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Cujo007:
I believe many dogs would take a bullet for their owners irrespective of the breed. It's about the love and bond. It's not like they go up and stand waiting for the bullet. But more like they are generally indifferent to what the assailant is holding and know only that their best friend and family is in trouble and needs their help. I had a bull mastiff that I loved so much. It loved me even more. When some security operatives came to my neighbours house on routine patrol, they had guns, when I asked who they were and got no reply, my lovely furry friend must have picked up on my unease and shot out from my side and went on the attack! It pulled one of the operatives down like he was nothing and didn't care about the gun. He only wanted to protect me.

Sorry your believe is wrong it's not about just how the love their owner and stuff but the character that's in them, some are fighters, some are strong and some are not strong and are not built for attacking people. They easily scared ones will run when their owner is being attacked. I'm talking from a personal research when I wanted to buy a dog. in all a PITBULL will never run from anyone, it's a warrior, a fighter, strong and ready to fight to death or shot to death for their owner. Research about the dog, it's LOYALTY, STRENGTH is second to none.

the only dog I'm sure will take a bullet for the owner is a pitbull, I love that dog and if not for the responsibilities and how dangerous it is and it's strength that kinda scares me a bit. it can maul someone I know, j feel that way. I live that breed.

jondon11:
So I met my girl about a year ago during the start of the lockdown. We bonded real quick...she's easy-going, sorta smart, mad sexy and funny. Two months after we started dating, she moved in with me and began shuttling between my place and her sister's.

I work from home and my place is structured such that there's not much to do to maintain it. Although I work from home, I go out now and again for business and during my time out I run most of the errands...my girl ensures that it's only when I'm going out that she gets whatever she needs, from the market or errands around the area mainly cause she's often in a pant and bra watching a movie or just being lazy. She's a good cook but a lot of times I found chow coming late or not at all, and there was always raw food to prepare...sometimes her excuse for not cooking could be she couldn't get one ingredient or the other either because she didn't have cash on her or some other reason...there's mobile money just outside our gate and if she doesn't have the money she can call me to make a transfer but the main issue was laziness. I swept and mopped like 80% of the time, ran errands like 100%, cooked like 20% or the time (starved like 20% or sorted myself out someway), she did dishes 80% of the time and I brought like 100% of the money we lived on.

She is doing her MSc and our relationship started during the lockdown so she wasn't going to school. She was job searching (more like job waiting) so this gave her a lot of idle time which she spent watching Zee World or being on social media. I soon found a way to engage her in the job I do from home, and with the money she had saved in the bank (over 400K), she started work with me. I purchased a laptop for her for this purpose and so she could develop herself in other areas via online courses but she didn't do much work...working like two hours daily, very late at night...I sometimes complained but tried encouraging her as much as possible, especially when she made some success.

I'm sure you'd ask why I stayed in the relationship despite all of this? I was pussy whipped, had no other options given the nature of my work, saw some potential in her ( I know, a stupid thing to say) and thought I was in love (I'm 29 and shouldn't have been that stupid).

Fast forward to December last year, we discovered she was pregnant, a month pregnant. Told her we should keep the child and get married...she suggested we could abort since we weren't quite ready but I said what was a couple more months gonna make a difference?

Since then till now, we've been quarrelling non-stop, one issue after another of which it's mainly me raising the issues. Maybe it's the tension that comes from knowing I might be starting a family with so many unresolved issues. I've raised my concerns and told her she'd need to be more responsible in the relationship if things will work and even though she tells me she knows, I know deep down she doesn't mean it or might not be up to the task of being a married adult. From some of our talk she expects I'd take care of all the financial responsibilities and have suggested a couple of times we get help for chores (we've moved to a bigger space now) but I told her in clear terms that that's not how I imagined my life...having help for chores and the likes, besides, it's just a two-bedroom flat.

I've purchased some of the things we'd be needing for our wedding and we're supposed to do an introduction this coming week but I'm having cold feet and just want to call it off.

I'm bringing this here to know how I can manage this situation...I can be lazy but I'm a really ambitious person so this pushes me but my girl is not just lazy, but unambitious. How do I manage the situation...there's a child involved now and will need to consider the child but at the same time, I can't take on this much stress nor have my ambitions cut short because my partner is lazy.

What can I do??

DON'T MARRY HER, SLOWLY DISCHARGE THE MARRIAGE PAROLE BRO TO SAVE YOUR LIFE...
Clearly you don't love her, her character irritates you and she's not going to change this is who she is... she's the lazy type, I despise telemundo watching motherfuckers that don't have schedule for watching it. that station sucks away all the sense left in girls that live it.
Pregnancy is no more a new thing babaymama full everywhere, don't marry her. take care of your baby and her for the time being. if you cut her off for her upkeeps right now she might start thinking on how to get to you, women are very cunning and manipulative so you have to be very smart here.
Don't mention cutting off the marriage unless she changes, rather make it seem like you don't have money to marry for now and postpone matters from now till she now use her hand to spoil matters finish like chatting other guys or any form of cheating after giving birth to ur child. Don't be emotional about this, if she gets a clue about your plans she will start acting like most girls do. she will be the perfect wife all of a sudden do everything right and more just to get the ring, she's showing u her real character because she believes she already GOT YOU.

Marriage is something very serious bro and one needs a partner that is up and doing, not some freeloader.. Your happiness is Paramount and apparently you're not happy being with her. imagine when her body starts sagging and she looks older.... Having a child with the wrong lady is a life time torment on its own.. Brothers be careful where you spread your seeds.

