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ify01:
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I'll check it. Are u using it currently?

fman:
No. am into qserver for 4years now

How's qservers?

fman:
yes.
i have used them before.
just that their price for .com
is expensive as to compare to
qservers.net
but all the same, they are good

Are you still hosting with them?

Xedmark:
I've hosted before with them and it ended in tears but they are better than qserver. Go for Namescheap hosting they are perfect.

How? Pls can u explain more? What's the exact problem that make u quit hosting with them? Thank You

Please anyone here using Truehost? I need to know if they're good. I want to start hosting with them.

Please i have question Folks. Is it normal for my penis to shrink to 2.5 - 3inch when flaccid? Thank you.

keeper303:
Please can you post pictures of the 150W fridge or the name?

Heir Thermocool 134

oldienavie:
Thank you for your response.

No problem

oldienavie:
Bros, how much did this cost you ??
And how long does this last and what do you power it with ?
Thanks.

Almost 300k I'm not with the receipt right now, but price of the equipments will differ frm one place to another.
I'm running it 24hrs.
2 30watts fan
1 150 watts fridge running for 5-6hrs a day.
1 computer
The remaining na 5watts led lights × 10
And phones/Tabs. That's all.

Hi. I've been using solar for 9 months now, I'm living in a place in Nigeria were there's no Electricity we usually get 10hr/month and most of the time 0hr/month, though The state govt said they're working on fixing the electricity but uptill know nothing has changed.
I decide to go solar,
i bought 2 100ah battery, 180watts panel × 3, 2000watts solar inverter, 60A charge controller. I called an engineer for installation. Everything is working fine. I just want to hear from someone who has been using solar in Nigeria of his experience. And i also need an advise on upgrading my setup to include pressing iron/electric cooker.

To trust her again na im be the real problem. I hope i get a place in my heart to forgive her

OlawaleBammie:
Lol, the problem is this, even if u forgive her, she wont look appealing to you like before again. Take that from me. But u have to forgive naani

Veiniously:
Please how do you fund it. I have the prepaid naira card that works on almost all web. I rejected the dollar card because of fundings it. But when I am almost to cash out my first money on AdSense I will go and get it.

I didn't fund anything. They created it for me automatically from their Head Office. Let me explain in detail:

I was using my Uba naira account to receive my AdSense payment, then one month after google send the money i received a message from UBA with my new Dom saving account. That's it after a day i received my money in dollars in that account. I went to their Branch for documentation the agent checked my account and tell me that everything is ok with my account that they used my naira account details and bvn to create the Dom account so it's all good. I went to the counter and fill withdrawal slip. I withdrew my cash asap with no wahala. Since then I'm receiving my cash via that account. U can try that i don't know if it'll work. Inset uba naira account in ur AdSense payment method if you can take the chance, then wait and see if they'll create the account for u automatically. Or go to their Branch with your bvn they'll open it for you free of charge. U can check more details online.

wasiubello:
Thanks so much for this, I will visit GTB on Tuesday since Monday is sit-at-home here. And thereafter I will go and close my account and UBA.

I'm using UBA Dom saving account, it's free with no charges at all. U can open with 0.00 all u need is ur bvn.

Edit: I finally got all the proof i need, i confront her she cried hard and begged me to forgive her and keep it secret, i later called the guy he confirmed that she was his ex and they're still in contact before i caught them but he promised never to call her or talk to her in anyway. Now to forgive her na im be the real problem. I don't know if i should let her go. Coz I'm really confused.

Richy4:
Now that you got your facts,
U can divorce her on grounds of infidelity... Just let her go in my opinion... That's what I would do if I was to be in your shoes... because the trust will never be there...

But U can be a better man than me by forgiving and totally forgotten the issues...

But remember how stuffs plays in our subconscious mind ... If she says that she will be home by 4:30pm for example, and she returns by 4:40pm because of traffic congestion... We all knows where your mind would be...

Every call she makes will be scrutinized and it will awoken suspicion..her Buhari body language will be read by you constantly; even if it was a call from her relatives...

I am so Sorry buddy...I swear u deserve a free hug, it's not gonna be easy 'emotional wise'.. just months of marriage...I wish you have more options but unfortunately, u got just two.... Which is Forgive and forget totally and start on a clean slate OR u let her go...

Thank you Sir

Michelle55:
Abi is my eyes paining me? What business do you have with the guy in the first place to drag him to court?
Mr man, the person you have a case with is your wife. If your wife can't respect the vows she took to stay faithful to you is it the said strange guy that would respect you and your marriage?
She is the cheat so take whatever decision you wish to take but spare the guy after all he didn't force your wife to open her legs or to cheat on you the decision to cheat with another man is solely on her.
I'm sure you saw all these red flags during courtship but turned a blind eye hoping she would change in the confinement of marriage, 8months is too soon to start losing interest in each other to the extent of cheating.
Have a heart to heart talk with her and find ways to fix your marriage( that's if you still desire to stay married to her).

Thanks Sir. So there's no law in Nigeria that forbid following somebody's wife? Just asking. I thought there is.

