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Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Nobody: 11:11am On Apr 06, 2017 |
chairman010: My friend it will do you a lot good if you can't cope with a woman and divorce than do something that will make you worse off. That mantra divorce is an abomination should be abolished! In the words of Abraham Lincoln, " the dogmas of the quiet past are not applicable to the stormy present;therefore, we must rise to the occasion". |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by arinspice(f): 11:11am On Apr 06, 2017 |
Divorce is a stupid solution to a difficult problem........please tell your sis to start reading books by PST Bisi and pst mrs yomi Akande listen also to his teaches ,i believe he has the right word for your marriage |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Ngokafor(f): 11:11am On Apr 06, 2017 |
farous: ..There are lots of insane men everywhere in Nigeria,believe it or not.....I as a lady will never condone beating from my husband or any man for that matter,come what may...Good thing is that my hubby is not like that. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Nobody: 11:12am On Apr 06, 2017 |
Vorpal:This generation of mothers have a lot to do. May my kids not grow to post the kind of comments I read on NL. This is why women shouldn't be scared of being alone, neither should they be overly dependent on their husbands. If my husband try that flex his muscles on me. Imsef won't, he knows there are people waiting for him to fuckup, make them enter set. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Nobody: 11:13am On Apr 06, 2017 |
keepingmum: Sacarsm at its peak #wehdonsir/ma |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Nobody: 11:16am On Apr 06, 2017 |
PaperLace: But you don't sound like a woman who would aggravate a man to that point..... While you train men, do not forget to teach the women too. |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by cybernaut(m): 11:18am On Apr 06, 2017 |
Nma27:are u sure u attend secondary education well. |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by fedrick4god(m): 11:22am On Apr 06, 2017 |
Solobenny:From the write up above its crystal clear that the man is just a mess. How come you enter relationship with drunkard without knowing. Any alcoholic addicted Human does not make it in relationship because they don't always have life but their sense does not always work. That does not mean their is not responsible man out their that drinks alcohol, Have seen men that drinks with common sense yet they still have good home but its not possible with addiction. Just call it a quit, also the Man has no respect for your personalities, see how he's trashing your family. That's one of the things I tell young people. Make sure you learn very well about the Man before you say yes, although no perfect human, but make sure he's worth enduring. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Nobody: 11:22am On Apr 06, 2017 |
MrEgbegbe: Maybe the slay queens of today. I'm sure you wouldn't agree with your mother being called 'evil' unless she truly is. So when you say *women* please do employ a qualifier. MrEgbegbe: I think it is unfair to pick a fight with someone who is not your match, be it a man or woman. But your preceding statements is in stark opposition to what you just wrote here. By the same logic everyone should be free of ass whopping. Even the devil is free to go. I am not one to pick a fight with a woman but to essentially say that nothing warrants ass whopping is just crazy. That is feminism in its finest. If women are as evil as you say and you let them off for anything they do, then, equality demands that you let similarly evil men go. At least that is supposed to follow logically from the feminist view you are espousing. Although they never consider that dimension cos it doesn't fit their agenda of turning men to puppies. Thing is that society wants to exculpate women of every wrongdoing. This follows from the fact that society doesn't want to punish women for bad actions. So its better to pronounce them innocent and immaculate for life. MrEgbegbe: Now you turn around and promote violence. Thought you just said no amount of evil warrants domestic violence But of course you have the self-defense argument to resort to. Perhaps it never occurred to you that a woman may be the initiator of domestic violence. OP if it is family meeting you need to call, once every week will go a long way in resolving your problems. If the man wasn't always like that, then what went wrong? If he was always like that, then, let her make her decision 1 Like |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by pipilacious: 11:23am On Apr 06, 2017 |
I don't know why most couples think seeking divorce is the only solution to marriage crisis ,my dear tell her to look more into her life ,is she getting money more than her husband ,does she think she is the bread winner ....that is the problem with most women and that is y some men dont allow thier wife to work due to their high ego that accompany their money making ,then if the fault is from the man then let her stay just for her kids because children trained in united family cannot be compared with the one train in a divorced home |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Nobody: 11:24am On Apr 06, 2017 |