Enoch07:
personally i think any man (that is not a law enforcement agent like the police and military personnel etc) using gun to Rob and terrorize innocent people deserve to die including Fulani herdsmen, kidnappers, bandits etc. no be only una the country hard for

So the police men that Rob's and terrorize Nigerian citizens everyday don't deserve to die? to me they are in the same category with these criminals.

duru9 here my WhatsApp number

0912-seven 9 8-eight71 four

I want to buy a Toyota Corolla 2003-2008 naija used one. if you got one you want to sell and you're in Abuja, quote me pls...
If it's Corolla Sport, better.

SenecaTheYonger:
No matter what, you should never lay your hands on a woman.

why do I feel like stumping you into coma......
I don't believe in that trash of never laying hands on a woman.. I'll never Kay hand on kids I love kids a lot but a grown female that acts like a bitchh before you say jack I'm all up inside her head faster than speed of light.
Girls observe u and from there they know how to treat you. if they perceive u as a weakling they will treat u as one I swear on everything I love if this said girl is my girlfriend this is the last thing she will think of. I hate violence because I overdo when I lose my cool that's why I warm whoever is about to make me lose my cool be u a guy or a girl. if u act like a lady and talk I'll listen n respect u and do whatever to make it up to u but if u want to act like a mad bitchh I'll show u what true madness with no brake really is to the point you'll never treat another guy that way.
all my life no woman has ever raised hand to slap me let alone destroy my property, you no like ur life abi ur hands m, legs or what? to risk touching my property be u guy or girl ? mtcheeew

y'all killed a man for stealing goat yet your governor, senators that steal ur destinies, good life, security and all are still alive??!!!! what are type of nation is this..

Should we tell him? ;DShould we tell him?

TrollKiller:
how many times will we tell men

Women don't love you for who you are. Stop deceiving yourselves.

a woman loves the lifestyle and benefits you give to her, she will never love you as a person (except mothers)

Maami Igbagbo saw tblack as a, to put it simply, a means to an end.
she used him to upgrade her sexual work from local to posh. she used him to get connection and them jumped ship when he wasn't needed anymore. use and dump at its finest.

its called monkey branching. shes a monkey who jumped to the next branch when the former one was beginning to crack.

SEX is a weapon and women have used it to its fullest. Control your urge and nobody will control you. infact they will be scared of you since you don't conform to their music. Society will hate you for standing you ground!

tblack was too busy fvcking 3 girls everyday to notice this. Shows you what is going on in the mind of a woman. She will fvck you but most of the time, the thing she is collecting from you without you knowing, will be 100x more valuable than the sex you adore. its not necessarily money, don't be narrow minded.

No matter how you deal with women, YOU CANT WIN. its their game since birth, and they have rigged it (alimony, child support etc)

then what is the solution??

DONT PLAY THE GAME!!!

Forget what society tells you, you don't need a women to be happy!
that special one doesn't exist! she's a unicorn, a mythical creature!

MGTOW is the answer!

#MGTOW
#GoYourOwnWay

PREACH!!! Just like the Kim Kadashiwhatever family. when will men learn?!?!!!

Supreme01:
Hello Good people,
Please help me out of depression right now.

Earlier these month, great opportunity showed up, I was to assembly foreign equipment for one big politician in my state. The architect that got the contract contacted me as an engineer, we went to the site, take the measurement, ready to kick start the work. We've negotiated the price, you know Nigerians most demand for cut, which we agreed certain percentage.

4 days to the date set for the money to be transferred, she stop picking my calls, stop answering my chat on whatsapp.

Before then she'll be calling to ask if I'll be able to fix the equipments, she'll ask me questions like; how are you going to do it, what an what will you need, how many workers will work with you etc.

The guy that connected me with her happens to be a friend. I was updating this guy on every progress. At a point this woman start passing information through this guy to me. I was wandering, why can't she call me direct.

To cut the whole story, The woman went an gather some people including the guy to do the work, after all my efforts.

Ever since I finished my training 3yrs ago, have not gotten some thing to do an this job will have being good break through for me to get my own place. My rent's about to expire, difficult to feed etc.

I've never cry my entire life like this, for the past 5days I've being indoors because no job.

I'm really depressed. I've tried every thing to get it off my mind but no way. Never had this experience.
Please pray for me.
mode please help move to front package for me.

Never share the process of your work with a client, just tell the person your bill and the end product of what they want will be like and that's it, never expose ur skills or processes of it or where to buy the materials and other stuff. you were too excited and trying to proof to the bitch that you know ur job and she juiced you up. Learn and move bro don't cry over spilled milk, move on and cut off that pig u call ur friend bc he's not... mind ppl u keep around and always watch them. Better ones de for future now get up, dust off and double ur hustle like mad ok.. wish u well bro

Romanoff:
The attire is tacky and without any form of class. Don't get me started on the shoe/sneakers/trainers/canvass wey she wear.

Even if na market you come sell, you at least, package.

She will look classy if she wanted to, she's trying to sell some pusssyy and make money. what is you ppls problem, she's dressed for the business. when u see olosho Dem Dem de cover body ? make una leave her jooor, na their Toto all these actresses use de make money

Afam4eva:
Has it been converted to an estate already? Was supposed to be a hotel. Stayed there a few day ago and it was nice but super expensive. Thank God I wasn't the one paying

Bro pray that you will be the one paying for expensive things because na who get de pay who no get no fit pay. pray make ur money heavy soteee to pay for there go be like chicken change... then u thank God say u fit pay for things bro

Temidayo112:
Neatly Naija used toyota corolla '07 available bfor sale.
First body, good sounds engine and gear, AC chilling.
Price: 1.550M
Location: Ogba ifako.
Contact: 07032630747

1.2M

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