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Education / Re: BENSON IDAHOSA UNIVERSITY Begins 2nd Semester Examination Online by specnims(m): 9:17pm On Jun 02, 2020
Which school u dey?
Vyzz:
My school never write exams
Education / Re: BENSON IDAHOSA UNIVERSITY Begins 2nd Semester Examination Online by specnims(m): 9:17pm On Jun 02, 2020
You are right
Proffwhyhurry12:
Let's hear from their students.
Education / BENSON IDAHOSA UNIVERSITY Begins 2nd Semester Examination Online by specnims(m): 8:49pm On Jun 02, 2020
Amid the coronavirus pandemi, BENSON IDAHOSA UNIVERSITY has begun their second-semester examinations online.

BENSON IDAHOSA UNIVERSITY Begins 2nd Semester Examination Online The Vice-Chancellor of BENSON IDAHOSA UNIVERSITY, BENIN CITY, EDO STATE, Professor Sam Guobadia, has said the institution has commenced second-semester examination for students through the school online platform.Professor Sam Guobadia noted that the Second Semester examination of 2019/2020 will be phased saying that the first phase which is virtual is to start on Monday 1st of June 2020.THE VC tasked the students to take time to carefully read the guidelines for the Online Examination as published on the University website.The VC advised that students should not allow distractions and interference during the online examination and Parents should limit their meddling during the period.

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https://afrohits.com.ng/news-benson-idahosa-university-begins-2nd-semester-examination-online/
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Romance / Re: My New Boyfriend Has A Small Penis…at Least, It’s Small To Me by specnims(m): 10:35pm On May 23, 2020
Which one look like you own?
Ugwueme1:
His ones resemble idols shrine,if she can't do with such size should made it open to him
Romance / My New Boyfriend Has A Small Penis…at Least, It’s Small To Me by specnims(m): 10:17pm On May 23, 2020
Post by Em and Lo,

Dear Em & Lo,

About six months ago I broke up with my boyfriend of 18 months and have recently met someone new. The other day the new boy and I were engaging in some hands-on action which led me to discover that he nowhere near measured up to my ex. The new boy was around 4-6″. My problem is that I’m really worried about having sex with him because my ex was over 8″. I feel really disappointed and I know that 8″ is a high bar that’s been set. Am I bad person for thinking he has a small penis or should I go looking for something more? Why can’t good-looking men come with the measurements of their penis tattooed onto their wrist or something? The problems and surprises that would solve.

–Sizeist


Dear Sizeist,

We almost didn’t print your letter because of the emotional damage it might inflict on insecure men everywhere. It’s the secret fear that everyone — male and female — experiences at some point in their hook-up life: Am I being compared to my partner’s ex(es)? And if so, am I failing to measure up?

But on behalf of all the average-sized men out there, i.e. the vast majority of men, we highly recommend you give Mr. 4-6″ a chance. You’ve heard about society’s unfair expectation that women try to live up to impossible female beauty standards, right? Well, you’re doing the same thing, except with men and their dicks.

First, you need to understand that, statistically speaking, 8 inches is abberantly long; out of 100 men, only 5 will be longer than 6.3 inches! (Was it really 8 inches, or are you just bad at spatial reasoning?) It’s not like 8-inchers grow on trees and you’ve dated a string of giants and have come to discover (pun intended) that only super-sized schlongs can satisfy you. No, you just had one great experience with one rare “8-inch“ penis. And this is by no means a guarantee that sex with a 4-6″ penis will feel only 50-75% as great.

For a start, some men with big swinging dicks can get lazy in the sack, assuming that size is the only thing that matters. They may also assume that intercourse is the only thing that matters — and we all know how few women climax from intercourse alone; remember, orgasm achieved through non-penile means still counts as sex. Oral, manual, anal, toys — it’s all good, and in many cases, better! Not to mention, you may suddenly discover new penetration positions that you really enjoy — positions that perhaps were not so comfortable with a larger specimen. Oh, and don’t forget that, for the standard vagina, the majority of sensation is felt and enjoyed in its outer third, thanks to the extensions of the clitoris, the center of gravity, and the pelvic floor muscles around the lower part of the vaginal canal (and also since a lot of women don’t enjoy having their cervix pummeled with a battering ram).

On a final note: Maybe he was nervous and not fully inflated, as it were. Basically, you have no idea what more extended and extensive sexual interludes are going to be like with this man. So if you dig him (and we surely hope the handwork you exchanged means that you do), why not find out whether the motion of his ocean can get the job done?

Of course, we can’t discount the fact that you may simply be less attracted to him (or not attracted to him at all) now that you’ve scoped out his unit — you like what you like.  This doesn’t necessarily make you a bad person, though you are severely limiting your dating options. We suppose you could post a dating profile specifying that only 8″-penis-owners need reply. But something tells us that’s not exactly the way to find the next Boyfriend of the Year. Here’s a better idea: Spend some quality time with an average-sized penis and see if the experience — or the person himself — converts you? He is a human being after all, not a piece of meat.

Size is just a number,

Em & Lo

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[b]Source: [/b]https://afrohits.com.ng/my-new-boyfriend-has-a-small-penisat-least-its-small-to-me/

Guys indicate your size on the image grin grin

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Romance / 8 Big, Red-alert Signs Your Vagina Is SERIOUSLY Unhealthy by specnims(m): 9:58pm On May 23, 2020
Author: Aly Walansky


Don't ignore these symptoms.

An unhealthy vagina is a vagina that isn't given the attention it deserves. The vagina needs to be given the same hygienic attention as any other part of your body.

