Stephenomozzy:


Exactly, my point is get to know the woman in her PRESENT... observe her personality and you may even be able to predict future tendencies. Digging too deep in the past sometimes is an unpleasant and hypocritical endeavor.. As we all have flaws in our past

oga calm down, virginity is still a very important factor for some men. If you don't care about that you shouldn't force someone to go with your view

Ladies must learn to keep themselves for their husbands

bukatyne:


Whether I am a virgin or not is outside the scope of this thread.

Virginity would always be a sign of sexual self-control to me which is a hallmark of character. I am not saying sexual self-control is all there is to a wife or husband. Same person might lack financial self-control or self-control in food etc.

If you don't see anything wrong in lying how one got disflowered especially when not solicited, I, the OP and some others do.

The OP has not even said he wants to marry a virgin (also not bad); he wants ladies to be truthful (IF they decide to divulge).

That is not to say some ladies were not raped (I even have a thread on that): but to claim cock and bull stories like our Government feed us is playing on the person's intelligence.

Quite an intelligent response.

TAGM:


oga calm down, virginity is still a very important factor for some men. If you don't care about that you shouldn't force someone to go with your view

Ladies must learn to keep themselves for their husbands

Try to read my comments in the order I made them....top to last. Maybe you'll understand my submissions as a whole rather fighting one part of it. Did I in any way mention that virginity as a virtue should not be desired?

When you demand virginity from a woman, are you also demanding same from the man too?

This will be the last mention I'll respond to.

angelfallz:


No. Such questions should be asked but, not necessarily directly.
It is very important to thoroughly vet and verify the woman you intend to spend the rest of your life with.

Once I know that a woman is NOT a virgin, I can't bother myself with the details – this is how I have always related with ladies in the past.
As long as nor be me first enter there, I already know there will be plenty story/history inside which I don't have the patience for.

Questions like, how did you lose your virginity? How many sexual partners have you had? Etc.. are simply express invitations to taddletales.

If virginity is what matters, then best to stick to virgins and simply avoid storytellers.

crackhaus:

Once I know that a woman is NOT a virgin, I can't bother myself with the details – this is how I have always related with ladies in the past.
As long as nor be me first enter there, I already know there will be plenty story/history inside which I don't have the patience for.

Questions like, how did you lose your virginity? How many sexual partners have you had? Etc.. are simply express invitations to taddletales.

If virginity is what matters, then best to stick to virgins and simply avoid storytellers.

Lol. Bro, how would you know she is not a virgin if you don't ask?

crackhaus:

Once I know that a woman is NOT a virgin, I can't bother myself with the details – this is how I have always related with ladies in the past.
As long as nor be me first enter there, I already know there will be plenty story/history inside which I don't have the patience for.

Questions like, how did you lose your virginity? How many sexual partners have you had? Etc.. are simply express invitations to taddletales.

If virginity is what matters, then best to stick to virgins and simply avoid storytellers.

Bro, long time.

I am in Ph now, Onne to be precise.
How do we meet?

angelfallz:


Lol. Bro, how would you know she is not a virgin if you don't ask?

Finger her na

You know its very sad how you are bent on focusing on the wrong point . Like someone said have you heard of Stockholm syndrome , read up about it , it might just open your mind .

emmaodet:

Bro, long time.

I am in Ph now, Onne to be precise.
How do we meet?

Chief, you have my number naw... Long time

angelfallz:


Lol. Bro, how would you know she is not a virgin if you don't ask?

LOL.. my guy, is this a serious question?

virtual7:
Is it possible to go somewhere with a group of people and then get raped, and still go ahead and date the rapist knowing fully well he did it?
Tales some girls tell for losing virginity, I'm tired.
Getting a good wife is giving me tough time

It's possible for someone to date her rapist and even marry him. I met one in my lodge during NYSC. He raped her, she cursed the guy all night and left. Next thing, they were dating. Last I heard, they were planning wedding.

nuelyoyo:
Finger her na

Finger her? Fear no dey catch you?
Na una dey preach morals, na una still dey spoil them.
Una wan marry virgins abi? Who go marry all the ones wey una sleep with before marriage?

Delusional hypocrites!

