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Too bad

Tinubu’s APC
Hell of a government
All his deluded followers are just suffering and smiling, lemme assume they’re wired that way. If I talk the rest Seun will ban me. They said Nairaland is not a no man’s land.

This man again!

id4sho:
Culture varies, shameless in-laws in collaboration with their olosho daughter will do otherwise

Introduction and bride price paying is btw two families and unwanted guest abi aliens ain't suppose to be there. But some ladies will invite all here friends, mother in-law to be will invite all her friends, neighbors and church groups so that groom will foot the bills

As a guyman, ask how the woman culture is and how things are done. Be armed with that, engage the father in gist and he will tell you things. Some daughters and mothers are jezebels.


Men, you need your stone heads during that period. Don't entertain any form of westernization


OR

Get her pregnant and bye pass all this headaches

so your wife go follow you pay her bride price?

Lol
Where boogyman dey?

The evil party still claiming the majority seats

Nigeria is blessed, it’s just bad leadership et Al, I wish some certain set of people can view things properly for us to move foward, but no, tribalism has eaten deep into their skulls.

God bless the land of the rising sun!
Long live MNK!

Epistasis:
Yesterday Premium Times was a Tinubu's newspaper, today it's not.... being an obi-diot is the worst thing that can happen to any sane human being.

By May 29th, 2023, Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu will be sworn in as the president of the federal republic of Nigeria.... Anybody not comfortable with that can embrace the lagoon.

Seun please tame this bull dogs abeg

iSense247:
Mr Seun, how can I block myself from seeing comments from Tinubu's surpporters? Please help sane people on Nairaland. Please!

seriously Seun needs to tame this animals, they’re becoming something else

damoobaba:
No wonder you people are pigs, but I think you're also SHAMELESS. This forum is owned by a YORUBA MAN before you say this is no man's land. Thank God we know the owner. #thieves

wahala una wan claim nairaland join?

EeyanMayweather:
Ellu pigs

tribalism will kill you, if I talk Wetin dey my mind Seun will ban me

Ok

Ballwick:
a more experienced ones,make 30 to 25k daily,argue with you kidney if you don't believe me.i work in a cargo office and dispense so much jobs to these guys that I almost have a daily tip of close to 10k from just one who's not even experienced as some juggernauts in the business .ask me how or aspiring bike riders willing to show you road

can we talk on WhatsApp?

Okay

engrrichie92:
hmmm okay

send a DM on 08137430149

engrrichie92:
Builders/Architects/Engineers,

I need your expert advise.

So I have got 10M naira I want to invest in my first building project (Land inclusive)

I know it is not feasible in Lagos, so looking at Ondo/Ogun state; Is this feasible within my budget?

I am even willing to pay for a comprehensive project plan from an experienced builder.

It will be nice to have a detailed breakdown of how to achieve this before I proceed

Thanks in advance.

Lets talk on WhatsApp I have a land in Ogun state for sale. I’m an architect too. I built something similar for my client last year, just a slight difference in your budget

Cyberterror:
It's a lie. They didn't invade or break in. They went with valid court order. But the Julius Abure-led IPOB funded excos of labour party doesn't believe in courts that why Peter Obi and Datti prefer religious wars and interim government respectively. However, democracy must prevail and it is good to see the genuine labour party members recover their party from Yes Daddy terrorists.

old man! Receive sense

Odin13:


The funny thing In all this OBi matters .. is simple..
The very desperation of Asiwaju Tinubu to be President of Nigeria .. knowing he has plotted and plan all.. but never foresee the emergency of Obi and his Labour .. if he did .. OBi would have been dead by now..
Like Abba Kyari.. that’s was said to have died of Covid-19 :- even when those who know .. knows ..

Now Tinubu and southwest Apc are like bulls in China shop.. they want to destroy all.. and everything .. thinking that Nigerians are quite for nothing sake .. and that they’re fooling everyone at all times .. with their schemes ..

Little do they know .. that even today toddler in politcs is looking at their drawing and seeing the full stop .. even before they place the dot.. without anyone being worried

Of course replacing the Labour chairman with a Yoruba man loyal to asiwaju ..in an emergency take over is a smart move to prevent the audio interim government..
North knowing that all has been planned even before the election ..

Law of power .. “” planned to the end “ but Tinubu is planning as it comes ..
The audio that they felt would anger the Muslim north failed .. the mutiny has to come as plan b.. even plan C is in their ice box.. but who cares ..

The main fact is the tribunal .. which they believe they will influence after May 29.. then the Supreme Court .. with their southwest yorub already mouthing how they Yoruba man won’t betray his fellow Yoruba .. and for their inner minds .. Nigerians are stupid .. na their brain lugard take join Nigeria ..