"Between urine, sweat and being so close to the anus, cleaning the vagina regularly is critical to prevent dirty bacterial buildup and to avoid the offensive odors that develop throughout the day... Debris build-up in the labia grooves from not washing the vagina well can be called 'smegma.' The point is, women get it as easily as men," says Sheryl A. Ross, M.D. "An unhealthy vagina does not visit the gynecologist to get the appropriate check up yearly or have sexually transmitted infection testing between partners. An unhealthy vagina does not get the HPV vaccine before becoming sexually active or a pap smear when turning 21 years old."

Sexologist Dr. Jess, Ph.D. says if you notice a change in the color or odor of your regular discharge, see sores or blisters on your vulva, experience pain or itchiness in your pelvic region, or penetration is painful even with adequate arousal and lubrication, you should absolutely see a doctor.

So ladies, if you're experiencing any of these problems, you may have an unhealthy vagina and should seek medical attention.

1. Vaginal dryness or irritation

Vaginal dryness and irritation can be a sign of an unhealthy vagina hygiene due to menopause, says gynecologist Ronald D. Blatt, M.D. Menopause can create these symptoms, both inside and outside of the vagina, which may involve skin flaking and irritation associated with mature skin. This can lead to uncomfortable intercourse as well.

[/b]2. A fishy odor:[b]

A healthy vagina will have its own fragrance, but how can you tell if the smell is healthy or not?

"A fishy odor with extra clear discharge can be a sign of BV, bacterial vaginosis, that is caused by an overgrowth of bacteria and an imbalance of the pH balance of the vagina. BV is very common and easily treatable with antibiotics from your gynecologist. Natural remedies include apple cider vinegar douche and changes in diet. A strong odor with green discharge can be a sign of an STD, trichomoniasis, so you should get tested immediately," says Psalm Isadora, a sex and relationship expert.

3. Itching or irregular discharge

If you have discharge that looks like cottage cheese and has a yellow or white consistency, you may have a yeast infection.

"This is caused by a fungal infection and overgrowth of yeast, and can be caused by taking antibiotics, unbalanced pH, wearing tight non-breathable underwear or clothing, douching, or an unhealthy diet too high in sugars. You can get over-the-counter creams, pills, and suppositories, but recurring yeast infections mean you will have to make changes in your diet and cut back on sugars and alcohol," says Isadora.

Drinking water and eating yogurt are natural remedies to help prevent and treat yeast infections.

4. Burning sensations when urinating

This can be a sign of UTI (urinary tract infection) and is often caused by sex. These are also readily treatable with antibiotics.

5. Inability to insert tampons

"Painful sex is usually a psychological issue, but in rare cases, it's an imperforate hymen — women born with extra tissue around the opening of the vagina," says Isadora. This can be diagnosed by a gynecologist and treated with surgery.

6. Painful blisters;

This is usually a sign of the sexually transmitted disease, Herpes. You should immediately get tested.


7. You have irregular bleeding


Bleeding or spotting that occurs when you're not menstruating can be a hormonal imbalance often caused by birth control methods or stress, says Isadora. It can also be a sign of pregnancy. Bleeding after sex can be a sign of cervical cancer, and you should see your gynecologist right away.

8. Continual vaginal infections

If your vagina seems angry and you're getting frequent yeast infections, bacterial infections or UTIs, you might need to give your vagina a break.

"Sometimes she is trying to tell you that she is unhappy with the way you are treating her. Maybe you are in an unhealthy relationship, or your partner might be having other partners and bringing problems back to you. Take a pause and give her a break; try and eat healthy and have less stress," says Isadora.

For better understanding, click on the Source link to see photos.

Source: https://afrohits.com.ng/8-big-red-alert-signs-your-vagina-is-seriously-unhealthy/
Romance / Re: The 8 Different Types Of Vaginas And What Men Think Of Each. by specnims(m): 6:45pm On May 23, 2020
This one want Knack. Twale cheesy
Gaggii:


She is my dream girl..pls gimme her number
Romance / Re: The 8 Different Types Of Vaginas And What Men Think Of Each. by specnims(m): 3:50pm On May 23, 2020
Na better point be that oo. What if man no dey around
Mywd:


Wat if man no dey around nko
Romance / Re: The 8 Different Types Of Vaginas And What Men Think Of Each. by specnims(m): 3:38pm On May 23, 2020
No hard feelings. Thats her suggestion so, u shouldn't get mad.
Georgekyrian:


Shut up!!! What are you saying, you're the one that has no dignity. Hypocrites bigot
Romance / Re: The 8 Different Types Of Vaginas And What Men Think Of Each. by specnims(m): 3:06pm On May 23, 2020
Do u know if she is a sex freak? Yes girls have more control but what if she is a sex addict?
gregyboy:



Women have more self control then men, she onlys want to be dicked by you because you're are bf, if she decides she doesnt want to she can stay celibate than a man would

Romance / Re: The 8 Different Types Of Vaginas And What Men Think Of Each. by specnims(m): 2:32pm On May 23, 2020
His point was that there are exception s to the vaginal birth which I think is a valid point.
MadeINchenzen2:
well that doesnt count... a larger number were birthed via the vaginal process... Drives home my point.
Romance / He Broke My Heart ��� Episode 2 by specnims(m): 10:55am On May 23, 2020
On this day, I and Tara went out on a “besties date”, which was a norm for us, at least once in a week.

