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Sports › Re: England Vs Argentina: World Cup 2026 Semi-Finals (1 - 2) On 15th July 2026 by Solofresh2: 9:21pm On Jul 15
geoworldedu:
The goat has most dribble already in this match.
Qualify with your dribble nah 😂
Sports › Re: England Vs Argentina: World Cup 2026 Semi-Finals (1 - 2) On 15th July 2026 by Solofresh2: 8:31pm On Jul 15
3kay945:
Can't find the Goat on the field pls.
The goat is now a chicken
Thank you 😏
Sports › Re: England Vs Norway: World Cup 2026 Quarter-Finals (2 - 1) On 11th July 2026 by Solofresh2: 11:04pm On Jul 11
MrSword:
Na this England won stand Argentina? 🤣🤣
e go shock you
Sports › Re: Spain Vs Belgium: World Cup 2026 Quarter-Final (2 - 1) On 10th July 2026 by Solofresh2: 11:43am On Jul 11
Mattswaggz:
how does Merino always do this?...score important goals at the dying minutes of matches?...too bad he wasn't available/used for Arsenal in the champions League final. undecided
You must how to use player so that you can get the best out of them
Romance › Re: Money Is Not The Prize — The Man Is by Solofresh2(op): 9:34pm On Jul 10
Mariangeles:
Okay. Money is a tool, and the man with the tool is the prize, because without the tool, a man cannot achieve much.
A man with the tool calls the shot.

Let me tell you a story about a guy:

This guy, his grandfather left him a big piece of land to build on when he's capable.
So, because the land was in a choice area, men with money kept coming for the land, to buy it.
They kept making mouthwatering offers [even going through backdoors], but the man refused because of what his grandfather had told him. He took it as an assignment.

Guess what: when the guy made money, he fenced and built a house on that land in less than a year, and that finally put a stop to people coming for the land.

Aim to have the tool, because without it, you will be oppressed by men like you.
And that tool is money 💰💰💰
You are right that money is a powerful tool. The man in your story used it wisely. But the tool did not make him a man — he was already a man. The tool helped him build. That is the difference. The man is still the prize. The tool is just what he uses.

A man with money but no frame is still a resource. A man with frame but no money is still a leader. A man with both is unstoppable. But if you have to choose one, choose frame — because money can be regained, but respect cannot
Romance › Money Is Not The Prize — The Man Is by Solofresh2(op): 8:02pm On Jul 10
Hello fellow nairalanders, I came across a thread by dbull which I need oppose.
https://www.nairaland.com/8706180/until-make-money-man-never#139970208

There is a growing belief that a man's value is tied to his wallet. That until he can provide, he cannot be seen as a man. That money makes him the prize. This is a lie.

Money is a tool. It is not a man. A man with money but no character is still a weak man. A man without money but with discipline, frame, and purpose is still a man worth respecting.

The prize is not the wallet. The prize is the man who carries it.

Point 1: Money Attracts — Character Keeps

A man with money can attract women. But money attracts women who want money. It does not attract women who want him. A man with character attracts women who want him — whether he has money or not

Money can open doors. But only character can keep people inside.

Point 2: Money Can Be Lost — Character Cannot

A man can lose his money overnight. A business can fail. A job can end. An economy can collapse. If his value is tied to his money, he becomes worthless the moment he loses it.

But a man with character — discipline, frame, integrity — cannot lose that. Even if he has nothing, he still has himself. That is true value.

A man who ties his worth to his money will never be secure. A man who ties his worth to his character will never be shaken.

Point 3: Money Without Frame Is Just a Resource

A man with money but no frame will be used. He will be drained. He will be seen as a provider — not a partner. He will give and give, and still be disrespected.

A man with frame — even with little money — will be respected. He will not be used. He will not be drained. He will not be taken for granted.

A man with money and no frame is a wallet with legs. A man with frame and no money is a king in waiting.

Point 4: A Man Is Not Defined by His Wallet

A man is defined by his word. His discipline. His ability to lead. His ability to walk away. His ability to build. His ability to protect.

These cannot be bought. They must be earned. And they are worth more than any amount of money.

Money can buy comfort. It cannot buy respect. And without respect, a man is not a man — he is just a source.


Money is not the prize. The man is the prize. And a man is not defined by what he has — but by who he is.

Do not let anyone convince you that your wallet determines your worth. Your character, your frame, your discipline, and your integrity are what make you a man. Money is just a tool. You are the prize.
Romance › Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by Solofresh2: 7:46pm On Jul 10
Iamdbull:
I see a lot of men deceiving and lying to
themselves by calling themselves the prize
especially the broke ones, but sorry to break it
you, until you make enough money and you can
provide and cater for the needs of a woman you
can't be perceived as a nman and you might have
to bend your knees for things to work out!


