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Romance › Re: What Can I Do To An Entitled Younger Step Sister by Solofresh2(op): 10:04pm On Nov 03, 2025
Mariangeles:
Oh! That's bad.
Really bad.
exactly sad
Romance › Re: What Can I Do To An Entitled Younger Step Sister by Solofresh2(op): 9:31pm On Nov 03, 2025
immortalcrown:
You have not clearly explained how she feels entitled. What exactly does she do that makes you conclude that she feels so entitled?
It's less about one big thing and more about a pattern. For example, she no longer asks for things.She expects them. She'll make decisions about my money or my time without consulting me, and gets upset or gives me the silent treatment when I say no or can't deliver. The gratitude has been replaced with expectations
I just hope it won't affect me later.That is the fear
Romance › Re: What Can I Do To An Entitled Younger Step Sister by Solofresh2(op): 9:19pm On Nov 03, 2025
Mariangeles:
You're the closest thing to a father figure that she has now, so don't disappoint/abandon her.
And just like a father, do only whatever is within your power for her.
No do pass yourself.
Honestly I can't help abandoning her because my mind will be there smiley
Romance › What Can I Do To An Entitled Younger Step Sister by Solofresh2(op): 8:52pm On Nov 03, 2025
This girl now feel so entitlement to my things now because have been gifting her stuffs.She is my step sister and in secondary school education SS2 .I took over paying her school fees even before we lost our dad last year.Her mum is dead and she is the only child.My siblings had asked me to be careful with her but I loved her so much and I used to feel pity for her.Though I am single close to my late 20s I decided to take responsibilities of her education because my dad stopped working a long time ago because of his health.
She now feel so entitled and I just hope it won't get out of hand in the future
What do you think guys?
Forum Games › Re: What’s Your Next Move? by Solofresh2: 7:40pm On Oct 30, 2025
SpaceX:
I'm a billionaire, I don't need the money
Even Elon musk will not tell me he doesn't want that money grin
Do you know what dollar is?
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Liverpool Vs Crystal Palace: EFL Cup (0 - 3) On 29th October 2025 by Solofresh2: 7:59pm On Oct 29, 2025
Liverpool wins tonight 💪
Never walk alone
Romance › Re: Why Does This Happens To Almost Everyone by Solofresh2: 9:21am On Oct 27, 2025
Kobojunkie:
That feeling someone else has for you will also die with time. Are you conveniently ignoring this fact? sad

2. Settling for someone you don't love because the person loves you will always backfire. It did with our grandfathers and grandmothers, our fathers and mothers, and continues the same to this day. It never ends well for people in those sorts of relationships. undecided

3. Someone who gives and gives and gives of themselves without even getting back the bare minimum in return — you can't give love to a person you do not love — will eventually reach their limit. And when that limit is reached... grin
You make fair points, but let me reframe it with an analogy.

Imagine you have two business partners. One is a 'feeling' a charismatic idea you're excited about, but they never show up to work or deliver. The other is less flashy, but they are reliable, invested, and show up every day to build something with you.

My advice wasn't "marry the reliable one even if you hate them." It was: "Stop pouring all your capital into the failing venture out of attachment to an idea. Direct your energy to the partner who is already building with you, because that's where a real, lasting enterprise (or relationship) is actually constructed."

