immortalcrown:
RIP to the innocent kid. May God give his relatives the heart to bear the loss.

But let us not use emotions and sentiment to subdue facts. The parents of the deceased are celebrities and this case should be handled as a celebrity case. They put everything on social media, even the ones that do not need to be publicized. Now that this one has happened, let them release a CCTV footage to show it was truly an accident. It happened in Banana Island, no way the house is not well-equipped with camera. If no footage is released, then it was not an accident.

I know fools will attack me. But I have already made my point.

You have. Valid point.

I don't see why ppl should attack you.. That is the standard anywhere.

There must be a CCTV somewhere

taylor88:
Even me wey be Wizkid fan no sleep last night


No matter our different parties and favorite celebrity Stans nobody should die Abeg


E go better make we just dey fight for mouth than see one another die


How can Chioma survive this?

You have spoken well. No one wishes another death.

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But Your pages are not loading even after several minutes. Pls work on that.

I tried to check the hospital but it was taking so long to load.

Do you have offices and partner hospitals in Lagos?

Pls explain the Gold plan here I chatted with your customer service and was told that is the family option but the page did not open...

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PARADIZEPRIEST:
ANI FAST MEANS ANI IDIBIA.NICE ONE TUBABA on this your oraimo brands.

Na the code be that o... The guy try sha..

Ikea81:
Bean partridge hot bean porridge cold. Bean porridge in the pot, three days old...some like it hot, some like it cold....some like it in the pot three days old.

2000s children no go sabi this nursery rhyme. Na make them dey ask yeye question..

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fineboynl:
Ogbono soup.

GBam. 2nd day Ogbono ehn.


A fa ng soup too tastes better the next day.

Wow. These ppl don old now o but are still doing well in their careers...

bong4:
Last edition, Wisdom, this edition, Progress, Next edition.........

Last edition's winner is Kingdom..

Nuelng:
Zadok should have won really but the judges know best, congratulations to progress once again

It is people's vote that determined the winner, the judges did their work earlier on in the competition.

ovieigho:


But I don’t think it’s own “Rotimi “ is that Yoruba name that means “durotimi”( Rotimi) o
I think rivers has names like “ ebiitimi “, ndutimi “rotimi…etc ….which might be different meanings

It is actually that Yoruba 'Rotimi'. He was raised in Surulere, in Rivers State he is seen as a Yoruba man

Sufferingboy:
Where those dirty afonjas see money build 12 storey building?

I'm sure an Igbo man own that building.

Yoruba people dey mad.

12 - room storey building not 12 storey building...

Teettyllayho:

Please I need advise from people with grown up kids.

Honestly, parenting is not easy. I don't even know what to do anymore.

My first son is 7 but he is kind of slow. However, he's above average in learning and he's learning at his pace. I understand all of this and I'm always happy to guide him.

But I don't know if I'm too hard or too soft on him because I use to talk to him a lot. I only beat him when he does something serious (like going against my rules, or not doing his homework when he should).

These days, whenever I scold him, he would give me a sad look and he might even shout saying: "I've heard you!" Then, he will be alone in a corner for some time.

Sometimes, I'd go close to him and tell him why I had to scold him and he'd say "I don't like it when you shout at me" I'd apologize and hug him (I don't even know if I'm spoiling him by apologizing). .

I don't know how to scold without putting a bit of action at least. Shey I'll be whispering and scolding ni? Sometimes, I'll leave him and pretend as if I didn't see him when he brings up such attitude.

Last week, he mistakenly brought back someone else's lunch box home because they look very much alike. I told him it's okay that it happens and I promised to write his name in bold when he brings back his box the next day to prevent such from happening again.

Could you believe that he came back with the other person's lunch box again? When I asked him, he said he didn't see his lunch box and the boy that took his own. Then I asked: Did you tell your class teacher? Are you sure you know the boy?

His reply: I didn't tell my teacher because I know the boy and I went to his class but he wasn't there.

