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Jchei:
he is just not into you sweet heart a man that wants you will follow you from  heaven to hell" THIS DUDE IS JUST MESSING WITH YOUR HEAD

thanks,watched that movie,its just hard to apply ,when it comes to u,

But ,i get it, will try my hardest !

Ranoscky:
WOW !!!, OP, I cant believe i finished reading all that pages Mc millian text book that you typed on the front page. Pls, let me take some rest and come back lerra for my reply pertaining your story. *Leans back on his sofa to take a good rest!*

r u well rested now ! u peeps r just funny,with the whole long story comments,dont people read nowadays?

lol.


i guess its different strokes for different folks, i actually like a long read,

its basically a guy i used to date who was/is the love of my life, and i cant get him out my head,even though i'm dating someone now

Short enough?

Omolola1:
Get another guy, u wuld get him out of your head

Dating someone already,

texazzpete:
This marketing stunt has succeeded in catching one person, i see.

No 2

ifyalways:
A good movie marketing strategy.
Im off to youtube to check out the movie.

thanks for all ur advice

jay bee:
You are feeling the way u do cos 100% of you still wish you are with him. Fact is dude probably doesn't feel the same way about you.

You have to find that inner strength no matter how hard it is to get this dude outta ya head.
Go on dates, make new friends, do new things, concentrate more on whatever relationship you may find yourself in and DON'T waste any more of your time.

It's kool/somewhat acceptable for us men to fool around cos frankly time is always on our hands. You are a woman and if someone doesn't wanna be with you then don't push it or keep holding on.

Ask him not to call you again and if he does CUT the phone (It's really that simple).

Thanks ,

U summed everything up accurately and 100% right !,    I'll find the inner strength ,no matter how hard, !

jay bee:
You are simply the fall back option and the sad thing is you are playing along hoping that one day he will come back for you.
When a man genuinely likes a girl they don't beat around the bush. They go straight to the point.
I sincerely hope you are still pretty young to be entertaining such.

It will do you a whole lotta good to cut communication with this dude if being friends with him will keep bringing back memories

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=621531.msg7892273#msg7892273 date=1299859209]Additional to what Jaybee said if a man using you he will string you along thinking that you have no clue and until he gets what he wants he will leave you. BUT a man that WANTS YOU WILL make you feel 100 and reassured.[/quote]thanks i caught that bit, that if a man likes u,nothing will make him stay away" fair point

i've severed all communications with him,i've deleted him from every network that links us together,deleted his number, i Moved on,or so i thought.

he called me this morning,didnt even realise it was him,till i heard his voice, and it took just hearing his voice to take me back there again, I dont want to feel that way ,but i do,


and i dont know what it will take for me to get over him

deniyor:
you shouldn't be dating anyone right now. Not while your mind is with someone else. It is not fair to you or the other person.
You should sit down and both bare your minds. You did earlier but he didn't. I think he still likes you, and not just as a friend but he
is looking for an opportunity to bring it up and still save face. All that talk about you being an invaluable friend is crap.
So break up with your bf, sit down with the ex and thrash things out. Even if it doesn't work out the way you hope, you should
enjoy being single for a while.

A piece of advice to you and others in your shoes, you NEVER start a relationship while you are not totally over an old one.
Entering a relationship with another guy is no way to get over an old flame/relationship. It is counterproductive.

Thanks,this makes a lot of sense,and i've tried,i've been single for a while,just to see what happens,but thats when i obsess over him, i thought,if i at least try to focus on someone else,i'll try to get over him,

All that talk about you being an invaluable friend is crap.

i think so too, cos the way he says it ,dont sound like he wants just friends,but then ,maybe i just dont understand men,

[b]The question now is,do i call him to initiate another talk?[/b]though i cant handle another rejection,my heart has had enough , 

