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Politics / Re: 90-Year-Old Woman Risks Her Life To Save N300 Potatoes In Maiduguri by stan567(m): 4:37pm On Mar 22, 2017
Payafrica Is New And Reliable by stan567(m): 3:32pm
Hello fellow Nairalanders..I usually don't do Ponzi or support Ponzi schemes, but when my friend who stays in US told me about Payafricans.com I made up my mind to join...and I noticed something about them. They are so organized, they will send email notification when you register, sending you your login details so that when you forget you can easily go to email and retrieve it.

Guys, payafricans.com just came into Nigeria few days ago...lets go and make money there.

Visit: www.payafricans.com and thank me later.

Bye.
Career / Re: 7 Advantages Of Being Self-employed by stan567(m): 7:50am On Mar 15, 2017
Nice one OP...am proud to be an *ENTREPRENEUR*
Politics / Re: From London To Abuja In 50 Days: Buhari’s Return -Reuben Abati by stan567(m): 3:09pm On Mar 11, 2017
Don't you think Buhari is being selfish and thinking Nigeria is like his family? As a president who has the interest of the country and the citizens in a high esteem should humbly and honourably resign and allow someone who is more stronger to continue from where he stopped. He was forced to come back to Nigerian to avoid impeachment .looking at him he is still sick and needs attention. Am not saying he is not entitled to either medical leave or annual vacation. Now let me ask...is it now that he is sick he will be fighting corruption and be travelling from one country to the other?. As big as this country is we don't need a president WHO IS NOT UP and doing..

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Politics / Re: Corpse Of Gov. Shettima's Aide Who Died In Fatal Accident Arrives Borno(pics) by stan567(m): 2:52pm On Mar 11, 2017
Amen!!
Qmerit:
May his SOUL RIP. Travelled this morning and died later without being sick and now to be buried, what life...

God may we all in NL not go to any journey
Of no return IJN.

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Politics / Re: Reno Omokri's Twin Sons Are Handsome (Photo) by stan567(m): 8:50am On Mar 01, 2017
despi64:
They don't look alike
They do. Just that one is smiling while the other is not and the head warmer differentiate them somehow too. Look closely you will see resemblance.
Career / Re: Question: Roles Of An Bank Office Admin Staff by stan567(m): 7:12am On Feb 13, 2017
henrinity:
1.To raise expense
2.Takes care of the banking hall / environs
3.Monitors and supervises the cleaners to make sure the while place is neat and tidy.
4. Supervises vendors
5.Procurement of Stationeries

The pay cannot be compared to operations or marketing staff as they are regarded as Adhoc staff not as bank core staff.

Some banks call them Office assistant.

I hope this help and i stand to be corrected.

Also you handle cheques clearing, inward and outward. You take stock of what you have in the store and what is lacking. You are in charge of Generators and the diesel.
Politics / Re: Ondo: Violence At Owo LGA As INEC Ballot Box Shattered, Ballot Papers Hijacked by stan567(m): 12:31pm On Nov 26, 2016
We all watched American Presidential election how it was coordinated and it was watched live...but just ordinary governorship election in one local government...its already a problem. INEC need to change their pattern. You can't be doing the same thing over and over again and want to see a different result. Its a pity!
Religion / Re: A Crippled Young Lady, Leading Praise & Worship by stan567(m): 6:41pm On Nov 23, 2016
Please someone should tell the lady to contact me on this email or someone close to her should do so on her behalf loveandlifeworking@gmail.com .

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Nairaland / General / My Wedding Was Awesome! I Bless God Almighty. by stan567(m): 12:17pm On Nov 20, 2016
It all started like a joke...but now am married to the most beautiful girl in the world. She stole my heart from the first day we met..and since then I can't think of a better partner. Thank God I have found happiness in you. Congratulations to me!

Nairaland / General / Re: How Real Is MMM? by stan567(m): 7:15pm On Sep 30, 2016
Hmm...Bros u mean ooh! you wan make me change my mind?? grin
Baawaa:
Write it down,it is fraud though they will pay those that first come.
Nairaland / General / Re: How Real Is MMM? by stan567(m): 6:52pm On Sep 30, 2016
Thank you cool
IHATEPUZZY:


yes, its very safe

av been a member of d community for over four months
Nairaland / General / Re: How Real Is MMM? by stan567(m): 6:45pm On Sep 30, 2016
So you are advising me to go ahead to invest in this MMM ish?..
IHATEPUZZY:
mmm is real, it's not a ponzi skill like others, u don't pay into d site account.
its just a way of bringing people together by helping each other. dey will match u to pay someone like u and anoda person will pay u too, funniest thing is DAT ur money starts increasing without even paying