Unfortunately the country we found ourselves
men have been robbed of this privilege of making enough to have control of the opposite sex.

So the question is how can we change this ? How can we make money? The only hope the country has left for young men now is yahoo, sporty, newsspend•com or doing unskilled work where one is grossly underpaid!


Mann we can't continue like this money is a must!!
You are 60% right — but you are also wallowing in defeat.
Money is important. But money without character is just a rich fool. And poverty without ambition is just a waiting game.
The economy is hard. But hard does not mean impossible. Men have risen from worse. The question is not 'how can I make money?' The question is 'what am I willing to build?'"
Family › Re: Nobody Can Please A Woman – Rev Funke Adejumo Tells Married Men by Solofresh2: 7:09pm On Jul 05
Omoawoke:
My friend Wasiu disagreed, he said he can please a woman..
He said it’s possible and he would be the first man in history to understand and please a woman..

My friend wasiu tried his best, he did everything, gave everything and everything

My friend wasiu has given all to his woman, then one day, after a small argument.. the woman asked the ultimate question “What have you done for me?”

Na so Wasiu take craze enter psychiatric ward…
RIP Wasiu the woman pleaser
Sports › Re: American Calls On FBI To Investigate Brazilian Ref Who Gave Balogun Red Card by Solofresh2: 4:00pm On Jul 02
You see the US citizens ehn, never mess them because if dem reason your matter, your mind go dey grin
Romance › Re: The Real Reason Women Move On So Fast After Breakups Will Piss You Off by Solofresh2: 7:10pm On Jul 01
Samantha125:
Why would you want a bitter ex that'll be dragging the breakup for months, if not years?

My husband's ex didn't invest anything financially in his life, but she dragged their breakup for years... I got beaten, poisoned, and even once found myself behind bars because of her, my husband also nearly got into trouble all thanks to her... That lady really properly dealt with us, she taught me a lesson I'll never forget... grin grin grin
The original post is not entirely wrong. But it is incomplete. Financial investment is not the only thing that ties a woman to a man. Emotional investment, ego, pride, and possessiveness can be just as powerful and sometimes more dangerous.

A woman who loves you will fight. A woman who loves you and feels replaced will burn the world down — with or without financial investment.
Romance › Re: The Real Reason Women Move On So Fast After Breakups Will Piss You Off by Solofresh2: 7:06pm On Jul 01
Pukkalolo:
The day my first girlfriend left me, I thought my world had ended.

After one small argument, she sent the cold text: “I’m no longer interested.”

Just like that. Relationship over… Ah shocked

I was shattered. I couldn't eat. I couldn't sleep. I walked around like a dead man for months.

But do you know what truly destroyed me?

She moved on like I never existed. Like, within days this girl was already posting new guys on her status… smiling, laughing, looking happy and refreshed. While I was there dying in emotional pain.

So I went online to search: “Why do women move on faster than men after a breakup?”

The two answers I found sounded smart:

#1. “She already broke up with you emotionally long before she left you.”

#2. “Women cry freely, talk to friends/family about it, and process their feelings faster.”

I believed that nonsense.

Until life proved it wrong with real experience.

After dealing with more women, I discovered the uncomfortable truth:

She moved on so easily because she never invested anything serious in me.

Especially FINANCIALLY.

Think about it.

If a woman was spending her own money on you… paying for things, investing in your life, giving you financial support…do you think she would bounce back like nothing happened?

Hell No.

She would be in serious pain. She would probably even drag the breakup for months or years, constantly reminding herself, “After all I did for this guy…”

But when she has zero financial investment? She walks away light. Zero losses. Off to the next simp...


Imagine a sinking ship.

The people who panic, fight, cry, and do everything possible to save it are the ones who put their money into it: THE INVESTORS.

The passengers who just bought a ticket? They simply jump into the next available boat with zero sorrow. They lose nothing.

Your relationship is that ship.

If she never invested real money in it… then to her, the relationship is just a cruise. Nice while it lasted. When turbulence comes, she jumps ship easily and boards the next one with fresh excitement.

Be wise brothers…
The post is correct that a woman with no investment walks away easily. But the deeper truth is,she was never really yours ,because she was never really invested.

A woman who invests her time, her emotions, and her loyalty will mourn your loss even if she never spent a kobo on you. If she walked away without a scratch, she was never truly in it
Watch what she invests Time, emotion, money all matter
Do not be the only one giving If you are the only one investing, you are the one who will hurt
Do not confuse her presence with her investment She can be there without being invested
If she walks away easily, she was never really there Her absence is your clarity
Forum Games › Re: Can You Answer This Question With A Reason? by Solofresh2: 9:08am On Jun 30
Rapmoney:
Which of the following countries DOES NOT belong here?