25omega:
well sweetie you have to do something drastic like putting your man on the phone to tell him to back off or when ever you talk to him and he starts sayingall that mushy crap just say "i gotta man" use that to answer any question he asks you. The most drastic thing will be to change your number which i wont advice but you have to get rid of this guy

the thing is ,i cant do something drastic ,like that ,cos i'm not over him,I want to be with him, so i cant bring myself to do that,especially,if i feel there's an opening,

Will me dropping the phone on him,get him out of mind?, ,will that make me hate him?,cos trust me,i've tried drastic measures,called him pyscho ,a mess,but i'm the one that picks the phone next morning apologising ,

25omega:
That dude is simplying "Mind F@%king" you and you are letting him. when are you going to seriously move on? if you haven't moved on and you happen to be with someone else why not just break it off and get with him ? i say that because you keep allowing his issues to compromise your faithfulness to the person you are seeing.

he gave you an opening by asking if you were seeing someone why not say yes i am but i will end it to give us a try. For God sake that will be doing the other guy a favor. Anyway sha you are both the same in the sense that you emotinally cheat on the person you are with with each other.

i know he's "Mind F@%king" me , but the question is how do i break from it,  i've tried the cool approach,i've done the crazy approcah n the the silence one,but he still manages to get thru, i actually thought ,i was on my way to been done with him,cos i'm dating someone i like,but since our convo this morning,my mind has been all over the place,i cant concentrate

y didnt i say ,i was dating someone?,i've done that bit already,i try to throw ppl i'm dating in his face ,maybe to get a reaction ,but it hasnt worked,i end up breaking with those guys and then i look unstable to him,

Trust me guys,this is a summary,if i was to write the whole story,dont think nairaland will have enough space for it,

I need good advice pls, cos this is not even funny anymore


I dated this guy 2 yrs ago,lets just say he was /is the love of my life, ,but we broke up becos he felt i wasnt totally myself(which was true),but the truth was ,i had never felt that way about a guy before n i just didnt know how to act,cos i didnt want it to go wrong,so it was basically,like i was on egg shells around him, n that is soooo not me,but anyway,we broke up ,went our different ways ,he started dating someone ,i started dating another person,it both didnt work out for us,n we got intouch again ,thru IM,we saw each other a few times,but then he told me ,he wants us to be friends blah blah,as me n him are better off as friends,i said that was fine with me(which wasnt ,but i just wanted to be intouch with him,for some weird reasons,hoping something will come out of it)

So we stayed friends,he met someone ,told me he wants to get married n he's thinking of proposing to her(in my head ,am like ,i want to get married to,but realised this guy just dosent want me ),anyway i  went on with the process of PRETENDING to be happy for him,advising him on rings,and the guy will just go on and on about it,like waiting for me to snap,and i finally did,i was like u know what,i'm sick n tired of this n i feel u r taunting me,he went "No i'm not ,i just felt we were friends,beside i dont know whats going thru your mind anyway,u dont say anything" and he said just say whats on your mind!

I went ok,u know how i feel about u,like no one compares and i've tried to get over u,i listen to your Bulls*it,hoping ,it will help me move on,but its the viceversa,and it just makes me mad" and he went ,i appreciate u telling me the truth n kept quiet,so i was like ,see this is not a fight,i understand u have to live your life,u cant help who u like,but i cant be friends with u,i'm sorry,i've tried ,but i like u to much to just be friends,so i'm goin to do what is sane,and stop this communication btw me n u,cos its just torture,and i ll remove u from my FB,BB,and IM and i wish u the best.

so i removed him from my list and moved on ,or so i thought,i started seeing this guy ,that has been on my case for a while now,and things have been going good, only for my phone to ring this MORNING, and guess who ,yeah HIM