The 'feeling' for the person who gives you 'seen' is an addiction to the drama of the chase. The potential with the person who appreciates you is the foundation for a genuine, lasting bond. You're choosing the architect over the mirage
Romance › Re: Why Does This Happens To Almost Everyone by Solofresh2:
Unclebayo:
but what if the lady that loves you isn’t so attractive? cry
She is not attractive to you abi?
She is attractive to other guys.Do you know the number of guys in her dm looking for her attention?
Let me share my story with you.There is this particular lady I liked and know.I used to gift her stuff and sometimes some money.She appreciates it and comes closer but I can sense she doesn't like me.Though I was gifting her are things I can do away with like, things I can gift comfortably.So I challenged her one day that she doesn't like me etc and she started distancing herself.Shestopped picking my calls, she stopped replying my messages.She never initiates a message with me.
Meanwhile, there is this particular lady at my former place of work who has been giving me green lights of which am aware of but I don't find her attractive.I don't gift her anything oo.The guy gifting her stuffs at my place of work, she no send am.
So I decided to stop calling and texting the the lady I find attractive.It wasn't easy and it was painful because I genuinely love that girl.So for like one and a half month,I didn't contact her and I gave the other lady a chance during this period even though I didn't like her but the things she do for me make me start getting interested in her.
The lady I liked noticed I stopped calling her and she is my church member.She started making indirect moves till she couldn't take it anymore and one youth vigil she was like can we talk? and I replied ok.
She started acting nice or like she cared but I acted nonchalant which she noticed.
She was now like "You don't like me anymore" and I replied "like you as how?am I your boyfriend?". She said I don't care about her anymore and I replied yes I don't and she almost cried 😂
She said any relationship she enters now must lead to marriage that she is of marriagable age.Though she is older than I do but she is still a youth like me.
She later agreed to date me and all this while I have started dating the other lady who i don't find attractive but they transferred her to another branch which she not happy with but I felt pity for her not love
Meanwhile, the lady I liked has grown into me and she has begin to like me so well and we are still dating till now knowing fully well I broke someone heart embarassed
So my point is that if you don't find her attractive don't give her hope
Give the lady you find attractive space.
Don't date out of pity.Its better to remain single
Romance › Re: Why Does This Happens To Almost Everyone by Solofresh2: 9:58am On Oct 26, 2025
Unclebayo:
Hey guys…

Why did we always go with the girls that don’t care about us and leave the ones that has pure heart for us.

A man sent 250k to a lady and she replied with seen and same man sent launch to another lady and the girl wrote a long epistles thanking him and appreciating the love..

But guess what the man will still go with the one that wrote seen..

I’m currently in the show that’s why I don’t blame him… I know a girl that loves me so much but I don’t have feelings for her and I still don’t knows why, this girl can do anything for me to survive Yet I’m not even replying her messages.

Why ? 😢
It's normal.We are humans but let me make something clear to you.That feelings you have for that person will die with time so you have to be very logical when dealing with things like this as a man.
You should be going for someone who loves you not someone you love.The reason is because the person who loves you will do anything to protect you and make you happy as a man.You will always value respect as a man.The lady who doesn't love you will hardly respect you.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Brentford Vs Liverpool (3 - 2) On 25th October 2025 by Solofresh2: 9:47pm On Oct 25, 2025
Dohn:
Ofcus u will..
Bouncer
Bouncing castle fc grin grin
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Brentford Vs Liverpool (3 - 2) On 25th October 2025 by Solofresh2: 9:45pm On Oct 25, 2025
Lamasta:
This is an interesting match am enjoying my money, how I wish My darling Brentford can make it 4

I know my team Brentford is in form this season, I already said it on front page
Romance › Re: The Redpill: What Was And What Is by Solofresh2: 8:33pm On Oct 25, 2025
There is nothing really special about the red pill.
Just put yourself first in everything you do and don't be a people pleaser inorder for people to like you.If you have it in a way it won't affect you, give out to people.You can be kind but not at the expenses of your own comfort
Family › Re: Men Actually Do Have A Biological Clock: The Silent Ticker by Solofresh2: 8:08pm On Oct 21, 2025
AngelicBeing:
LoL 😂, meanwhile, were is Sukkot your Buddy shocked

Is he still at Planet Jupiter, Venus or Mars shocked
grin grin
Family › Re: Men Actually Do Have A Biological Clock: The Silent Ticker by Solofresh2: 1:38pm On Oct 21, 2025
In anything you do.Never argue with a woman.
It's pointless.You can't argue with emotions
Family › Re: Men Actually Do Have A Biological Clock: The Silent Ticker by Solofresh2: 1:34pm On Oct 21, 2025
Politics › Re: Nnamdi Kanu’s Lawyer, Brother, 10 Others Charged To Court by Solofresh2: 1:32pm On Oct 21, 2025
SeeWahala:
Well, I could argue that those who have been arrested for 'begging for his release' are the foolish people instead 😏