People envied our friendship, because we were the real definition of best friendship……�

We ordered for suya and waina (masa) with drinks. While eating, we talked about the ordeals of the week, our relationships, our work, future, and we talked about God.

After the hangout, we parted ways….

She went back to her place, I also went back to mine…..

On getting to my house, I realized that I forgot my phone inside her bag, as I did not go out with my purse.

I quickly took a cab and went to her place. On getting there, I knocked at her door. She answered me but took long to open the door.

I was almost becoming impatient, but then I badly needed my phone so I had no option but to be patient. �

And after what seemed like eternity, she opened the door, and was like “Bestie, am sorry, as soon as we parted ways, I discovered that I started my period, so I was washing myself, that was why it took me long to open the door”….

“It’s fine; I forgot my phone inside your bag, that’s why I came to get it”. I said.

Tara’s disposition was that of uneasiness. But then I did not even bother, I thought maybe it’s her period destabilizing her.

She entered her room to get my phone for me.

I wanted sitting on the cushion, when my leg mistakenly hit the iron underneath her cushion and something caught my attention. I saw a familiar snicker, just one leg though. The snicker looked so much like Tope’s.

I immediately discarded the thought, saying to myself “What will Tope’s shoe be doing in Tara’s place; maybe a friend of hers visited and left it there”.

Tara came out with my phone… I was in a hurry as I had some work to do at home, which I’m to submit at my place of work the following day…..

I quickly hugged Tara and left for my house….

The image of that snicker stucked to my mind’s eye, but I could not fathom why……

I jerked back to reality, still in the hospital. I checked my phone. It was 3am……. I began to sob quietly…. Then I drifted to the land of dreams, where there was no pain…… Then someone gently tapped me…. I opened my eyes and what I saw scared me and brought back those haunting memories that has lingered for the past few hours….

I was really heartbroken…


Guess who?? ��

Well, I also don’t know him….

I saw an unfamiliar face…….

I wanted to scream and to tell the stranger to get out, but his smiles melted my heart…… I calmed myself down, and asked “who are you”.

He said “Paul”
“Okay, are you looking for someone”? I said.

“No! I came here to see you”….

“But I can’t remember knowing or seeing you from Adam, so how comes you came here to see me”? I asked with confusion written all over me.

“Don’t worry, I will explain, but for now, how are you feeling”. Paul said.

“I’m fine, just slight headache. Please help me call the nurse I want to be discharged. I’m fine now and good to go home”. I said.

So, the stranger went out of my room to call the nurse. I tried recalling his face but it was as though my brain and memories were far from me at that moment.
Then as if someone brought my memories and handed them over time �. I remembered seeing his face the day I caught Tara and Tope having sex. ��….. I knocked at the gate, no one opened.

I persisted, then this young man came to the gate to open it, but when he saw me, he went back inside and I was wondering why he would not open the gate for me. �.

I continued knocking, then after some minutes, he came and opened the gate for me, and without a word, he turned and left…. As I was still lost in the “school of thoughts’. My door gently opened and I was discharged. This stranger helped me up, I was too weak to resist. All I wanted that moment was to get to my house and think.

When we got to the outskirt of the hospital, I thanked him and told him to leave, and that I would be fine.

He said he can’t leave, until he helps me get to my house, as I was not in the right frame of mind.

I did not want to argue with him. Shebi all I wanted was to get to my my house � and really have time for myself (I needed to cry ���).

Then he walked to one side of the hospital, drove a car, and asked me to enter. I didn’t want to enter the car of a stranger, especially since I remembered seeing him in Tope’s place.

He pleaded and said “I mean no harm, all I want to do right now is to take you home please”………. I said “okay” and entered the car.

While in the car, he introduced himself. “I’m Paul, I work with First Bank. How about you”.

I said “Don’t bother. I’m fine”. He smiled and said “Okay”.

He didn’t say a word, only when he asked for the direction to my house. I did not say a word either. I was lost in my own world and all I wanted was to get to my house. That was all I wanted.

Then we got to my house. I alighted, told him thank you………

Then I saw someone right in front of my house…… Guess who?? ���

Question: Was I being rude to this kind stranger?? Do you think there was a connection between the snicker I saw in Tara’s house and the relationship between them?

Let me get your answers in the comment box, it’s very important.

If u missed season 1
Check the source link below or link on my previous post.

Source: https://afrohits.com.ng/he-broke-my-heart-%f0%9f%98%ad%f0%9f%98%ad%f0%9f%98%ad-episode-2/

Romance / Re: The 8 Different Types Of Vaginas And What Men Think Of Each. by specnims(m): 9:37am On May 23, 2020
Point wink
MadeINchenzen2:
Since the beginning of time, men has always craved to go back into the tunnel that pushed them out after nine months ... rather than using their heads they use their dicks !!!

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Romance / Re: The 8 Different Types Of Vaginas And What Men Think Of Each. by specnims(m): 9:36am On May 23, 2020
Wetin e comot for ur body undecided
Inda2020:
Failed blogger
Romance / Re: My Husband Dates Other Women — And I’m Truly Happy For Him by specnims(m): 5:08am On May 23, 2020
Never be deeply happy
Healthyway15:
Are you deeply happy??
Romance / The 8 Different Types Of Vaginas And What Men Think Of Each. by specnims(m): 5:04am On May 23, 2020
[/b]Author: Terri Huggins[b]

[/b]Here’s the lowdown on the vagina … from a man’s perspective.[b]

Much like fingerprints, no two vaginas are exactly alike — and guys are well aware of it.

