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Hello everyone.
I have an unusual issue at hand and it's really giving me a headache.

I have a girlfriend I met in August this year when I traveled to my state from Abuja. She's beautiful, a graduate, and she's everything I have ever wished to have in a woman or so I once believed.

I loved her and our relationship was going to lead to marriage.

After we met in August I traveled back to Abuja and a few months later her NYSC call up came. She told me about it and we planned that she will serve in Abuja. I paid one NYSC man to work her posting but unfortunately, she was posted to another Northern state.

On her way to the state where she was posted she stopped over at my place in Abuja on the 3rd of November, That night we had sex without a condom and after the sex, I gave her a pregnancy prevention drug tablet I had collected from a doctor.

She refused to take the drugs not until after much persuasions. The next morning, some thick blood mixed with water started coming out of her and she was also having stomach pains so I called the doctor that gave me the drugs and he said we should come to his hospital.

We got to the hospital and after explaining to him what happened the doctor said she was already pregnant before taking the drugs that's why her body reacted that way to the drugs.

She denied that she's pregnant and eventually she had to undergo a pregnancy scan. The result came out negative but the doctor kept on insisting that she was pregnant and that the reason why the result came out negative is because of the drugs she took and how young the pregnancy is.

She left for home angrily that day and I had to beg her to forget whatever it is that happened.

A few days later she left for NYSC camp in the state where she was posted. After two weeks she started complaining to me that she's been feeling cold, hungry, and sleepy often than she used to.

I told her that it could be because of the change of weather and the approaching harmattan season. While she was in camp I was working for her to be reposted back to Abuja and somehow she didn't want to serve in Abuja again. She wasn't really open to me about that but she was subtly letting me know of her desires.

Finally, her reposting worked out and she came down to Abuja three days ago. Today she told me that she wants to go for a pregnancy test and I obliged and escorted her to another hospital different from the one we previously went to the first time she came to Abuja.

After the test and scan, the result said she's 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant. We went to another hospital and the result came out the same.

Remember that I first had sex with her on the 3rd of November. Tomorrow will make it a month I had sex with her but she's already 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant.

I could not understand why she should be 6 weeks pregnant when it's not been up to 4 weeks I had sex with her. I have asked her to tell me if she slept with someone else earlier before she came to Abuja but she has maintained that she did not.

I have equally asked the two doctors we met today plus a few other doctors I spoke with on the phone if they think that I'm responsible for the pregnancy but their answers are all contradicting.

Now I'm confused. She's in my house, with a child I'm certain does not belong to me. I don't know what to do. I'm really really confused. Please, any mature advice would be gladly appreciated.

Thank you!

Please and please, don't go into any rash decision. That pregnancy is most likely yours cos pregnancy is calculated from last menstrual period which will most likely be 6weeks in your case if you met 4weeks ago, scan results are plus or minus 2 weeks. Ask her when last she saw her period.

You said the doctors' opinions were contradicting, is this because you already calculated in your mind that she must be 4weeks or the pregnancy isn't yours and as such, your already made up mind didn't fully understand what the doctors were explaining to you? Also are the doctors, gynecologists or general practitioners.

However, I am appalled by the fact that you had enough time to get a pill from a doctor but didn't have enough time to get a condom. Selfish much? The lady should be the one who should take pills and prevent pregnancy but you can't do on your part. You didn't even think of STDs. Women are really bearing things!

For the first doctor who said she was already pregnant, I don't see how she was already pregnant 4weeks ago and the result was negative, then her pregnancy is reading 6weeks, 6weeks pregnancy was more or less conceived 4weeks ago.

She was also probably reluctant to take the pills cos of after effects of pills on women, little wonder she bled. As I earlier said, you should have got a condom.

Anyway, the only way this isn't yours, is if she met someone else same period she met you, maybe same day or same week.

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I am so sorry Mama Tatacherie. I agree with the story telling, the disgusting pervert should face the full wrath of the law and yours as much as you can.

He won't have peace for assaulting a child. This is so sad, please be strong for your girl, she needs it.

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