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Romance › Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by stanboy28(m): 1:22am On Jul 18, 2015
starlingslimnet:
Guys.....I am probably one of few who falls into this category... No emotions, no feelings, don't get hurt by breakups,don't get offended ....you know. So have Been wondering if it's natural..or what you think?
Yes. They are know as sociopaths, or psychopaths. They lack receptors in the brain that cause empathy. Basically, they're a human shell with no human soul. Most of the murderers, dictators and rapists in the world are sociopaths or psychopaths.
There is no therapy or medication to treat these people, unfortunately.
Exodus - Autistic people do have an emotional system. They just have a hard time learning how to express it, and understanding social cues that most people do.
J.P. - You're wrong. I've studied psychopathy at length, and observed them. Teaching them how to hide their lack of moral reasoning and emotion is not the same as treating them.
Treating them would be making them understand morality and emotion, and thus they feel drawn to behave ethically. This is not possible with any know therapy or medication at this time.
It is impossible to treat them. Think about it - in order for therapy to work, the person in therapy must recognize that they need help, and they must desire to improve themselves.
But a sociopath is incapable of feeling bad about anything they do. They do not feel love or guilt or shame or any of the things that would drive someone to seek help. So, how do you help someone who is not driven to improve themselves?
The answer is: You can't.
All you can do is teach them to hide it. But because they do not have any reason not to act out (since they feel no guilt), it will not stop them from doing harmful things. All it will do is help them fool people temporarily.
Alexithymia is not a lack of emotion. It's a processing problem, where the link between felt emotion and comprehension of emotion is broken. But you do FEEL emotion, even if you don't understand it or know how to describe it.
Sociopaths and psychopaths do not feel any emotion. And the reason they often hurt or kill others is because an adrenaline rush is the only rush they can feel.
J.P. Now we're just talking about degrees. Only a small percentage of people with sociopathic tendencies are true sociopaths. A true sociopath does not feel emotion. They do not react in any way to images which are happy, sad, or any other emotional description. They ONLY react to violent or spectacular images, which cause adrenaline spikes. This is the extent of their understanding of emotion.
Don't condescend. You're conflated 2 unrelated disorders which are fundamentally different in how they effect people. Maybe you're the one who needs to go back to the drawing board.
I'm not bickering on this anymore. I was a profiler - I've met more sociopaths in a few years than most people would meet if they lived to be 200 years old
Romance › Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by stanboy28(m): 1:10am On Jul 18, 2015
Yes there people dat cant feel emotions. They are know as sociopaths, or psychopaths. They lack receptors in the brain that cause empathy. Basically, they're a human shell with no human soul. Most of the murderers, dictators and rapists in the world are sociopaths or psychopaths.
There is no therapy or medication to treat these people, unfortunately.
Exodus - Autistic people do have an emotional system. They just have a hard time learning how to express it, and understanding social cues that most people do.
J.P. - You're wrong. I've studied psychopathy at length, and observed them. Teaching them how to hide their lack of moral reasoning and emotion is not the same as treating them.
Treating them would be making them understand morality and emotion, and thus they feel drawn to behave ethically. This is not possible with any know therapy or medication at this time.
It is impossible to treat them. Think about it - in order for therapy to work, the person in therapy must recognize that they need help, and they must desire to improve themselves.
But a sociopath is incapable of feeling bad about anything they do. They do not feel love or guilt or shame or any of the things that would drive someone to seek help. So, how do you help someone who is not driven to improve themselves?
The answer is: You can't.
All you can do is teach them to hide it. But because they do not have any reason not to act out (since they feel no guilt), it will not stop them from doing harmful things. All it will do is help them fool people temporarily.
Alexithymia is not a lack of emotion. It's a processing problem, where the link between felt emotion and comprehension of emotion is broken. But you do FEEL emotion, even if you don't understand it or know how to describe it.
Sociopaths and psychopaths do not feel any emotion. And the reason they often hurt or kill others is because an adrenaline rush is the only rush they can feel.