AuroraB: nop. 1 twins boys. then a girl, then a boy. Is she a working nurse and if she is, nurses are paid ridiculously low. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by luminouz(m): 11:28am On Apr 06, 2017 |
ElsonMorali:Exactly my point but DAT daretoFIFA chick just dey huff n puff upandan!!!! 1 Like |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Nobody: 11:31am On Apr 06, 2017 |
cybernaut:I should b asking u that 1 Like |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by luminouz(m): 11:33am On Apr 06, 2017 |
PaperLace:So to ur addled brain ur husband won't beat u coz there are people(ur family) waiting for him to fuckup? So they can beat him? If ur not married I just pity u.....so ur family members are set beaters? 1 Like |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by hotspec(m): 11:38am On Apr 06, 2017 |
AuroraB:Dt makes it easier then. She shd concur |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Solobenny(m): 11:39am On Apr 06, 2017 |
piragirl:Gimme ur facebook link |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by jomoh: 11:39am On Apr 06, 2017 |
daretodiffer: I checked your page and saw the kalimah there. I will leave you for the respect of that kalimah but next time you try this with me, by Allah you shall regret it. |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by adontcare(f): 11:40am On Apr 06, 2017 |
Op. My matured, unbiased advice is that ur sister should accept the divorce and move on with her life. She is due to be free and happy. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Hemstone(m): 11:47am On Apr 06, 2017 |
adorablepepple:mumu... so after telling someone to shut up. This is the rubbish you can advise? |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Nobody: 11:52am On Apr 06, 2017 |
luminouz:Only on NL do beings like you pity someone doing better than you _pity yourself. Now, go quote your fellow men supporting domestic violence, you silly being. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Transcends: 11:52am On Apr 06, 2017 |
anochilar:I read through all other comments but wasn't satisfied at all... lol... but when I came across this, in fact, I had to open my Bible. For me, this is the best and revealing comment so far. More grace, sir! 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by luminouz(m): 11:57am On Apr 06, 2017 |
PaperLace:
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Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Nobody: 11:59am On Apr 06, 2017 |
Vorpal:Hahaha, we would train both. No one is perfect dear, we never can know what will "aggravate" men these days. |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by luminouz(m): 11:59am On Apr 06, 2017 |
Hemstone:*rubbing tears from eyes* why are u this savage in ur replies...... She can go and kuku kill herself now!!! Izunfair ooooo!!!!! 1 Like |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by suk22: 12:00pm On Apr 06, 2017 |
Pidgin2:she need to see that movie. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Abagworo(m): 12:03pm On Apr 06, 2017 |
She entered into a marriage she knew the outcome ab-initio. The abusive tendency of a man is rarely hidden and most women enter into marriage hoping things will change. My sister an abusive man is unchangeable. |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Nobody: 12:11pm On Apr 06, 2017 |
PaperLace: Not a man who loves and cherishes you. |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by davo90tico(m): 12:23pm On Apr 06, 2017 |
ademoladeji:bro that pic Na lie remember the vows for marriage For better or worse in sickness and in health for richer for poorer till death do us part. many of this signs of her husband might have been visible during courtship and she just ignored them cos she wanted to marry so no say marriage is just a certificate it's not something to be taken lightly as most peeps do spending much on wedding and using little effort for the actual marriage it actually goes both ways bro 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Nobody: 12:26pm On Apr 06, 2017 |
Bleh! Yeah, let's look at all the reasons that could have driven him to batter his wife, he could have a tangible reason, who knows..... Seriously though, you don't have the ability to emphasise or think! Whatcha gonna do about that jomoh: |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Nobody: 12:27pm On Apr 06, 2017 |
This is so untrue. It may be apparent in some, but it is not in others. Abagworo: 1 Like |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Charly68: 12:31pm On Apr 06, 2017 |
2kaybiel:Good of you! The writer did not tell us the other side of the story: what makes the man to be a night crawler we need to know. What has the woman been doing to warrant maltreatment we need to know. However giving themselves a space In the face of domestic violence will possibly make each of them to appreciate each other better. When they see each other daily they may not value or appreciate the bond between them. A space may make the head of the man to be correct particularly if he is from a descent origin. 1 Like |
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