Unfortunately, we women seem to be left in the dark when it comes to this, leaving many of us to wonder: “Is my vagina normal?”

Other than hearing the occasional comment like, “she’s loose” or “too tight,” most women have no idea what guys say about their womanhood.

The truth is that guys have just as much to say about different types of vaginas as we have to say about their joysticks.
No need to fret. After speaking with an array of guys and consulting with blogs of the male perspective, we’ve been able to derive the top vagina types seen and discussed among men.

Remember, ladies, while guys may have a preferred type of vagina, most of them are just happy to be close enough to see and touch one. The way it actually looks isn’t of much importance; it’s more about how it feels.

And think about it, have you ever actually heard a straight guy ever say someone’s vagina didn’t feel good? Yeah, I didn’t think so.

[/b]Here are the top 8 vagina types guys described and what they think about them:[b]

[/b]1. The Bony Vagina[b]

[/b]What It Says About You:[b] Chances are if you’re on the petite or thin end of the size spectrum, you may have one of these. This type of vagina is more narrow and bonier than most. The exciting part about it is that it allows for a tighter fit that ensures a sensational sexual experience.

[/b]Male Review:[b] The snug fit makes for great sex and stimulation. Although it often leads to great sex, it can be a little uncomfortable when a sensitive body part is conjoined with a bony one.

[/b]2. The Full Lip Vagina[b]

[/b]What It Says About You:[b] Simply put, you’ve got plumper lips than the rest. They are so pert that they practically scream for attention. And, they’re just so darn kissable.

[/b]Male Review[b]: Luckily, guys agree. Fat lips are a crowd pleaser amongst the male population. Sources tell us that they are the softest of the bunch, very inviting and easier to find for penetration. Not to mention, it makes the men excited for some lip on lip action if you know what I mean.

[/b]3. The Shaved Vagina[b]

[/b]What It Says About You:[b] You are so into making sure everything is clean shaven, prim and proper, and the sexiest of the pack, but sometimes you run into a few mishaps.

[/b]Male Review[b]: Guys definitely notice when a woman puts a great deal of work into keeping her pubic hair perfectly tamed Brazilian wax-style. Ingrown hairs are not uncommon but, fortunately, there are ways to avoid them. Getting onto a consistent waxing or shaving regimen can help, and an alcohol based toner like Bliss Bump Attendant Ingrown Hair Eliminating Pads can help reduce shaving boo-boos.

[/b]4. The Expert Vagina[b]

[/b]What It Says About You[b]: You’re experienced and the vagina isn’t shy about it. You have a wider, large vagina. At least that’s what some men think. The truth is, the vagina expands as we get aroused.

[/b]Male Review[b]: Guys like to pretend to like the easy entry, but in reality they are worried that their equipment isn’t big enough to please you. This may lead to major bruised egos. Letting them know how great they are can do wonders so don’t be afraid to stroke that ego a bit.


[/b]5. The Vagina With Extra Skin[b]

[/b]What It Says About You:[b] No, we are not talking about vagina tattoos, although that’s a thing too.Your vagina loves to accessorize with lots of extra skin in the surrounding area.

[/b]Male Review[b]: The common misconception is that this type of vagina seems like its old, run down, tired or just got off a major diet. Fortunately, men really don’t mind the extra flappy labia skin so don’t be afraid to embrace it.

The last three will make you laugh
Check them out;

https://afrohits.com.ng/the-8-different-types-of-vaginas-and-what-men-think-of-each-pics/
Romance / My Husband Dates Other Women — And I’m Truly Happy For Him by specnims(m): 4:16am On May 23, 2020
Gracie X: Author

[/b]How having a polyamorous marriage keeps things new and lively.[b]

I vividly remember the first time I felt it. My husband and I were in the backyard laying in the sun and sipping drinks while he described the previous evening. As he talked, his face looked brighter, his eyes clearer.

In a flash of déjà vu, I remembered that same vibrant and enraptured look from 25 years earlier when we first met.

It was a sudden reemergence of his vitality that I hadn’t fully seen in our domestic nest for many years. But now, in his detailed (and scintillating) descriptions, the fire in his eyes was burning yet again.

“Baby,” I told him genuinely, “I’m so happy for you!”

He just had sex — with another woman — and yes, I was stoked for him.

There’s actually a word for the joyful feeling that a polyamorous person has when his or her lover or spouse walks through the door after spending the afternoon making love to his or her new girlfriend or boyfriend: compersion.

“Compersion” is such a novel concept that you won’t even find the word in the dictionary (unless you look in the Urban Dictionary).

Feeling all warm and gooey because your spouse had a great time banging someone else isn’t something we’re socialized to feel.

We can be thrilled for our partner if they get a raise or promotion or receive some kind of unexpected windfall, but why can’t we be happy for our partners who find joy in bed with someone else?

Continue Reading;

https://afrohits.com.ng/my-husband-dates-other-women-and-im-truly-happy-for-him/
Education / Re: Premature Ejaculation: A Problem That Is Not A Problem by specnims(m): 4:24pm On May 22, 2020
It doesn't mean he is tired..
Liposure:
If a man precums, does it mean he's tired?
Education / Re: Premature Ejaculation: A Problem That Is Not A Problem by specnims(m): 7:00am On May 22, 2020
You have a very good point but there is alot to consider for that guy for him to keep up. But would u have helped him if his girlfriend had not shouted at you? AngelEmade
longetivity:
hmmmmm
Romance / Re: The Sex Position That Turns You On Most, Based On Your Zodiac Sign by specnims(m): 6:55am On May 22, 2020
You improvise grin
Megaflex:
For Aquarius, what about we that don't have a bsth tub? How do we do that??
Education / Premature Ejaculation: A Problem That Is Not A Problem by specnims(m): 3:10am On May 22, 2020
By: DR. Omokhefe Precious

Premature ejaculation is when a man ejaculates less than 1 minute during coitus, some will ejaculate before penetration, some will ejaculate even mere just having a wild thought.

