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PoliticsRe: Blunders Upon Blunders Upon Blunders - Femi Aribsala by stepo707: 3:22pm On Feb 17, 2016
Please move to front page
PhonesRe: Glo Bis by stepo707: 12:29pm On Feb 17, 2016
Mine there is no 3g network
PhonesGlo Bis Service by stepo707(op): 12:26pm On Feb 17, 2016
Am using my mtn to post this.please who else has glo bis challenge.their network has been down since yesterday afternoon
CrimeRe: 22-yr-old Surrenders To Police After Killing Cousin Over Girlfriend by stepo707: 6:23pm On Feb 04, 2016
That's the right thing to do.murder is a serious sin.Though he will be mailed but he will have peace now.Anger us bad ooo.
How come some people don't feel guilt when they committed murder
EducationRe: .. by stepo707: 7:06am On Feb 04, 2016
Hmmmn.I remember that gorgeous fine woman with her glasses though she never taught my class.Her son tunde ladipo was in my class though.
Adios Mrs ladipo
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Job Seekers, Take A cue From Lionel Messi by stepo707: 4:15pm On Jan 31, 2016
Nice analogy op
PoliticsRe: 2016 Budget:Buhari To Spend N322M For Linking Of Cable To Driver’s Rest Room(pic by stepo707: 1:35pm On Jan 21, 2016
Bad Change
TravelRe: Samsung Building On Allen Avenue On Fire (photos) by stepo707: 1:30pm On Jan 21, 2016
whom do we blame now? lipsrsealed
PoliticsRe: #buharideathsquad Now Trending - Photos by stepo707: 9:21pm On Jan 13, 2016
Nigerians are tired of Buhari already
EducationRe: I Usually Get The Opposite Of The Grades I Expect After Exams. by stepo707: 2:22pm On Jan 13, 2016
aim 0 this time maybe you will get 100. undecided
Travel. by stepo707(op):
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PoliticsRe: How True Is This Photo by stepo707: 7:11am On Dec 21, 2015
Love this thread
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Cleaning Job/drivers Job by stepo707: 3:37pm On Dec 18, 2015
whoisuche:
3 Girls needed for Cleaning Job at Apapa and also 2 Drivers needed in a bank
Contact: 07084457676, 08062599151

Urgently needed...
hope its real and not scam oo
PoliticsRe: 150,000 Naira To Be Given To Eaglets As Buhari Rejects 750,000 Naira. by stepo707: 4:28pm On Dec 17, 2015
hmmmn.Wish the senators can cut down even 1% of their allowance
BusinessRe: #5 Reasons Why You Should Use E-banking In Nigeria by stepo707: 4:20pm On Dec 17, 2015
dominique:
You can use the service for both airtime transfer and account transfer. To recharge your line, it's simply *737*amount#, to recharge a line different from the line you registered your account with, dial *737*amount*number#, you'll be asked the last four digits of your ATM card to complete the transaction.
To transfer to other bank account dial *737*2*amount*NUBAN#. Maximum you can transfer in a day is N20,000 and you'll be charged N20 for the transaction.
ok thanks
BusinessRe: #5 Reasons Why You Should Use E-banking In Nigeria by stepo707: 3:50pm On Dec 17, 2015
dominique:
Internet banking is so convenient, if only people knew, there'll be less queues in banks. I'll also commend GTB for introducing the *737*1*amount* NUBAN# transfer. You don't need an internet enabled phone to carry out that transaction and it costs just N20 to transfer to other banks. As long as you don't give out the digits on your ATM, your BVN or your Pin, your account is safe.

We need as many measures to allow us handle less physical cash in this country. Those armed robbers ain't smiling.
Sorry is this for airtime transfer or to transfer cash?
Also does it work to other banks from Gtbank transfer
PoliticsRe: Cramjones To Give Away $500 To Political Supporters! Get In Here! by stepo707: 7:30am On Dec 17, 2015
So help me God
PoliticsRe: Appeal Court Upholds Tribunal’s Judgment Nullifying Wike’s Election by stepo707: 1:45pm On Dec 16, 2015
nawao
RomanceRe: Any lady that says YES to these questions can't remain single for long. by stepo707: 6:02pm On Dec 12, 2015
Toks2008:
Its really amazing how ladies fear the possibility of remaining unmarried for a long time stretching into their late twenties and thirties.