Don't you agree? 🤗
Yes are foolish too.
If sowore that led them wasn't arrested,they have no business being arrested over this matter
Politics › Re: Nnamdi Kanu’s Lawyer, Brother, 10 Others Charged To Court by Solofresh2: 1:26pm On Oct 21, 2025
SeeWahala:
MNK explicitly said and I quote

"NOBODY SHOULD BEG FOR MY RELEASE"

so on that note, anything these men see make dem take am like that 🤗
He is a foolish man for saying this
Family › Re: My Newly Married Wife Took in and Had Refused To Copulate by Solofresh2: 9:50am On Oct 17, 2025
NiRfreak:
You are very dumbbb sorry to say.
.
Her body is going through a lot.. Which lot?
.2 weeks marriage, less than 2 weeks honeymoon and.. 2 weeks of so called pregnancy then her body is going through a lot? Like how?
What should a 7month pregnant woman body do? What should a woman who just deliver do.....
..
Most nairaland men are simps in nature.
The OP himself is a simp From his story
Celebrities › Re: Akon’s 29-year Marriage Ends: Wife Tomeka Thiam Files For Divorce, Demands €100m by Solofresh2: 8:15pm On Oct 15, 2025
whytediamond:
Men, make una shine una eyes o. These women are mean and ruthless.

I know some of you will say, "my babe or wife is different"

Okoko always cry "had I known" in end

The system of the world is heavily rigged against men.

Awareness is the first step to be free from their clutches.

Your wife or girlfriend does not love you.

You were her best option.
The bolded carry weight oo hmmmm
Celebrities › Re: Portable Leaks Babymama Ashabi Simple’s Chat With Islamic Cleric by Solofresh2: 4:56pm On Oct 14, 2025
Nigerian women marry who they feel is financially ready but craves for love outside married.
That's how one was disturbing me about last year just because we crack jokes together
Naso I block the werey till date
You are married and still expect me to be sleeping with you for what exactly huh
Education › Re: Something I Noticed About Ladies In My Class In University by Solofresh2: 3:25pm On Oct 11, 2025
Host78:
I am going to say this stuff and most guys will probably relate with it.

You may have noticed it too. But if you have not, as I describe this you'll understand it once.

So, when we just gained admission newly and resumed school, for most of us we just want to get the best grades.

But not just grades sha.

I personally made a vow that I'll have my first serious girlfriend from 100l.

My goal was that we could grow together from there and probably get married someday.

Don't blame me, your boy was young and naive then.

Most girls in 100l with us then just won't date us.

I mean some did but never anything serious.

Their eyes were rather on the senior students. These girls were going with guys in 300l and 400l students.

Omo, senior men wey we dey respect as guys naim these girls dey call 'baby'.

100l was tough.

You will toast this girl today and both of you'll be feeling it and the next day same girl will break up with you.

Not that you did anything o. Na senior student Don toast her be that.

Now here's the problem. It's 6 years after and we are in 400l.

We are now the 'highest' in the school.

And the obvious now is some of these girls are now trying to cling to us.

It's funny now sha. Person wey dey feel like say dem no fit look your side a few years ago now wan dey follow you package stuff.

Unfortunately, me no too send them again. Fresh babes are coming in every year and they seem better, look more eager and tends to demand less.

So why would I leave such for my mate who dem chew for my front and she's still demanding something serious?

I also think this same thing happens in the real dating world.

These girls in their younger age will go after matured men leaving boys in their age groups.