A) Nigeria
B) Ghana
C) India
D) Brazil

Give the correct answer with a concrete reason.
It's Ghana.
Nigeria,India and Brazil are all BRICS members but Ghana is not
Sports › Re: Official FIFA World Cup 2026 Thread by Solofresh2: 10:36pm On Jun 28
That one na their papa business
Food › Re: Plantain Chips: Would You Make This Or Would You Rather Buy? (pictures) by Solofresh2: 11:02pm On Jun 27
Mariangeles:
With the amount of chips I got with just three plantains, I'd say it's worth it to make your own plantain chips when you feel like having some, or just keeping for snacking.

So, would you make your own plantain chips, or would you rather buy?
I would rather make mine to suit my taste
Romance › Re: 'Chioma My Life': Man Tattoos Girlfriend’s Name On His Chest by Solofresh2: 9:47am On Jun 27
Mariangeles:
You see why you shouldn't take people on internet seriously?
This guy is probably on one social media platform bashing women, while he's a simp in real life. smiley
The people acting Alpha or feminists are mostly simps to the opposite gender in real life.The are pained deep down and then they come online to claim alphas grin
Crime › Re: Police Arrest 21-year-old With Human Body Part In Lagos by Solofresh2: 2:53pm On Jun 26
All these useless young ritualists that don't want to work but want to live large angry angry angry
Nairaland General › Re: Do People Still Thank God It's Friday? by Solofresh2: 2:44pm On Jun 26
Everyday na holiday for my side grin
Politics › Re: Tinubu Vows Safe Return Of Abducted Oyo Teachers, Pupils by Solofresh2: 10:07am On Jun 26
Tinubu is a very foolish and useless man
Tufiakwa..... Tinubu I pour you spit
Politics › Re: Remi Tinubu Defends Federal Government's Empowerment Schemes At The Grassroots by Solofresh2: 10:05am On Jun 26
The first lady of Nigeria is encouraging her citizens to venture into akara business grin

Nigeria my country grin
Celebrities › Re: Omeche Oko Involved In A Bike Accident On A Movie Set by Solofresh2: 2:56pm On Jun 25
UkoAnnang:
grin

Nollywood actresses plenty
In Nigeria,all slay queens are actress
Sports › Re: Portugal Vs DR Congo: World Cup 2026 (1 - 1) On 17th June 2026 by Solofresh2: 6:18pm On Jun 22
bluejay05:
Olodo, just as your mumu Penaldo, Argentina did not play draw with Saudi Arabia in the last world cup, they lost 2:1. Penaldo fans are kids with shallow brains 🤣🤣🤣
Just like you 🤣🤣🤣
Food › Re: Hilda Baci Presented With Her Certificate As A Guinness World Records ICON. by Solofresh2: 11:10am On Jun 20
MICHEALADEX:
What happened to that her restaurant again where she sells one spoon of jollof rice for ₦22,000
A portion of jollof rice is N3,770 Now
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: French Court Confirms Hakimi Will Stand Trial For Rape by Solofresh2: 1:59pm On Jun 19
Flangelo12:
Bad women are making it difficult for other women.
This sentence is deep honestly.I lost interest in most girls now
Celebrities › Re: Who Is The Most Famous Person On This Plane? (Photo) by Solofresh2: 6:04pm On Jun 18
Jackson of course
Sports › Re: Portugal Vs DR Congo: World Cup 2026 (1 - 1) On 17th June 2026 by Solofresh2: 8:53pm On Jun 17
bluejay05:
There's a big difference between GOAT ( Messi ) and " Awure" ( Ronaldo) 😂😂😂
shut up oga
Messi /Argentina played a 1-1 draw against Saudi Arabia in the first game of the last world cup he won
Business › Re: Elon Musk Adds $135 Billion To His Fortune, Now Has A Net Worth Of $1.3 Trillion by Solofresh2: 6:39pm On Jun 16
simpleseyi:
If he likes, he can have Zillions, we don’t care. He is still a very sad man just like the ordinary man on the streets
Actually bro grin
We only pray for our own fortunes 🙏
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Marc Cucurella To Join Real Madrid After World Cup by Solofresh2: 3:41pm On Jun 15
ZombieTERROR:
why not
they pay well

If Chelsea is a good club under Blueco

they would have had Osimhen, kvara, olise..
not garnacho, gittens and mudryk
Shut up oga
Politics › Re: ADC Announces Amaechi As Atiku's Running Mate by Solofresh2: 3:33pm On Jun 15
Antoeni:
These Demons Just Want to Spoil Peter Obi's Chance
Peter Obi is a demon too
Celebrities › Re: I Cannot Live Without Michael” – Niniola Shares Heartbreaking Message After Husb by Solofresh2: 3:30pm On Jun 15
This one is chasing clout.
Go and check her Instagram page.This woman have been posting gibberish and you will begin to wonder if she is truly grieving like she claimed
Mtcheww

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