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Family / Re: My New Marriage Is About To Crash by Stevenbright(m): 1:02pm On Mar 03 |
8inchesdick: The issues you stated can all be managed but you just want to eat your cake and have. Short: You knew this before you agreed to marry her. So, what has changed? No bumbum: You also knew this before you agreed to marry her. So, what has changed? Has a mouth Odour: You knew this before you agreed to marry her too. So, what has changed? If you care to find out, there might be a solution to this. Doesn't know how to make love and sex: Teach her, she will get better at it and with this she might just be the faithful type. Sex is not food. Take it easy. Ovaries are not working: There can be a medical solution to this via her money and your cooperation and understanding. So what is your problem. You got into it with your clear eyes but just want to eat your cake and have it. Just stifle it... |
Politics / Re: Hardship: 8 LP Lawmakers In Anambra Assembly Donate 6 Months Salaries by Stevenbright(m): 12:16pm On Mar 03 |
TheClassic1: Donate to who, through who and how much? They said their basic salary! Who are they deceiving? Their basic salary is not up to 30% of their total monthly take home because some single allowances are far more than the basic salary. What they should be discussing is sponsoring bills to reduce the monthly take home of all political office holders both at the state and federal levels, then I will know they are being sincere not all these cosmetic approach. The solution to the current problem Nigeria is facing must be strategic/systemic and sincere in approach not all these campaign after election activities. Infact, the legal take home of public office holders (politicians and high ranking civil servants) is not the problem but the money and resources they corruptly embezzle. So, they should just stifle this hypocritical endeavor. For those shouting: LP and messiah, I just pity you because the majority of the Nigerian populace never learns! |
Sports / Re: Super Eagles: Why Jose Peseiro, NFF Parted Ways by Stevenbright(m): 6:18pm On Mar 02 |
robosky02: "NFF offered to pay him $50,000” but if it is an indigenous coach now, I doubt if he will get such na offer. An equally well paid indigenous coach can do better. |
Family / Re: True Life Story: Why You Should Be Careful Of Whom You Help by Stevenbright(m): 4:55pm On Mar 02 |
Biglittlelois: No money is missing. They did the said transfer themselves reason why they avoided proper investigation. They actually bribed their way out at the police station to avoid the case being investigated. They felt spited or humiliated that their phone and powerbank were only allowed to charge for just 10 to 15mins and hence the need to teach the neighbors a lesson that will also make them prove they are rich. 3 Likes |
Religion / Re: "If You Catch Your Wife Cheating & Forgive Her, Her Respect For You Will Go" by Stevenbright(m): 9:39am On Mar 02 |
bewla: A cheat is a cheat. There will always be a flimsy reason to explain the wrong done but a cheat remains a cheat regardless. She should have addressed the issue and not use it as an excuse for cheating if she is still interested in the relationship/marriage. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: True Life Story: Why You Should Be Careful Of Whom You Help by Stevenbright(m): 9:01am On Mar 02 |
To state it more clearly, being kind or good to people in this country is something one must do with care and selectively too. This is because those helped will in most cases in the long run see the helper as weak or foolish and must therefore continue to be used. Anytime the help stops, that person is now claiming wise and must be taught a lesson. So, never show off but always display signs of lack or need through causal complains about the country. Also, beware of unnecessary closeness to neighborhs as they are generally ungrateful. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / Re: Reasons Women Get Attached To A Man After Sex by Stevenbright(m): 10:10pm On Mar 01 |
tiffanyfan: So those hook-up girls are attached to the many customers they service, right? Forget this story! 9 Likes |
Family / Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by Stevenbright(m): 2:03pm On Mar 01 |
This is just like how some girls chop serious guys money and be forming I am not ready yet, I have not organized my life yet, you are not romantic, wait let me finish school/NYSC, etc. One thing I noticed is that if one partner in any relationship shows commitment or seriousness too early, the other one starts drawing back, thinking he/she is too good to be with that partner. So, even if you have serious intentions, don't show it too early in the relationship. One thing you might do to help her out of the situation, is to match her with another guy you think is serious and capable. If it works between her and the new guy, fine but it can also prompt her present guy to sit-up, take her seriously and do the right thing. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Why So Much Hatred Between Step Siblings? by Stevenbright(m): 1:18pm On Mar 01 |
Darlingme: You answered your own questions partly as quoted above. Wether step-wives or step siblings or brothers or sisters or couples or friends, be mindful how you treat people because it will determine how they will relate with you in times to come! 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Why Do Cheaters Keep On Cheating Even After Getting Caught? by Stevenbright(m): 3:26pm On Feb 29 |
In most cases, they don't feel bad about what they have done but just re-strategize and become more covert. On some cases, when the offended easily forgives, the offender takes it for weakness and think they can always get away with it. Hence, there are some things you don't forgive and if you must do, make sure it was not an easy giveaway one. 1 Like |
Phones / Re: Help! A Phone Thief Created An Opay Card And Withdrew My Sister's Funds by Stevenbright(m): 11:53am On Feb 29 |
AmuDimpka: Probably the zenith bank card is linked to the Opay account. All the person needs to do is use the "Add Money" button to move money from the zenith bank account to the Opay account. |
Politics / Re: PMS Price Per Litre In Nigeria & Some African Countries - StatiSense by Stevenbright(m): 10:22am On Feb 29 |
JoeyNaza: Subsidy have already been reintroduced by the back door as confirmed by IMF recently. 1 Like |
Family / Re: I Need A Car Monthly Repayments Module. by Stevenbright(m): 8:08am On Feb 29 |