Said stuff about needing my help at some contacts and hope am good,and started about his girl,stopped and i told him to go on,and he said ,they might be breaking up,as hes just not feeling her anymore,cos of clash of behaviours,
though he met some other girl that likes him,and he's not yet sure what he wants to do yet, i went ,well take your time,cos the new girl might be worse,but then again ,the old girl should accept u for who u r and not try to make u severe ties with your friends.and he goes,have i met someone,i kept quiet and he was like ,maybe if i meet someone,me and him can be friends as in,we can advice each other,and then he goes ,this thng called love sef,very complicated ,and said,i miss u and i dont want to stop been friends with u,any of my ex,i'll have stopped talking to them but not u,so i was like,i do still think about u too,but its goin to be hard to friends, and he was like, take care i'll call u another time, so i said OK,do u still want me to get intouch with the contacts and he was like yeah(but it seemed like he had even forgotten about that)

So right now ,i'm back to square one,i moved on to 5,but i've just come back now,and i'm mad ,cos i dont know what he wants,there were some discreptances in his story(the girl he was dating,was not the girl he told me he wanted to break up with,its like he forgot what he told me),so i dont know what to think,y does he keep coming back to stay in touch with me?

I've had trey songz,"Cant be friends" on repeat all morning, dont know what to do,.

forgive my typos but Pls sound advice needed,i'm just restless,

xynerise:
It depends on individuals and culture. The yoruba tribe hardly avoid pregnancy and they get married to who is responsible for it. Even though the guy dey drink garri with his parent in a room apartment.

which yoruba tribe that o,

not the one Most of us comes from,

lol, very funny,

i've forgotten my ex birthday too, infact more than once ,and i've also forgotten my man's bday,even though he told me thrice already,dreading him asking ,when is his bday[b] AGAIN[/b],

serubawon:
Sorry for the delay everyone. I wasn't trying to create artificial suspense, but I had exams and was in a Training Program at the same time.  I'm just glad that it's finally over.

Ok. Back to the subject matter.  The verdict is in and the answer is YES!!!

I asked her to marry me a week ago and I got the answer almost before I had asked the question ( she was a bit mad because she was wondering why it was taking me so long to pop the question).  Women , if only they knew how hard it is to generate all the necessary courage needed in asking THE QUESTION.  I tried to make it as romantic as possible, while also ensuring I didn't make a complete fool of myself in the process.  She's beautiful, smart and most importantly, prayerful (I need someone like that).

My biggest fear has been the welfare of my kids.  I would die for my kids without thinking about it and because of our circumstances, I've become extremely protective over them.  I had only one condition which is not debatable: If she wasn't sure that she could love my kids like they were her own biological kids, then we had no future, period.  She found it a bit difficult to understand why I was so rigid on this subject, but this is how it is to me.  My kids never chose for their mom to die suddenly and I am responsible for their welfare.  If a woman makes my children happy, then I am a happy man and would live in peace.  Anything otherwise is completely unnacceptable.  Before I popped the question, I actually had to ask for my kid's permission to get married and I was really surprised when both of them told me that she was the one they wanted and how could I even think of anyone else.  So, what else was I waiting for.

So, this is a new chapter in my life.  It's a bit scary, knowing that I have to do everything possible not to compare her with my late wife.  That is difficult, but possible with God on my side.  I intend to write a book about my experiences (but that is still in the far future).  I pray that in about 5 years, I can return to nairaland and tell everyone that God guided me in making the right choice.  I really want to be happy, because I had been un-happy for so many years.  I pray she is THE ONE that makes it happen, as I have every intention of making her the happiest woman alive.


I need to really thank the whole gang on this thread.  A lot of comments have been very inspiring and encouraging.  I'm happy for the opportunity I had to express myself on this thread and for all your support.  So, I thank you all and pray that every single one of you will find that one person that will bring happiness and joy into your lives.

