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bolaayenimo:
Malreating the poor. Things they can't try abroad

Shut up and read the post.
Una go dey rush comment without reading

One thing I believe in and know is that, for me to date you and have you as my girlfriend,we are one.You can come around anytime you want.Because I believe for you to come around without me paying a dime for your T fare, it's something.
I love my privacy too but for a lady that loves me and for my mother,I don't have a problem with them coming around my space or privacy

Blunt99:
And you wouldn't even know to testify inside your Jesus church.

So, it is pointless - which makes you slow.

That one concern only you

Blunt99:
Alright

13 more characters needed

Don't worry.
They will steal something precious from you and call it assumption in Jesus name

SeverusSnape:
Till tomorrow, Till eternity, Some men will remain incredibly foolish.

Don't just marry a working class lady.Marry a working lady that likes you and finds you attractive.Rich ladies have their problems too.
Most of you don't know that some rich ladies find it hard to submit to a man

The best you can do is this.Marry a rich lady that finds you attractive or likes you.
Don't marry a rich lady with the same wealth status as you.Even though she is rich, you must be richer than her in folds
Or else she might not respect you.Respect is also important

Mariangeles:
Is it the Leo lady?

Yeah 👍

Some people will always be who they want to be even if they try to be good again.
There is this lady girlfriend of mine.I was very generous to back then.So she took it for granted and thought I just wanted to sleep with her.She doesn't like me and I could tell from the way she treats me.At a point,I started setting boundaries with her.No more generousity,no more giving and she notice but,at first she set baits to hook me again but I didn't give in.She sends friends coldedly to check on me thinking I won't find out.
Well she became polite and soft for me and I gave her another chance only to start misbehaving again after sometime.
I blocked all contacts with her till date and right now I heard she is looking for me again but this time around there will be no mercy

Finished actors

Sphinx419:
Call me the meaty meatman aka thrusternova

werey😂

Sphinx419:
Daddy no vex.. na my meat.. anyhow i wan take beat my meat.. I go beat am... leave that thing... masturbation is bae

Finished man 😂

ironheart:
Food. Only food. Everyone must eat

You are right

Samueltemi337:
They will finally win the Champions League in 2079

Yes they would win it someday
Might not be in this present generation

escortafrik:
I’m a lady in my mid-30s and life was going very well for me except for one thing everybody except me seemed obsessed with - marriage.

I have a good career, I’m financially stable, respected in my field, and I genuinely loved the life I built for myself. But every family gathering, every wedding, every phone call from relatives somehow turned into:

“So when are you getting married?” You’re not getting younger oo

Eventually, I met someone through mutual friends.

He was unemployed at the time, but that did not bother me much because he was intelligent, kind, calm, and surprisingly very knowledgeable in the same profession as me.

We connected deeply and for the first time in a long while, I felt like I had found the ‘one’

As our relationship became serious, I started helping him professionally too. I helped him restructure his CV, prepared him for interviews, connected him to opportunities, and eventually introduced him to my organisation when there was an opening.

Thankfully, he got the job.

I was genuinely happy for him because I knew how difficult things had been for him financially before then. And after he got the job, things became even sweeter between us.

And some month after he proposed to me ! my joy became complete! My family was overjoyed.

Then, just as our wedding plans were moving forward smoothly, the company we worked introduced a new policy stating that married couples could no longer work in the organisation together. Once two employees got married, one person would have to resign.

That was when the real problem started.

I assumed we would sit down and discuss it logically.

I have spent years building my career there.
I’m more senior.
I currently earn more.
And if we’re being realistic, my position is more stable at the moment.

But my fiancé shocked me.

He told me I should be the one to resign because:

“I’m the man.”

Initially I didn’t take him seriously but as the wedding date drew closer, he kept pressuring me to resign !

I then reminded him that I was already established before he came into the company. I was the one who helped him get the opportunity in the first place. If anyone should logically stay, shouldn’t it be the person whose career was already firmly built there?

But he said it would be embarrassing for him as a man if he was the one leaving while his wife continued working there, that I could do something else like supermarket business.

Imagine !

Since then, everything has changed.

Wedding plans have paused.
We now fight everyday
Even his family are supporting him, telling me to resign !
my heart is broken.

Not just because of the job itself, but because I genuinely believed I was building a life with someone who saw me as an equal partner.

Well I have concluded that I won’t resign and I will also make sure he is sacked. No one should call me wicked because he is very wicked for wanting to do this to me.



https://community.escortafrik.com/d/198-i-helped-my-fiance-get-a-job-in-my-company-now-he-wants-me-to-resign

Both are wrong. She is more right but her revenge plan makes her wrong too.He is not a leader. He is a man who wants to be served.She is right to be angry. But planning to get him fired is not strength. It is bitterness dressed as revenge.
A man who cannot handle his woman earning more or being more established will always be a problem. She should have seen this earlier.But her response — trying to destroy him — proves she is also not ready for marriage. Two wrongs do not make a right.
The relationship is already dead. The question is whether they will bury it with dignity or set it on fire

She should not resign but he should

I for say women are very dangerous and brutal but a woman helped me become successful today
But then again,some women are heartless and brutal

Their so called mother should be stoned to death at the market square because, what is this

Obavoh:
Why would a Father buy pants for his mature 24 years old married daughter if not to insult her husband?