So, I figured that he must have gone to check once and didn't bother to check again. And he didn't bother to also tell his class teacher.

So, I was very mad this time and told him not to bring someone else's property home again, no matter what!

I think he would have told his teacher if he really valued his property because he told me something that made me really mad the next morning.

"Mummy, or will you buy me another lunch box since we can't find mine?" Luckily for me, he was brushing his teeth then and I was bathing for his sister. The resounding slap I gave him on his back brought back his senses.

I don't know why he always want something new. He spoilt the lunch box I bought for him and his sister o and he's using another one now. That is, he wants me to buy a third one while his sister is still using the first one? How na?

I don't even know what to think. Why would he want a new box when he's barely used the new one?

Then, he's always talking about how his classmates use to bring different kinds of food ( he wasn't like this before o).

I try as much as possible to make different foods for him too, and he's stopped complaining.

We recently changed his school and his new school has quite a lot of pupils. I Don't know if that's affecting him.

Honestly, I'm bothered about the changes and I don't know how best to address it.

I've made him understand countless times that he should always be content with whatever he has and he shouldn't compare himself with anyone.

I just finished with another round of lecture now and he has tears in his eyes saying:

"Mummy, stop shouting at me. It makes me sad"

I was heartbroken and felt guilty seeing him like this and I did everything possible to make him see why I had to shout or scold.

Please how can I scold a child without shouting? Am I spoiling him? Can someone help with tips?
Honestly, I'm tired!

Talk to an expert. Search for Wendy's Ologe on Facebook. She handles these issues professionally.

But for all I know shouting at children is not correting them.

Search for 'Wendy Ologe' on fb

Surayj123:
Wow, pls is this Eniola
she con even resemble Funke, abi na me no dey see well

That is what I thought too. She really looks like Funke here...

Maxymilliano:
Just looking at the rubbles, it's glaring that poor and substandard materials were used in building the structure. Imagine using 12mm iron to build pillars holding a 21 storey building

Exactly! It is so so sad. You could see at a glance the substandard materials.

Someone must have turned a blind eye during the construction.

The loss of life is just so unfortunate..

InvestorO:
Hello in house Doctors,My niece got hit by hot boiling water on her stomach and leg late yesterday night when her mum was about to bathe her,details from her are still sketchy as this was the only thing she said when she called early this morning on the phone....

The ambulance took them to where she was given birth to but was rejected and they were referred to another hospital in another city where they were hurriedly taken away in an helicopter to an emergency in the referred hospital...

PLS WHAT HER CHANCES AND HOW CRITICAL IS IT ?...Searched the internet to get informations that will give me some hope and make me calm but found nothing yet

The only positive is they are not in a Nigerian hospital where medical attentions are delayed but in Europe....

pardon my errors and typos

Pls how is the baby doing now?

Worriedheart:
Beautiful day everyone.
So I had to create a new moniker for this purpose as I'm Well known here.

Got married some two years back. 2019. And things started up fine and later wasn't able to impregnate my wife... But discovered the Egg white method did it and the next month my wife took in.. things started on a very good note. Until I started having issues at one point and was so broke and money wasn't coming in...
Got worried and I had issues with my accommodation and had to relocate to another apartment without money... I borrowed 200k.. paid the rent and started off. Then I meant with a man and did some kinda work... And things started work again.... But I'm always in and out of cash....
Note. Over 30years plus of my life. I've never borrowed money once but now.. after marriage things isn't working fine... And I had no choice than to sort for money...

My worries now. Is that I have a friend she lives overseas she has dreamth about my mother in-law more than 5times appearing in a witch manner to attack her. (This friend of mine we all grew up together and the mom lives in Germany before her death at one point years ago promised to gift this in-law of mine a Car� but I don't know the other part of the story why she didn't... And the mother of my friend is dead now) but my friend had those dreams about her..........
Problem and worries started when my spiritual guide told me that my mother in-law is a Government (witch)... And this has been affecting me emotionally... I don't know how to handle it... And can't even open up to tell my wife...