At times it is normal to ejaculate prematurely especially among the newly wedded, you don’t expect to be a professional when you have just 3 days experience, hence your early ejaculation is not a problem, just practice and improve on your skills.

The tip of the penis is highly sensitive, the glans penis is highly innervated just like the tip of the clitoris (the ladies will understand)


What do you expect from stimulating a young man glands vigorously? Can you take it when your highly innervated clitoris is also stimulated vigorously? It traps when she shouts harder, faster, don’t fall for it, drive smoothly and slowly but don’t miss the target!

Moves slowly, anatomically the target is just 3 cm behind the urethral orifices (G spot)! Until you get there and you are feeling like touching down pull out and count 60 before you continue, you don’t need tramadol!

Sometimes we think some fruits and food are poor man’s food, brother consume enough vegetables and run from refined sugar.

There is a reason why sportsmen do pre-match exercises before they start playing, brother even animals do pre-intimacy before starting their match!

Madam can practice the squeeze pulse technique, pull out and squeeze the Shaft just before glans!
Until you don’t feel like touching down again, then give your self 40 seconds and then continue.

Or She then administers firm compression to the penis just behind the glans, pressing mainly on the underside. This compression should be uncomfortable but not painful. Once the male has the feeling that ejaculation is no longer imminent, the female resumes stimulation.

Be in a position you can easily pull out when you are about to touch down, wait for some seconds before you continue, for the newly wedded most times first rounds is disruptive don’t sleep until you enter a second round mode.

Watery semen doesn’t mean poor quality, it means you are doing well and
thick one means you are not drinking enough water, and you are not consistent with your conjugal rights.

The first step to defeat PE is to diffuse any tension, the partner should not give him a scornful look because he didn’t last 10 minutes, 5 minutes is enough you are having sex not drilling a borehole.

If the male always experiences ejaculation with initial sexual excitement or early pre-intimacy, this is a serious problem and probably indicates lifelong premature ejaculation, he may benefit from pharmacological therapy.

Finally, coitus may be attempted, with the female partner in the superior position so that she may withdraw immediately and again apply a squeeze to remove the male partner’s urge to climax.
Most couples find this technique to be highly successful. It can also help the female partner to be more aroused and can shorten her time to climax because it constitutes a form of extended pre-intimacy in many cases.

If the male is relatively young and can achieve another erection within a few minutes after a premature ejaculation, he may find that he is much less likely to experience a premature ejaculation the second time.

The interval for achieving a second climax often includes a much longer period of latency, and the male can usually exert better control in this setting.

Accordingly, some therapists advise young men to masturbate (or have their partner stimulate them rapidly to climax) 1-2 hours before sexual relations are planned, unfortunately, our beliefs may not allow us to practice this.


Complete reading this post, Click the source link below;

Source: https://afrohits.com.ng/premature-ejaculation-a-problem-that-is-not-a-problem/

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Romance / Virgin Births: It’s Now Possible To Get Pregnant Without Having Sex by specnims(m): 2:53am On May 22, 2020
Writer: Christine Schoenwald.



‘Virgin births’ are all the rage … no man required.

Who knew that Jane the Virgin was practically a reality show?

Jane was accidentally inseminated in the show and became pregnant, but according to this article, approximately 25 women in the last five years have knowingly given birth without ever having had sexual intercourse.

And while you’d think that women who decide to wait for that special person — but who still want to be mothers while they’re young and fertile — would be applauded, there are critics to the practice of virgins having babies. They say these women have issues with the new technologies of assisted conception.



Josephine Quintavalle of the group Comment on Reproductive Ethics said, “What is the child for these women? A teddy bear that they pick off the shelf? The message from nature is for a male and a female to have a child, and I’m saddened that we’re willing to distort this. The diminished role of the father isn’t desirable for the child. Once you start down this route, where do you stop?”

People are always going to find something to object to.

Why can’t they just be happy that women who really want children get an opportunity to have them?

Some people object to virgins having IVF because they believe that such treatments should be reserved for people who are trying to conceive but are unsuccessful.

But if a woman can pay for these treatments and has thought it through, it’s not like she’s using up all the treatments.

There are also some individuals who say that a virgin birth affects a child adversely. How? We don’t know.

Professor Adam Balen, chair of The British Fertility Society, challenges the idea that virgin births aren’t good for the child. “There are some women who wish to have children who aren’t in traditional relationships, and are either single or in same-sex relationships,” he said.

“There is good evidence that children conceived with donated sperm fare well during childhood and later life without any specific concerns or problems.



All fertility clinics are required to provide careful screening and counseling prior to such treatment, while those unavailable on the NHS will have to be self-funded.”

Obviously, if a woman is going to go through the expensive (even if subsidized) and oftentimes painful IVF treatments, they’ll have thought long and hard about what they’re getting into.

Parenting isn’t an easy job, and it isn’t always fun, but some women have a desperate need to be a mother.



Are they supposed to wait forever, hoping that everything will click into place, or should they take advantage of modern medical advances?

