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sanmtiago:
Sorry my write up may be lengthy but I'll try as much as possible to be concise

I don't usually see myself as a ladies man cause i'm just a simple person who likes it low key but ladies keep coming around. Of course I like women but I'm not the type who has that excessive impulse to have a woman around me for sex and all that romantic ish. I do have sex when I want to cause I have a girlfriend and I'm loyal to her also. I'm not loyal to her because I love her so much i think I'm loyal because I technically have this inherent self discipline so I hardly chase women. I've dated my girl friend for 2yrs and I've never cheated on her even when I've a deluge of girls flocking around me.

I'm a final year student in my mid twenties and my girl in her early twenties. I don't cohabit cause it doesn't appeal to me so all she does is visit and spend the weekend at my house at times.

Now down to the subject matter I make friends irrespective of their sex but the thing is most of the females I make friends with always want to take the friendship further, they visit me at late hours at times 8pm, 9pm and they stay beyond 10pm and once it's after 10 they begin to give frivolous excuses like, I don't think it'd be safe going home alone by this time of the night or they say they've locked my hostel gate so I literally have no choice than to let them pass the night.

The shocking thing is they begin to make romantic demands like 'can you pls cuddle me I'm cold' I find it so disrespectful cause they know full well I have a girlfriend and I'm not that kind of guy they think I'm.

It happens too often and I'm no longer comfortable with it at this same time I don't want to lose friends as they're nice people. Even as much as my girl knows my level of honesty and discipline she still nervous breakdown because of the inordinate amount of calls from this so called Jezebels.

Please how do I curb this without losing friends cause like I said earlier they're nice and to some extent they've been helpful.

You seem funny guy.... Cos that your older post you were busy asking us how to woo girls

AfonjaConehead:
You that have sense can you tell us the sins of Saraki,what is he guilty of?

Tell us or remain silent forever..

I swear they should just mention one......he has never done anything bad..... People criticize successors

Pearlman:
Saraki owes no baga no apology!
He is a hero a celebrate all the time. He taught Jagaban of Borgu Kingdom another level of politics!

nice comment.... It seems you understand this thingsm.... Most of us are just criticising this guy unnecessarily
Is it a crime to be smart

AnanseK:
Record in evil abi ?

which kind evil I no understand..... Did he do you anything wrong?

GreyLaw:
Typically, most poor people hate wealthy people because they believe their poverty was caused by same wealthy people.

In pidgin English it's called "bad belle"

you're right my brother

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LordDecency:
When you follow what you have passion for, the sky is just the starting point.



Just Believe in yourself.

Believe in your siblings.

Believe in your kids.

Everything must not be Book... Book... And Books.


Love what you Do and Do what you Love...!

a few have become something with books why few av become something without it [lit] it ir just a matter of working hard .. so dnt criticise if you have not found way yet,

olagbola45:
he should b very careful with ladoja and lanleyin those people will see to his failure if he dont

this is not a conjoin governance

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oyebanji44:
console yourself with the thought that you did your best accept defeat

we have accepted defeat but

peteruuu:
Sir, have you ever sat her down, and discuss everything you're not happy about her with her?
If you haven't, I'd advice you do so...
Do not, I repeat, DO NOT BEAT HER!!!


Pour put yourself to her and just leave her.

And then, take it to God in prayers!

The Bible says pray without ceasing... And have enough faith too.

She will change.

Peace Sir.

after 8 years

OmoAlata1:
You sound like those husbands that will emotionally drained their wives. I know your type very well. You can fool others with your poor me victim card post but not me.

this omoalata has never taken anything serious

Treasured4eva:
I've never been happy for almost 8 years of marriage with 3 wonderful kids.I wake up everyday asking God how I got entangled with the worse woman I've ever met in my life.

I'm a very responsible and decent man who provides for his family.My family has always been my priority, but my wife's disrespectful attitude towards me has rendered me hopeless,shattered and broken.

She insults me at any slightest argument,raises her voice to attract the attention of neighbours and the kids whenever we have a misunderstanding.She hates been talked to,even if she's wrong.

I have my own imperfections too as a man,but it really baffles me when a woman you paid her bride price sees you as trash,challenges you in a very rebellious and arrogant manner for the whole time you've ever spent with her.