A few years later, these boys will catch up and the girls will want to come back but then younger girls go don already dey.
This also happens in secondary school as well when I was in Jss3 their is lady who did same to me and she changed position come my side in ss2 I lash am and later ghost am
It's the sexual market value.As a young man your sexual market value increases and that young woman own started reduces as she clocks 26 upwards.
This is why between 18 years to 25 years they still in the market so as they get older they start to feel their sexual market value reducing that is when they will start coming around you looking for a serious relationship.
Bad guys have them in their prime for free (18-25), nice guys have them when they are fast losing their sexual market value
Celebrities › Re: The Difference Between Wizkid And Davido Reveal Base On The Industry Machine Alb by Solofresh2: 3:10pm On Oct 11, 2025
Goodlady:
Since Fela originated afrobeat,his yardstick is needed. Has ya Dafeedo ever done any song like that? No be love-love and love song he dey sing?
Wetin you dey argue sef?
We all v choices. Am a fan of noth artist but ratings must be done accordingly.
You talking about genre professorship confirmed you no sabi music at all. You be gen z wey mo wan learn.
My dear, even Fela would be disappointed in this argument. Music EVOLVES. The Highlife of Fela's time is not the Afrobeats of today. Should we also say Burna Boy is not a real Afrobeat artist because he doesn't use a 30-piece band like Fela? By your logic, every genre must stay in a museum. Davido didn't set out to be Fela; he set out to be Davido, and he became a global superstar doing his own thing. Your 'yardstick' is for a different era
Celebrities › Re: The Difference Between Wizkid And Davido Reveal Base On The Industry Machine Alb by Solofresh2: 10:32pm On Oct 10, 2025
Goodlady:
Afrobeat songs usually speak about social issues. Ojuelegba is one of them.
Talking about saxophone, there's a difference between jazz and afrobeat. Does Kenny G use African drums?
Dey reason before you comment cos this one wey you just jump at le be like say you be Dafeedo's butt licker. I like David's music too. But Wizzy tilted more to afrobeat than him.
You're confusing Fela's Afrobeat (political messages, complex rhythms) with the modern Afrobeats (the popular genre). We're talking about Afrobeats with an 'S'. Ojuelegba is a great story, but it's not a political protest song like 'Zombie'. Davido makes Afrobeats bangers for the people. If you want to be a genre professor, at least get your syllabus right before you call me a licker. 😂 Your argument is as mixed up as your genres
Celebrities › Re: The Difference Between Wizkid And Davido Reveal Base On The Industry Machine Alb by Solofresh2: 10:27pm On Oct 10, 2025
PigTormentor:
Actually I'll take that back. He was using some Yoruba on whatever the track was at that time, so I knew he must be Nigerian but at that time I don't know about him and a lot of the other guys back then. The main point is that he's music is legendary and wil last for the long haul compared to Davido.
Also,he already made afro beat popular before Davido became popular. There's no comparison.
Now, I should be on here praising Davido because I have lots of connections to him, from one of his best friends, to one of his top managers. They are all my younger nephews but I'm real. I say it like it's.
Wait, so Davido's top manager is your nephew and you're on here downplaying him to big up Wizkid? 😂 Family dinner at your house must be AWKWARD! 'Hey nephew, pass the rice... by the way, your boss makes noise and his career is short-lived.' I see now, this isn't about being 'real,' it's about trying so hard to not look biased that you've become biased against your own family! That's the real tea
Celebrities › Re: The Difference Between Wizkid And Davido Reveal Base On The Industry Machine Alb by Solofresh2: 9:14pm On Oct 10, 2025
PigTormentor:
Wizkid has no comparison.
He's in a different category.
He's hits are for the long haul.
First time I heard Wiz kid was on an Atlanta radio station in 2011,and I didn't even know back then that he was Nigerian until someone in the car told.
I downloaded the hits back then, I still listen to some of those tracks till today.
That's what you call music, not that noise from Davido.
