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Family / Re: Should I Pack My parents Out Or Go To Rent My Own House? by Stevenbright(m): 3:11pm On Apr 22
T0T0Vulcanizer:
Hello everyone, I'm seeking advice on a challenging situation. In 2020, I purchased a plot of land and built a house, which I and my parents moved into in 2021. While I love having them close, I'm feeling suffocated by the lack of personal space and freedom. I'm struggling to maintain my sexual urges due to my high sex drive.. enjoy my hobbies with different hook up girls of my choices, and even relax in my own home without judgment when I kpo!. To cope, I've been spending a significant amount (around 50k) on hotel stay and I do this like four times in a week, which is unsustainable due to their high cost of drinks and food dollar rate increase and they put price in everything...when I could have all this in my house. I'm considering two options: renting a separate house for my parents or finding a new place for myself. However, I'm concerned about the potential stigma He's a landlord but rents a house himself? I'd appreciate guidance on navigating this situation and finding a solution that works for my parents and I.

Nlfpmod

If there is still space in the compound, build a smaller apartment on it. Move into that one and leave the main building for them. If possible, create a second gate through to access it without passing through the main building.

On another note, think of settling down and stop "T0T0Vulcanizing". With this, you will become compatible with your parents and feel free with them too.

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Health / Re: What Kind Of Brutal STD/STI Can Cause This, (graphic Picture) by Stevenbright(m): 12:25pm On Apr 22
Kyng1:


I already got more drugs today, and I'm hoping it will work. I'm only scared for my wife not to contract it because she's pregnant. If it's really chicken pox, I heard it's extremely transferable.

Initially, I thought it is a joke.

So you have got a pregnant wife at home and the best you could do is sleeping out with a prostitute. Wow, congratulations. You deserve what you have got and more.

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Politics / Re: New Wage: NLC Proposes Sanctions For Defaulting Governors by Stevenbright(m): 11:59am On Apr 22
Judolisco:
NLC should go and sit down.. U want a mini wage of 700k when some states are struggling to pay 30k....NLC leaders should go and do six months internship training with ASUU on how to tackle the government

NLC negotiating strategies seems like a joke as it is not realistic.

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Politics / Re: Why Has EFCC Not Arrested Yari, Mattawale Despite Similar Court Order As Bello? by Stevenbright(m): 5:09pm On Apr 21
Yahaya Bello made a political blunder by attempting to campaign for a position that is not vacant (APC national chairman).

Immediately he handed over, his supporters started posting posters of him in Abuja, campaigning for him to be made the national chairman!

More over, I read he was actually very corrupt while in office and that he have the citizenship of Morocco and UAE and equally have a lot of huge investments in both countries. If these accusations are true and he is found wanting, let him be made to face the law.
Celebrities / Re: Moment Cubana Chief Priest Made Money Transfer Instead Of Spraying Cash (Video) by Stevenbright(m): 4:16pm On Apr 21
Just put the money in an envelope and hand it over to the celebrant.
Crime / Re: How I Was Scammed Through Fake Alert! by Stevenbright(m): 2:27pm On Apr 21
Obainoman6:
You were not wise and that wise couple have run you street, its a normal thing where i live mugu must always fall for guyman to chop.
Right now that wise couple will be enjoying the stuffs they bought from your shop while toasting with a cool bottle of wine and celebrating. Take your L peacefully.

Imagine what you are saying!

This is why it has become necessary for us to become extra careful and ruthless when dealing with people we don't know in this country. Main reason I don't really blame those who don't consider others in situations like the one in this story.
Family / Re: What Would Be Reaction After Seeing This? by Stevenbright(m): 12:21pm On Apr 21
Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. As a parent, what would be your reaction after seeing this? grin

If this is an actual happening, I just hope it is not a hot stew!

If it is, the first thing is to rush to pick the child by her arms, pour many salts on water and pour it over her body excepting her head and privates. This will help dehydrate those areas the hot stew have touched to prevent swollen and skin peeling.

Then savage the proteins and a few stew as much as possible.