my ist match was on d 28th day after registering and I got my money 2 days later
Nairaland / General / Re: How Real Is MMM? by stan567(m): 6:43pm On Sep 30, 2016
OK...I will let you know when I have heard from other too. thanks anyway!
herveze:
MMM is real and paying a lot of people right now including me,i will teach u a trick that if u invest with the person money u just av to deposit the money for less than a week and u can withdraw it within 2days,just let me know if u are ready
Nairaland / General / How Real Is MMM? by stan567(m): 6:21pm On Sep 30, 2016
Hello Nairalanders, I always believe and trust you guys opinion so much, and am really in need of a good advice right now because am about to take a huge risk and I want to know if it work taking or I should just stick my ass where it is. I work with one of the financial institutions here in Nigeria and I have a customer of mine who gave me some cash to keep under my watch while he travel abroad for a business trip. Now I have this friend of mine who is telling me to invest this money in MMM that I will make triple the cash. Now my question is "Is this MMM reliable and how does it work, will my money be safe?" Please you guys should advice me so that I don't make any mistakes. Thank you.
Nairaland / General / Why Your Spouse Is Likely To Take You For Granted by stan567(m): 10:43am On May 27, 2016
The most common complaint I have heard from people in long term relationships and marriage is that they have been taken for granted by their partners. Why do people take their spouses for granted yet will walk through hell and high water to fulfill the wishes of people who have not invested as much in them? If you have been wondering why your partner seems to have taken you for granted, putting your relationship into a downward spiral, this post will give you pointers on what you're doing to enable it

#1 You can't make basic decisions on your own: Irrespective of what people might say, no one wants a partner who cannot make basic decisions on their own. Do you always ask your partner to choose what you should wear? Are you always asking what kind of haircut you should get or when you should take a shower? Yea...it's not cute. It's called being needy and your partner will soon assume that you need him or her to push you to get things done, and in this day and age, that's not romantic. It's called being an unnecessary burden. 

#2 You agree with everything even when you don't really agree: This is something many women and men fall for - the need to make their spouses believe they are in support of everything they do, because they have falsely led themselves to believe that if you love a person, you must agree with everything that person does. If you have that idea in your head, delete it right now, and engrave what I am about to tell you - you do not have to agree with everything a person does simply because you love them. You are not a pre-programmed robot. If your partner has an attribute you absolutely cannot stand,, call him or her out on it. Even if by some smidgen of tolerance, you find that you can tolerate it but it will keep you awake at night or stress you out, speak up. By refusing to speak, you are giving your partner the impression that he or she can do whatever and get away with it. In other words, you are not building a relationship, you are building a master-slave association. 

#3 You don't have your own income: Let us quit playing fairy tales in our heads and simply accept this as a fact: a spouse is more likely to take you for  granted when you have no financial input in the relationship. Heavy financial reliance on a  spouse will cause him or her to remind you you only have two legs when you buy a new pairs of shoes, or tell you what kind of lifestyle you should be living. Can't blame anyone but yourself here. He who pays the piper dictates the tune. Get your own income and contribute to the relationship. 

#4 You are too scared to rock the boat: and your partner knows this! Many people go into relationships with a pre-formed belief that their partner is more important than they are; hence, they need to worship that partner even when he or she is being unreasonable. Don't be fooled; your partner can smell when you are too scared to rock the boat, they notice every time you bite your tongue and the million and one 'crimes' they commit that you pretend not to notice. And guess what? They are not about to stop. You let it happen, so they will keep riding the wave. 

Have you been taken for granted and identified how you enabled it? Share with us! XOXO
Romance / An Open Letter To Christian Singles by stan567(m): 10:19am On May 27, 2016
Cheer up. Or at least try. I get it…you’re getting older, and you’re not getting any less single. And, if you’re like me and find yourself single past 30, you might be starting to feel as if the train has left the station long ago, and you were too busy to get on board.

On the one hand, you’re not alone. Many people are putting off marriage these days. On the other hand, a lot of Christians are still marrying young. Which means you’re feeling a little bit like God left you behind on this one.

I mean, really: it’s not like you’re praying for a Ferrari, or a million dollars, or for lightning to strike your neighbor’s cat. Maybe, with clenched fists, you’ve told God: “This was your idea. You said it wasn’t good for man to be alone.”

