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And this bann was on my ROMANCE topic secrets of girls and how we think written by me...

Dear moderator/moderators I still don't understand why I was banned it still beats me because I was sure I obeyed all rules and regulations the reason given for my bann was SPAMMING but I don't spam and I think I should have been told or fore warned about this,please I would appreciate it if you can look into my case again and tell me were I went wrong and it would not repeat itself againm..thank you as you read this

THE CONTROL FREAKS:they love feeling in control and sometimes,forget that the people who she supposedly wants to control are either older than her or the same age with her.the advantage of this kind of women is that if they are the good ones they are very responsible and organised but the terrible ones try to control their husbands and finally end up destroying their homes..they feel empty whenever they are not in control andd they usually wear out their employee because most are employed..

In case you have forgotten my previous post which was about the married females just to make a point among the "women" reading this thread who I assume are married,this iss the continuation:THE GOSSIPS:this kind of women enjoys gossiping about other peoples marriages and they elivate things that are supposed to be minor.they talk about how bad a parent is in carrying out discipline to their kids but they are actually worse and their marriage is not worth being called a marriage,they go behind their friends and say different things and enjoy gossiping about their neighbours,they often join little groups were they meet other gossips of their type and this group consists of HOUSEWIVES...quote:an idle mind is the devils workshop!!

chistar01: I.M̶̲̥̅̊.O the OP hit the nail on the head, I wonder why most females on this thread are complaining or saying she is wrong... The irony is, some guys falls under some of the categories she listed.. Its just pure fact. If Ɣõu̶̲̥̅̊ haven't seen Ɣõu̶̲̥̅̊r type of 'personality' as a girl.. Be patient am sure madam OP would soon get to Ɣõu̶̲̥̅̊ , I'll make sure of that

chister love

[quote author=Eni~girl]wtf! Chistar wah u doen here ah tot u arent feelinq fyn jez qo nd update ur thread bfre ah...... Ma no tlk.[/quote]hey hon,why wud u chase my reader away please jus let him be as he said he isn't well jus pray 4 him 2 recover..love ya

Kessythegeek: If you know and you truly know that you aren't among or included or any conneckted to what she just spilled..why dont you just shut up to save space...and stop gabbling! Hmm @op more brainpower to ýour neurons...

tnx dear more life to your cells

crackhaus: Okay, this has gone on long enough.. Miss Splacy_duicy abeg come out and continue your talk, why are you letting the 40yr OLD women spoil our fun here? Na wah oo! Abi you are doing more research, if that's the case please let us know.

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Anybody wey no like wetin our soul sister dey talk, make hin lock up naw! Shior, I no understand wetin dey sup here oo...

Abeg OP, I am...in fact, 'WE' are waiting.

thanks dear am compiling my "research" and ill be posting soonest!

ishigi: @op i am still waiting for an answer sha.shed a little light on the research process na

dear,I would give due explanation on my research tools including those by proffessionals and scientists but I hope you would buy the books and read them from the very first page to the last....they are actually expensive books and very rare ones..thank you

Fkforyou: @OP....pls don't 4get to add dual personality/ bipolar syndrome:these types claim to b somone they are not,dis moment they are holy d next moment are somtin else...e.g on faceless forum they don't hesitate to insult people's mother at d slightest provocation (i.e show thier agbero attitude) but when they are with thier spouse they behave like sheeps,when their spouse slaps them instead of soughting it out privately or revenging at dat instant they come to d only one place they can display their strength...."internent"....these are d types that are usually proud of their spouse in public but in private he treats her like crap....they are also d type that won't let comments like mine to pass without qouting me.

dear,every other thing is connected to all the above,they are SUBS of the listed if you really check well and connect the dots I only mentioned the main. Characteristics that lead to others..love ya

Nonso23: I think duicy should also add this...'that MOST Girls love to have the last WORD in any altercation'...

everyone loves to but that doesn't play an important role most times instead we like to MAKE PEOPLE SPEECHLESS DURING ALTERCATIONS EVEN WHEN WE ARE WRONG...I think this is better bacause last words can be meaningless at times but SPEECHLESSS! That's raw gold!!

monex: d most entertaining part of this thread is not OPs "seeming" revelations. it is obvious that there are some generalisations and bias to appeal to guys.

D real revelation is the reaction of the girls (ladies, women watever) to OPs posts.

why on earth do You ladies think it is an accusation? how do you know OP is not a Man sef.