J.P. Now we're just talking about degrees. Only a small percentage of people with sociopathic tendencies are true sociopaths. A true sociopath does not feel emotion. They do not react in any way to images which are happy, sad, or any other emotional description. They ONLY react to violent or spectacular images, which cause adrenaline spikes. This is the extent of their understanding of emotion.
Don't condescend. You're conflated 2 unrelated disorders which are fundamentally different in how they effect people. Maybe you're the one who needs to go back to the drawing board.
I'm not bickering on this anymore. I was a profiler - I've met more sociopaths in a few years than most people would meet if they lived to be 200 years old
i copied it from somwere
Romance › Re: The Story Of A R.ship I Saw N Crave For. by stanboy28(m): 10:32pm On Jun 26, 2015
Story for d gods lipsrsealed undecided
Phones › Re: My Injoo Fire Stuck At Startup Screen After I Installed Chainfire 3d by stanboy28(m): 9:55pm On Jun 26, 2015
Op u are asking why d insult..... Wat u did was like eating ogbono soup with bread ....wen u have correct pounded yam to take nakam
Phones › Re: My Injoo Fire Stuck At Startup Screen After I Installed Chainfire 3d by stanboy28(m): 4:10pm On Jun 26, 2015
Aflowz:
Why install chainfire 3d? Na 2gb ram you get na + quadcore
nor mind d stup*d muron
Phones › Re: My Injoo Fire Stuck At Startup Screen After I Installed Chainfire 3d by stanboy28(m): 4:09pm On Jun 26, 2015
Did u know u are stupid...... Why would u install chain fire to a 4.4 device.......chain fire are for 2.2 downwards and low performing device to boast their graphics on heavy games...besides innjo fire isn't a low grade andoid.now ur eyes don clear..mttchhewwwwws... Inexperienced android user like u should not meddle with root and other android core stuff.......well congratulations..... U ar nw a bricklayer... Cos ya phone don brick....go and flash tongue tongue grin
Family › Re: What Is Wrong With Being An Introvert? by stanboy28(m): 11:00pm On Jun 21, 2015
Keyana:
I'm an introvert as well but funny thing is I can strike a convo with anyone at anytime; could even go for hours, yeah! I could be a talkative. I have friends, but no close friend as I hate attachment.
dats jst me...i hate attachment...and dont greet people easily xcept few.
Family › Re: What Is Wrong With Being An Introvert? by stanboy28(m): 10:53pm On Jun 21, 2015
[quote author=Onozztins post=35009066][/quote]dats who i am...partly xtro and intro.....all in a delegate balance.
Family › Re: What Is Wrong With Being An Introvert? by stanboy28(m):
Some of u guys ar tryna put the extrovert nigga as loud dumbass that dont think.....and lacks creative gesture and all dat because dey are lively.......its so fucxking wrong.....there ar extrovert that ar even more creative and brainy dan most introvert....being an introvert does'nt paint u good......or bad.its how u conduct ursef dat matters....stop dis fus about intro crap and extro ass.....along side dose useless classification for unnecessary gratification....there ar introvert people doing crazy things out there....same goes for d xtros.....nd also brilliant,clever and brainstorming xstros out there and same also goes for d intro.....stop making dis introvert crap a big deal......it affect people cos after some fellas read dis crap that intros ar dis,creative et all,some may deceid to wanna be like dat....and start killing themselv......being among the two TRO's have its own pro and cons and to me non is beta dan d other and stop d intro dis and that.....be yourself...learn gud manners and let others be confortable around u....those are d basics......
I dont have much friends...and i snob people most time.....am friendly i dont like mixing up too much wit people.....but can be damn loud.playful most times.....am not dat indoor always....and i cant remain indoors for long xcept am watching movie ..browsing or playing music...ama football jerk dats my hobby and am averagely sociable.
Sorry for d long writeup.
Proudly xtro nd mildly intro.
All u nid to do is balance up ur ursef
Phones › Re: Tecno Phantom Pad II G9 review-and-price. by stanboy28(m): 7:12pm On May 18, 2015
LKO:
Funny, repent o. I m nt in Sapele, I m in Udu road. Enjoy ur week.
same bro. ...peace
Phones › Re: Thread For Android 5.0 Lollipop Users by stanboy28(m): 3:08pm On May 17, 2015
tochunna:
Yeah... And it's great!
Just for some wifi issues on d Rom..
Does the blinkfeed show only in Chinese on your version?
yep....so anyway how can I upgrade to lollipop
Phones › Re: Tecno Phantom Pad II G9 review-and-price. by stanboy28(m): 3:02pm On May 17, 2015
LKO:
U sold ur tab because u couldn't bear the probs right? I m pretty sure u didn't disclose this reason to the unlucky buyer. U wud simply tell him u are selling it because u want to upgrade to ipad. This is the very reason why I dnt buy any so called fairly used phone, whether UK or naija used. Buy brand new and enjoy value for money and standard warranty. God help us.