My kids has been the ones keeping me from leaving the marriage since I've complained to virtually all her family members yet it seems to be worse. I die in silence and pains everyday.

My wife can't serve me food with water to wash my hands,I'll always go and wash my hands myself and mostly take the plates back to the kitchen if the maid didn't do it.She has never asked why I rejected a particular food,she'll just take it away without remorse.

I'm just nothing to her and her family members. Her sister even called me to warn and threaten me one certain time we had problem.It even became worse when she got a job,I'm a laughing stock because I lost my job.

I usually send her money to pay the kids fees,I was owing some little amount this term,surprisingly,the gave the school accountant my number to embarrass me.

I've come to realize that any woman disloyal to her husband definitely has someone she's loyal to and if you don't let her go,she might end up killing you or you do the unthinkable out of frustration.

Divorce might not be the best way to end an unhappy marriage,but it can surely prolong the lives of the couples involved. Kids will surely grow into adults someday to understand things. This is my point of no return.

She started as a terrible girlfriend and ended as a bad wife.I pray my daughters don't ever take after their mother because I can't wish a fellow man what I've experienced for almost 8 years.No body should ever marry a man or woman with flaws thinking they'll change with time;they don't change,they only get worse.

Lots of people are really misquoting me.I only lost a high paying job but still got a very big business which is already yielding income,just that my spending pattern changed.I still run all aspects of mybhome.

My wife's money remains her business and she's not mandated to spend it on me or the family.I truly assist her to the best of my ability in domestic chores and otherwise.

She's a very bad tempered woman that doesn't regard or respect me and that's where the problem lies.My only crime is that I wanted respect from her.

with this I think she doesn't want you.... the best you can ever do is to leave her alone.... it's not by force she can do anything at anytime

GoTV:
This life is unpredictable. A whole Senate president feeling funky while gallivanting across the country to form political Don dada has been relegated to oblivion just because of stupid pride and greed. His last hope of political resurrection would have been an Atiku presidency which will never happen. Saraki has become an ordinary Nigerian like you and i in a jiffy all because of a miscalculated defection. No more sirens, armed convoys, no more access to Abuja and kwara treasury. When he colluded with opposition to emerge senate president, he thought he was doing Buhari not knowing he was digging his political grave. Humility and tactfulness is key in politics. Asiwaju has been out of power for over a decade but still relevant and powerful. The overrated pompous saraki whose political sagacity has been about his ability to betray and backstab has been deleted into the trash can of national politics. I hope the Federal government bares it's fangs on saraki and use him as a scapegoat for upcoming dubious charlatans

it is not a sin to be smart... think about it

Oyimeoyimemua:
Getting this man out of the house was a big win for the APC, he brought the Jack Bauer role on them.... Take it or leave it, he is intelligent

that is why I like him... he is the smartest among those fools

will2lead:
Email/Chat me so I can teach you

boss can you drop your whatsapp number

freemanbubble:
So the shoot at sight of ballot box snatcher was not for APC thugs
Buhari is a disgrace
In Lagos people who wanted to vote for PDP was flocked with cane and PDP strong hold was disrupted

Here in Benin city at Western boys college APC thugs destroyed ballot papers and armed police men looked the other way. They didn't do anything
In ikpoba okha an APC candidate who sense he was already loosing wanted to gain access into INEC office several times but the youths never allowed him

So this is what mr integrity can offer
So The north refused to vote for atiku because he won't key into their Islamic agenda and born to rule mentality
They know he is liberal

Which means they are trying to unite and divide the whole south.

Which means in 2023 or next tinubu wings will be cliped and ribadu or el rufai might rule us

God which kind wahalar we don enter

am telling you... tinubu thinks he's wise.. he doesn't know that Hausa will also be an Hausa they will support themselves and only use us

ok

nothing

only God knows why I like this guy.... maybe he always has a plan.. this is not the really end ... tinubu also that's using power as if he's in power and others

we don wise also bring your pussy here is the money

[quote author=4ckTOTO post=76141960]They aff won already ogbeni. Atiku is leading with 10million votes. Are you happy now . Bleep all looters.