₦airaland Forum

Too many unnecessary assumptions abi projections....... Biden has a big responsibility ahead of him should Trump fail at the court.

There's coronavirus, the economy, high unemployment rates et al. External politics will not be the first of his concerns right now.

Only the Youths can mount on enough strength to scare our leaders... Not America - las las them ban them/seize properties. UAE no dey?

Modified: So many ENTITLED NIGERIANS have been quoting me to say their biased and cr@ppy ideas and expectations from America. The pandemic has affected even the USA, so yes the economy and employment rates are not as hallowed as your pre-2020 conceptions.

You also fail to realize that even being a world power, America has no business interfering so glaringly in the affairs of any sovereign state. Forget what you think you know and read. They can give sanctions, ban visas and stop aids, but they can't demand accountability from your own government. That is your responsibility oh ye entitled quoters

So if they don't, what will Nigeria do?

Stop giving aids/funding to America?
Ban them back?
Deport all American citizens?
Increase electricity tariff on American owned companies?

All of una be the same

God and the belief in God does not take away your responsibility.... Every one has a role to play, and the planet operates a principle of cause and effect - With very few exceptions usually called "miracles"

Okortor:
Kudos to a sane country
Like for denmark , share for Nigeria.

True Nigerians that make up the larger population of Nigeria a very sane my guy. If your "poll" had pitted our government to theirs, then our government are sh!tlo@ds

Power intoxicates.... It's takes strength to give it up.

An innumerable number of Justices in a country where people have to beg, cry and suffer to get justice for themselves; whereas those who know they that need to be known are above the court.

The Judiciary remains a shadow of its true definition as expressed in ze constitution.

But, congratulations to the people, big step in their career.

TAGM:
oga calm down, virginity is still a very important factor for some men. If you don't care about that you shouldn't force someone to go with your view

Ladies must learn to keep themselves for their husbands

Try to read my comments in the order I made them....top to last. Maybe you'll understand my submissions as a whole rather fighting one part of it. Did I in any way mention that virginity as a virtue should not be desired?

When you demand virginity from a woman, are you also demanding same from the man too?

This will be the last mention I'll respond to.

bukatyne:
The OP has not even said he wants to marry a virgin (also not bad); he wants ladies to be truthful (IF they decide to divulge).

If it means so much for you to know, then be matured enough to deal with the knowledge how best it suits you, not crying foul on social media.

Bye

Karleb:
The OP didn't invite you to comment either.


It's a public forum, anyone can quote anyone.

Thank God you know that, at least. I don't understand then why you're pained about the direction I was pushing my point in with another uninvited member of the public forum.

Karleb:
Stop trying to hard.

The fellow is only concerned about and also disappointed in the cooked up story.

K.

I didn't quote you. There's a discussion beyond the op's dilemma.

MMXX:
True to an extent cos you don't want a lose woman with a good character also

Exactly, my point is get to know the woman in her PRESENT... observe her personality and you may even be able to predict future tendencies. Digging too deep in the past sometimes is an unpleasant and hypocritical endeavor.. As we all have flaws in our past

bukatyne:
Sexual self-control is part of good character for men and women.

Are you a virgin?

Btw, virginity does not always validate sexual self-control. To some, it's just a lack of opportunity.

While I'm not trying to speak against virginity.. I'm coming from the angle of the op fixating on the "how I lost my virginity" story from the prospects he's made

Are you looking for a wife or are you looking a for a woman with a plausible "lose your virginity story"?

There's more to getting a good wife than meeting her a virgin. Does she have self-identity/worth? Patience? Understanding? Forgiving spirit, loyalty, amongst others.

A good wife is in character, not the hymen, Mr. Man

Brightgem:
writing aside graphics might be a cool side Hustle for you. This was an interesting short story.

Hehe... Thanks for the insight.

An elder friend who I respected told a 19yr old me that he had secured a 500k design and print contract for me ( I had just started a small biz). He had me print samples, draft proposals, and everything. Baba started posting me upandan, collecting mobilization from me. Scheduling and rescheduling appointments.

Las las......It dawned on me Nigga was lying. Hehe....I tried all respectable ways, him no wan refund me.....Then Sweet African mother heard of it. na she help me do debt-recovery

Slurity:
keep seeing problems always and you will always get problems. Change your orientation if you want to get better

Be a realist Oga. The world is not as black and white as you think.