I have seen countless number of naija spinsters visit many prayer houses to seek spiritual guide and advice just to be a mrs and while so many will quickly come out to say they are unperturbed,the truth is that deep inside of them they hope that they just find the "right man" fast enough and start raising a family before reaching their menopause age.



Many ladies do not need prayer and fasting and in most cases,there is no spiritual attack from anywhere but these ladies are their own pitfalls and the simple truth is that 90% of unmarried ladies in their late 20s and 30s have no business still remaining single.

Considering the present global socio economy siituations expecially in a country like ours,here are 5 very vital questions to ask yourself as a lady and the more you give a NO to each of these 5 questions the harder it may be for you to get a man to marry you.

1.Can you start a life with a man in one room ?
: Many ladies have boyfriends who live in this type of apartment and infact they have spent some nights with him in that same one room apartment and the guy has lost count of how many times he has scr*wd you in any imaginable ways but when it comes to marriage you will foolishly say you can't marry into one room apartment.

Sorry is your second name and i strongly pity you.Most men who own mansions today started their lives in one room so if you are ok being scr*wd in one room but you can not marry same man living in one room then you are not only clueless but foolish and be ready to be dumped after he has really had you to his fullness.


2.Can you marry a struggling man who has no regular job?
:Oh i can imagine some ladies answering LAI! LAI!,MBA NUNU! GOD FORBID and so on to this particular question but please let me ask you"why date a struggling guy or allow him srw you at will yet cant marry him?" strange and foolish i must say.

It is important to know that as long as that man is not lazy,his break through will come and must come.How many ladies have given up an affair because they feel the guy has no job just to realize a year latter that he is gainfully employed or he has started a profitable business and they start feeling bad for not being patient enough.

Ok what is even the guaranty that the ones who have good jobs or business can not experience a crazy turn around? many ladies have lost their chance with a vibrant vision driven man just because they are waiting to say yes to a man who has a job rather than for them to also find something doing that will make them financially independent while the guy has enough space to pursue his dreams.Believe it or not 95% of the rich or successful guys you see today have passed through a struggling phase.


3.Can you have a very low budget wedding?
: Now i want every reasonable lady reading this to understand that marital union and marriage ceremony are 2 different things.

Most times when you hear words like "my guy is not ready yet for marriage" what this simply implies is that the guy is NOT READY FOR A BIG MARRIAGE CEREMONY and not that he is not mentally,psychologically and emotionally ready but because our young ladies are overwhelmed with that one day celebration,they will never ever plan any wedding with a man who does not have the money to give them a flamboyant wedding and this is one major reasons why many ladies remain single for a very long time.

Have you looked around to see many graduates still struggling in their 30s with no assurance that a job or business will come up tomorrow? Are you among the myopic ladies who get carried away by a flamboyant wedding ceremony rich parents organize for their children?

Who says you can't have a marriage ceremony with N50,000 budget where a man pays the bride price and proceed to the registry with you and when the money starts coming in you two can do another big time wedding ceremony so why put yourself in bondage of having a compulsory big time wedding before you can be a mrs? Why are you giving that guy a good reason to continue using you,saying he is not ready for marriage ceremony but doing all the imaginable things a man will do to a wife on you.

For my igbo sisters i will advice you to appeal to the elders at home to understand that the fact that few of you are lucky to have a guy pay so much or spend so much on a marriage ceremony against all odds does not erase the fact that countless number of Igbo girls are been courted but not married in a timely manner due to the high expenses involved.


4.Can you marry a man who loves you but is not your preferred spec?
:Yes there is nothing absolutely wrong in having a picture of who you want and while some ladies are very fortunate to find such,many have lived in a fantasy world hoping to meet that man who has those qualities they dream of just to wait and wait until they become old waiting for an "ideal man"

In marriage there is nothing like a bad or good choice neither do we have an ideal or non ideal man but its about your choice.Many ladies want a tall,cute,rich.GOD fearing,romantic guy and its so amazing how some ladies will never shift ground and when that short caring and loving guy comes their way they hush him and start running after a prince charming that feels nada for them,what a shame.

Stop having this myopic belief that there is an ideal man out there,no man has it all and all you need to look out for is a man who truly desires and deserves you. If you like keep waiting and screening until you become the object of screening yourself. Be wise.


