₦airaland Forum

Cc: Farano, Rocktation, pasqal09

Pls I made a list of people whom I wished Happy new year. The post got hidden and anti-spam bot banned my monicker. Maybe because the names were many. Kindly help resolve this

Thank you & happy new year. And to you too, OP.

DeejayTafari:
That stag thread does it for me.... Entertaining.

Aptly put.

You too mushhhh

Wow! Thanks guys who say 'awkward ways I have met girls' is the best story of the section. Thank you for reading and following.

I appreciate!

I see an irrational and spontaneous, but loving father.

And a see the quintessential heart of man in the creditor. Whoever takes such advantage of a helpless father acting on the emotions he has for his daughter.

On the flip side, was there hope the sick daughter would have been cured or the 600 was only to prolong her life?

CSTR:
What has oprah done in Nigeria?
All her investments and charity foundations are in SA.
Yes alakija is a corrupt fool, but oprah is not Nigeria's friend either.

Each should make impacts in own domain. Even Bill Gates can't making impacts in every part of the world.

Alakija can decide Nepal, Peru, Nigeria, Senegal or at the back of her hometown, it doesn't really matter. 'Impact' is the keyword, and making it when and where needed..

Sharksblow:
born2fuck, madness.com, stag nko?

I just saw this now

Husband material?

Congrats ma!


But one would expect to see you visibly touching lives. More than Oprah did.

Mynd44:
We import toothpick and office pins in this country sef.

As much as I'd like to see my country flourish again, I'd like to ask:
Is it the govt that should begin the production of toothpick and office pins?
Can't anyone venture into this as private business and cash in on it?
Or is there any specific law that expressly forbids the production of toothpick and office pins in the country?

Bro, except there's very sound argument in favour, I find this very flawed.

A very healthy option will be for you to work on your weight. Maybe even, the best option.

Begin from there, and all other things might fall in place.

mprexx:
Nice write up... I see it as a case of logic vs stupidity though.

Fundamentally.

Whatever head/heartache you have is not because of the things you read in their chat. Its because you read his chats at all. Do so only if u have the guts to withstand whatever u find there.

On the flip side, reading the chats opened up a chance to repair some things. But since u told him you wouldn't mind, why do you now mind?


Its the distance that is keeping things between them apart. Sadly.

mprexx:
Please explain. Because for all I know, all the heart does is pump blood...

Scientifically correct. But generally the heart is attributed as being responsible for decisions based on emotions and sentiments. The brain calculates logically. So the brain give you a clear-cut Yes/No. But the heart complicates it.

Most of these women know what exactly to do but the grip their hearts have on such matters is stronger than any logic the brain can conjure up.
So the brain tells them to quit the abusive relationship, but the heart makes pleas and so the average woman judges her case with the sentiments/emotions of societal beliefs, children, tradition, the thoughts of another woman taking over her place etc against the backdrop of permanent physical injuries to her and even being killed.

This is typical of an average woman in abusive relationship around us here.

You have someone whom you say is everything you want in a man. And whom you have been tied to (through your son). And then, you have another whom you can not even vouch for.

The way I see it, its no rocket science. Except of course, you're being pressured into being desperate for marriage.

Here's what I think you can do, since both families support both of you. Ask that the two families meet and be formally introduced. And then get it sealed at the registry which I think doesn't cost a fortune and let a priest bless your union here. The expensive church thing can wait till the trumpet sounds.


Wait for who will come and tell you that you're not legally married.

Classical dilemma between the head and the heart

redcliff:
The fela brand is outdated

I disagree sir.