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Since how days have you been waiting for the email?

Flo123:
@femaleoutfit
I sent an email to them and my profile was modified .
Still waiting for their email on my approval to schedule an appointment date .

Hi guys. My page keeps telling me this:

"Your request to schedule an appointment has been received and will be reviewed. You will receive an email once your request is approved.“

I don't understand what is going on

bobo65:
Nah
Won't cut it at all

Unku I no understand this your market o. I'm yet to see any price from you. Wtf

bobo65:
I don't have the phone, it's the xl version I want to buy, I want to know your offer maybe I'll order for u

Yeah, the XL is what I need.

Sir, okay 100k?

bobo65:
Whats the highest u can pay for it?

Talk your price first bro

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anochilar:
As a Christian, by Christ teaching, the only allowed reason for divorce is marital infidelity. (even at that, forgiveness by the innocent mate, is also an allowed option, especially for the sake of the kids) but divorce on fornication grounds (infidelity) isn't a sin.
-Matthew 19:9
but separation, from an abusive mate, (includes domestic violence, and threat to life) is very much allowed! -Please read 1corinthians 7:10,11.
(as long as the separated mates does not remarry someone else)
for as long as is necessary, so when the guilty mate has come to his senses, accepts counsel, prays for God's help, apologise, and seeks reunion of his spouse, then they can be reconciled together again, and there children can grow up in a united home.
A separation, does not have a specific duration, it may range from several days, to several years. Of living in Separate residences.
The only situations in which a divorce is valid is, 1. The guilty mate is also a cheat (unfaithful) either during the marriage, or during separation. (note: divorce on fidelity reasons must be made on hard evidence. Example, caught in the act... Not on mere suspicion)
2. During the separation, any of the mates remarry and have sex with the 3rd party spouse, (a fornication has occurred) therefore, whoever of the 2, that didn't remarry first, is now free to remarry, and it would be valid, by Christian doctrine.
-read mark 10:11,12. Malachi 2:16.
Any further questions, requiring solid answers from the bible, i may help you.

You're a JW right?
Funny thing. This is a JW couple.
The wife is a reputable sis in the congregation unlike the husband who hardly attends meeting

lazeal:
I am strong supporter of "Your Happiness Should Come First" If the emboldened is true, did she stop working? She should improve herself more and I don't see why she can't own a pharmacy store in a busy environment to make more money.

The illiterate husband forbid him to work. The few months she did. He would often come to the hospital and embarrass her and eventually apologize.
In a nutshell, he doesn't like working under someone, his ego blinds him

Originalsly:
Bro.... some women are trapped in marriage.... and worse if they claim to be Christian but have the Pagan belief that 'God hates divorce'.No doubt, she is trapped. The abuse will only get worse.... she will continue to suffer physically but worse... mentally and emotionally. How can she raise the children in such a state? The children are witnessing... they are suffering. .. they are learning.... they are being affected. What kind of adults would they become? If you check out the husband's history... don't be surprised to find out he grew up with an abusive father... and this is what he knows best... the cycle continues. Again... she is trapped. My advice. ... and please... I have no sugar to sugar coat it... as a male relative.... you and others should not even be up in here seeking advice. You are a big part of the problem. That guy is battering your cousin because the male members of her family allow it to happen. Have a meeting with him.... since she has been a faithful and pretty much a submissive wife.... let him know the abuse has to stop immediately or there will be repercussions. Most likely... it will stop because he will now be in fear.... if it doesn't. .. then he should be given a severe beat down. You can choose to do nothing... because it is not your business... or because what other people will say.... or you don't get involved in married people business. If .....God forbid.... she is one day beaten into a pulp.... or commits suicide... you can tell the world what you could've done if you only knew it was going to come to this. Your cousin is trapped... crying for help... free her.. and her children.

You are wise!
You're are wise!!!
What did I say?
You are indeed wise!!!
But then the male relative have according to the family's reputation called for peace ,
What does he do? He started making life threats, I wish I could upload screenshot of messages he sent. They were in all angles embarrassing considering the wife just lost her mother two days ago the only parent she has left .
There are many heartless acts of this man that would be too confidential to relate here. In all my cousin endured to avoid her late mum having a sudden heart attack considering she's the only daughter.
People are really wicked in this life.

goingape1:
this is their punishment!

when there are young you will see them following different preek for money.