With the suffix of your monicker and stuff on your signature... Lol.. The hub where you will use it up is not far fetched

While we commend our gallant officers-in-training, I do hope the police authorities understand that gallantry is not the major problem.

These guys should be trained on civility, human language and relationships, appreciation of the law, understanding that your job is to protect your employers (the citizens).

Let's see a video of them with a "psychology coach"

When certain aberrations are not "outrightly" spoken against, but one tries yo be politically correct, it becomes easy for your stand to be taken out of context.

"Homosexuality in all ramifications is against the belief of the church, and even if I can't judge them as I'm not God, I strongly do not support it"

An example of the bolded above can not be taken out of context! Because it is straight

Religious Intolerance in Nigeria is just as worst as the corruption in government.

But No one is concerned, because they've not felt the effects directly.

Say No to Barbarism.

Slurity:
keep seeing problems always and you will always get problems. Change your orientation if you want to get better

It's called being Realistic

Don't leave in dreamland in an attempt to dodge the responsibility of looking for the problem and then trying to correct it.

Wake up Sir. If you ignore the problems (rots) it doesn't make it disappear

Slurity:
what is wrong this ti e around?

Errrm...your comment.

Since you're not seeing the obvious

BigSarah:
It’s natural selection, everything it’s gonna be fine

Hmmm.....Or maybe it's something else? Possible man-made, from environmental pollution or contaminated items usually packaged as food in today's Nigeria?

Originalsly:
I believe their reason for refusal is off. If only the State can summons the military... then the Panel can because it is State appointed. I was more expecting them to say only a FG panel can summons them . A State should never be in the position to summons a Federal/National agency. Lekki shootings should be investigated by a Federal Panel.

That's just more evidence of the ignorance of those who hold positions of power in this country. If the said person who made that claim was learned, they will understand. The other day, some at the military hospital as aired barred a member of the panel (and press) from gaining access to a the place (morgue) they intended to investigate....only to let them in moments later (which negates the purpose as anything could have happened in that time frame)

They have the guts to say NO
because they know who's got their back.

Lagos govt, not panel, has right to invite us – Army

Rubbish, so none of them understand the meaning of delegated authority. The panel which was set up by the State government has the full powers to investigate the subject matter!

There's just too many things wrong with the Nigerian System.

An imperfect world, always expecting perfection from those in high places and yet nothing of their own self.

Even some of the comments are filled with same grammatical blunders, others are hiding behind pidgin.

Chances are the guy actually manages his handle by himself not some hired team, and no one is seeing that the guy is not an English-speaking nationale. Baba is Portuguese!

Should the law as enshrined in our constitution impeach the present government of Nigeria (State and Federal) seeing that they have failed in their primary function which is to protect the lives and properties of its citizens?

On the subject matter though, everyone who participated in looting private warehouses or businesses should be fished out and prosecuted.

But every item that has/had the CACOVID tracings should be left to the people. The various governors have been spewing nothing reasonable about why they chose the warehouse over distribution to the people.

Besk:
So, it is justice to steal a staff of office that belongs mit just to a king but an entire kingdom?

How do some of you think? Is there anywhere in the Bible or Quran that states that it is good to steal under certain circumstances? None whatsoever!!!

Those who stole from the devil have entered a covenant with the devil and when he starts tk deal without them mercilessly, we should not put our mouths in it, so we don’t partake of their punishment.

Those people you’re stealing from are exceedingly diabolical and the only way to overcome them is to occupy the moral high ground in the spirit realm, so they can have nothing against you. The moment you break that hedge.....you’re on your own...

Your problem Sir, is myopia.

Try to read my statement slowly and try to interpret your own response if it tallies

iguita:
I was going to even say there is no need to curse. The gods should be able to invoke the curses for desecrating the palace.

The gods no longer dwell in palaces or shrines; they dwell in the heart of the people who believe in them - and those who can call on them to execute vengeance must be one whose hands are not already soiled with the oil of greed and exploitation

smile11s:
What if they are real and just using us to play games for their own enjoyment

Then they are certainly enjoying the drama unfolding and wouldn't want to cut their script midway na. Lol