My conclusion using this small sample space is dat some ladies are extremely sensitive about their perception and the perception of their gender.

am not a man...lol...am a hundred percent female..believe that love

adrainuche: Women can't handle the truth, they hate it when they reveal their secret, OP am a student studying abroad and am sure if I put this in my college confession page it would stare more drama than Bollywood and Nollywood put together. Thread owner permission to do so ... Thankxxxx and I love you.. Information is Knowledge, and Knowledge is power ..

permission grantedd..but with "authors link" of course...love you too

OUR MARRIED LADIES OF TODAY:am actually talking about the married ladies to convince everyone without any doubt that everything I post can only be differed just a little bit by the married ladies and not "single" ladies who are still trying to make a meaning of their lives hope you enjoy!!FIRST AND FOREMOST due to my wide "research" I have concluded that married women are more miserable than the single ones because of various reasons ranging from my previous post about girls,summary,wrong partners and they marry for wrongg reasons..to be continued

P.S:the only difference between a woman and a girl is MATURITY and ENDURANCE,and even single old Ladies are often refered to as "old girls" the most used or known description for a married female is a "woman" and then all my lovely ladies who have been commenting about the difference should refer to their dictionary(no hard feelings),mordenised versions please...lol..I have spoken and my post continues...love you all

Nonso23: I do remember the Op stating some percentages to accord to her findings... She never said 100percent.. Not even in one post...so where does this ''..she said all girls...'' claim come from... 100% = all... anything lesser than gives room for deviations...

tnx dear

chistar01: If only Ɣõu̶̲̥̅̊ guys know what I know... ..@madamOP, Chistar is present

tell me what you know hon

cloaked: ....just passing by....buh seriously eavesdropping!!#...lovely slash interesting posts fellas...

@duicy cutie...fenks 4 all d seriously-eye-opening posts!#...keep d vibe flowing!#

tnx dear ma vibe can't killed..

crackhaus: Wait a minute, isn't this the romance section? Lemme check again...

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Well it is!

I'm not an ardent follower of the Romance Section, but I bet I could name a few names(NL females) who are conspicuously and visibly absent from here. Damnnn, truth sure is a bitttch...

#Ismellhatecomingfromalldirectionsalready
LoL...

Good observations OP, I like you already and I don't even know you.

tnx larve

DailyNews: What I cherished most is the fact that the writer covered virtually all categories of females in her secret exposure- every man (young, old, poor, average, rich, affluent, etc) have something to learn from this thread, thank you.

@threadstarter, you may have started this thread for fun or out of fun, but u don't know the worth of info and enlightenment u just handed to all men who are willing to listen and learn.

Yes, no one female possesses the whole traits or attitudes narrated by the poster, but I am certain it covers majority if not all female traits vital for any man who wishes to have a good understanding of the female folks.

This is awesome! I am glad I stumbled upon this piece! Thank you duicy...but pls are u alright wherever u are hehe...

yeah I sure am...always

DailyNews: Hehe...duicy are u okay pls? Have they kidnapped u Pls say sth to assure us u are still alive o

lol..I am dear

DailyNews: lolz, honestly we need to snatch this girl asap!!! She got some secrets that will fetch lots of cash if well monetized

Duicy are u ready to discuss business If yes, let me know asap....this is MONEY

Some guys are already crazy with your secret exposures!!! In fact, they wished they could splash u some gifts right away....wooow!!

really?

Jtmanager: ha-ha I swear tu jah... this tin go fetch money if nairaland... turn d tread tu tv show.... omo c attack nd counter attack....... OP.... u Don cause gobe nd e b like gbege....

lol

Imo obot: I showed one of my colleague this thread in the office today and guess what she said...'is a lie, it is all fictions. @OP, do you care for her phone number for confirmation?

nah I don't..just tell her I love her

[color=#770077][/color]RREASONS WHY THE POPULATION OF WOMEN ARE ALWAYS MORE THAN THE MEN:Its not a secrete that almost ninety percent of Nigerian ladies have spiritual problems,they just don't tell you till they have locked both your hands wwith good padlock,the first solid reason why there are a lot of women in church iss TO FIND A HUSBAND,many females have personal pastors and wheneverr you go for a singles programme anywhere be it a church,just look around and you woul see that the population of ffemales are always more and you might just see a few men.secondly SPIRITUAL FAMILY HERITAGE:thiss is also a common reason ,TO COVER THE SINS OF THEIR YOUTH:this also is done so that they would find good spouses even after living a "fun filled" life...more on the way

THE MEEK AND UNDERSTANDDING churchy:most of the females in this group were brought up with the belief that its a mans world so you have no choice in any say even if you are being maltreated be submissive,they are not exposed and theyy see the world through one eye,their spirits have been broken(some times),some get like that because they are well over marriagable age and have to be calm to "catch their own fish".

[quote author=190-the-clown]OP dont answer anyone anymore

Just dey drop the points and truth!

This topic make sense Die [/quote]tnky hon

Nonso23: how GIRLS think not how WOMEN think... The title of the thread was clear on that one...

your age doesn't make you a woman its your sence of maturity

[quote author=ishigi][/quote]yeah I did based on research love

ishigi: anoda generalization.girls indeed knw dat a guy is a cheat.some dont stay cos dey want to change him.dey just blv all men cheat.so dont say 'girls '.

that's why I gave percentages..remember we don't even know the exact world population....lol