I only blame ya cousin because she saw what is coming her way!



by the way! did you replace mature with nature or maturely with naturedly?

lol pardon my auto-correct

piragirl:
please tell your cousin to join FIN FAMALE IN NIGERIA,should will get best advice,meet women that has gone through worse,shoulders to lean on and above all no one will jurge her unlike some people naira lander.let her send me her Fb details so i can add her.ayoajayi262@gmail.com. Best regards

Gimme ur facebook link

SirVintageCock:
your sister won't even seek advice from you, bro.

Her marriage is restored you say? Without ironing out the root causes, hmmm? Bros I dey hail oooo

Don't mind the small boy, kids can come here make inexperienced comments.

farous:
U made a point. Any sane man CAN NEVER just wake up and start beating,insulting or divorce the wife.There MUST be an untold story. I suggest she just say the truth and beg the man for forgiveness.

You're not actually sane for making this comment.
CAN NEVER? I guess you've not marital stories. Are you a teen?

Tallesty1:
Keep quiet kiddo.

The op asked for a mature advice and 2kaybiel is asking questions to get a mental imagery of the situation to be able to analyze it and possibly find out the cause and solution.


You don't expect a grown up to give advice based on the one side of the story in the op. How can you proffer a solution to a problem without knowing the cause? Even doctors do not diagnose a patient or prescribe a cure without asking for the symptoms.

True though. But what on earth will make a reasonable, heartfelt man call his wife a USELESS ORPHAN, a day after her mother's demise

2kaybiel:
has she called him to discuss why he suddenly change or the wrong she did to deserve the treatment from him and what was his reply?

she should tell you what she has done to make sure things dont get worst by the day and if her efforts did not amount to anything, then she should let her pastor intervene.

My brother, these problems didn't start today. If it were possible for angels to come and be visibly present during a settling session believe that would have happened many times. No height of Christian Elder have not been involved at one point or the other.
He ain't really open to other people's opinion.

Definitely, she asked in a mild and sobbing tone, why the divorce issue at this mourning stage her mum's death. The reply was that his decision stands.

keepingmum:
So the only reason she's considering a divorce is because her husband called her and her siblings orphans? NOT because of the incessant DV, emotional abuse and all?

Should a third party prevail she will be happy to remain as long as he apologises abi?

She should well done!!! The I must remain MRS crew, the god forbids divorce crew, the I don't want my Shildren42 grow up in a broken home gang

Pls tell her 2 remain in the marriage, after all she is a working nurse, she can cater for herself and treat any injuries inflicted on her by her beloved horseband. ......the day he bangs her head on the wall and she dies, she ll get automatic ticket 2 heaven for upholding her vows ......she can also serve as guiding angel 2 her 4 children who will be maltreated by their stepmum incessantly... . Shielding them from eating poisonous food as we see on nollywood

Read again, she's not the one seeking for a divorce rather the husband.

2kaybiel:
is she a nag, a disobedient, a disrespective or unsubmissive woman?

The woman might have her own trouble which is not stated in this piece because it is rare for a man to make a threat of divorce without a reason even if he is a drunkard.

Admittedly, the wife is a human being, subjected to human errors, however, from I've witnessed, she's very submissive and replies him in a low tone, apologizes when due. That said, after her mum's demise, the husband didn't show any sympathy, this drove her crazy and couldn't bear it anymore.

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Good evening wonderful Nigerians and naira landers.
Please take your time and read cause this might be a long post.
NB: Exclusively for natured and experienced minds, your comments and are expectedly welcomed.


My cousin has complains she's tired of her marriage.

She has been married for 5yrs and have four children (a set of twin girls and another boy and girl).

She has on several/most occasions been a victim of domestic violence, the husband spends most nights outside the home, comes back drunk, easily infuriated and top of it all an egoistic being.

My cousin has been enduring without telling anyone because of her ill mother(don't want her to die of heartbreak) and for the love of her kids, not forsaking the endurance based on Christianity belief.

Now her mum is gone just some days ago, pathetic as it seems the husband didn't show any sign of pity or sympathy, he started making threats of divorce accompanied with abuses calling she and her siblings "useless orphans,your sorrow just begin" and more despite the mourning state.

Now, she is clearly confused on the decision to take.

*To proceed with the divorce , noting the expenses of child rearing on a single mother. ( She's a qualified and educated Nurse)

*To seek or perhaps accept apology if who knows her husband apologizes like he always does. ( bearing in mind the level of threat, high level of domestic violence and mental distress she'll continue to undergo.)

Help her make a decision.

