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When it comes to jobs, I think the welfare package is more important than the salary. The salary is just the cash. One can have facility to go for lunch, accomodation, staff bus to work, free medical service for self and family, once in a while sponsored holidays, and not forgeting retirement/pension schemes.

The person can be paid anything. The physical cash doesn't have to be too much - if I must suggest, 50,000 naira.

Abeg gals before you people start the confederation of nigerian wrestlers -- I hope say referee dey there to seperate when the fight come tough.
Alheri,
am happy to hear about your love-filled weekend. Happy birthday n advance to your baby.. are we invited for the wacking and licking?
Fabian,
how far now.. the bachelors are seeking for more lectures on this wrestling thing abi, have you gotten PHD? help please.

Alheri,
How can you say you would like to slap your mother in-law. What if you find out someone or even your husband is wishing to slap your mum-- take am easy oh.. do unto others what--------


Fabian,
I wish you your heart desire too. I must tell you too that a bird at hand is woth more than 50 in the bush.. though that should not slow you aspriations... am I contradicting issues?

Thanks to you all for your various opinions.
Seun,
I think your idea is very essential. I will suggest the counselling stuff to her right away.. who deosn't. If she does agree to that, I will let you know for further ecommendations. What do you think.

intuition-- i had to look it up in the dictionary before i could get the meaning. thanks i have learnt one word today -never used it before. All the same, i meant smart... as in i can walk faster, do strainous things, bend to pick eaily, jump, etc more than someone that is slim.

Amen Alheri,
About the advise you need? I think you should just be yourself. If you force it or try to impress, it won't flow.. it would show and he will know its not real. Pretend you are still dating-- only God will help. Amen

I dont beleive this gist. A guy like that who knows that too many babes are after is always on the careful side.. he sure knows he will use a condom if -- there is any tempteation-----

nice. i think both the guy and the lady do change a little bit after marriage.

fabian,
happy to hear about yur marriage. three years of marriage-- men its not easy. mine is only a year and am already getting tired.

fabian, what makes you think so

yes. though smart

loose weight

IAH
neither simeone nor someone is my name. i only said star could be someone's name. is IAH your name?

fabian,
am not afraid of teases. infact I love them much, though I prefer the verbal ones so that I ca tease back and watch the facial expressions.. youlike to tease me? that will be nice

gina
i meant --since its possible for me to make a mistake on my age like i did then, its also possible to make a mistake on what my name is-- that's what I meant. not that I made a mistake on my name----got it?

Hi fabian,
I think am tired of modifying. I like to look at my mistakes that will make me remember that am not perfect. That will also make me realise that I need to improve on my tenses, english.. etc

I don't think it has to do with money. She is okay and she is a very contented persn. She said, her husband does,t kiss her and she prefers kissing to-----. She also said, she was trying to lure him to like kissing but in vain.. like she said the guy doesn't kiss, smooch and just goes straight to the point....... (God forgive me for exposing my friend.

gina-- whats funny?

Fabian
Star could be someone's name you know--

sorry guys. Made a mistake about my name. Maybe I can make a mistake about my name too. Sorrry am 27 and not 24. Old I know but like I said.. I look 35

ocho,

you know awards have to do with voting. A person can send one hundred votes for 2face. I am not saying 2face is not good. The award is not criteria to judge though it adds credit. I mean lasting impression by (though I don't know if I used the right words) -- in the next ten years Styl plus whether together or split will still be on the show while 2 face will be out--- my opinion though

Hi, am new.
I'm 24 (not too old) but i look 35.,.... Wish I look younger than my age like Vexxy

What is (was)  your (the).....
First name: someone
Gender: female
Favorite food(s):unripe plantain and vegetable porridge
Favorite color(s):   wine red
Future child's names: David
Sign or b-day:Aquarius
Favorite number: 7
Biggest fear: embarrassment
Favorite quote:'black is beautiful'
Obsession(S): sweet smell
Addiction(s): naira land
Biggest turn off:ordour
Biggest turn on: fresh
First thing you notice in the opposite sex: dark complexion
Last book you read: rich dad, poor dad

Preferences...

Chocolate or vanilla:chocolate
Hot or cold: hot
Coke or Pepsi: pepsi
Truth or Dare: dare
Rightie or Leftie: rightie
20/20 vision or glasses: glasses
Big or small: big


Do you...

Speak another language:yes
Own your room or share with sibling: own
Have a sibling(s): no
Think that God should be male or female: male
Think that God should be white or black: none
Like your handwriting: no
Type fast or slow: fast
Think you're beautiful/cute: no
Sleep with a stuffed animal("teddy bears"  and the likes in case you don't know): no

Misc...
What is/are the thing(s) you miss the most: my childhood days
Are you straight/gay/bi: straight
Piercings: no
How tall are you: 5'6
How tall do you wish you were: am okay
What would you change about yourself: my weight
What wouldn't you change: my skin colour

Thanks mckaycee..
I will convey your advise

The types of Moni don't last. The guy is just suffering from  - 'over infatuation'. I believe he will get over Monie sooner than ya all think. I suggest you just stay put and pretend like nothing is happening. I believe the fights and quarells push him to Moni's arms. If you snub him, he will wonder whats up your sleeves even when he knows that you know-- remember he is an African and can get married to two women (though its not common these days). get focused on taking care of your kids if you have. No where and no one is perfect. every marriage has its ups and downs. What if you leave, get into another relationship and the new husband (guy) comes up with his own problem-- in another way. Will you walk out and look out for another marriage or relationship? then you will be called the 'people's wife'.. what do you think.. Just pray that the Moni has not bewitched your husband (if that works) and also that your husband does not contact any STD from her..cause she might be sleeping with someone else too. I tell you the so called moni has a single relationship which your husband will soon find out... so stay put, pray, be silent and time will tell...

I asked a question like---what was it that really got her into the marriage in the first place if not love and quess what she said-- I needed to be with someone. I'm still wondering if its possible cause ya all know that marriage is a lifetime commitment.