So Wizkid's biggest flex is that he sounded foreign enough to play on an Atlanta radio in 2011? And you didn't even know he was Nigerian? 😭 That's not the flex you think it is! Davido's power is that he sounds SO Nigerian, SO authentically Afrobeat, that the whole world had to come to HIS sound. He didn't blend in abroad, he made abroad adapt to him. That's a different level of influence
Celebrities › Re: The Difference Between Wizkid And Davido Reveal Base On The Industry Machine Alb by Solofresh2: 9:07pm On Oct 10, 2025
ednut1:
Davido is finished musically. Wizkid still has some juice left
Finished? The same Davido who sold out the 02 Arena in minutes? The one whose 'TIMELESS' album broke records? My brother, if that's 'finished,' I wish all our faves could be this finished. Wizkid's juice is in a small carton, OBO's is in a whole dam
Celebrities › Re: The Difference Between Wizkid And Davido Reveal Base On The Industry Machine Alb by Solofresh2: 9:02pm On Oct 10, 2025
Goodlady:
Both sing afrobeat. In fact, wizkid do more of afrobeat cos of presence of more saxophone and guitar in his melody.
Songs like Ojuelegba, Omo jayejaye are pure afrobeats.
The only part agreed with you is that Wizzy drop songs that last longer. While Davido focus on rave of the moment.
So by your logic, every song with a saxophone is Afrobeat? So Kenny G is the King of Afrobeat? 😂 My guy, that's like saying a burger is a salad because it has lettuce. The core rhythm is what matters, and Davido's drums are pure Afro. OBO's sound is the foundation, Wizkid just decorates it with saxophones for the international listeners
Sports › Re: Lesotho Vs Nigeria: 2026 World Cup Qualifiers (1 - 2) On 10th Oct 2025 by Solofresh2: 8:58pm On Oct 10, 2025
Freshtruth:
bro is not open anything! Is not in our hands we are relying on ruwanda. But as it stands south Africa are relying on us to advance which is a reality and possible because we still have hope but is ruwanda having any hope? Benin just even need a point. So out of the 3 now our chances slim pass bro.
I mean it's open between Benin,South Africa and Nigeria
Celebrities › Re: The Difference Between Wizkid And Davido Reveal Base On The Industry Machine Alb by Solofresh2: 8:56pm On Oct 10, 2025
So let me get this straight: You're saying Davido makes explosive HITS that blow up the whole continent, and Wizkid makes background music for spas and coffee shops? 😂 We don't want 'durable' we want DANGEROUS! We want FIA! We want UN-AVAILABLE! OBO is the HITMAN! Who needs 'durability' when you can drop a new anthem every season?
Sports › Re: Lesotho Vs Nigeria: 2026 World Cup Qualifiers (1 - 2) On 10th Oct 2025 by Solofresh2: 8:44pm On Oct 10, 2025
Freshtruth:
what also make U feel south Africa can't beat ruwanda that answer this ur long write up. Y u sweating to beat Benin south Africa done jejely win their final match case close
I never said South Africa can't beat Rwanda.
As far as football is concerned.Anybody can beat anybody but as a Nigerian that I am,I am telling you that Nigeria can still qualify and the group is still open for any team to qualify as long as football is concerned
Sports › Re: Lesotho Vs Nigeria: 2026 World Cup Qualifiers (1 - 2) On 10th Oct 2025 by Solofresh2: 8:37pm On Oct 10, 2025
Those of you saying Nigeria can't defeat Benin, knows nothing about football
You think winning a football game is by form?
Football doesn't work that way.As far as am concerned, Nigeria can still qualify.The game is still open for everyone.
What made you think Chelsea where unable to beat man united at old Trafford since 2013?
You want to tell me that Chelsea haven't been in a great form to defeat United at Old Trafford all these years despite man united misfortunes?
Liverpool defeated Everton this season.Crystal palace defeated Liverpool and now Everton defeated Crystal palace
Why can't Crystal palace defeat Everton if they can defeat Liverpool and are also in form?
Liverpool defeating Arsenal doesn't mean Chelsea will defeat Arsenal because they have defeated Liverpool
The list goes on and on but let me stop here
Culture › Re: Marriage In South Sudan by Solofresh2: 7:33pm On Oct 08, 2025
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Na WA.....

Africans with their funny traditional practices..

Imagine allowing the wife you paid dowry on to be doing I.T under your roof for four good years cheesy. And she equally has the right to say--"I no wan do again" should the man treat her badly during the four years of internship angry
Marriage is for women
It only favours women around the world

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