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This list is 90% correct. The only one I would question is #5 — holding women accountable will filter out the wrong ones, but the right one will respect it.

ManknowThyself:
No real man live his life to the validation and approval of the family, society, church and people's opinions except for his divine peace and positive mental state of mind.

Children will always exist without him, when he loses himself without peace and depressed to health failure and death due to toxicity.

Life goes on with the kids and the abusive spouse will eventually move ahead with life and ride on dicks to her satisfaction.

Na who die lose.

You are right that a man must prioritize his peace. A man who stays in toxicity will eventually break — mentally, physically, and spiritually.You are not wrong about the outcome. But you are wrong about the ease of leaving. For many men, leaving is a war — not a walk
A man who stays in toxicity will die — slowly. But a man who leaves may also lose his children, his home, and his peace. The choice is not as simple as you make it sound

A man will notice your looks first. But he will stay for your character. If you have nothing beyond your looks, he will leave.

Let's continue from where we stopped

A man without purpose will eventually lose himself — and you. If you want him to stay, support his mission. Do not try to become his only mission.

ManknowThyself:
No true man accepts the red flags of disrespect and toxicity from any woman cos his peace of mind and mental health is always priority and not negotiable.


In a nutshell, only fake and weak men stay put in toxic relationship and marriage without walking away with dignity.

Walking away is dignified. But staying does not always mean weakness.Sometimes it means being trapped.

Samantha125:
Where do you guys get this ideology that men who are victims of domestic violence aren't real men though?

The ideology comes from everywhere — from how we raise boys, how we talk about men, and how we mock male victims. It is learned, not natural

ManknowThyself:
Low self-esteem,trauma bonding and the scarcity mindset of getting another woman to cherish and respect them for who they are.

Real men never hesitate to walk away when narcissistic women obviously disrespectful to who they truly are as a man.

Your analysis is correct — but it is incomplete. Men stay not just because of mindset, but because the world does not make leaving easy for them
A real man walks away when he is disrespected. But a real man also understands that leaving is not always simple. The system, the shame, and the fear of losing his children keep him trapped

SeeWahala:
No no no, that's what Simpson's do

We REAL MEN marry a 2nd or 3rd wife that way anybody wey taayaa for the marriage is free to leave the man and go 🤗

We haff plenty sense

That is not wisdom — it is deflection dressed as humor.You are not solving the problem.You are avoiding it. That is not sense — that is escape
If you cannot handle one wife, you cannot handle three. You are just multiplying your problems
A man who marries multiple wives to avoid dealing with one is not a real man — he is a man who is running from responsibility. Real men face their problems. They do not collect wives to distract themselves

Samantha125:
But I'm curious, how come those men who are victims of domestic violence hardly ever leave their toxic union?

This is because leaving is not as simple as it looks — and society does not make it easy for men to leave.A man who stays is not weak. He is trapped — by shame, by the system, and by the belief that he has no way out.
A woman who leaves is brave. A man who leaves is seen as a coward. That is why men stay.
Men do not stay because they are weak. They stay because the world does not give them a reason to leave. They are expected to endure, to provide, and to keep quiet

You nko are you not control freak 😏

Women often say they want to understand men. But most of what they hear is from other women, social media, or movies. This thread is for women who truly want to understand men — not the fantasy, but the reality.

If you are ready to hear the truth, keep reading. If you prefer to live in a fairy tale, stop here.

A man can survive without love. He cannot survive without respect. If you do not respect him, he will eventually leave — no matter how much he loves you

Men are not mysteries. They are simple. If he says he is fine, he is fine. If he says he needs space, he needs space. Stop reading into everything

So you are truly ready

Let's go there now oyaaaaaa

Are you ready for this shit

Okay okay okay okay okay

I have observed, I have learned, and I have experienced. This thread is not for simps. It is not for men who still believe women are angels. It is for men who want to understand women the way they really are — not the way they are portrayed in church, movies, or social media.

It is not about the murder. It is about the frame.
Women are not attracted to the murder. They are attracted to the frame — the danger, the notoriety, the unavailability, the challenge
Women are not attracted to killers. They are attracted to men who cannot be controlled. And a man on death row is the ultimate uncontrolled man
A woman will chase a man she cannot have — even if that man is a murderer.

He did not lose. He just did not win as much as he could have. That is not a tragedy — that is a lesson

They say IJebu likes money 😂
Kekere IJebu ooo owo ni
Agba IJebu ooo owo ni

United vs Bayern? They will lose both legs. The draw does not change that

She bought a house. That is not a crime. But public trust requires transparency — and this report will only fuel existing frustrations

Evaress:
What makes you think its every girl you see that you will go hit on? Or what makes you think every woman will lower herself to a street money olosho? There are still way lot of classy and independent ladies out there and we get irritated when these horn*y ass men keep touching us in public and trying to flirt with us inappropriately.
If you need a ha*rlot, you know where they stay.

Stop sending me email horn*y ass guys, i'm not your type and i will never be.
You wan come give me infection. I reject it in Jesus Name!

You are right. No one should touch you without consent. But not every man who approaches is a dog. Some just want to say hello.

Ifexibe:
The soul enters the body at the time of birth.

Dey play
You think the soul enters the body so fast without the soul doing a recap and knowing what life lesson is next before coming over 😏

AdolfHitlerxXx:
Baba.... Tunde. Return of Baba

Baby wey don dey kick before baba die😏

AdolfHitlerxXx:
Baba.... Tunde. Return of Baba

I don't think so
That baby has been in existence before ogogo died

LordBiden:
Hahaha!😆
E pain me,seems I didn't struck a nerve.
MY mom left yansh there.

You good 😏

Sonnobax15:

Where are the men? . They must had probably worked off their assss and died before their times

Dear men, please as you're taking care of your family,do not equally forget to take care of yourself as well too

God bless you and your family for this 🙏

Izuchukwu70:
What about you? No bi everybody go kpai?

If to say e be politician he no go talk that one
Some of them will do worst than these politicians if they have the grace to be in power
Hypocrites everywhere