer you the way her friend will. So, i feel you should contact the Op to get to her if you want to help.
Plus, they are young. Probably they want an area they are familiar with...but in this case, their choice doesn't matter. They have to make the available desirable

God bless u...I dont even know Wat to say again....i feel dey cn contact the lady and ask all dis questns cos I don't knw wat else to type..honestly....am jst trying to help so she doesn't end up in d street again. Pple who contact could tell the weight of wat is go on....i cant ans all nairalands questns....

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Romance / Re: Nairalanders Help by softcara: 3:58pm On Apr 18, 2016
ClassCaptain:
1) are the parent christian or musloms ? Has any plan been made to contact their church or mosque concerning the matter and to raise help for the girl

2) is the girl schooling ,,,,

3) are the two older siblings aware of this situation. If yes, are they working and how av they been able to intervene in the issue...

1)Christians....not church fanatics...

2)no done with secondary school

3)ye but dey cn help, dey are also hustling for demselves...Its a "to each his own" tin
Romance / Re: Nairalanders Help by softcara: 3:55pm On Apr 18, 2016
MRBrownJ:


so the father wants her out, the mother too... and even her own 2 sisters dont want to help her with a place to stay?!

these are the people that should be met before taking on this gal, so that all the facts are on the table.

The dad is frustrating her, her mum wants her to get a place to stay...her sisters are also squating with other pple...everybody sort themselves out. Do u understand
Romance / Re: Nairalanders Help by softcara: 1:40pm On Apr 18, 2016
Lalasticlala can u help.... cry
Romance / Re: Nairalanders Help by softcara: 1:22pm On Apr 18, 2016
Nairaland abeg mk una help me put mouth nah
Romance / Re: Nairalanders Help by softcara: 1:22pm On Apr 18, 2016
Nairaland abeg mk una , me put mouth nah
Romance / Re: Nairalanders Help by softcara: 1:17pm On Apr 18, 2016
donbenedict:
I don't think this mail is functioning. Pm me

Sooorry...its ladycara24@yahoo.com...pm u already
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Female Admin Assistant Need Urgently by softcara: 1:12pm On Apr 18, 2016
How true is dis?
Romance / Re: Nairalanders Help by softcara: 12:59pm On Apr 18, 2016
donbenedict:
Eya. Please concerned Nigerians, kindly assist the op if you'v got a spare room for her friend. cool

Do u think lalasticlala will want to move this fp?
Romance / Re: Nairalanders Help by softcara: 12:55pm On Apr 18, 2016
donbenedict:
so why didn't he send both girls away! why her?? I'm still not getting things clearly.. and why would a mother accept to send her child who she took a lot of pains to carry for nine months??


These are the questions people will ask and unless you convince them, I don't think anyone will help.

The other 2 are grown ups and hav left to sort out tinz for demselves....she is 20...years still young....her mum cnt do anythng....she cnt leave her husband and she advise she lives because it's killing the lady...she has attempted poison on several occassions....I would have love her to explain in details...but her fone cnt browse...but from all I know since we were young...dis girl has been suffering....u could meet her physically and see tinz yesterday
Romance / Re: Nairalanders Help by softcara: 12:39pm On Apr 18, 2016
My email ladycara24@yahoomail.com
Romance / Re: Nairalanders Help by softcara: 12:37pm On Apr 18, 2016
Nairalanders plssssss cry
Romance / Re: Nairalanders Help by softcara: 12:36pm On Apr 18, 2016
donbenedict:
But I still don't get it? Why will both parents wish to send their only daughter away from home? There is more to this that u ain't telling u op..

She's not the only child, dey already had 2 girls @ her birth d expected a boy...he did everythn but she came out as a girl....since den d anger has existed
Romance / Nairalanders Help by softcara: 12:14pm On Apr 18, 2016
Hi nairalanders,

Please my friend is in a serious mess right now, a 20 year girl needs help and is so frustrated that she feels like dying....recently her dad has throw her out of the of house, this problem has been going on since we were kids till the frustration led her to run away from home. Now she's back home and still dey keep frustrating her life. since childhood till now....marks on her skin cn testify the level of maltreatment...the dad is frustrated because he wanted to have a male child but instead gav birth to my frnd and since birth she has been going through series of pain...her mum tho not in support of this have asked her to live the house before the aggression takes her to her grave, she have adviced her to sort for where to stay....nairaland pls....any lady staying in surulere or its environ that can accommodate this gurl jst for a few time till she can gather up an tak care of her accommodatn, pls I beg in goes name, I don't want her wandering abt the street the second time....i have some cash abt 20k and dat is because I am selling my fone to get this 20k for her if she needs to pay dis money for the period of time for her so u cn assist her please...she needs a jobs and a place to sleep....i beg u guys....i dont want dis gurl on the street again before she join sex workers and jeopardize her life completely...please...any evidence needed I will provide...if u need to see the mum...or sth...jst how u cn help...tank u God bless....
Family / Re: I Have A Problem Pls Advice by softcara: 8:31am On Jan 25, 2016
zeb04:
I can't talk much literally it hurts my throat and when I do it is really low. I don't know how to respond in a conversation sometimes so I just stare or I say pls give me few minutes and escape

darling I used to think being reserved, clumsy,sometimes shy,imperfect was an affliction I had to live with all my life but now I am really cool, so much cool with it. and it is bringing in the money so.............