Obukowho, u nor try at all o, who knw whether u use sapele water wash d buyer face? Monday Igbuya must hear this.
na sapele u dey tooo.... anyway am too inclined to buy a trash 2nd hand but I can sell to do magas I have magarized........ nor worry Sunday ogba dey cum for u
Phones › Re: Thread For Android 5.0 Lollipop Users by stanboy28(m): 9:17pm On May 09, 2015
braintext:
It's like i saw a person post a screenshot of that phone model.....check the first or second page of this thread and quote the person ....
ok
Phones › Re: Thread For Android 5.0 Lollipop Users by stanboy28(m): 2:26pm On May 08, 2015
pls...... how can I get lollipop 5.0.2 on HTC desire 816w
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Barcelona Vs Bayern Munich : UCL (3 - 0) On 6th May 2015 by stanboy28(m): 12:55pm On May 07, 2015
ANAMBRA11:
hve u ever wondered maybe messi is not human but a super computer generated footballer robot generated inside a top secret facilty in camp nou, maybe we hve been watching a robot all this while
messi na pickin Wey mama born...nai She Cum Put Football For water give the pickin drink..... Cum baf the picken with Football Water........Dats MESSI!!!
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Barcelona Vs Bayern Munich : UCL (3 - 0) On 6th May 2015 by stanboy28(m): 12:27pm On May 07, 2015
ANAMBRA11:
hve u ever wondered maybe messi is not human but a super computer generated footballer robot generated inside a top secret facilty in camp nou, maybe we hve been watching a robot all this while
I love messi
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Barcelona Vs Bayern Munich : UCL (3 - 0) On 6th May 2015 by stanboy28(m): 12:25pm On May 07, 2015
ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] Messi is never that good...Boateng was pretty much useless falling at a simple attacking run by messi..Defence 101:always shift your opposing attacker towards his weaker side anticipating movement towards his stronger side..but the german just went kaput at the most critical change of pace and footwork...Gaddem it!! [/color]
Stop hating and Join the fun tongue ....Messi is the best Player in the world
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Barcelona Vs Bayern Munich : UCL (3 - 0) On 6th May 2015 by stanboy28(m): 12:17pm On May 07, 2015
messi is da baddest.... haters go and Jump Fence..... World best player
Romance › Re: Mistakes Naija Babes/ladies Often Make!!! by stanboy28(m): 12:14pm On May 07, 2015
Family › Re: No Friends To Use As Bridesmaids For My Wedding. I'm Deeply Troubled :( by stanboy28(m): 12:11pm On May 07, 2015
shirazlova:
Im a regular contributor here on Nairaland but have had to create a new profile for the sake of being anonymous wink