I've tried to blank out some part....

My question now is that... What effect does it pose having a mother in-law that is a witch.... I lost 6m 15th of August 2021. Things isn't working fine... I'm thinking of running away from the marriage..but I have less than one year old daughter in-between us.. As I don't know what to do....

Please mature advice is needed on best way to handle this.

All you need is so simple you might not take it serious but I would still drop it here.

Just spend time daily in God's presence. Not to cast and bind o but to fellowship with Him and praise Him.

This is not a matter of somebody is doing me. Be careful not to label any one wicked or your enemy. Truth is you don't have any business with them.

Spend time in His presence daily He will begin to deal with issues in your life.

My one cent.

Deborah98:
Tis so painful to lose a loved one unexpectedly... May God/Allah comfort her and all others who lost their loved ones in this tragic incident Amen.

Amen!

Earthkumy:
I lost their mother the very day they where born after giving birth to them through operation during the lock down, after just a year and few days in our marriage,

but today is not about what I lost, today is about what I gained and how the Lord helped my to raise them, they are plus one today join me to say a word of prayers them.

Jesus did for me

I praise him now and always

We appreciate God for you. You must have gone thru a lot.

We shall receive all the grace and help you need in Jesus Name. Amen!

lecturer50:


Guy stop typing what you don't know about me.

I know what I am doing for them.

I just need an advice, not a bad judgement from a person who believes he knows everything about me.

You should expect things like this when you come to an open forum to ask for counsel.

That is by the way though.

Pls don't stop your job. You will regret it. Is there a way you could bring your mum to where you are, this will allow you actually monitor her treatment get someone to follow and stay with her while you work.

As for your Uncles don't quarrel with them o, use wisdom and explain why to them.

Maybe that treatment money you send is used to cater for some others things too. Your mother is your primary responsibility o.

Some elders here must have said more on this too sha.

LuQuLuQu:
American authorities are fighting to bring him to justice... Nigerian authorities are fighting to bring him to collect their own share in millions of Naira or even dollars..

*shakes head out of thread*

Exactly!! It is indeed a pity...

Confusedgirl869:
Hello everyone. This account is created for this .

This issue has been bothering me a lot and I am very confused on what to do.

We have been together for more than 2 years now and we hardly have issues, infact we are a perfect match or so I thought.

I am 26 while he is 35, we both working and I never disturb him for money, I take care of all my needs myself. He is very calm and peaceful, doesn't hit me and I really admire him a lot. I on the other hand is also good, hardworking, not materialistic and all that makes a good woman.

So after thinking of our relationship thoroughly some weeks ago, I realised that there is really nothing stopping us from getting married this year or next. I decided to hear what he has to say because he never talked about us being or getting married. I also noticed that whenever he sees or hears about bad marriages he felt lucky he is not in yet. This always makes me feel bad because I know myself. I also wasn't a fan of marriage before I met him because of so many bad men out there, but everything changed when I met my guy, he is what I want. The very first day we met, the first thought that came to my mind was 'this is my him' I don't know why I had that thought being our first time meeting.

Anyways, few weeks ago I decided to ask him what his plans are. Are we in on a long thing or not? I got the shock of my life when he made me understand that he doesn't want to be tied forever, he loves his space and the way nobody disturbs him. That he only wants a baby mama, he wants me to be the mother his kids but not in marriage. I was mad and I cried for days. He was even sounding like nothing is wrong with being a baby mama, maybe not but I just can't.

Well, I made him understand that I can't be a baby mama and it will also be hard for me to move on with another person. I've bonded so well with him and all that. And I also hate jumping from one man to another. I told him to talk to people who are in successful marriages and stop looking at the bad ones. Today when we were talking I asked him about it and he is still maintaining his stand on the mama.

