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Make dem finish dem sef..

No be small tin...I tire

I do not understand the meaning of this post... U say

ungrateful that what ?

For not sending him anything on his birthday, ladies at times can be very self centered.

[quote author=Lifedonor post=89936649]I will have to go straight to the point.

The lockdown due to covid 19 made my girl friend and I bond even closer to the extent she practically was almost living with me. She only leave my place to her house (not too far from mine) just to change her clothes or her other items as the case maybe.
Sometime along the line I fell ill and she was very much helpful.

Fast forward to early May, I discovered she had become too glued to her phone. We would be seeing a movie on TV and her phone will be with her (chatting) at a point I complained. This got worse to the extent that when I wake up in the night say 1AM this girl is still up charting.

Two days ago I went to the hospital for my final check up and I left with the keys since she wasn't around when I left the house. When I got back I found her small Nokia phone on the table and I decided to go through it.

The messages I found there are things I won't want to talk about but the major one that promoted this thread is that I saw a message from her choir member telling her that he is on his way to church already and that she should come fast before the program starts so they can meet. I went through his previous messages with her and lo and behold they have been dating for a month now.

Guys when she got back I threatened fire and brimstone and booommm! The confession.
They usually meet an hour before choir practises and they went behind the church towards the generator house to kiss touch and romance that was the reason she always left the house so Early.

Do you guys know that we had a very good sex that same day she left to the church to kiss this guy. Do you know she bathed in my house, she used my deodorant, she ate my food and wore the clothes I bought for her. Apparently she kissed and romanced two guys in less than 3hrs.

This is the second time she is cheating on me. I know quite sure there could be more but this is the only one she agreed to may be cos there was a text evidence.

She has been pleading and begging. But if she could do this even in the church and on a day I was in the hospital ... I am thinking of quitting. Pls advise me

She is 22 in her finals the guy is 25 same university (I live in a university town)

I have met her parents and I have verbally told her that I would marry her. If not for the way 2020 turned out I wanted settling down November this year. We have dated for 2yrs

She even spoke to my mom in the morning of the same day.

Mate if you are wise I think you should move on, if not she's gonna be your R.I.p.sendee soonest

Abbeylanre15:
Hmmmm.... I will consider this

Not consider, if you want to do it right it's simple. Become anonymous

[quote author=Oluromantic post=89707411]This guy is a strategist. Stylishly seeking working class or connected ladies who would say ...oh he's a good handwork and a bright future, he just need support... It's good but such ladies don't exist on NL

True he's just trying to find a hook

Taunting into her privacy was bad , but now you got your answers, man up in the morning coz obviously the pads were to avoid sex. Allow her go in peace. She winsk you.

You started you statement very well. You live him right? And you won't to leave him, but you never introduced him to your people bit he did. coz you think he can't fit in, babe I see no love hrere but obsession if you can't kindly pack your loads and allow the young man live his life the way he wants it. Don't impose on people what you want them to be.

The way you start a relationship really matters a whole lit, how did you place yourself? Now she has found out you can't afford the lifestyle you promised. Dude it's your opportunity to set the record straight.

Just too weak dude girls come and go, mothers remain. Be wise bro

angelfallz:
Foreign girls are more or less the same.

According to you. Nigerian girls are parasites.

From what you wrote and the picture of your posted this was 99% a murder case. First his story is inconsistent and confused, a man can never be in a room with a dead body for 3 whole days without even signaling his neighbours, family or even his family members, thought it might be confusing the forensic pictures shows from the blood marks she tried to hustle to breath and survive till her last moment and he was probably there doing nothing while he watched her die. Till proven wrong he is probably not just a suspect but a perpetrator of the crime and his alibi is on 0% . This is not just a murder case but a gruesome one at that and in any Court worldwide Justice will [must] be served.

A candid advice if you wanna quickly catchup with the fraudster is try locate any of the merchant he used that might have a cctv like filling stations and some eateries, but if the transaction was made on a sole merchant then you can contest the billing with your bank who will inturn as for a refund from the said merchant where the charge was made. And also involve the police fraud unit of the situation.

It's not like bin Nigeria or Africa where people are RELIGIOUS ZOMBIES.

A newly constructed road and a well frequented road which looks best to you, and mind you, Shaping a virgin's character is easier than a well experienced girl who thinks you are just another ride, and dude mind your business you don't live with them so you know not exactly what happen at their home, what you see outside is different from what is inside believe it or not. Virginia is da boom. Yo no doubt