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Politics / Re: 5 People That Might Need To Run Away If Buhari Eventually Win Presidential Elect by Spotless180(m): 10:01am On Mar 26, 2015 |
why the ban on clevvermind? please mod, unban him. thanks lalasticlala, SeverusSnape, HzRF, Firefire, viczing, onatisi, ozoigbondu, Mogidi, Redoil, temitemi1, tit, OREMUSSANCTUS, ichidodo MuguliciousMUGU, chukwudi44, atlwireles |
Politics / Re: Politics Chat Room - "The Beer Parlour" by Spotless180(m): 7:06am On Mar 26, 2015 |
why the ban on clevvermind? please mod, unban him. thanks. lalasticlala, SeverusSnape, HzRF, Firefire, viczing, onatisi, ozoigbondu, Mogidi, Redoil, temitemi1, tit, OREMUSSANCTUS, ichidodo MuguliciousMUGU, chukwudi44, atlwireles |
Politics / Re: Scheme Afoot To Bribe National Assemblymembers To Postpone Elections Again by Spotless180(m): 8:46pm On Feb 15, 2015 |
This news is fake. It should not be taken serious. |
Sports / Re: Nigeria Vs South Africa: AFCON Qualifier (0 - 0) On 10th September 2014 by Spotless180(m): 9:36pm On Sep 10, 2014 |
we will win d next match. guys cool down. |
Romance / Re: How Would U Feel When U Caught Ur Gf Cheating On U Wit Love Machine Or A Vibrator? by Spotless180(m): 9:07pm On Sep 10, 2014 |
Jarchi: I will kindly wake upand begin to perform well. |
Romance / Re: Sex Is Not Love And Love Is Not Sex. by Spotless180(m): 9:04pm On Sep 10, 2014 |
Jarchi: Bro is like money and spending,u just can't ...what do u mean by that? |
Phones / Re: Why You Didn't Receive Your Own Free 1gb From Mtn by Spotless180(m): 8:51pm On Sep 10, 2014 |
mtn sha. stingy network. |
Phones / Re: Why You Didn't Receive Your Own Free 1gb From Mtn by Spotless180(m): 8:49pm On Sep 10, 2014 |
i quickly change my torchlight phone sim to my android sharp sharp |
Romance / Re: Sex Is Not Love And Love Is Not Sex. by Spotless180(m): 6:49pm On Sep 10, 2014 |
many gullible ladies thought that sex is love |
Romance / Re: What Would You Do When You Discover That Your Gf Is Circumcised? by Spotless180(m): 6:47pm On Sep 10, 2014 |
MisterRight: u sound like a preacher. Which church do u attend?lols! |
Romance / Re: How Would U Feel When U Caught Ur Gf Cheating On U Wit Love Machine Or A Vibrator? by Spotless180(m): 6:45pm On Sep 10, 2014 |
ladies using toys since 1900 |
Education / Re: 2014/2015 Direct Entry Admission, University Of Ibadan by Spotless180(m): 6:30pm On Sep 10, 2014 |
alaoabiodun: Go to UI admission office, Room 7k. thanks |
Religion / Re: Occultic Practices Forbidden In The Bible. ABOMINATION. by Spotless180(m): 5:32pm On Sep 10, 2014 |
Topgainer: Talknado sorcerers comes to mind.u dnt hv to do dat. |
Education / Re: 2014/2015 Direct Entry Admission, University Of Ibadan by Spotless180(m): 2:59pm On Sep 10, 2014 |
where can i confirm my transcript? |
Romance / Sex Is Not Love And Love Is Not Sex. by Spotless180(m): 12:57pm On Sep 10, 2014 |
Men are frustrated with women because they never seem to want sex. Women are frustrated with men because they always seem to want sex. Women blame men that they don’t know how to love. Men blame women that they only talk about love but don’t want to prove it. One is not for a ‘blame game’ here but an attempt to put things in their proper perspective should be made, as I have come to understand that a lot of the heartbreaks that are left in the wake of most relationships are due to undue expectations. I do not see why one who is purely in a relationship for sexual gratification should make the other believe otherwise. I also do not think it’s realistic for any woman to assume that a man that has looked her way (sexually) is readily in love with her. Such women even begin to feel ‘entitled’ because sex is involved…sex is not love. It has been said a thousand times that men and women are wired differently, thus for a man, sex is a physical act that eases the biological pressure he experiences constantly. Only after this tension has gone, can a man begin to think straight. This is why it often happens that men (in some cases) disappear after they get what they want. It isn’t love; it’s just some hormonal pressure. Sex for most men is a ‘relaxant’ of sorts. Having sex early in a relationship can be hazardous for the woman (who wants more from a man); the man has not had the time to develop any romantic feelings for her. He needs time to develop those feelings and it is not what sex alone can achieve. Indicators of love in every relationship are rather substance based. For example, realising that friendship is an important ingredient of love and true love is knowing that you can enjoy each other’s company thoroughly, without first rushing to the bedroom. Things have become so pathetic that some people don’t even know what to discuss with each other any more once the ‘sex marathon’ is over. What I am saying is that if the only thing that seems to bind a lady to a man is sex, then none should delude him/herself into believing that love is at work. Sex is not love. Love is not sex. You can have sex and not be in love. You can be in love and not engage in sex. A man may not be crazy about you and still have sex with you. Using sex to manipulate a man may not always have a desirable ending. It is self-deception for a woman to think that giving a man sex will make him love her. True Love will never make sex a priority. A man who doesn’t love you will not change his mind because of sex. If he tells you to ‘prove your love’ by having sex with him, he is only in for the sex and if he is in for the sex, ‘better sex’ will take him away from you. Love never shames or degrades. If you have made the mistake of trying to use sex to buy a man, now is the time to re-assess your relationship and build it on the right foundation. Sex is good but there is more to a lasting relationship. Let a man get married to you because he loves you, honours you, feels a strong emotional and spiritual connection with you and wants to spend the rest of his life with you. 1 Like 1 Share |