My problem is that all my life I've struggled to make or maintain female friendships due to one reason or another. Distance, change of location, falling out/unresolved conflict, jealousy, fake friends etc.. It's something I'm ashamed of and I often feel sad that I don't have my clique of friends especially now that I'm about getting married. It saddens me that at this time of my life where I'm supposed to be joyous and be surrounded by girlfriends helping me with wedding preparations, choosing a dress etc, I have no one to call on. I've had to shop for my dress alone which was quite a depressing experience. Everytime my parents or aunties ask of my friends I come up with one story or another or just change the topic completely.

My fiancée is very much aware of my lack of friends but he's not bothered by it at all. I'm in my early/mid twenties and I feel so saddened to see other girls my age with lots of girlfriends. I have a big family however most of my cousins are male.

How do I go about doing my wedding with no bridesmaids whatsoever! It'll be such a mortifying experience for my wedding guests and family members to notice I have no friends.
What do I do about this?
I'd appreciate matured responses pls.
olodo....y dont u voluntier urself.....If u are a guy denpretend to be a girl
Romance › Re: "I Love You" And "I'm In Love With You" What Is The Difference? by stanboy28(m): 12:06pm On May 07, 2015
afolag:
I love you ....like the guy really wanted to, so it build up
Am in love with you. ...Don't know how it happened grin

what is my score (?/100)
O smiley
Phones › Re: Thread For Android 5.0 Lollipop Users by stanboy28(m): 8:42pm On May 02, 2015
tochunna:
I backed out from buying the 816 when I found out it was only the 816w that was everywhere. I heard it displays blink feed in Chinese. And software updates don't come at all
i heard there is an update 5.0.2
Phones › Re: Thread For Android 5.0 Lollipop Users by stanboy28(m): 10:25pm On May 01, 2015
iheanyi4u:
Mine
is dat HTC desire 816w cos I can't find a single update for mine..... HTC desire 816w
Phones › Re: Tecno Phantom Pad II G9 review-and-price. by stanboy28(m): 10:13am On Apr 27, 2015
Emmysteve:
please who can confirm this? I didn't see any complaint in respect of that.
sure many pple have not upgraded their internal storage
Phones › Re: Tecno Phantom Pad II G9 review-and-price. by stanboy28(m): 9:27am On Apr 24, 2015
Attention all tecno g9 users..... Don't enlarge ur internal storage..... U can only do that wen u have a large storage memory card to rely on cos ur USB storage will be meaningless immediately u enlarge ur internal storage..... Any single file u put in ur USB storage will corrupt and damage ur USB storage, hang ur phone and ultimately brick ur phone..... I had to sell my tab wen I could no longer bear the probs..... Currently using HTC desire 816w..... Nd I miss my tab... So please be warned..... #keep-calm-cos-its-stanboy-rolling
Education › Re: 4 Of The Most Beautiful Train Stations You Won’t Believe Are Real (photo) by stanboy28(m): 9:16am On Apr 24, 2015
akugbemike:
No beefing bro. Just when you get here, you will fill it.

My question: What is it being the best in your class?
it's ecstasy.....
Education › Re: 4 Of The Most Beautiful Train Stations You Won’t Believe Are Real (photo) by stanboy28(m): 9:09am On Apr 22, 2015
akugbemike:
Luvly

*Modified*

OMG! Since the beginning of time. This is my first ever time to be FTC (officially).

I dedicate this moment to God.
I dedicate this timeout to Lagosians (keep pushing, and I am here now).

Special prayer to those looking for a/multiple job/jobs...This is your week of Sudden Visitation. Hopeful, Prayerful and Pay your tithe.
wats so special about ftc .......mtcheew
Romance › Re: She Declined To Be My Girlfriend, But She Is Always Around Me by stanboy28(m): 10:48am On Apr 21, 2015
well ...i smell friendzone her.....try nak am without any remorse cheesy
Phones › Re: Tecno Phantom Pad II G9 review-and-price. by stanboy28(m): 8:16pm On Apr 13, 2015
oNj:
Same problem here.
How do I clear this dalvik cache?
enter recovery mode........enter advance and u will see it.
Phones › Re: I Nid A Phone With D Following Specs by stanboy28(op): 7:36pm On Apr 09, 2015
tyconcepts:
I have Ulefone Be Pro on ground and its the closest to your desire.....Its 5.5inch, Octacore, 2gb/16gb (with expandable memory), 4G LTE, 2600mAh battery cap, Notification light, OS 4.4 (Upgradable to OS 5.0) @ #35,000.

Contact.
lets talk buisness
Phones › Re: I Nid A Phone With D Following Specs by stanboy28(op): 7:30pm On Apr 09, 2015
Mustack:
I don't think you can get a phone with those specs at that amount. why can't you raise the money Upton 40k to make your choice
sure dats an idea
Technology Market › Re: HOME OF TECHNOLOGIES : OCTACORE/QUADCORE PHONES, TABS, POWER BANKS...CLICK HERE by stanboy28(m): 7:25pm On Apr 09, 2015
tyconcepts:
#37,000
nah....its 149 dollar on gearbest which wont be more dan 28-30k.......i gat only 30 on hands as to my budget.

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