there will never be another, shy,clumsy,sweet girl like you to walk this earth so better be the best you can be (and if you think there is something you really have to change about you then do it .

nobody is perfect and have it all together. there's always something about everyone they are not fully comfortable with either attitude,physical structure or whatever but we learn to deal with it and move on.


so sweet thnx

Family / Re: I Have A Problem Pls Advice by softcara: 8:30am On Jan 25, 2016
louisa4luv:
Pls. kindly explain your childhood problems

am sooorry i can bring that to a public forum
Family / Re: I Have A Problem Pls Advice by softcara: 7:25pm On Jan 23, 2016
yvelchstores:
Every one Is telling u, build on ur confidence without really showing how. Op just locate a Christ embassy church, I guarantee u, if u still feel same way after a couple of weeks, u are free to leave. Hear me pls.

that i know christ embassy builds confidence have seen not hear but my christian faith wont et me leave my church for christ embassy
Family / Re: . by softcara: 7:22pm On Jan 23, 2016
RiloKiley:

Do not reserve to yourself.
If you have something to unburden then an anonymous forum like nairaland is the best place to do it.
I wasn't trying to discourage u. On the contrary I understood how u felt. I just thought that the literature section would be a better place to appreciate and cultivate your budding talent.

God bless u sir
Family / Re: . by softcara: 3:48pm On Jan 23, 2016
RiloKiley:
@softcara
So what would u like us to do?
If u want to tell stories you can go to the literature section. They have good storytellers there and also people that will even review your work and make it better.
Goodluck

I wasn't telling stories I was abt proving a point before the guy who posted above made me reserve to my myself....nobody said literature section is the only place for stories sir..thnx
Family / Re: . by softcara: 12:58pm On Jan 23, 2016
Cutehector:
chei no be Nigerian film again.. see dis op ooo grin.
No wahala, continue. Wen d story don end, mention me cheesy

believe
Family / Re: . by softcara: 12:44pm On Jan 23, 2016
Cutehector:
Na so, I don knw d ending of d story. No need to tell us again..

He slept wit her and got her pregnant. Fullstop!


Nigeria n's. .... so where does the covenant comes in. Wat apned to her since u know the end from the beginning. Please tell me what covenant she took and how it affected her life
Family / Re: . by softcara: 12:35pm On Jan 23, 2016
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Family / . by softcara: 12:34pm On Jan 23, 2016
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Religion / Re: Burning Passion Pls Read by softcara: 12:33pm On Jan 23, 2016
lemme stop there before i end up typing all the stories.

now my problems in this, i have issues working for people, most time i put my effort @ times but i dont seem to do it well, u will understand better in my other thread. i dont like working but i hav to, i love to sit think about my stories if possible write them, each time i get an inspiration from God and a story comes with it, it automatically becomes a burden to me. it feels like am carrying a heaven load on my heart. most times am reckless and am not fulfilled
Religion / Re: Burning Passion Pls Read by softcara: 12:25pm On Jan 23, 2016
Juliet and wale become close friend, while wale meant the friendship to be very platonic, juliet wanted something more and so she forced herself into wale,wale liked juliet but never really loved her and since juliet was bad looking herself wale took of her feelings for him and dated her and in no time he started sleeping with juliet.

The day he dis virgin juliet,the very moment wale thrust into juliets womanliness she made a vow that she will never love any other man aside wale and she will never live wale. to her dying day she will forever and ever love and never live wale. with this wale thrust further and broke her virginity of which she bled upon her words both never took her words to be serious, wale thought she said her words because she was high in sexual fantasies, so that was how they had sex and forgot juliet ever unconvenant made a onvenant upon her own blood
Religion / Re: Burning Passion Pls Read by softcara: 12:17pm On Jan 23, 2016
Wale is a very intelligent guy born from a wealthy home too. Wale is a very cute guy and intelligent one, he just got a new friend juliet and finds her intriguing, she was adventurous and eager to learn and so he liked her spirit. @least e never had any affections for her which is why he never asked her number the two occasions they met and when he did the first time he never called until juliet did.

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