You then take the child to the hospital for proper care.
Politics / Re: NNPC Begins Oil Production In Madu Field by Stevenbright(m): 4:32pm On Apr 20
Goodlady:
How many barrels per day?
Is the oil drinkable or suitable for cooking?
Abi Enenpieces no dey reason cooking oil if gasoline production no favour dem?

20,000 BPD

Yes, bring your cup and serve yourself...
Family / Re: No More Traditional Marriage List In Tiv Land by Stevenbright(m): 8:43pm On Apr 18
Really...
Romance / Re: Avoid Telling Men Your Age Until... by Stevenbright(m): 2:47pm On Apr 18
jeromestarks:


Without hesitation, this lady answered "I am 27"

Immediately I heard 27, I lost every single ounce of interest I had in her.


What is wrong with 27 years? I guess you wanted to just chop and clean mouth but afraid that she will easily take it seriously because of her age and hence the lost of interest!

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Education / Re: Private School Teachers Are Really Going Through Alot. by Stevenbright(m): 6:57pm On Apr 16
Truvelisback:


Disrespect from students, parents and school management is just one of the challengs teachers in private schools face.

The other and most demeaning one is poor remuneration. Worst still, many of these schools still owe the teachers or don't pay them as at when due.


Religion / Re: Pastor Enenche Meets Vera Anyim, Says He Never Intended To Embarrass Her by Stevenbright(m): 8:28pm On Apr 15
Foreign Affairs / Re: Key Features Of Israel’s Multilayered Air Defence System Revealed by Stevenbright(m): 4:26pm On Apr 14
misreal:
Omo.
This defence system is crazy.
It has really helped Israel,else Hamas alone for don destroy Israel.
But then,does Iran have a defence system as strong as this?
No be to shoot Catapult drones oh,na to defend yourself when time comes.

Maybe you don't know exactly what happened. This is it:
"The US and other Western allies are reportedly helping Israel to defend against retaliatory Iranian airstrikes, deploying fighter jets and other defenses to intercept incoming drones and cruise missiles before they reach Israeli territory.

American forces began shooting down unmanned aerial vehicles (UAVs) in the skies over Iraq and Syria on Saturday night, according to unconfirmed Israeli reports. More than 100 Iranian kamikaze drones were taken out by US and UK forces before they reached West Jerusalem’s airspace, the Israeli military’s Army Radio outlet reported."

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Foreign Affairs / Re: Key Features Of Israel’s Multilayered Air Defence System Revealed by Stevenbright(m): 4:25pm On Apr 14
Righteousness2:
Let no one deceive you , the Orginal Iron dome of ISRAEL is THE COVENANT GOD HAS with them.

99% of the Iranian attacks were Intercepted.
[b]What we saw this Morning was a Miracle!! [/b]It is beyond and human technical ability.



It was so bad for Iran that the Iranian state media had to lie to their people to save face.

They had put out an incident that Happened in Chile as a hit on Israel .
Many other fake pics had to be out to save face.


I am quite ISRAEL will Deal IRAN a blow of BIBLICAL PROPORTIONS!!
ONE that cut off the Head of the Snake.

We are living in Live Biblical times...


Maybe you are ignorant or intentionally be deceitful.

This is what happened and not what you are saying "The US and other Western allies are reportedly helping Israel to defend against retaliatory Iranian airstrikes, deploying fighter jets and other defenses to intercept incoming drones and cruise missiles before they reach Israeli territory.

American forces began shooting down unmanned aerial vehicles (UAVs) in the skies over Iraq and Syria on Saturday night, according to unconfirmed Israeli reports. More than 100 Iranian kamikaze drones were taken out by US and UK forces before they reached West Jerusalem’s airspace, the Israeli military’s Army Radio outlet reported."

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Foreign Affairs / Re: Iran Has Launched Drone Attacks Against Israel by Stevenbright(m): 10:02pm On Apr 13
TruthsFM:
Isreal defence force are much prepared even before the war started. The bring war to the doorstep of their enemies. Iran will be worst than Gaza in matter of days and weeks. I pity the innocent iranians that will suffer the consequences

Yes ooo. Reason why for the last six months they can't achieve their stated objectives in the war against Gaza!!