Romance / Re: How Would U Feel When U Caught Ur Gf Cheating On U Wit Love Machine Or A Vibrator? by Spotless180(m): 4:22pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
ideee03: lmao @ d boldedno pre-intimacy type. |
Education / Re: 6 Reasons You Shouldn’t Attend A Private University by Spotless180(m): 4:18pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
deols: How can anyone see the last two points as good. Poverty, struggling and Not getting what you want are now seen as normal.like they say, poverty is a disease. |
Education / Re: 6 Reasons You Shouldn’t Attend A Private University by Spotless180(m): 4:06pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Maureenurch: na fastest way nah hw i for do,bt nt jst ladies oook. luvly. |
Education / Re: 6 Reasons You Shouldn’t Attend A Private University by Spotless180(m): 3:52pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
SamConquer: Like seriously this Shiit ain't funny anymore.Should I call it inferiority complex or what on the part of this public student.why do some Moderator bring topics that are stupid in its entirety to the frontpage.Look at how the topic generalize all private universities.you are here ranting about exposure and all shitt.what is your business if church owned school decides to put some level of restraint to freedom due to how the society is.now let's talk about My school which is not a church-owned-school,guy if you are looking for that your so called "exposure" come to Igbenidion university and you would be tired of "exposure".I am a proud student of Igbenidion university come rain come shine.You think is to be in overcrowded class,few chairs,no Fans,Lecturers come once in a week thereby becoming half baked is your own definiton of "Exposure"the plain truth about most FEDERAL UNI STUDENT is that they are halfbaked but they hide under the umbrella of this already created Impression of been brilliant I come across some federal uni student,there spoken and even written english makes me vomit.KEEP DECEIVING YOURSELVES.don't try to mould yourself and think cause you are in a federal uni which is not among 2000 in the world after decade of exsistence will do the magic. NB:Money that private uni student pay is not your Fathers Money.u hv spoken well. 1 Like |
Education / Re: 6 Reasons You Shouldn’t Attend A Private University by Spotless180(m): 3:24pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Maureenurch: @ Op, am sorry to inform u buh u have no point ,who says those in private uni doesnt live an independent,abeg there is nothn lyk freedom,remember freedom comes wit a responsibility,hw many of u in public uni have livd up to the responsibility of freedom. Abeg enuf of al these private uni this and that. Why nt meet Jamb chairman to gve al student admissn to public uni and let the private unis close down.ladies like abbreviation die sha. |
Romance / Re: How Would U Feel When U Caught Ur Gf Cheating On U Wit Love Machine Or A Vibrator? by Spotless180(m): 1:00pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
gsalvatore: you will feel cheated? Really? She is cheating you with who? What?soon she can replace me with a hot dude instead of the toy. |
Politics / Re: Soldiers, Residents Flee As Boko Haramapproaches Maiduguri by Spotless180(m): 9:23am On Sep 09, 2014 |
BILLIONS ALREADY SPENT ON SECURITY THIS YEAR. STATE GOVS CONTINUE TO RECEIVE SECURITY ALLOWANCES WHILE THE FG NEEDS MORE BILLIONS TO FIGHT TERRORISM. ALL OF THESE MONIES ARE GOING INTO PROPAGANDA AND CAMPAIGN FOR 2015 WHILE NIGERIANS ARE DAILY MASSACRED. WHEN THE INSURGENCY CREEPS TO THE SOUTH GEJ WILL REALIZE IT ONLY WHEN IT WILL BE TOO LATE. WHEN SOLDIERS OF A COUNTRY NOW FLEE FROM SAFEGUARDING THEIR COUNTRY, IT IS A SIGNAL TO CHAOS AND DISINTEGRATION. THERE MIGHT BE NO COUNTRY TO RULE IN 2015 IF THESE POLITRICK-CIANS FOCUS MORE ON ELECTIONS AND MUD-SLINGING. THIS COUNTRY IS GOING, AND DEM DEY LOOK AM. |
Romance / Re: How Would U Feel When U Caught Ur Gf Cheating On U Wit Love Machine Or A Vibrator? by Spotless180(m): 8:53am On Sep 09, 2014 |
Kaycee7: I don't really think thats cheating. Probably a case of high sex driveto me i would feel cheated. why would she be using toys when i am very much available. |
Romance / Re: Men - Would You Ever Ask Your Girlfriend For Money? by Spotless180(m): 8:01am On Sep 09, 2014 |
chimajii:u should have just accepted d correction instead of arguing and feeling on top if d world. i know some black people are always dat. many are on this forum. they can't just accept that they have made serious blunders. rather they will begin to blame something else for their mistake. God will help us. |
Romance / Re: Men - Would You Ever Ask Your Girlfriend For Money? by Spotless180(m): 7:50am On Sep 09, 2014 |
chimajii:i know u want to be declared the winner. ok u win. are u happy now. i am nt competing with anybody on the use of grammar here. but know dat u also write very poor. u just have to be humble. |
Romance / Re: Men - Would You Ever Ask Your Girlfriend For Money? by Spotless180(m): 7:42am On Sep 09, 2014 |
chimajii:i accept. but u feel too proud to admit ur blunders. u also write very poor sha. 1 Like |
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