Majatechworks: Ok, I see. But just know that people generally do businesses. And business is business! I pray you find the help you seek. |
Family / Re: I Need A Car Monthly Repayments Module. by Stevenbright(m): 11:26pm On Feb 28 |
Majatechworks: 2.7m investment to amount 3m in three years which means a gain of 300,000 in three years? No body will do that for you cos you are not being realistic at all. 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: NLC Threatens Full Blown War After March 13 by Stevenbright(m): 6:46pm On Feb 28 |
treesun: NLC is now trolling! I guess it should be banned now. 4 Likes |
Romance / Re: My Babe Is Prettier Than Most Instagram Babes. But She Hates The Camera by Stevenbright(m): 5:28pm On Feb 28 |
I know this is not your story but if it is, just know that you are the one pushing a well behaved and faithful girl to start a wayward life. In case she eventually starts the slay quern life, just make sure you get married to her so that you will not end up creating a problem for someone else. 5 Likes |
Health / Re: Meningitis Kills 20 In Yobe - Commissioner by Stevenbright(m): 8:38pm On Feb 27 |
Imagine what a commissioner said! So, "it is from God" And you guys where relocated to that place to assist god kill more people with the disease? 1 Like |
Family / Re: Family by Stevenbright(m): 10:52am On Feb 27 |
Ud70: These are the steps: 1. Get the minimum financial requirements ready. Let's say about 20mil.. 2. Scout for and get a slay queen that is addicted to cheating becos it heips spice up the relationship. 3. Introduce her to your family. 4. Get introduced to her family. 5. Do the marriage 6. Live happily ever after!! |
Politics / Re: NASS Members Salary Cannot Take Them Home - Hon. Benjamin Kalu by Stevenbright(m): 10:21am On Feb 27 |
If their salary can't take them home, let it take them to the farm or better still to the sambisa forest. ....SOBs! |
Family / Re: Did I Marry Wrong? by Stevenbright(m): 9:40am On Feb 26 |
Gr8mind07: Haaaa! Just imagine ooo 1 Like |
Family / Re: Did I Marry Wrong? by Stevenbright(m): 8:12pm On Feb 25 |
carojody: With this statement, it shows you enticed her with your money and with the impression that you are available to meet all her needs and that of her family. So, she sees you as her meal ticket/atm not a life partner hence the lack of loyalty/respect. The reason she is not warm towards you is probably because you are not spending for her family. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Did I Marry Wrong? by Stevenbright(m): 6:17pm On Feb 25 |
carojody: Mirror her treatment to you back to her! Most especially in the areas of attention, financial aid (transport fare to work), cooking (tell her to start cooking good food that you can eat or she must have to find a way to go learn how to cook otherwise you will start cooking for only yourself. This will help reset her brain if she is still interested in the marriage. 15 Likes |
Politics / Re: Governor Otu Announces Fresh Edo APC Governorship Direct Primary Election by Stevenbright(m): 8:17pm On Feb 22 |
sirpharrell: What does this your observation tell you? It shows that there is no system, no matter how good that we can't corrupt and render ineffective as a result of our greed. |
Forum Games / Re: You Have N1000 To Create The Perfect Woman. Choose Wisely by Stevenbright(m): 11:20am On Feb 21 |
Localemperor: Faithful= N300 Beauty = N200 Respectful= N300 Good Cook = N200 This will come with peace of mind as a bonus |
Food / Re: The ₦2,000 Food I Bought At An Eatery Today by Stevenbright(m): 5:22pm On Feb 20 |
Jewessgratitud3: You are confusing yourself. I guess you meant "quarter derica and one milk cup" |
Romance / Re: It’s Very Hard Right Now To Find A Guy Who Doesn’t Smoke — Nigerian Lady Laments by Stevenbright(m): 2:22pm On Feb 19 |
press9jatv: Just like it is very hard to see a girl that doesn't do runs! 3 Likes |
Family / Re: If A Woman Has All She Desires In A Union Can She Remain Happy Forever by Stevenbright(m): 10:07pm On Feb 17 |
sukkot: Humans are generally insatiable! But in marriage, a woman or a man can be in the situation you described. That is the tendency to become bored/unfulfilled in a marriage that was initially full of fun/ satisfaction. Now, what causes this situation? It is in most cases caused by unrealistic expectations and entitlement. This usually happens when one partner expects too much from the other and hence becomes disappointed when the expectations are not met. Solution: When you discovered that your partner has become disillusioned as a result of too much expectations which you can't meet, balance it up by putting him/her on a similar scale, that is telling the partner about your expectations and how they are not being met and that you do want to see them work it out. By so doing, the idleness and boredom that fuels the partner's inordinate expectations will die a natural death and he/she will understand the real dynamics of life. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Peter Obi Gives Account Of Presidential Campaign Funding by Stevenbright(m): 3:03pm On Feb 15 |
Nbote: You guys should be deceiving yourselves. All Nigerian politicians are the same irrespective of their political parties and deceptive self-righteous statements. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Told Me She’s A Water Spirit (mami Water) by Stevenbright(m): 1:02pm On Feb 12 |
Maks27: Main reason why you should not be here asking this question. Take your decision by yourself! |
Family / Re: Thinking Of Separation From My Wife by Stevenbright(m): 6:16am On Feb 12 |
vinexe: Ok. There are good and bad people everywhere. Like I said earlier, do the right thing for yourself. She is not a respectful and cooperative wife. That is why it is why the situation is very hard on you. Assuming she is on your side, supportive and cooperative, her family's efforts to make life difficult for you would not have been this difficult a nut to crack. So, do yourself right by following your father and pastor's advice. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Thinking Of Separation From My Wife by Stevenbright(m): 11:17pm On Feb 11 |
vinexe: The very one you have refused to answer and telling people to chat you privately. |
Family / Re: Thinking Of Separation From My Wife by Stevenbright(m): 11:15pm On Feb 11 |
Omuuvwie: When he tells you, come and comment it here. No point hiding it. |
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