TAGM:


oga calm down, virginity is still a very important factor for some men. If you don't care about that you shouldn't force someone to go with your view

Ladies must learn to keep themselves for their husbands

What about those who men sleep with before marriage?

virtual7:


Please explain a little

Thank u... 3 to 4 ladies in my life too claimed rape...... Two dated the guy dt supposedly rape them..

I think they do dt to gain pity and excuse for their waywardness but bro, if u need wife.. Leave those stuff and marry a good woman... Virgin or not

mariahAngel:


Finger her? Fear no dey catch you?
Na una dey preach morals, na una still dey spoil them.
Una wan marry virgins abi? Who go marry all the ones wey una sleep with before marriage?

Delusional hypocrites!

Mariangeles how are you? It's been a while.

nuelyoyo:
Mariangeles how are you? It's been a while.

I'm fine, thanks.

Your monicker looks familiar, but I don't remember you...
Food thread?

nuelyoyo:
Finger her na

mariahAngel:


Finger her? Fear no dey catch you?
Na una dey preach morals, na una still dey spoil them.
Una wan marry virgins abi? Who go marry all the ones wey una sleep with before marriage?

Delusional hypocrites!

nke a fugbuola gi..


So u don't know some men run away from virgins...Na those men go marry non-virgins na..

Munzy14:

nke a fugbuola gi..

O chara'm acha n'ishi!

Ka'm gwa gi eshi okwu ehn, ihe m debure na komenti'm ahu kariri ihe ahu I huru...M gbashikwa ike ga editie ya
Nsogbu eshi ahu na thread nri ezuerela'm for this week

So u don't know some men run away from virgins...Na those men go marry non-virgins na..

Okakwa mma otu ahu o

Balance.

mariahAngel:


O chara'm acha n'ishi!

Ka'm gwa gi eshi okwu ehn, ihe m debure na komenti'm ahu kariri ihe ahu I huru...M gbashikwa ike ga editie ya
Nsogbu eshi ahu na thread nri ezuerela'm for this week




Okakwa mma otu ahu o

Balance.

Were nwayo o, No be fight.


Some comment can be annoying, but then, its someone's opinion/ thoughts and probably not a normal.

O nwere ufodu umu nwoke ruru la ihe eji nwoke eme, mana ha hu beghi payint nwaanyi anya before... Ma ya ufodu iri oru... Mana ha ko akuko nwaanyi ebe a, gi nye ha medal...

Munzy14:

Were nwayo o, No be fight.

Anula'm

Some comment can be annoying, but then, its someone's opinion/ thoughts and probably not a normal.

O nwere ufodu umu nwoke ruru la ihe eji nwoke eme, mana ha hu beghi payint nwaanyi anya before... Ma ya ufodu iri oru... Mana ha ko akuko nwaanyi ebe a, gi nye ha medal...

I buola chi?

mariahAngel:

I'm fine, thanks.

Your monicker looks familiar, but I don't remember you...
Food thread?

No not food thread, but I know your monicker because I have mentioned you before.

Now back to the initial post, the person I quoted asked how would he know if a lady is a virgin if he doesn't ask her?

The way to genuinely know if a lady is a virgin is by examining her physically, and that would naturally come up between two people who are dating when there is intimacy (except in medical scenarios where a doctor have to do the physical examination).

That was why I say he should finger her or at least try penetrating ( I know this sound vulgar, but I believe we are mostly adults here).

Any guy that takes a ladies words about the status of her virginity is naive. Questions such as 'are you a virgin', 'how did you lose your virginity', 'what is your body count' are stupid questions as far as I am concerned. No matured guy should be asking such questions, if you want to know the current status of the vagina, then at least try exploring the vagina.

Cc: crackhaus

crackhaus:

LOL.. my guy, is this a serious question?

The thing tire me oh , imagine trying to know if a girl is a virgin by asking her, she go tell you wetin you wan here na. If you wan know how the place be, at least try enter the place, even if na entrance you reach, you go get idea how the place be

nuelyoyo:
The thing tire me oh , imagine trying to know if a girl is a virgin by asking her, she go tell you wetin you wan here na. If you wan know how the place be, at least try enter the place, even if na entrance you reach, you go get idea how the place be

No lies detected!