I don't want to give birth to kids that have 2 homes, I grew up like that(it took me lots of self discipline not to become useless) and wouldn't want that kind of life for my kids, I want them to grow with their parents in ONE house. At the same time, I don't want to lose my good man and relationship.

I need your opinions please.

Better have a broken heart now that will mend later when your man comes along. If he is really serious there is little or nothing you can do to change his mind.

It could also mean that he does not love you enough and might still end up with someone later. But if at 35 he is still reasoning this way that change of heart might come when he is much older maybe...

Besides, as a baby mama you might also be saddled with most of the responsibility of the child/children. Learn from your own life and give your children a better opportunity at life..

It might not be easy but you will be fine at the long run.

Danielfx:
I am a student in my final year. It has been a miracle how i scaled through from 100level to final without support from anyone in my family. It's not as if they are not well financially, my mum was doing well as a trader before i gained admission.

As a child, i was looked down on as a worthless person. My mum hatred for me had prompted me on several occasions to end my life, somehow i am still alive. Well, my elder brother was the Prince of the family. They worshipped him in all ramifications. As a student in Uniport, they made sure life was easy for him. My dad would send him money, my mum too and my sisters. They see him as the godsent of the house.

I was lucky enough to have had a university diploma degree and later gained admission through direct entry to thesame University. That was the genesis of the issue. On getting to 300level my mum objected my stay in school that it would be odd for me to graduate before my elder brother who was studying Pharmacy. I was young and inexperienced, so when i couldn't fight the opposition, i concurred. Yes, i dropped out.

This made me delve into drugs(tramadol), i later secured a teaching job in one private school where i was paid 6k. I was literally a mockery from every angle, my mum was satisfied with this and even told me to learn mechanic( local mechanical engineering) which i opposed. During this period, my dad had a stroke and was confined to the house. I became his companion as i was always with him after work. He confided on me after an apology that my mum made him do all those things to me. He said he never wanted me to drop out but my mum pressured him....

To cut the story short. I bought jamb form again and gained admission. I was with 200k given to me secretly by my dad to run my school expenses. Yes, 100 level was well even though i spent all the money in my first semester.

My mum, my two brothers and my five sisters never knew where i was living and never called me one day. I was struggling and at a point i wanted to give up. Somehow things started working out, i made just enough to learn Forex and developed myself.

About girlfriend and love, well, i had a serious break there. So much now for a child with firewood on his head should not use his leg to scratch the earth for cricket. So, i finally gave up on the Kardashians.

Well now, i would travel home to see my dad whose condition now is worse, always in his room, on the bed unable to move. While still around, my things would start missing, starting from money to other belongings, how someone managed to enter that room still baffles me. I have begged them to give me break from this stress, still someone stole 2500 from my room this morning again. I am a student and i have had too much problem this period. From fraudulent transactions done on my account to my bank freezing my account which in total made me spend about 400k. As it stands now, 1k means a lot to me because of the expenses i had this period.

I am not depressed but tired. I have no friend around except one friend that is now in Lagos and we talk on the phone everyday. I don't have a girlfriend even though i am good looking. My ex came back though, but that a story for another time.

I have a pharmacy store in warri and it's not so well. I haven't even pay my two workers for a month now..... I am so messed up

No family, no friend, no girlfriend, only God. It was last week when i was trying to unfreeze my account that i realised how alone i was.

Well, that's my story people. Attached is the debit alert of the 200k i spent to work on the account, while 196k was removed fraudulently.

Give them gap. Stay far away. Sort out yourself first even when you visit don't stay over don't even say goodbye before you leave.

If you want to make something out of your life keep to the above. If you continue with this pain and stress finding love would be difficult not that you won't find some that can love you but the pain you carry would always come in between.

There might have been something that happened when you were a child that makes your mum hate you so or could be you are not her biological child. You should not have left school when you dropped out.

Make sure you so our possible best to succeed and most importantly get close to God.