₦airaland Forum

mytime24:
H

H for hero

LadyBoss1:
Jesu * brings out holy water*

Long time ma'm....howdy

Abeg pour that holy water this side, them don too pour me saliva

Jglad:
Haba! 3 days is too long faaa

That's exactly my point dear, even 3 days is too long

Whew i read through all that

Well here's one, my closest friend happens to be a girl, we've been friends right from primary school and attended the same uni together though she finished before me

When she wanted to come for her clearance she told me she would stay at my place cus i stay alone and i said no wahala, she was at my place for over a week and yea we would sleep on the same bed until one night, she had a fight with her bf over the phone and began weeping, i did the honourable thing and held her to console her but it kinda got "heated" so to say, i slept on the floor that night to avoid stories that touch and i remember we never really talked about that night afterwards

Though her attitude kinda changed after that night but still i respected myself and her too, I remember friends would visit and say ah ol boy na u dey enjoy pass and i always maintained to them i wasn't sleeping with her because deep down i know if i made the slightest attempt, she would probably have obliged and our relationship may well have been so different


Its not every free punny that must be entered and yes a guy and a girl can be "just friends"


I'm proud of ya op

Toks2008:
Better wake up from your0 slumber and face harsh reality and by the way what age bracket are you.

20 to 29?
30 to 40?

So that i will know how to explain to you.

Dude, my age has absolutely nothing to the stuff people put on here daily which is a far cry from what happens in the daily life of people out there, nothing you may want to say to me that i haven't heard or seen before

Stephansmily:
Not in my case

Hmmmmm, guess we going to have to find out if that's rily true

Stephansmily:
Beta fear me oh, coz ah b raz chic

Auto correct changing f3ck to bleep


Nah won't fear ya, most times its just a defence mechanism people use to push others away

Stephansmily:
Lol

But this your siggy though, i dey fear you o
I just dey see nigga, amma, Bleep everywhere ah kilode

jonaifame22:
,are u asthmatic,u're healed in jesus name,and as for the ear phones,I see u like music,nice one bro,bad guys no go tiff ur fone in jesus name

Amen Amen and Amen o brother

Thanks

The two both of you, hop in your sandals and follow me

Mr Adebayor jss1 hostel 2001

Just negodu ajuju

Hian

Just negodu

Earphones

Oh and my inhalers too

Width and banana coloured nyash

QueenEdna:
i too was amazed to hear some1 trivialize d act of cheating/infidelity, its an Odd world really.

Some of the stuff i read here sometimes amazes me i tell ya

Stephansmily:
Yeh,all is well.

#derailers

Oh you have joined the association, good for you then

Stephansmily:
Beta do

Nne you sound very harsh this evening, i hope everything dikwa alright

Stephansmily:
No bro, av neva seen him
He asked a question, I answered.

Hmmmm okay ma lemme believe you

elantraceey:
You know not what you're saying, a girl that wants to cheat will cheat irrespective of financial status.

He's probably one of those dudes who believe they can dictate a ladies feelings feelings with their pockets

Una nor dey tire to re-cycle the same old topics everyday


Wey you op, my friend you need to leave the confines of your fully furnished apartment and mix with people, hear what is happening around you and stop believing this "perfect" world people on nairaland talk of where rich people don't have problems or get cheated on

Stephansmily:
Its because u look more hideous than dem.



Who wouldn't want at least one cute child


#settled

Sister you harsh gan sha abi have you seen the op before to deduce that his face is hideous?

Mzdivacious:
lmao mehn this is deeeep!
she said you re too forward and talkative and u don't know how to comport urself like a man
BTW u embarrassed itself by bringing this here instd of checking dictionary
plus why don't u have ur gf s ñumber

He probably had "chioma" come over that evening so deleted the name on bae's number

NAWW

Nairaland association of wanking wanksters

Your heading/title is quite different from the content of your post

Or is it just me?

vani86:
If only he will listen, seems like the woman wrapper type.

Lols brother one can only hope

Shamstiel:
Can you give me some girls to woo

Hehehehe chairmo me sef am as single as they come o, nor worry any beta one i cone across will do the needful for ya ministry to move forward

Toks2008:
Do i have to justify reality?

I may be against philandering but that will not stop it and even many people who heard the pastor preach against fornication this morning will still commit the sin today so reality is different from objectivity.

Outside Nigeria, most ladies will love and remain faithful to you even if you are a bus conductor and also remain a bus conductor till you grow old and die.

It is in Nigeria we will see ladies loving a man either because he is rich or because he has the potential to be rich as they always say "i love him because he has a vision" and apparently after waiting in futility for some time for the vision to materialize, they will run out of the affair hoping to meet a rich dude or another vision driven guy.

I weep for many naija ladies, i seriously weep for them.

And i put it to you that all nigerian ladies are not the way "nairaland" potrays them to be, I'm sorry but that's the truth


Nairaland just spews stuff that in reality doesn't always happen that way, now I'm not in any way saying there aren't bad eggs among them naija ladies but the unnecessary generalisation i notice on here is alarming


I repeat, in the real world out there, there are Nigerian ladies that are ready to suffer it out with you till things become better and that's a FACT

She would use her elder sis's(who was a friend) phone to chat with me, she was cool, intelligent and quite charming, i was impressed and then she came to write post-ume and i saw her for the first time!!!! Damn she was quite busty and by that i mean quite fat but she was also very pretty

Long story short we dated for quite sometime after of course i made her visit the gym, everything was all good till she started demanding for the "D" which i quite duly obliged cus her sis had told me she was still "innocent" and personally i don't do "V"


She ended up cheating with some other guy in the end though and I've since then cancelled anything that starts on the internet

Once bitten and all

Shamstiel:
Bye to me love for her

Lols brother its not the end of the world o jare, "yours" is out there somewhere waiting for you to come find her

Shamstiel:
But she will feel bad/hurt. I don't want to be selfish

Its your feelings and emotions that will still end up getting hurt, she will show you signs of maybe coming around from time to time and keep giving you hope but you the one who still looses out in the end, trust me been there bro


I'm not saying blank her out totally no but don't be available each time she needs you, focus more on yourself, refuse her stuff if you can yea sounds harsh but its true, see her less, call less and even if you do keep it as formal as possible, after sometime you realise those feeling begin to fade away and then you begin to see her same way she sees you which is as "just a friend"

You better off for it in the end

Well not everyone is open to such change


Take me for example i used to be a chronic liar till i met my ex, now although it was my lies that broke us up, it changed me for the better because as much as i lied to her, i really did love her so i promised myself to be better and am making progress working on myself so far


So it depends really on the individuals involved

Eeyaaaaaaaaaaaa




Forget it and move on, give her space too plenty of it become unavailable, get busy,socialise more you'd meet someone who deserves you both as a friend and a companion



Unless of course her friendzone jazz na from okija direct