You guys should learn to put religious sentiment aside when discussing stuffs like this.

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Family / Re: I Have A Very Toxic Mother, Please Advice Me by Stevenbright(m): 6:29pm On Apr 13
Omotehanny:

What do you think?

Stop giving her half of your salary. The house choice you do is enough as a give back to her as your mom for now. If she ask you why, tell her any made up story you can while you start saving aggressively to move out by renting a small apartment you can afford, from where you can have your peace and plan your life.
Celebrities / Re: Which Celebrity Breakup Pained You The Most?(pix) by Stevenbright(m): 4:08pm On Apr 13
muyico:
Funke akindele

That was never a marriage in the first place!! Funkevjust used the guy as a sperm donor to fulfill her being a mother dream.
Romance / Re: Run Away From Any Bachelor That Prepares Moi Moi - Lady by Stevenbright(m): 9:56pm On Apr 12
orohbiro:
“Run Away From Any Bachelor That Cooks
Moi-moi, Marriage Is Not On His Mind” — Nigerian Lady Advises Women

#edoupdates

She is afraid she can't use cooking of food as a weapon on him!!

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Family / Re: (CLOSED) Benin-City Relocation Sales: I'm Selling EVERYTHING We Own As A Family by Stevenbright(m): 1:08pm On Apr 11
TerTheFirst:


The bike and TV stand are pegged at 50k each. I'll upload photos when Nairaland permits me. Or, reach out and I'll share the photos with you on WhatsApp.

I do believe we can still negotiate when the time comes.

For now, let's still get the picture here when the forum allows it.
Politics / Re: Faye Presidency A Wake-up Call For Nigeria, Africa -- Prof. Chris Imumolen by Stevenbright(m): 10:24pm On Apr 10
Is good leadership determineed by the age of the leader?

Xi JinPing of China, Narendra Modi of India, Vladimir Putin of Russia, Paul Kagame of Rwanda are all youths, right?

The problem of Nigeria is systemic. It has gone beyond just a leadership thing. This is because it is not just the ruling class who are bad or corrupt but the rot encompasses the entire spectrum of the Nigerian society.

Morals and values are nonexistent, the get rich quick syndrome is at feverish level, the criminal enterprises (yahoo, ritual wealth, kidnapping, banditry, hookup, etc) are the new normal.

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Politics / Re: Betta Edu Threatens To Sue BBC Over Alleged Defamation by Stevenbright(m): 8:50pm On Apr 10
Bobloco:


https://www.vanguardngr.com/2024/04/betta-edu-threatens-to-sue-bbc-over-alleged-defamation/amp/

The woman is a scam. She wants to cash out "50 million dollars" again from BBC!!!

Well, she should sue me for calling her a scam and ask for $20m!! ntor..

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Romance / Re: For Men, Money Gives Them Confidence. As A Woman, What Gives You Confidence? by Stevenbright(m): 7:39pm On Apr 10
EreluRoz:
Let me answer mine.

Beauty(whole package 😆) gives me confidence more than any other thing and I'm not even going to lie about it or say my brains. It has really paved way for me and make things extremely easy for me everywhere I go.

Pishur or I don't believe it!!!!
Romance / Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by Stevenbright(m): 7:26pm On Apr 10
tollyboy5:
This lady made this statement on a thread. I would love to know if that's how ladies think so I can also update Elon musk chip in my head with the latest IA grin

The person who made that comment is a retired olosho and to her sex outside or inside marriage is transactional.

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Family / Re: I Get Lots Of Disrespect From My Younger Sister. I Need Your Advice by Stevenbright(m): 7:23pm On Apr 10
Leave that house and rent a single room somewhere. This is because the urge and motivation to be creative and proactive on what next to do with your life won't come when you remain in that demeaning comfort zone.

As soon as you get yourself a room to stay, go out there and find a work to start doing no matter how small the pay and grow from there while still scouting for a better job.

Once you get back on your feet, forget about those your family people and focus on building yourself until you are financially stable before you ever think about giving anything out to anyone of them again.