They’ve threaten Obi .. they’ve lobbied him.. they said all and propagate all sort .. the man is quiet like stone .. not moved .. not even shown concern.. just doing his thing.. we know assassins are already an option.. in his state to be blamed on insecurity in the east.. we know all that

But we’re quiet ..

Nigerians are boiling .. ready to kick start that revolution that will swallow everyone .. I told one moniker .. am not worried about Obi .. am worried about Lagos and Yoruba people.. because they drum .. they’re beating .. Walahi Allah.. no other part of Nigeria is with them and they’ve failed to see this .. because they’re too fixed on power .

Nigerians swill wait patiently for Supreme Court .. then they will decide .. not inec dicide .. but Nigerians and Nigeria deciding

Asiwaju and his peeps can do all and manipulate themselves.. but you see that documents ..

Walahi he will return it

Is a must..

wise man

Person wey cause all this things senior you baba. But God bless you

nedekid:
Madam, unfortunately, most of the advice you will get here is from your son's age mates.
Most proper adults will not comment as they will be insulted.

oga mind your words and read the story

booksbo0k:
Sorry for the long write up my people, I need advice.

My first son has been behaving somehow in our family, as if he's not part of this family...
You and this boy can be in the same house but you might not set your eyes on him once for a whole day. He will be inside his room through out...

He has been telling me that he is currently working on going to rent his own place and live on his own and that if God helps him and he is able to achieve that, He will not have anything to do with our family again and that we will never set eyes on him ever again :[ ...

I would have not been bothered by such statement if it were coming from someone else, I would take it as a bluff. But this my son is someone that normally doesn't call people to check on them, not even us his parents..

When he was in his previous University before he dropped out, this boy can go for months, that is a whole semester stretch without calling anybody to know how you're doing, except you call him or maybe he wants to ask for money for something or school stuff....

We have five children and he is the first, the second and third children are away in University, he and the two last siblings are the only one's with us.. My husband refused him from going to University in a far place instead he gives him transport money to be going to his own University from home everyday...... He and his father don't even talk again except good morning greetings. He is only 21 ohh..

Let me give you guys small back story so that you can understand how all these things started.

My son graduated from secondary school (a boarding school) in 2017 at 16 years old... Initially, he said he wanted to study computer science as he said that was the course he loved and wanted to study. But my husband refused and persuaded him to study pharmacy because he worked at NAFDAC and he saw the way pharmacy graduates were living at his work place and the salary they were recieving. He and one of his chemist friend sweet talked him into going to study the course and I guess it was because he was young then and could not challenge his dad then that was why he gave in....

He wrote JAMB but he did not meet the cut of mark for pharmacy (but I later realised his score was good for computer science then)... No public University was willing to admit him for pharmacy then because his score was not good for the course but due to my husband love for the course and not wanting my son to lose admission that year , he decided to go the way of private University not minding their school fees...Long story cut short, my son got admitted into Madonna University where we were paying 1M naira every year.....After 3 years in the school and in 300L @18 years old, he began saying he was not interested in the school any longer, that he was tired of the course, that he's body is no longer in the school and blablabla that he wants to go and play football in Europe...

He came back for holiday during the beginning of covid and refused to go back to the school when they resumed, saying that he was only wasting our money by being in that school and he did not want to continue.....This got my husband really sad and angry....My son stayed home for almost two years doing nothing because my husband was adamant that if he would not go back to school, nothing for him, that all the money he has spent for school fees in that school can not be for waste that he can become a footballer after he graduates, saying no one can become a successful footballer without being a graduate, that it would later affect them in life...

But my son refused. I must confess, my son is extremely good at playing football. That was the talent i can confidently say that God personally gave to him from birth. Infact when he was graduating from secondary school, they gave him the award for the best graduating footballer and he was always the centre of attention anytime he plays at our church events. He friends used to call him "nima" then, I think...

I and my husband got tired of him staying at home for long so I went to meet with one pastor in our street who was based in the UK with his family but comes home sometimes for church related matters. I explained my son's situation to him and he offered to help my son travel out to chase his football career provided we have the funds for it. The man was secondary school class mates with "victor ikpe ekong" who was a former super eagles player but currently a pastor in Sweden. To my greatest surprise he called him on a WhatsApp video call in my presence and i was really surprised...He gave me the man's phone number to keep in contact and also scheduled a day to meet with my husband and have a discussion.. I told my son and he was very happy..I also told my husband and he was eager to meet with him at least, anything to solve my sons idleness at the time..