Hope it wasn't too boring.  Remain blessed.

that line brought tears to my eyes, (touching)

congratulations , n i wish u all the best,

[quote author=MzD@rkSkin link=topic=618978.msg7871983#msg7871983 date=1299600481][color=#0066ff]from the looks of it, no too many replies. so why dont you contribute instead of trying to
rephrase what Kokoye already said? sound like a plan? ok.[/color][/quote]phew, ,at least u understood that, there's still hope!!!


ok,my own contribution, cos most naija girls are wannnabess, 

Dont get me wrong,nothing wrong with wanting a good piece of hair on ur head,IF YOU CAN AFFORD IT, but most ppl can't and they rather sacrifice their right eye to have one, like they can only exist if they have brazilian hair on their head. its pathetic,

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=618978.msg7871351#msg7871351 date=1299595356]Why would I be talking about Nigeria if I am not in Nigeria.  I was talking about WHERE I AM.

DUH, I know you can't get a free blackberry in NIGERIA otherwise these broke arse mofos on this site wouldn't be crying about their girlfriends wanting a blackberry and a recharge card.[/quote][quote author=MzD@rkSkin link=topic=618978.msg7871355#msg7871355 date=1299595370][color=#0066ff]lmao @ the fellas, we are talking about in America. . .sorry
if we offended. Please school us!  [/color][/quote]The Poster said "Why The Craze About Brazillian Hair,italian Hair On Their Nigerian Head?"

so normal assumption ,should be IN NIGERIA

infact,its more than wa, i don refresh this page tire, what time of suspense is this? ,

nna na wa,

@ Missy B,

THUMBS UP,thats what i thought too,like ,that's the look she's goin for ,the girl is just goin on 30 ,or not even 30 yet, n u all goin age is catching up with her, thought, 30s was the new 20s.

As for Victoria inyama,that look is just Rass=local

she goes to my church n she dosen't look that bad, so not sure what happened 

The Event 

Not really sure ,if it caught on,watched a few episodes and it was ok, but NOT on the league of those.

MR Cork,U should be awarded ,the funniest man on nairaland,just hilarious,

followed by 190,

@Advocator,calm down, its not that serious,

Hotie Tima:
what is up with ppl duplicating my topic

Ever of the Adage" Good designer borrows,Great designer Steal"

this is funnier anyway,

Omolola1:
Sorry, who is Gaddafi?

thats a joke right?

hilarious

I see it as ART, nothing to it,

@prittigrrr

the chemistry btw u and serubawon made my day, sorry to bring this up at a time like this, but i just feel there's something there,and i'm sure both of u must have thought about it,

Honestly,if u guys get married,i will fly down to houston or wherever to witness it,

this just remind's me of the movie, sleepless in seatle, ,on another thought,we could actually turn this to first nairaland movie, Title"You got Post",or "Sleepless on Nairaland"

So sorry about ur loss,She's in a better place Now,

boriswole:
@ tollu, I'm a moderator on nairaland, not in family but in jobs, u can check my profile, however, I wasn't trying to take advantage of that,

I now know how hard it is to raise funds, maybe I was a little naive before. Our spamming brothers have made everyone to shine their eyes.


I will find out from the patient if st. Nicholas is attempting to raise funds for her, although I doubt that,

In Nigeria, when such things happen, ure pretty much on you own.

Like I said earlier, friends and family have already rallied round her to raise so much, but the dialysis is so expensive and it quickly diminishes her savings.

Thank you.
Thank you.

Poster,i'm very sure a lot of ppl will be willing to help(myself included),like tollu said ,we ll all  just like to make sure ,its not goin towards a new car,as this happens a lot

Not cos the money donated,will dent ppls pockets,but it will deny the person that needs it, and u know ppl can be heartless,

Enough said,ppl that wants to donate,pls do, ,i dont beleive its a scam,but if it is ,they will reap their rewards,and if its not,then we would have contributed in saving a life,

May we continue to be a blessing ,just as God as blessed us .Amen

tollu:
@ Boriswole
If you are a moderator here, y didn't u use your main account? That might have lent your post some credibility. You should understand that whoever wants to give on this forum would be sparing their hard earned money and nobody wants to be hoodwinked. Again.

I like Aisha2's suggestion abt getting the hospital involved. Please give this appeal some creibility by at least showing it's not going into getting someone a new car or whatever.

Most sensible post here!!!