Many people have their own versions of what the family unit is, but as long as a child receives the love and care they deserve, it shouldn’t matter if they have the traditional mother and father.

here are a lot of single moms out there (not necessarily by choice) who are doing an amazing job raising their children.


Watch back up videos below;

Source: https://afrohits.com.ng/virgin-births-its-now-possible-to-get-pregnant-without-having-sex/

Romance / How To Master The Cowgirl Sex Position To Drive Him Wild On Top by specnims(m): 2:06am On May 22, 2020
Expert: Sean Jameson


You’ll be a bona fide pro in no time.

Learning how to have great sex in different variations of the woman-on-top “cowgirl” sex position and ride a man with confidence is surprisingly easy. In fact, knowing how to work it can be your “secret weapon” for both of you to have the best sex ever.

Just follow these simple steps and you will have a ton of fun.

The biggest misconception women have when it comes to trying girl-on-top sex positions like the cowgirl is that it requires a lot of skill to pull off properly.

It really doesn’t. In fact, in many ways, it’s exactly like riding a bike.

The first few times you try it, it can be a bit nerve-racking and possibly even awkward. But each subsequent time you are on top of your man during sex, you will notice how it gets easier and easier.

Eventually, you won’t even feel nervous or awkward about it and will be focusing more on enjoying yourself.

To get to the stage where you can’t wait to jump on top of your man and start riding him, you have to get through those awkward and nervous feelings first — just like when you first learned to ride a bike. You may start off thinking about what might go wrong, but once you push through this initial fear, you’ll find it becomes simple and effortless.

So, there is going to be a little awkwardness, but once you get through it, you’ll both have a great time (and intense orgasms!).

Here are four ways to boost your confidence when learning how to ride a man in the woman-on-top cowgirl sex position.

Try using one or more of them at the same time for maximum effect.


1. Have sex in the dark

Probably the easiest way to boost your confidence and take the pressure off when riding your man is to have sex in the dark.

This way you don’t have to worry about having his eyes on you.

2. Drink some booze

Have a drink or two (but not seven!) before sex with your man. This will help you to relax and not care so much about what happens.

Just make sure not to overdo it with alcohol, though!

3. Remember that he’s nervous, too

The biggest mistake women make when getting sexual with a guy is that their man is going to be just as nervous as they are if not more so. Don’t forget that they want to impress you too! On top of this, he’s going to be worrying about making sure that he stays hard, that he doesn’t come too quickly, that you don’t think his penis is too small and that he is putting in a good ‘performance’.


4. Focus on getting yourself off

Many women forget that guys adore seeing their girlfriend or partner enjoying herself and having an orgasm. So the next time you are in a girl-on-top sex position, stop thinking about whether or not you are pleasing your man. Instead, focus on what feels best for you.

There are two main positions that you should be using when you are on top of your man.

Cowgirl Position: In the cowgirl position, you will be on your knees, straddling your man and facing him. You can stay upright or lean forward and support yourself on your arms. You can then rest most of your bodyweight on your man’s lap.
“Asian Cowgirl” Position:This is identical to the basic cowgirl position except that when you perform it, you will be on your feet with your knees bent. You can still rest most of your weight on your man’s lap in this position.

Most women find the basic cowgirl position to be the most comfortable and enjoyable of these two.

Once you are in the cowgirl position that you find most comfortable, then it’s time to get to work.


There are three motions that you can perform when having sex on top
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1. Forwards & Backwards

If you enjoy clitoral stimulation during sex, then you will like this motion. Start by sitting right down into your man’s lap and take him fully into you. Then simply rock forwards and backwards on top of him, rubbing your clitoris of his stomach.


2. Up & Down

Moving upwards and downwards requires a little more effort. You are going to use your legs to ‘bounce’ on your man’s lap allowing his penis to glide in deep and then out again. You’ll find that this position requires a lot more effort than simply moving backwards and forwards.


3. Around & Around

This last movement is similar to the first, Forwards & Backwards. You are going to take your man deep into you, but instead of moving backwards and forwards on him, you are going to be making a circular motion instead.

Now these three movements are a starting point for riding a guy while on top, but to truly enjoy yourself then you’re going to need to do a bit of experimentation to see what you like and enjoy the most.

Below are pictures and video illustrations;

Source: https://afrohits.com.ng/how-to-master-the-cowgirl-sex-position-to-drive-him-wild-on-top/

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Romance / Re: The Sex Position That Turns You On Most, Based On Your Zodiac Sign by specnims(m): 9:16pm On May 21, 2020
Thats why the write up said; 'we are not totally sure' grin grin
Ningen:
The Ape for capricorn??

Just tell us directly to go & break our dícks. undecided
Romance / Re: The Sex Position That Turns You On Most, Based On Your Zodiac Sign by specnims(m): 9:14pm On May 21, 2020
pics for mad sha. no be lie
sonofspada:


Op u try, but u for attach pix for each category lipsrsealed
Romance / Re: The Sex Position That Turns You On Most, Based On Your Zodiac Sign by specnims(m): 9:08pm On May 21, 2020
LOL. Will sure do that wink
Fulaniherdmens:
Now, run and receive National award at Nigeria Analyzing committee NAC..

SMH...

Romance / The Sex Position That Turns You On Most, Based On Your Zodiac Sign by specnims(m): 9:00pm On May 21, 2020
Author: Nicole Weaver

You’ll thank your lucky stars for this list of the best sex positions for all signs, per astrology.

There’s no doubt that when it comes to spicing things up in the bedroom, we think you’re worthy, nay entitled, to the know how to have great sex each and every time.

