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Career / Re: Can I Get A Job With International Certification From USA In MLT by solidade: 3:34am On Oct 18, 2015
CnCstore:
Lagos state health service commission recruits often...watch out

Thank you so much
Career / Re: Can I Get A Job With International Certification From USA In MLT by solidade: 3:10pm On Oct 11, 2015
ikbnice:
why not get a job in the U.S

Because I'm looking to relocate. Are you going to help me or not, please...
Career / Can I Get A Job With International Certification From USA In MLT by solidade: 3:00pm On Oct 11, 2015
Hi people,

I am a certified Medical Laboratory Technician in USA I hold ASCP as well as ASCP International. Is it possible to find a job in Nigeria with these credentials? Please help, I am looking to relocate. Thank you in advance
Romance / Re: I Need An Urgent Advice Please!!! by solidade: 4:34pm On Oct 09, 2015
Davindal:





She now insists I must send her at least N40,000 to N50000 every month for her upkeep, and I'm not finding this funny at all, because I still have my four younger sisters(though, my elder sister got married this year), my two cousins needs, to care of and by extension my mother's needs as well. My girl friend threatens me that if I don't give her the money, that I gonna loose her to other young men around.

Furthermore, my mother is a very lazy woman; all she does from time immemorial is sit at home and entertain her friends. Even now, whenever she needs money for anything, she would call me “oga manager I need like N100,000 now, for something. Infact start coming home now.” She doesn't want to know how the money comes, but only assume that the barrister I work with does remit rent payments from all the tenants in our shop buildings(plazas), residential buildings and other businesses(tipper vehicles) that my father establish before he died, to family account. And whenever I ask her what the money is for, she calls me rat and all sorts of names. This her character makes me sick. That is why I always remember my dad, and his real ordeals while he was alive. My father saw hell, all because of marriage.


Fast forward to this moment, this my girl friend is having the same character dispositions as my mum. She is lazy, arrogant(full of herself), insulting, extravagant, improvident and any ill-character disposition you can think of. Although, I still love her but, I fear things could get out of hand if I marry her.





1. Do you really need advice or sympathy? She demands money or threatens to leave you for someone else. Let her go!

2. You speak ill ofor your mother. That is not a good thing. Your mother raised you till you are the person you are today.

3. As for the girl you say you see your mother's ill manners in her. If you do not like your mother you definitely will not like someone like her. You say you love your girlfriend but from the way you speak about her I highly doubt it because if you did you'd explain to her the things you do not like and try to solve them. If she wants to go let her go.
Romance / Re: Why Do Ladies Financially Depend On Guys?? by solidade: 1:24am On Oct 09, 2015
I do not and will not rely on anyone's finances. He can have all the money in the world but still be a kerb. I'd rather much have ano average man who knows how to treat a lady right.
Romance / Re: What Could It Mean When A Random Person Walks Up To You And Says Jesus Loves You by solidade: 1:17am On Oct 09, 2015
It means Jesus loves you.

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Romance / Re: What Do Modern Women Want In A Man? by solidade: 2:14am On Oct 08, 2015
hilli666:
The truth is, women don't know what they want anymore. They have been systematically brainwashed, and have lost their lost their natural predisposition in their vain attempt to emulate the western woman. Today she wants the sensitive guy, tomorrow she wants the bad boy, next its the rich man, and then on to the academic guy. She breaks hearts on her quest for the perfect man without regard to anyone's feelings but her own. If she has to settle, then she will chose the rich guy, because with his wealth and busy schedule she can get all of the above. She is not content with the role of mother hood and considers it too base and unworthy of her "true calling" as Man's equal/rival. She wants sophistication, recognition, power, beauty and respect; She has developed an ego even worst than man himself. The worst part is she has the power and she uses it at her discretion. The only threat to a woman, is another woman because the more choices a man has the less powerful she is over him. Maybe that's why there are more women than men!

