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OmarAdebayo:
Amin Allah's peace, mercy and blessings on you and your household

amin

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KingZaddy:
Spman

are you dating a firewood? a girl that cannot be sexually active you will have to talk it out with her and tell her what you want but if she refuse just move on with another girl and let her go look for a pastor to marry.


take your mind off her, if she comes back accept her on the condition that she has to be sexually active

yes i have taken my mind of her.
Just few minutes she text to ask hw is my health that she is coming home but dam i ain't moved again

Dpsychologist:
From what you said, it seems she is not that sexually attracted to you. She may be with another guy and do anything he wants.

Since you said you tried diff things and she refuses to change its best to leave her.

I know of girls that with just seeing me she is sexually aroused.

And it also seems you are not that sexually attracted to her. It seems you prefer ladies with big ass. I advice you next time to go for ladies with big ass.

it seems that is the problem,my first girl has big ass and i am a lover of big ass though this one now na skinny with smmall ass.

Though i think am sexual attractive to her bcus it doesnt take too long for her to get wet in fact within some seconds if i touch her

Assalamu Aleikum I had to miss fasting today due to malaria.

I have been following and i must say you are good.
But sir help me with your own ideas too on this issue
I have a bae which her bedmatic skills is very poor, she doesn't like kissing, she doesn't romance all she will do is to lie down while i keep myself in mood.
At first i thought something is wrong bcus i find it hard to keep an erection with her unlike my previous relationship but later the sex we had on 3 occasions which i forced myself to be in mood i lasted and i didn't even release.
I pleaded with her to give me handjob so that i can release but she was shy she find it disgusting so i wore my shorts and she gave me handjob which is poor though i manage to cum.... But yet i still keep cool.
Recently when she came she was talking about marriage and all that and in my mind i can't marry someone that's very poor in bed... She can't even ride me nothing, she doesn't listen to my advice so i told her i will think about it that day i wasn't even in mood to have sex and my dick didn't even respond bcus i know she ain't will just lay down and expect me to be in mood so i just zero my mind.
Now she developed so much attitude, she doesn't call nor even flash me like before even when i told her yesterday i am sick and receiving medication.,she never cared to call me she only replied through our Facebook chat that '' Eiya sorry o''...
Guess what when another girl i was jokingly do say I have a crush on quickly call me to ask how is my health..
So my question now is should i give her space and ignore calling her again and move on with my life bcus it seems she ain't serious again and moreover she is deceitful also

Dpsychologist:
This may have originated from her upbringing

Is she the very religious type?

Not really probably it is down to the guy he was with before.
Maybe the guy was d kind that doesn't like pre-intimacy before sex.

But although this girl is just dam bored i tried all my best though to change her but no way.
She almost made me think I am having issues with my sexual capability.
Not knowing she is also d caused and moreover she is skinny though not really have a big ass.


And whenever i am fucking her she is easily tired then when she releases...

Is just that a times it seems she is not Sexually attractive to me that's why whenever she is with me i don't get in d mood

Dpsychologist:
This has to do with her Psychology

She seems to be the kinda lady that believes that sex involves a lady lying down and a guy thrusting her. I doubt you guys do any thing apart from missionary style.

You need to work on her mind first before she will agree to give you a Mouth Action.

Person wey no even like kissing or Romance go come like mouth action.
Dam she is boring maybe that's why her ex left her.

I just wish she changed if not she is in a big mess when she gets married

khengxlei:
you could let her know about it...maybe she'd change

Lol i have been telling since 1st century she never changed

I have been following and i must say you are good.

But sir help me with your own ideas too on this issue


I have a bae which her bedmatic skills is very poor, she doesn't like kissing, she doesn't romance all she will do is to lie down while i keep myself in mood.

At first i thought something is wrong bcus i find it hard to keep an erection with her unlike my previous relationship but later the sex we had on 3 occasions which i forced myself to be in mood i lasted and i didn't even release.
I pleaded with her to give me handjob so that i can release but she was shy she find it disgusting so i wore my shorts and she gave me handjob which is poor though i manage to cum.... But yet i still keep cool.

Recently when she came she was talking about marriage and all that and in my mind i can't marry someone that's very poor in bed... She can't even ride me nothing, she doesn't listen to my advice so i told her i will think about it that day i wasn't even in mood to have sex and my dick didn't even respond bcus i know she ain't will just lay down and expect me to be in mood so i just zero my mind.


Now she developed so much attitude, she doesn't call nor even flash me like before even when i told her yesterday i am sick and receiving medication.,she never cared to call me she only replied through our Facebook chat that '' Eiya sorry o''...

Guess what when another girl i was jokingly do say I have a crush on quickly call me to ask how is my health..


So my question now is should i give her space and ignore calling her again and move on with my life bcus it seems she ain't serious again and moreover she is deceitful also.

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Assalamu aleikum
pls i am down with malaria it started all this afternoon but i am still trying my best not to brake it prematurely.
so my main challenge now sincerely i dont have a dime with me to purchase drugs and am scared of missing fasting.
pls bcus ALLAH SWT any amount i will so appreciate and i also need duas from you all.

Beatswim:
Ok

i wish u help me i will be so grateful

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OmarAdebayo:
You have been credited

jazakallahu kairan.
May ALLAH SWT reward u abudantly

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magnetic20:
When a man get to the pinnacle of his problem, he must sit to reflect on certain universal principles. Pman, there are countless time someone ask you for money, why having, turn her down. But....

i did never turn them down in fact some will end up not giving me back...

But i prefer to give without a return

Enoch07:
we all do

But not same

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Philadelphia:
It takes some amount of money to keep a girlfriend.
There's one girl you're smashing and you told us she's your girlfriend on this thread https://www.nairaland.com/5817007/ever-since-met-hardly-maintain

Either you ask her for the money or save money from the one you give to her for transport each time she comes for smashing.

haha actually thats not how life its.

That post is a replica of what happened to me months back.
Even my babe is far away from me too and u knw girls na always acting they dont have

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