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Family / Re: How Do I Correct My Wife? by Stevenbright(m): 2:51pm On Apr 10
LVStone:
Dears,

I am married to a wonderful woman indeed, beautiful in and out and I have no regrets.

However recently I noticed strange body odour from her, the first day I came in and observed mild strange smell, without being malicious I said just blatantly said "what is smelling in this house" , while trying to check around I moved closed to the chair she was sitting and it became stronger then I told her maybe she needed to bath because I noticed she hasn't.

She cried heavily saying I now refer to her as a smelling wife. I begged her that that wasn't my intention, I observed and spoke on what could be done. That issue passed.

But I still perceives it from her, she doesn't bath early most times because she works remotely and she wakes up seeing piled work so she starts working immediately on her laptop.

Every marriage has issues I know, one of her's is that she doesn't like correction she sees it as if one is trying to make her inferior.

Please how can I correct her to bath early no matter the work.

Please I need honest counsel and not abuse, if you are not married please don't respond to this, thank you.

Make her bath daily and early.

How?

Lovely make it a duty to make sure you guys bathe together every morning before you go out to work. Do same in the evening before going to bed.

Also ask her if there is anyway you can help her in her work to reduce her workload. If it is not possible, you can some times find a way to stay around her while she works, gist with her, and occasionally take her out. All these can help increase her productivity, emotional balance and state of hygiene.

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Family / Re: Pls Help, ls This Move Wrong by Stevenbright(m): 4:21pm On Apr 09
yinkaoke:
A wife is a caterer and of recent had jobs for 4days non stop having to cook meals for a four day event thus did not have a proper night rest. After the event while going home to her hubby, a man friend of the wife not boyfriend oh just customer now friend offer her a free room in his hotel to enable her have a proper rest after the 4days Hussle she decline and instead said except her husband comes along with her. On getting home she mentioned the offer to hubby, hubby declined and said it's not honourable since they have their house and would look downgrading for him to follow her to the hotel offered by a male friend.
The wife was like, this her husband's thought it not right
What do you people please? I need your input l beg. Thank you

What are they going to do at the hotel room?
Politics / Re: Peter Obi Visits St. Charles Borromeo Hospital In Onitsha, Donates N10m by Stevenbright(m): 2:41pm On Apr 09
Lizzysamuel:
HE Peter Obi at the College of Nursing Sciences, St Charles Borromeo Specialist Hospital, Onitsha where he donated N10 million to them.

Credit: PO GrassrootM

The communities, groups and individuals collecting money and materials from Peter Obi and his likes are part of the major problems in this country. This is because these guys see whatever they do as investment which they must reap once they have the opportunity and hence the reason our elected politicians corruptly enrich themselves.

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Family / Re: (CLOSED) Benin-City Relocation Sales: I'm Selling EVERYTHING We Own As A Family by Stevenbright(m): 2:33pm On Apr 09
TerTheFirst:


The chair set is what you see in the photo. The TV is what's on the wall. The TV stand is also going plus the glass table there.

The chair set is 200k, fixed - they're exactly as they look in the photos, without rips or anything to disclose.
The Sharp LED is 50k, fixed too. Works perfectly and has never been repaired. Nothing to disclose here too.

The bike is what I'll upload later. It appears Nairaland is throttling what I can upload so I need to take it easy.

I can however, send the photos for you via WhatsApp.

Alright, good.

What is the Tv stand going for? And the bike too?
Family / Re: How Do I Go About This Marriage? by Stevenbright(m): 9:44am On Apr 08
DarkCaesar:
I want to be as brief as I can with this, so there would be enough contributions on what’s bothering me.
My Father in law wants me have my marriage ceremony in his compound but I prefer a hall or an event center.
The road to his compound is not very good which would deter a lot of people from coming to grace the occasion. It’s their right to choose the venue according to tradition but I just feel an event center would really have been more gracious than an open settings in his compound, I just felt like he’s trying to show off his new Mansion to the world as he’s a big man in his town and he told me that has been his tradition with his previous daughter. I’m really confused because this development would not allow a lot of the invitees to be there as it’s a bit far from my state and the road is really bad. What can I do about this?

Give to Caesar what belongs to Caesar!

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