5.Can you marry a man with a wide age gap to you
:This is one of the most dangerous mistakes many ladies make. For crying out loud, except a lady just wants to play around,i do not see why a teenage girl will be dating a fellow teenager or a lady in her early twenties will be dating a guy of just a year or two older than her because when she eventually becomes ripe for marriage, in most cases this guy is still jumping around and fulfilling his sexual fantasies.

Yes age is nothing but a number but in most cases, ladies who date or court guys with wide age gaps like 8years or more tend to end up as a wife to the guy while most ladies who at their young ages started an affair with guys of close age proximity are usually left heart broken latter in life because most guys in the 20s are probably still playing around and not even psychologically ready for marital union.

So when i hear a 23 year old lady telling a guy in his 30s that he is too old for her i just laugh at her ignorance. If you are a teenager reading this or a lady in your early twenties,i will advice that except you just want to play around,you should date or court guys with wide age gap to avoid had i known.YES THERE ARE EXCEPTIONS to this but most times my assertion holds true.

I hope these write up makes sense to those who want to see sense in it.
Please how can have a LW budget wedding with 200k
RomanceRe: Any lady that says YES to these questions can't remain single for long. by stepo707: 6:00pm On Dec 12, 2015
I gat 200k.how can I have a low budget wedding with this
FamilyRe: Help Me... My Mum Is Making Me Depressed. by stepo707: 7:47am On Dec 11, 2015
[quote author=nairalander2015 post=40889155]tanks alot... The first option.. Is a no no.. It seems itz normal.. Spoke with youth pastor.. Only said itz "out of fear".. But i wonder.. I dnt look like a badboy or one who will[/quote
Why don't you stay on campus or rentca room outside your home.
CrimeRe: Lepacious Bose Narrates Her Experience At 3rd Mainland Bridge Today by stepo707: 1:02pm On Dec 09, 2015
Sometimes I wish I could be a president
HealthRe: How Do I Treat Dis Stubborn Typhoid.i've Taken Over 50 Injections This Year. by stepo707: 8:31am On Nov 25, 2015
olarhtunji:
I think so but brother my own suffering is different ......like I have did severe insomnia..... I dunno d reason or why
well one of the adverse reaction of cipro for some people is insomnia.i suffered it for 3 months.....i know what you going through.it can be really frustrating.Try taking sleeping tablets sometimes and also watch a movie or read a book at sleep time.sleep may come
HealthRe: How Do I Treat Dis Stubborn Typhoid.i've Taken Over 50 Injections This Year. by stepo707: 4:47pm On Nov 24, 2015
olarhtunji:
have done it it came out positive..... though m doing one for stool culture
was it greater than 160? wait for the culture own to come out also and see what it discover
HealthRe: How Do I Treat Dis Stubborn Typhoid.i've Taken Over 50 Injections This Year. by stepo707: 12:28pm On Nov 24, 2015
olarhtunji:
please I need your help....I came down with typhoid few months back after a test and I was given cipro which I used for abt 3days b4 I started having side effects from the drug but I felt well for 2months till last week again I started having headache ...weakness,diarrhea foamy spit and the worst of them all is insomnia aw on earth did I have insomnia.... I don't know m just confused and am tired.I tried the herbs though I don't av the fever again but d foamy spit still persistent...I don't feel totally weak but I know m not ok...wondering if you still know any medication I can use
please do a typhoid test and also do the one for infection(urine or semen).Then let me know what you discover.goko cleanser is what i se for now and it works well for me.But do that infection own to know if you need to treat something else
BusinessRe: 3 Banks Get June 2016 Recapitalisation Deadline by stepo707: 12:50pm On Nov 23, 2015
end time banks
SportsRe: Samuel Eto Supports Nigeria Against Terrorism, See What He Did by stepo707: 11:26am On Nov 19, 2015
correct african
PoliticsRe: SEE The Sad Reason Africa Has Remained Backward [photos] by stepo707: 7:20pm On Nov 18, 2015
oh boy see convoy
EducationRe: Has Primary School Curriculum Changed This Much? by stepo707: 1:07pm On Nov 10, 2015
grin grin grin
CareerRe: Virgin Atlantic Airline Sacks All Nigerian Cabin Crew by stepo707: 11:06am On Nov 06, 2015
FullDepth1:
Crazy Crazy Crazy..
The Presidency should react to the "Branson being weary of doing Business in Nigeria"
This Sends a wrong signal...
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true
PoliticsRe: How My Administration Will Be Judged – Buhari by stepo707: 1:58pm On Nov 05, 2015
story story.you mean moved into poverty

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