BOOOMNAIJA:
The baby girl in-between took d face of her Grandpa, enebeli elebuwa

Chai is Enebeli Elebuwa Dr Sid’s father or Justus Esisri

Is police affairs a new ministry?

It all boils down to his young formative years.. what were the positive habits you made him develop as soon he became a toddler and could do one or two things on his own... those are the habits that grow with people into adulthood and sometimes become difficult to change.

Was he taught to observe basic hygienic practices from when he became a toddler like making him see that dirtiness is a no no and also made to do basic things like brushing , combing, keeping himself and his environment clean etc even if he didn’t do them well at that time but he knew for a fact there they were an essential part of his life and would grow into doing them well.

A lot of mothers complain about their children’s habits but what roles did they play in making it compulsory that they do the right things from their very young age such that they become positive habits they can’t do without? You have to do this deliberately and consciously even though it may not be easy but it’s just to make them turn out right because it becomes the pain of the parents when the children begin to exhibit these bad habits so train them well to avoid unnecessary stress.

Many children or even adults with bad habits today were not cautioned early enough in life by being made to do things the right way and by the time the training began it was too late.


Send him to a good government owned secondary boarding school from jss1 and thank me later ... he will change by force.

What they did to him was so unfair I hope those behind the barbaric act are nabbed and made to face the wrath of the law for assault..

I don’t know why I like Venita so much .. she is so beautiful and real but she needs to respect herself more and stop letting those small small boys on bbn rubbish her ... truth is she no dey dia level.

Eeya poor Enkay she just explained why she didn’t want to play Ludo with Cindy and from what she said it wasn’t because she looked down on Cindy... her attitude was misinterpreted... sad

Enkay’s attitude towards Cindy pushed her out too bad

HumblySearching:
No matter how ugly or shapeless people think you are, that special person meant for you will definitely accept wholeheartedly.


Congrats to her.

I'm searching for a boo too. Mid 30s or early 40s preferably

Are you trying to say Toyin is shapeless nne?

Chai who told you it’s sallah cow? This kain old video.. anything to make front page on Nairaland .. nawa for some ppl.

First of all I think it’s disrespectful for your husband to be telling you to go get mama put beans to mix with your food whenever you cook rice.... for him to even have the mouth to tell you sef after the stress of cooking shows he doesn’t care about your feelings.

If it’s me I will stop going o he should go and buy it himself or worse still arrange for home delivery ... it’s outrightly disrespectful... who does that Biko if you didn’t cook it’s understandable ... not fair at all pls

This story is sooooo stale .. since March

Apination:

You are simply asking her to make things worse, you think ignoring him and not cooking would be a wise decision? He would only go ahead and tell his people his wife doesn't cook at home and he eats outside.
Don't ever go out on your own as though nothing is happening o, he will not only accuse you of infidelity but also use it as excuse to fuel whatever he might be doing on the side

I only asked her to try it for a few days it’s to help him get tired of that strategy... and there is a way you can go out of the house to give yourself a treat that when you come back home with some of the things you bought your husband will know you just went out to spoil yourself and there was nothing to it..


see personally I won’t like to be digging into my own personal life here.. you don’t know the experiences I have had and how I got out of it and you don’t know why I have given that advice.

See marriage is or should be a union of two consenting adults .. if any of the parties to the marriage has done anything wrong the other person should be able to talk to them about it and not be giving them silent treatment .


See one of the rules of marriage success is open engagement ... you must be able to talk about everything ... if his wife has wronged him in any way he should learn to talk to her about it and not be trying to cower her with malice it’s childish and he must be made to see it that way ... I am sure it’s an age long habit from his childhood .. if you engage his parents , siblings or friends they will most definitely have something to say about that habit ..


madam you are the one that will make him snap out of it cos you will be the one frustrated in the union if you don’t do something about it now... the first few years of marriage is the period to reject what you don’t want if not you may continue to live with it for the rest of that marriage .. for how long will you continue to beg him or talk to him by force? Wasn’t he the one that saw you and proposed? He needs to grow up pls and the time is now before the children start coming biko.

It’s unfortunate your partner is childish in my opinion but you have to find a way around it for your own benefit

You need to let him know his silent treatment doesn't get to you o and you will do it with play and laughter ...such people you don’t follow them to fight o cos it will only worsen things..... when he is keeping the malice act around him a playful manner make jest of the way he looks with his malicious face...and with all the play play don’t do like you are desperate to talk to him o.. you can even pull his private part sef with joke asking him if he wants to do one round with laughter o... he may still be frowning but with time he will soften ... just show him his malice is not working biko and learn to find a way to make him to talk about issues ..with time you will see that he will be opening up when he has issues with you... talking about issues helps so much in marriage

You will see with time he will change but if he doesn’t then you have a big problem on your hands and you have to find other ways of solving it.

See marriage is meant to be enjoyed and one person should not be struggling to make it work... you have to create your own comfort and joy in your home o don’t let anybody frustrate you.

Apination:

When he gets home next, start crying and use every emotional trick you can conjure and go to him, so that he knows how his actions is hurting you. I'm trying to rule out the possibility of him having a mistress but it's a high possibility.

