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Kidaholic:
Despite all that I discovered about her few months ago that she's in serious relationship with other guy.
She asked you not to call again and proceeded to block you on her social media accounts and you are still asking what you should do? what you shouldn't do?
You funny sha!

this your meme fit "am trying to figure out your stupidity

lizard

Teaser4:
1-1

thanks papi

pls what is the scores for fulham vs wolvehampton

LordofNaija:
Boju boju. So someone actually fell for it

so it was a lie

Having heard that the FG has added to police salary, please what is the new salary according to ranks?

cc david470

HeavenlyBang:
There's a thread for this already.

never knew

Guys whats the highest speed you have ever driven on car?
the highest for me was 120km/hr
lalasticlala

she tried

if you like your life stay away

i see no reason why a grown lady who is not yet "married" will still continue to be in that kind of relationship
i will proudly say she is fool she has no kids for him so has all the freedom on earth to leave such toxic relationship

maybe she is still in the relationship cos of the financial support wtf is he the only man on earth
maybe he threatens her life if she tries to leave the relationship? she should report to the right authorities last i heard the military doesnt joke with any soldier trying to abuse military strength on their partners they have a special cell for them
maybe she is scared he is going to take away everything he got for her? those things arent worth her life.

my advice for you is to stay out of the issue for now if he discovers you trying to push too hard your physical well being might just be at risk before they rescue you

decuteGenius:
by Voting out Buhari

that was helpful

please vocalist in the house copy and paste is allowed

tokrizy:
I really do not have to read this to tell u all that everything written here is for jst reading sake.


Who go go wayward go go wayward...

do yu mean you will leave your child up-bringing to fate?
will you give them free hand based on who will go wayward will go wayward?

Chuks9000:
Seems you are a pastor?
Teenagers with means tend to associate with "happening" dudes. Maybe, they are fascinated by things outside the bible. They get hooked up to vices easily. Because they can afford to sponsor themselves and those that will be willing to show them the way.
My guess is, don't overload them with dos and donts.
Show them the task ahead (adulthood). The ones God has called would have a dream to chase thereby, limiting their worldly experiments.

ok

Saffi:
Pastors tend to be too strict on the children, creating unrealistic expectations for their kids, and the kids rebel against them. The children are too scared to open up to their parents, and that’s just the reality.

hmmmm i got your point, they are scared of opening up thereby doing things from their own will even tho it will be detrimental to them.

Chuks9000:
Most pastors children lack parental guidance. They are the most wayward of their piers. No thanks to mummy and daddy in the lord that are forever attending to others thereby, leaving the children to train themselves. Mind you, the kids are exposed to more than needed resources.

more than needed resourses like?

nice one there

Saffi:
Don’t be too strict, it causes the opposite effect
Make sure both parents are actively in the child life. Especially the dad. Or make sure there’s a fatherly figure in their life.
Make it comfortable for you children to speak to you, stop creating unnecessary fear in your kids.
Watch the friends your child has. It plays a huge role in their behaviour
Have outings with your child. Don’t neglect your child’s needs outside food or shelter, or they will look elsewhere for it.
Just show genuine care and love to your child. Let them feel loved at home.

This is coming from someone who had a rebellious teenage life, I see the mistakes my parents made, and I won’t make the same mistakes with my kids.

Chuks9000:
It all depends on the values the teenager was exposed to.

That's true, but what about some pastor's children that are exposed to good values and they still go wayward
what's your take on this

As we all know there are rampant cases of young boys involving in cyber crime and rituals and girls also being used for rituals all because of greed for money.
We also know The teenage stage is very crucial in the moral up-bringing of a child.

So what are the steps parents should take during teenage stage to prevent the waywardness of a child?
Should parent restrict their movement?
should parent resort into prayer?

I would like to hear your opinion about this