The pastor came to my our house on several occasions and discussed with my husband. My husband kept telling the pastor, saying he would like my son to be going to school while chasing his football career at the same time, a feat which pastor let us know would be difficult as one has to be dropped for the other. Unfortunately, my husband changed he's mind and said he was no longer interested in the whole footballer thing. He said he knew that my son wanted to become a footballer only because of girls. That he, my son knew that if he becomes a footballer, all the girls would like him, that that was the only reason he wanted to become a footballer, and that if football was his true destiny, he doesn't need to travel out for it to manifest, that he can be in Nigeria and make it from here.....That was how that chapter close like that. Pastor left for England few months after.....

After years of my son staying at home, my husband got tired. One night, he hired some Street thugs to come take my son away and beat him up...my son stayed with them for 2 weeks. When he returned, he said he was ready to go back to school. But my husband told him he won't be going back to any private University again. My son wrote jamb again to study computer science and was admitted into COOU. but my said he would not allow him go to any University that is not in the same state we are residing. Now the problem here was that all the public schools in the state we are staying will not accept you to study computer science unless you did chemistry in jamb. And my son did not do chemistry in jamb because he is not good in chemistry. If he was to study in the same state we were staying, he had to settle for another course, which he did...Now another problem arose. My husband refused to rent an apartment for my son around the school because the school is considerably far from our house, instead he decided to be giving him money (2000) everyday as transport fare to be going from home. This did not sit down well with my the boy and he again, said he was no longer interested in schooling again sef that he can't be going such far distance from home to the school everyday to study a Course he does not even like siting that it would be stressful and affect his academics and that it was unwise to be paying 60k a year as school fees while you spend 2k everyday as transport..My husband got angry and called on our estate CSO to come pick him up. They beat him so badly in public that when he got back home later in the evening, I went to check him in his room, his buttocks and back where scarred and red with huge marks...

Ever since, he has been going to the school from home and he has become very distant from us especially his dad. They don't talk again in the same house except "good morning sir"...

My son has turned into something else. He can stay indoors from morning till night. I would have said he has started keeping bad company but he does not even have a single friend, not one..Nobody calls him, and he doesn't call anybody...I have five children and he is the first. The second and third already gained admission this year in a private University and are in school currently, so he and he's last two siblings are the only one's with us now..

Why I'm writing this is because I'm scared..I'm beginning to fear that my son might commit suicide, he's beginning to show that kind of attitude.. And the plans he have to leave us forever to go and stay alone, I don't like it ohhhh...

Nairalanders please I need your advice.

I had similar issues studying a course I didn’t like, but mine was that I choosed the wrong course myself just because I needed to be in school. I later retraced my steps and got into another course of my choice which I had passion for, graduated as one of the best students in my set. Since then it has been glory glory. There’s nothing as good as doing what you want.

Apc ambassador

Thedon22:
Do you want him to leave Tinubu to some cabals to hijack before Inauguration? You people don't know how things work in Nigeria. Didn't you see how some northerners hijack Buhari for their exclusive use? Abeg, Tinubu is our greatest investment in Lagos now so let Sanwo Olu be with him 24/7 untill govt is formed and appointments are made. We can't allow Tinubu to fail. That's exactly what Obedients are praying for but God will not allow them. Hamzat will take care of Lagos in Sanwo Olus abscence. No room for errors!

imagine what you’re spitting out

CoolAmbience:
Even a 5 year old won't ask such question....

What has being the Governor of Lagos State got to do with honouring the President-elect, his benefactor, with his presence during Ramadan?

Incase you don't know, the governor's job is supervisory. He has Commissioners, Advisers and Technocrats encircling him, and executing his policies and programs. So, I don't see how staying away from office for a few days reduces him or hurts, in anyway, let alone in an era of technology where anyone could accomplish anything without physical presence. Abi you think say we still dey the era of letter writing and post office.....

Wetin you talk when una man dey jump from pulpit to pulpit all over the country as if e wan contest as for CAN president. I no call any name o.

sometimes I wonder what the hell is wrong with some of you, why will a governor leave office he’s being paid for to attend to something so unnecessary?

Please I want to confirm something,
Is Sanwo Olu serving as PA to Tinubu or is he the governor of Lagos state? Wetin the dummy dey do for France?

NeoWanZaeed:
Laughing.. Na only saka dey arsenal ni. You just dey shout saka up and down

i’m only comparing him to his likes and whereas you say no arsenal player reach am.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Agreed but try to give each their own and not associating yahoo with ladies

my dear ladies do yahoo o

NeoWanZaeed:
You no get shame

na you no get shame. How much you sign mudryk? You know what’s bukayo Saka’s current market value?

NeoWanZaeed:
Which player of your stupid team better pass Mudryk

you want to compare him to saka? Or martinelli?

FalseProphet1:
I see Wizkid in a sex scandal before the end of this year.

This I have seen.

this boy, who dey supply you weed?