But in all, that ring you are wearing is not for fashion, it's more powerful than you can imagine, go on your knees, raise that finger with the ring on it while praying and demand from God to hold your husband and bring him closer to you, because you have a convenant with God himself and your husband. Don't get tired o, marriage is a constant battle, you can't afford to run in round one. Go and pray

It won’t work I know those types of men you will just be giving them more power to behave that way... such men thrive on malice it’s food to their soul... make up your mind that he won’t make you sad... then since you have that kind of partner and if you want your marriage to work o (which is a choice cos you don’t have to stay in an emotionally abusive marriage) you have to refrain from keeping malice cos if you go his way the marriage will scatter... such ppl are covert narcissists but the level varies.... ( a typical narcissist will not even give you money for home upkeep but rather milk you dry financially so the fact that he even gives you money shows he is not a totally bad man)

find out which strategy best works to penetrate his malicious brick wall..

Number one ignore him too like I said earlier you sef don’t talk to him , don’t cook, and when he cooks dish your own and eat too behave as if you are not hurt by his action..you can even jokingly ask him what he is cooking or buying for you to eat and laugh even if he ignores you...when he buys the food and brings it to the house you sef carry spoon and eat from the food telling him this food is sweet o where did you buy it don’t even do as if it’s paining you..laugh and smile around the house as if nothing is happening... make calls and laugh loudly with friends and family while on the calls... watch movies , play music and dance ... do these things with him in the house o.. you sef go out to have fun and don’t tell him where you are going .. try this for some days and see how he reacts... if the guy weak know say all he is doing na wash and try to hold a conversation with him.


Then if he becomes aggressive or withdraws even more and his attitude worsens just know that this one na devil o and never really loved you in the first place cos no man can avoid talking to a woman he really loves for days under the same roof... we can now think of other strategies including prayer to turn his stony heart to a fleshy one biko.

You sef ignore him small ...don’t cook sef and when he cooks his own dish and eat out of it and in it all be laughing and smiling as if nothing is wrong o .. thank me later... it works

Pls don’t take her seriously she is just a comedian... check out her new video on her Instagram page you will know she was just clowning with the bbn thing lol... which housemate announces her participation ahead of her entry into the house biko... it’s just a joke she pulled off and many fell for it.

Pls don’t take her seriously she is just a comedian... check out her new video on her Instagram page and you will know she was just clowning with the bbn thing lol... which housemate announces their participation ahead of entering into the house biko... it’s just a joke she pulled off and many fell for it.

They were five coffins in all maybe one of those with gunshot injuries later died... really sad

Bodies of the slain IRT officers killed in Taraba have arrived Abuja. Their bodies arrived in the early hours of Sunday morning and have been deposited in the mortuary at the Garki General Hospital.

See attached pictures

Source Tvc News.

And I am sure it is already smelling and filled with maggots... how disgusting can people be really?

I don’t believe it was her son o... but the moral of the story... mind the things you do wherever you are because you can never tell who is recording particularly in this social media age.

What’s wrong with this Omatshola ... the cry no even fit am sef.. Frodd don infect am with cry cry baby virus.

This Khafi is so shameless attaching to a guy that obviously doesn’t send her mumu

Rossycee:
Jeff on stage with Ebuka. Ebuka showing him who nominated him, he said he is Surprised jackye nominated him

Pls where do you get to see the stage

gabby18:


Gotv channel 2 dstv channel 151

The channel has been changed to 198 or so

Taniaa:
I don't know him,but you can't help everyone you know

I think there is a motive behind what he does either it’s spiritual or he has like an ngo with sponsors that bankroll his outreaches that he must give account to hence all the publicity ... but I guess he also makes some profit from the funding or benefits somehow in terms of salary payment or little perks here and there in my opinion cos I don’t think he does anything else... I think I have seen a story of someone calling him out on social media once for being scam or so but whatever is the motive whether genuine or not i think it’s suffice to say it’s commendable.

asuustrike1:

So how would one know he or she is cursed?

The person can pray to God to reveal what the root cause of the problem is and it can be revealed through dreams or the person can seek counsel from a higher spiritual authority ... genuine pastors pls.

asuustrike1:

What of those that prayed all night, fast all day yet no results

There is no how you will pray at midnight and fast and not get results ... but if that is the case then maybe some strongholds like curses need to be broken or you need to go for deliverance.. for example parental curses can’t be broken like that no matter how your pray you have to go and seek restitution if you did what attracted the curse in the first place...or some actions from some people’s past that have attracted certain consequences they may be praying and not see results unless deliberate actions are taken to reverse that situation.

Mfm prayers yield results if you are able to make the sacrifice of praying at midnight and fasting .. they are not easy prayers to pray and not for lazy people.

What falz doesn’t know is that it’s money that serves as critieria for receiving awards these days.

Nominees are many times asked to support the award ceremony in cash... they are given a fixed sum to pay (up to or above half a million )which automatically guarantees them the award.

There are so many awards these days with strange names...

fact is it’s a lucrative business for some ppl who organize it to make money...

it’s very few awards that are based on merit and do not require any financial commitment from the beneficiary.

Nawa o all sorts of names... university education don turn to rubbish

He is always in white o with red cap and the outfit is always clean so I guess he has plenty of them... he is a very clean ,meek and mild man , very gentle and humble

Lol ... she don jam ppl wey pass am... this is the same thing she does to people... hope she is enjoying the taste of her bitter medicine... madam international journalist ... make I carry my popcorn and biko ... lol