Persephone1:
@Solacemk When I advised against checking through her WhatsApp it was because I knew that would only complicate matters for you. There is an adage that says: "whatever you don't see does not irritate you". You had your suspicions that is enough reason to talk to your wife, digging further will only make matters that can be resolved amicably look grievous and unforgivable. There is something men of nowadays don't learn before getting married, it is maturity.

So what do you do now? Will you ever see your wife the same? Can you forgive her and not have yourself checking through her phone every passing seconds , do you have another opportunity of "catching" her next time since you have impatiently let out your source. Do you start inviting families to settle issues in your 8 month marriage? You want to sue the guy? Are you for real?

I don't have enough proof to confront her and I'm certain without Enough proof she'll deny everything like she used to.

Bro i don't know what to do, i can't even go back to the house. I'm thinking of calling a lawyer but I'm afraid people will know about it.

I'm really confused why will she cheat? I provide everything that she needs, even our sex life is ok according to her, what on earth will make her think of her ex?

Thanks for all your advice, I finally did what someone here advice me not to, I'm sorry Bro i have no any other option.

I checked her Whatsapp chat and to my surprise i saw her chat with the guy with all the photos she sent him, he even asked her to send him her pic naked which she said ok but didn't send according to the chat history, i don't know if she send and delete the chat.

After getting all the facts i called her inside and i asked her who is so so person? She's kinda surprised. Then i told her everything that i saw in her Whatsapp chat. She started crying, kneeling down and begging me to forgive her that it's the work of the devil.

I'm really confused now. I left the house i didn't say anything.

Please is there any chance of me winning a case in the court if i sue the guy? And what's your suggestions regarding the cheater wife? Please i need quick reply. I'm totally out of control. Thank you all

Persephone1:
I wouldn't if I were to be in your shoes, that's invasion and she can hold it against you. Talk to her,gain her trust then you can make her realize how much harm she is doing to her young marriage.

Thanks Man. God Bless

Mkelv0106:
Like I said bro, follow ur gut feeling, its usually right. Your wife receiving calls from male friends and saving their numbers with female names to deceive you, that's a red flag you shouldn't ignore bro. A married woman that respect her husband, will cut off males friends and even females after marriage. You have to handle it now, b4 it gets outta hand. Use ur head, and not ur heart in this situation. All the best

Thanks Bro. I will

Persephone1:
Your wife may not be cheating yet but she's certainly getting attracted to another person. Attraction when not curtailed leads to distraction then to the actual act "cheating" . However your marriage is to young for accusations and infidelity fights, I'd advise you call your wife, seat her down and TALK to her. Make your observations known, beware of any scene she might want to create be firm in your resolve to know what is happening and let her know the dangers that her acts may cause.

Sometimes these women needs to be reminded they are married before they get their realities right.

Thank you for your advice. Is it advisable to go through her Whatsapp and get more proof? I'm afraid to see something that'll break my heart.

Righteousness2:
Just 8 months and you are already suspecting?
Didn't you know the woman you married?
Or has what you read on nairaland taken over your thoughts.

Stop suspecting your wife. If you have reasons to do so, then Boldly thrash it out with her as a family.

Don't let "red pillers " pollute your mind. Or create a war when there is non.

Most Important! As the head of the home, bring your home Genuiely to JESUS and ensure HE reigns in your home. Because it is only in Christ that there can be true peace.

I can't let the suspicious go away. I need to be certain she's not cheating? Why would she Save a male's number with a female name? I'm confused. Thank you

Mkelv0106:
If your gut feeling is telling you there's something wrong, then ur suspicion might probably be true. Question, while you guys were dating b4 marriage, was she always receiving calls like this, was she having a lot of toaster or male friends that was always calling that you knew of b4 marriage. If yes, you have nothing to worry about, if no, it started in ur marriage, then bro, do undercover investigation and follow ur guts b4 your train another man children.

Yeah she do. I caught her several times making calls in the middle of the night before we were Married, she always says she's sorry she won't do it again. But why won't i worry? Thank you

Help me with Good advice please. I don't want this thing to destroy me

Hi Nairalanders. I need your help.

We are married for 8 months now but I'm starting to suspect her, it all started with calls she's making, though the contact name shows female name but she will move to the other room to receive the call, and sometimes she will not even receive when I'm around, i never asked her why but one day the phone was closed to me then a number called with a female name on it, she picked the call and started laughing then cut the phone she acted like it's her friend that called. Then after few minutes she moved to the other room and call the number again, after that i started having doubts, when she left the phone i picked it and open it because i know the password, i copied the number and checked it with Truecaller but the name that appears on it was male's name. Pls I'm really confused. Is she really cheating on me? Or it's just an error, should i proceed with the investigation or i should just leave it and forget about it. Please Brothers and sisters help me. I'm dying inside. I've never cheated on her since when we are dating. Please help a brother. Please jokers should keep off. Thank you all.


Edit: I finally got all the proof i need, i confront her she cried hard and begged me to forgive her and keep it secret, i later called the guy he confirmed that she was his ex and they're still in contact before i caught them but he promised never to call her or talk to her in anyway. Now to forgive her na im be the real problem. I don't know if i should let her go. Coz I'm really confused.

Just wait when it reaches two weeks send message to cpd cpd@cbn.gov.ng or call them direct. Dem go see pepper. They must return am.

EngRichie:
@Solacemk

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Hi Folks.
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