And, well, we think the universe agrees.

We know people tend to follow horoscopes to figure out their forecast for things like love and money, but why can’t we also use astrology to forecast how you can have better sex, too?

So, we decided to put two and two together and bring you the best sex positions for men and women born under each of the 12 zodiac signs.

When you take astrological signs into consideration, you can find out a lot about your partner’s likes and dislikes, including what turns them on (and off) in bed.

Is your partner a passionate lover? Is your partner more crazy and experimental? Does your partner think pre-intimacy is really important?

Believe it or not, all these intimate questions can be answered just by studying each zodiac sign’s sexual preferences.

We’ve done the heavy lifting for you (no need to pour over your natal chart or anything like that) by pairing up some of the best hot and steamy sex positions with the astrological sign that they fit to a T.

Find out which one best suits your sign (and your lover’s), and then take turns trying them out!

Most importantly, keep in mind which traits belong to which sign in order to improve your overall zodiac compatibility and sexual chemistry.
Here is our list of the 12 best sex positions for each of the zodiac signs in astrology.

Have fun!


1. Aries (March 21 – April 19)

What you’re like in bed: You’re independent and courageous.

Best sex position for Aries men and women: It’s only fitting that you take on a more risky position that others might steer away from, because of that we recommend “The Lap Dance” sex position.

How you do it: To get in position, have your hot, naked man sit upright in a high-back chair. (A rocking chair ups the fun!) Straddle him and then after he’s comfortably inside lean back a little and bring your legs up around his the sides of his head. Feeling flexible? Try arching backward into a backbend with your hands on the floor.


2. Taurus (April 20 – May 20)

What you’re like in bed: Chances are you more straight to the point between the sheets, and lean toward the more innocent side. Taurus women are dependable and generous, which is great for a sex partner.

Best sex position for Taurus men and women: We recommend the tried-and-true “Missionary Position.”

How you do it: Lie back while your man does his thing! No, it’s not kinky, but it gets the job done. Don’t be a starfish! Liven up the experience by closing your legs tight around your man, pinching his nipples and squeezing his butt.


3. Gemini (May 21 – June 20)

What you’re like in bed: You are imaginative and energetic, two things that make great naughty sessions!

Best sex position for Gemini men and women: In order to widen your library of sex positions, we recommend the “The Plough” (aka “The Plow”) Position.

How you do it: You lie on the edge of the bed with your hips on the bed but your legs completely over the edge. The guy comes up behind you and lifts your legs like he’s pushing a plow. You hoist your upper up on your forearms (like in a plank position) and stretch your legs out straight behind you. (It’s kind of like you’re doing a schoolyard wheelbarrow race, only you’re in bed and there’s sex involved.) And yes, this counts as a workout for both of you!


4. Cancer (June 21 – July 22)

What you’re like in bed: You’re pretty unpredictable in bed. One night you may be very romantic and the next you may want it rough. It’s all depending on your mood.

Best sex position for Cancer men and women: The next time you do get in the mood we suggesting going for girl on top. Stick with “Cowgirl” if you’re feeling sweet, and twist around the other direction for a rougher ride in “Reverse Cowgirl.”

How you do it: In these positions, You get to call the shots, whether you want it to be more sensual by leaning in close to your partner or more domineering by facing totally away. If you want to get a little more in charge, try introducing handcuffs or scarves.


5. Leo (July 23 – August 22)

What you’re like in bed: You’re dramatic, love games, and are all about teasing. In order to play up these traits we advise to switch up the pre-intimacy by giving your partner a nice hot oil massage.

Best sex position for Leo men and women: Follow up this romantic pre-intimacy with a little “Sexy Spooning.”

How you do it: Lie down on your side and have your man do the same behind you, then have him enter you. You’ll feel intimate and safe with this slow-moving sex move.


6. Virgo (August 23 – September 22)

What you’re like in bed: People of this sign can be very precise and analytical.

Best sex position for Virgo men and women: In order to prevent you from being too inside your head by choosing a complicated position, we recommend Cosmo’s famous position “The Standing Tiger/Crouching Dragon”.

How you do it: Get on all fours on your bed like you would normally for doggy style, but make sure to be at the edge of your bed. Then have your man stand behind you and enter you. It will be a nice switch up on a pretty common position.


7. Libra (September 23 – October 22)

What you’re like in bed: Women of this a sign love pre-intimacy and are particularly good at kissing.

Best sex position for Libra men and women: In order play up these strengths we propose “The Lotus.”

How to do it: To get into position, the guy sits with legs crossed, like he’s about to do yoga. You sits down in his lap, wraps her arms and legs around his torso. He then wraps his arms around you, pulling you in close and tight. There’s not much thrusting in Lotus, but plenty of time for slow, sensual grinding. And because you’re face to face, you can show off your excellent kissing skills.


8. Scorpio (October 23 – November 21)

What you’re like in bed: You are very sexual and up for experimenting.

Best sex position for Scorpio men and women: We decided to give you something completely different: a collection of sex positions using an exercise ball — let’s call them our “Great Ball Of Fun” sex positions.

How you do it: Almost everyone has an exercise ball around the house. If not, grab one at local store the next time you’re out because you’ll need it for this deep-penetrating, rear-entry position. Your man sits on the ball with his feet firmly on the floor while you take a seat, facing away, on top of him. Then you simply start bouncing! This position allows easy access for you to stimulate his scrotum and for him to tease your nipples. (Plus, the ball takes some of hard work out of it all!).


9. Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)

What you’re like in bed: You are all about having love and passion as a part of your sex life, but you’re also wild.

Best sex position for Sagittarius men and women: Keeping this in mind, we decided to recommend “The Sultry Saddle.”

How you do it: He lies on his back with his knees bent and legs apart. You get on top, one leg between his legs and the other against his side. The sideways twist is an adventurous detour from standard woman on top, and you can rock back and forth until he’s hitting all the right spots


10. Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)

What you’re like in bed: Chances are you’re very playful in the sack, which is a great way to be!

Best sex position for Capricorn men and women: The next time you are in the mood, try “The Ape” position.

How you do it: We’re not totally sure of this sex position’s connection to ape, but know one thing — it’s definitely playful! Here’s how it works: Guy lies on his back with his knees into his chest, legs open slightly so his penis accessible. Girl sits down backward onto guy, keeping her feet on the ground — like a squat. It’s not easy. But trying to get the deep penetration this position allows will certainly elicit some giggles and hopefully a few pleasurable moans.


11. Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)

What you’re like in bed: This sign is known for being experimental and uninhibited.

Best sex position for Aquarius men and women: We suggest a little of what we like to call “Scrub-A-Dub Love.”

How you do it: Here’s one idea: Get in your bathtub and fill it up a little less than halfway with water. Have your man sit down first then you can crouch down on his lap facing away from him. If you have a removable showerhead, choose a pulse setting you like and have it hover over your clitoris. If you don’t have a removable shower head just use a vibrator.


12. Pisces (February 19 – March 20)

What you’re like in bed: This sign is romantic and likes to be subtle.

Best sex position for Pisces men and women: The next time things are heating up between you and your man try “The Magic Mountain.”

How you do it: Start with both you of you facing each other with your legs bent and leaning back on your hands and forearms. Move toward each other slowly, letting your legs intertwine until your bodies are connected. Stare into each other’s eyes while grinding your hips together and feel the intense intimacy build.

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Source: http://afrohits.com.ng/the-sex-position-that-turns-you-on-most-based-on-your-zodiac-sign/

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Romance / Which Part Of A Woman’s Body Do Men Find Most Attractive (and Vice Versa)? by specnims(m): 4:34pm On May 21, 2020
Author: Sexpert.com



You’d be surprised… Really!

By Anka Radakovich

A study conducted by online pharmacy Dr. Felix has revealed what men and women find most attractive about each other.

The study surveyed Americans ranging from 18-65 years of age, and asked the following:

“Have you ever wondered what makes you attractive to the opposite sex? While personality is obviously a huge factor, our survey looked at the top physical features that make us sexy. These physical preferences can change over age, location and even salary, so you can really see where your own body and your own preferences fit in.”

Here’s a look at what they determined men find to be the most attractive features in women, and vice versa.
(Note: The researchers focused only on heterosexual attraction, so it would also be interesting to see what same-sex couples find attractive in each other.)

Nearly half of the male respondents (46 percent) voted for the face as the most attractive feature of a female.

This was followed by the butt (18 percent), hair (11 percent) and legs (9 percent).

Surprisingly, boobs only ranked at number five (8 percent), so ladies, if you’re wondering how to get a guy to like you, you might want to skip that boob job and go get your hair done.

Unlike the men, women do indeed find the chest to be the body part that makes a most attractive, with 24 percent selecting a man’s pecs as their top choice.

This was followed by hair, at 22 percent. It’s worth noting that as women get older, hair apparently becomes more important to them and is even more of a turn-on since men with a full head of hair become harder to find as they get older as well.

Sorry, guys. Mother Nature sucks.

The third most attractive body part on men for women was the arms (19 percent), followed by the butt (13 percent), and the V-cut — i.e., the lower abdomen, which is the hardest part for most men to keep in shape (9 percent). My own favorite part of a man, his eyes, came in at a mere 3 percent and only a meager 2 percent of women dig a guy’s face the most.

Now you know that even if you have a not-so-great face, if you have a nice chest, good hair, muscular arms, a nice behind, and a hot V-cut, you will get laid.

It was also interesting to learn that women who earn a higher income prefer a man’s abs and chest, while those with a lower income women prefer the arms, presumably to go with those cut-off T-shirts and trucker hats.

Watch good videos to back up the above points on the source below.

Source: https://afrohits.com.ng/which-part-of-a-womans-body-do-men-find-most-attractive-and-vice-versa/

Romance / Re: Top Sex Positions That Can Increase Your Butt Size - Officially For Ladies by specnims(m): 2:04pm On May 21, 2020
Follow the link to see images
TGMISKY:

Thank you very much. OP please attach a photo to show the bridge position. My bae's butt must get bigger
Romance / Re: Top Sex Positions That Can Increase Your Butt Size - Officially For Ladies by specnims(m): 10:52am On May 21, 2020
Mad oh! Congrats. Show us prove lets see.
scopusng:


Clap for yourself.
Romance / Re: Top Sex Positions That Can Increase Your Butt Size - Officially For Ladies by specnims(m): 10:51am On May 21, 2020
Alright. I will do that. Thanks
fuwaski:
OP next time learn to attach photos to each sub topic. I don't learn or understand without photos.
Romance / Re: Top Sex Positions That Can Increase Your Butt Size - Officially For Ladies by specnims(m): 9:51am On May 21, 2020
True but the image won't be proper here, thats why I dropped a link where u can see all the images
Crimpsy:
It will have been a lot better if a picture was attached to it.

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