Now bring on all the hate comments calling me a male chauvinistic pig  grin


I know what I want and I don't/won't settle for less. I don't need his money, I can always make my own.
Romance / Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Girlfriend? by solidade: 2:03am On Oct 08, 2015
Slimzjoe:


Talking to her won't work.....Am very sure of that


Then why are you wasting both her and your time? If communication is not a solution then what is the solution. You've been with her 4 years and never addressed this issue. Now you say she won't listen, I don't understand.
Romance / Re: Why Would A Nigerian Man Leave A Foreign Girlfriend For An Ex-fiance? by solidade: 12:21pm On Oct 07, 2015
fastguy10:
PLs swt hrt grin 4get dat guy he is nt serious
Can u date me? grin I promise 2 settledown wt u when d time reach
U can also start coming now 2 see me I promise 2 take u 2 my mother

If u agree let me no


Thank you for the offer but no thanks. I'm okay the way I am. Not looking so any thing.
Romance / Re: Why Would A Nigerian Man Leave A Foreign Girlfriend For An Ex-fiance? by solidade: 12:16pm On Oct 07, 2015
@PunkyVeer: thankyou, you have spoken my thoughts exactly.
Romance / Re: Why Would A Nigerian Man Leave A Foreign Girlfriend For An Ex-fiance? by solidade: 12:13pm On Oct 07, 2015
jcmaiah:

Hmm, is the lady a Nigerian?

Yes
Romance / Re: Why Would A Nigerian Man Leave A Foreign Girlfriend For An Ex-fiance? by solidade: 5:12am On Oct 07, 2015
NinaNigeria:
Honey wat i have learnt abt nigerian men is dat wen wit a foreign lady, dey can love u and all dat, bt never ever trust dem, coz wen it comes to settling down, very few of dem can completely settle wit a foreigner. Dey always go back to deir home girls for dat. Dat is y most of de girls sometimes just date dem for fun, den u find dat u hurt someone who is innocent, bt nw he pays for his brother's faults. Babe be very careful wen dating naija men plz my sweet

Thanks dear, now I know.
Romance / Re: Why Would A Nigerian Man Leave A Foreign Girlfriend For An Ex-fiance? by solidade: 5:11am On Oct 07, 2015
jcmaiah:

Its because he never loved you like he loved her. All those while you guys were together he had his heart focused on her. He definitely is not worth it.


He loved me. His fiance tells me he gets emotionally down whenever he speaks about me.
Romance / Re: Why Would A Nigerian Man Leave A Foreign Girlfriend For An Ex-fiance? by solidade: 5:08am On Oct 07, 2015
SeverusSnape:

Hmmm...you may be right, That's very bad of him, anyways, The deed has been done, You just have to pull yourself together and move on.

Yeah, I have accepted it and I respect his choice. I just want to know and understand why it happened so.
Romance / Re: Why Would A Nigerian Man Leave A Foreign Girlfriend For An Ex-fiance? by solidade: 5:06am On Oct 07, 2015
valdes00:
am certain the guys favourite quote is " The devil you know is better than the angel you don't knw "...
Romance / Re: Why Would A Nigerian Man Leave A Foreign Girlfriend For An Ex-fiance? by solidade: 4:59am On Oct 07, 2015
SeverusSnape:
Maybe he just couldn't continue with the long distance relationship, furthermore, He didn't believe the relationship will yield any fruit, I think that was why he opted out.

Parents are also very influential in one's choice, his parents might have influenced him.
Romance / Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by solidade: 4:37am On Oct 07, 2015
Any advice on Long distance relationships?
Romance / Re: Why Did You And Your EX Breakup by solidade: 4:08am On Oct 07, 2015
He left me for his ex-fiance
Romance / Why Would A Nigerian Man Leave A Foreign Girlfriend For An Ex-fiance? by solidade: 3:39am On Oct 07, 2015
Hi guys,

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