My Family stay in a one bedroom and my Mother-In-Law came to visit.

When my Wife was putting on her clothes, my Mother-In-Law noticed that my Wife had used white thread to sew her pants. The pant looked old and rough according to her.

My Mother-In-Law called my Father-In-Law in the village and that one sent money and asked his Wife to go and get new set of underwear from the market for their daughter.

It's not normal to you because if it's,you wont be here asking us but,its normal to him

Tjra:
Is she a Nollywood actress? Never heard of her before. I only know Yvonne Nelson.

Seems all the ladies in Nigeria are now actresses.

Am sure she has never heard of you as well

Nastrademus:
Arsenal will dominate EPL at least for the next ten years, you heard it from me first

Dey play

Samantha125:
As if many men didn't try tackling their infertility issue through the traditional route without seeing any results... No amount of concoction can cure a sterile man.

That's your own believe and it doesn't mean your believe is true

Samantha125:
How is it possible to find a solution for an infertile man?

It's possible with enough traditional concoctions and good diets, it's possible

Samantha125:
There's something I don't understand with some of you African men, whenever a woman has fertility issues, you expect her to make an effort to find a solution by herself... But when tables are turned and it's the man, you expect the wife to be a supportive partner in helping her husband find the solution to the problem.

What happened to standing together through thick and thin as a couple?

it's not just about a woman having fertility issues because most fertility issues with women is caused by their carelessness from their prime age or younger age.Some women have abused their womb at young age,done multiple abortions,accumulated different sizes of penis into their vagina etc and will now regret it later when they settle down.
As for the men, it's more of nature for a man to not be able to impregnate a woman and it's more possible to get a solution for the man than a woman with no womb.

Samantha125:
You're not answering my question.

well too me returning bride is awkward in the first place.And for his situation i have seen couple giving birth to their first child after several years of marriage.
Any can leave each other in this same case if the partner with the problem is not making any effort to do anything about his or her problem.
But I am 💯 sure a woman who is need of a child can never settle down with a man who can't impregnate a woman
A man can still do it but a woman can never

Samantha125:
How would you feel if she left you based on your infertility?

Your question makes no sense

Samantha125:
How would you feel if you were the infertile one, your wife wasn't patient and wanted out?

And how sure are you that she's the problem and not you?

And how sure are you that it's not vice versa

The way these actors are dying in Nigeria ehn.And most of them are men 😐

Fiscus105:
What did you want to about a mother who has four daughters, 2 well-behaved and 2 ill-mannered?

The good and the bad, where did they learn the characters, even though from they are from same mother? Abi u never see it before?

The mother is a blueprint. But she is not the only blueprint. The father, the environment, and the child's own choices matter too.A woman can be her mother's daughter. She can also be her father's daughter. She can also be her own woman — shaped by rebellion, trauma, or grace
Your reply is correct. Two daughters from the same mother can be opposites. That means the mother alone does not determine the daughter.

You are frustrated but also naive.You are not wrong about the hypocrisy but you are wrong about how you handled it.You do not walk into a church, expose someone's past, and expect a thank you. You will be the villain.Every time

A woman can genuinely change. A former prostitute can become born again. But her past does not vanish from the memory of those who knew her.If you date a woman from church, do not assume she is a virgin. Do not assume she has no past. Many people run to God after the world has finished with them. That does not make them bad. But it does not make them innocent either
A woman's past is not your brother's business unless she chooses to share it. What matters is who she is now. But he is not wrong to walk away if he cannot accept it.

You are bitter. You are not wrong about the hypocrisy. But you handled it like a child. Exposing someone's past to destroy their relationship is not justice. It is revenge.If you want to warn your brother, do it once. Privately. With evidence. If he does not listen, let him learn his own lesson. Do not become the villain in his story

Mariangeles:
Farmers in the house, can figs be successfully grown in Nigeria's kind of climate?
Especially, around the southern part of Nigeria.

Yes, figs can be successfully grown in Nigeria, particularly in the southern region . The climate and soil conditions are favorable, and they are already being cultivated here
If you are a farmer looking for a commercial crop to sell, this might be a very risky investment due to how quickly the fruit perishes

However, if you simply want to plant a tree for your home and family, it is a fantastic idea—you can enjoy fresh, delicious figs right from your garden

dominique:
What if the wife is her father's replica both in looks and personality? No be one chance you don enter so?

A daughter who is her father's replica is not a 'one chance' situation. It just means you need to study both parents.The original post was incomplete. You do not just study the mother. You study the whole family system — mother, father, how they interact, and who the daughter resembles most.
A woman is not only her mother's daughter. She is also her father's daughter. Study both. Then decide

A daughter learns how to be a wife by watching her mother. Not from books. Not from sermons,from observation.You are not marrying a woman. You are marrying her family system. Her mother is the blueprint. The daughter is the copy.A woman can hide her true nature during courtship. Her mother cannot hide hers. Study the mother. That is your preview."If her mother is bitter, the daughter will fight bitterness her whole life — and often lose. If her mother is peaceful, the daughter has a head start.

Exceptions exist. But betting on an exception is like betting on a lottery ticket. Most daughters become their mothers