Thanks as you comment wisely and naturedly.

dimexy247:
Yeah, it is bro, but been rejected countless number of times, any tips on how to get approved, I have tried almost possible avenues but still got disapproved. My blog is on my signature, pls advice. Thanks.

I got mine first trial. Wizlodge.com

Please I'm interested, someone should teach me.

I didn't care to read the whole stuff. God saved you not Blood of Jesus.
Stop misusing things.

1. Innjoo
2. Innjoo
3. Innjoo.

If I could be granted presidential pardon I'll bomb them

I don't believe in that poo.
Do you know how many poor people that are ready to sacrifice 50 humans?
How many touts that are ready to sacrifice 50 humans to get rich? No matter the cost.

Even if it exists, let's embrace modernization and believe it not real, thereby making it go extinct. The more we believe it's real, the more people wanna find out and practice it.

My verdict.

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In the early hours of today, an abrupt fire incident took place in one of the hostels in University of Nigeria Enugu Campus.

Occupants of the male’s medical hostel, known as Mbonu Ojike or GH were thrown into suspense and fear as one the electricity connections went off guard and began to spark.

Our correspondent gathered that the incident took place around 12 am in the midnight. Some of the students has were seen gathering their bags and important files and ready to flee should the fire outbreak spread.

However, Kudos should be given to school ‘Works department ‘ as they quickly curtailed the incident from getting worse

Visit the link to watch some video clips from the incident.


[http://www.wizlodge.com/2016/08/28/fire-outbreak-at-university-of-nigeria-enugu-campus/]

Enugu – Youths and students alike in South East took to the streets of Enugu metropolis this morning to express their support to Sen. Ike Ekweremadu.



Over the past few weeks, alleged plan to remove the highest personality from the south east in the current administration has continued to make headlines.

However, Youths citizens took placards, banners and their voices to show their solidarity to the Deputy Senate President, who actually is a citizen of Enugu State.

In a statement by one of Protesters, he related to wizlodge.com saying “The problem of Nigeria still remains purposeful leadership…
I strongly believe that Sen. Ike Ekweremadu is not the problem. Ekweremadu remains a veritable tool in the Nigerian polity. He is one of the very few senators that have the interest of Nigeria and students at heart.
A few weeks ago, he gave scholarships and bursaries to over 500 indigent students and he has been doing this for years now.
The only solution to the hydra-headed problem faced by Nigeria and Nigerians is for our leaders at all levels most especially the federal level to focus on positive result-oriented governance rather than political witch-hunting, o rise above party sentiments to deliver the dividends of democracy to the suffering poor masses.
The students of Enugu state came out en-masse to show solidarity to our great leader and philanthropist.”

See more photos at http://www.wizlodge.com/2016/08/06/ekweremadu-is-not-the-problem-south-east-youths-protests/


r231

Enugu – Youths and students alike in South East took to the streets of Enugu metropolis this morning to express their support to Sen. Ike Ekweremadu.



Over the past few weeks, alleged plan to remove the highest personality from the south east in the current administration has continued to make headlines.

However, Youths citizens took placards, banners and their voices to show their solidarity to the Deputy Senate President, who actually is a citizen of Enugu State.

In a statement by one of Protesters, he related to wizlodge.com saying “The problem of Nigeria still remains purposeful leadership…
I strongly believe that Sen. Ike Ekweremadu is not the problem. Ekweremadu remains a veritable tool in the Nigerian polity. He is one of the very few senators that have the interest of Nigeria and students at heart.
A few weeks ago, he gave scholarships and bursaries to over 500 indigent students and he has been doing this for years now.
The only solution to the hydra-headed problem faced by Nigeria and Nigerians is for our leaders at all levels most especially the federal level to focus on positive result-oriented governance rather than political witch-hunting, o rise above party sentiments to deliver the dividends of democracy to the suffering poor masses.
The students of Enugu state came out en-masse to show solidarity to our great leader and philanthropist.”



Here are some pictures from the exercise.

See more at http://www.wizlodge.com/2016/08/06/ekweremadu-is-not-the-problem-south-east-youths-protests/


Mynd44

Months after Nigeria's hot Hip Hop artist, Lil Kesh, left the record label, YBNL, rumors continue making waves that Adekunle gold might follow the suit in no distant time.

However, contrary to wide speculation, the Yoruba urban highlife artiste in an interview with pulse.ng revealed he's going nowhere.
Watch the video interview!

 

http://www.wizlodge.com/2016/08/02/im-not-leaving-ybnl-adekunle-gold/


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