Valentine’s Day doesn’t help. Images of candy and flowers get old pretty quick. And time spent in the presence of other couples makes you wonder if a Relationship is just the sort of fresh coat of paint that might make you finally visible to the world. And let’s face it, this isn’t the sort of issue over which the Christian subculture is getting any less obsessive or condescending. 

But the one thing that’s not ok is to get all mopey about it. The apostle Paul talks about “being content in all circumstances.” Still, the great theologian named Tom Petty tells us that “the waiting is the hardest part.” So as a young, single pastor, I write this advice to all my fellow singles out there.

You probably don’t have the gift of singleness.

It’s ok to want to get married. Honest. I know, I know; everyone wants to pull out 1 Corinthians 7 and talk about how Paul said singleness is a good thing. But Paul also said each man has his own gift. God invented marriage because he realized how bad we were at doing life by ourselves. Marriage is a part of God’s program. Singleness is a rare exception, not a sign of spiritual superiority. God wants people to marry, so don’t try to act like you’re holier than God.

Pray for love. All of it. 

Yes, pray for a spouse. But don’t just pray for a spouse for yourself. Doing so will only cause the years of unanswered prayers to weigh you down. Instead, pray for love – all of it. Be thankful when others find love ahead of you, because every love story reveals a God who brings people together against what is very often some very impossible odds. Looking to a God who answers prayers and brings people together will allow you to attend friends’ weddings with supportive enthusiasm rather than jealous resentment.

You are not damaged goods.

There comes an age where everyone has their baggage, some horror story from a past relationship. And you’re right: no one really gets how bad it really was and how hard it really is. Your parents never had to deal with the confused and twisted sexual norms of our present day, and those who married at 20 never had to face the types of struggles and scars that come with the territory of aging singleness. But that’s why the gospel is so important. See, psychology tells us that we’re born innocent – we’re blank slates, and therefore are the sum total of our experiences. If this is true, then no wonder our scars come to define us. But the gospel says the opposite: we’re born guilty, and our identity is found in the mercy and redemption of Jesus. Therefore, we can never be “damaged goods,” because our identity is found not in the bitterness of the past, but in the finished work of Christ. Every scar we receive can be used in the hands of the great Storyteller who is able His narrative even through our pain.

Take advice sparingly. 

There’s a lot of really bad advice floating around out there, all under the well-intentioned guise of Christian dating (or “courting”) advice. Some of it can be good. Some of it can be bad. All of it can be fuel for obsessing over your circumstances. And nearly all of it comes from the hearts of people who don’t know your circumstances at all. The best advice usually comes from friends over coffee. So while I’m not telling you to kiss Christian dating books goodbye, chew the meat, spit the fat, people.

Learn to accept the gift of singleness.

Being single means I work two jobs. And I’ve had some amazing opportunities because of it. You will never again have as much time on your hands as you do while you’re single. Singleness can be an emotional burden, but it can also be a gift. Seize the gift. Use the time to learn a new skill. Learn a language. Serve someone.

Be the change you want to see in your spouse

Wanting a spouse doesn’t mean you have to get all pine-y about it. This isn’t about feeling desperate. It’s about asking the harder question: “Would you want to date you?” And by that I don’t mean are you attractive or hip or whatever it is these young people want these days. What I mean is – are you a person of strong Christian character? Do others see Jesus in you? Have you demonstrated commitment in other areas of your life? For you guys, that means praying not just to find a girl, but actively praying that God would shape you into the man she needs you to be. And not for her benefit either, or even yours, but because God’s desire is for both of you to serve His kingdom together. And for you ladies, maybe this means valuing Godly character over initial chemistry. I’m not discounting the emotional, butterflies-in-your-stomach, moths-in-your-spleen kind of feelings, but maybe the right guy is the one who stands by you even when those feelings are not there.

And to my future wife, if by some miracle of technology you’re reading this today, I want you to know simply this: I love you without ever having met you. I’ve waited 30 years to meet you, and if I have to wait another 30, well…then you’d better be worth it. And if you are out there, then by God’s grace, I’m going to find you.

I promise.

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Webmasters / Re: Blog Or Website??..which Fetches More Income? by stan567(m): 10:01am On May 27, 2016
When you want to start a website/blog....don't have the mind set of making money yet....cos u might get frustrated on the way and end up loosing everything. You need to have passion for it writing and blogging for you to succeed . The money doesn't come immediately. I have a blog...and I can boldly tell you that since I started it...I have not made anything out of it but I keep spending money to make it look good and create traffic.

So my advice is this, don't have the mindset of money now..just follow tour passion either website or blog can pay well when the right time comes.

Goodluck!

Www.lovelifeworking.com

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