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Yep!Chivalry is death and some women killed it.Guys don't have respect anymore. Who is to blame anyway?When some girls are so god damn cheap. . .It takes a 500 naira recharge card(not even) to shag a pretty girl.  

tribalism ,racism, nepotism, favoritsm, sexism,. . .God save from all the isms

good people jack johnson

C2H5OH:
Na only 3 eyes? I been think say love get at least 10,000 eyes.

Quote from: Thoniaslim

The reason I don't do all this relationship shit on facebook!

1.That wasn't the question.
2. No body gives 2 fcuks if you do r/ships statuses on fbk or u even do demons . . .like sm local igbo pple will say. . .:i don't bloody care.

Your posts are always self righteous like you are tryna prove a point to the world. . .You seem to have the illusion that you don't care what people think about you. Keep thinking like that, dreams come true you know.

Whatever you do is your business.Have you ever heard somebody say"karma is a bitch?" It don't matter whether it was his past or previous life it will still come back to hunt him at some point.If i were you, I'll tell the dude that I love him but I love me more. I can't fit shout. 4 this post modern era love get 3 eyes oh.Shine them well well.

@ poster
Bleep. . .U bloody hater!I like jennifer Aniston.If you have a problem with her, deal with it. pshhhh!

Beyonce scared of lonely

lol, It is people that don't have a life outside nollywood nairaland that sit around and think about all this bondocks. AHH so what if anyway 1 starts a thread about bananas or sand.I really couldn't care less. . .My sincere advice is if you get upset about such trivalities on NL, you probably need to get a job or go to college or better still GET A LIFE!

zugoboss:
U said u needed opinions & someone gave u one & u're pissed off so what do u really want? Assuming u were the one will u get married to a second hand woman that has been married for over 10yrs with kids? when there are lots of fresh young ladies out there only a widower or divorcee will do that plus the kids which are extra burden.Truth is bitter

In the spirit of sportsmanship saying it as it is and not getting pissed, your profile pic is bleeping wierd man!
And pple pple. . .show the lady some respect. 2nd hand is for clothes and commodities. . .Perhaps a more diplomatic term would be "women with baggage."

I wanna be your fairy tale

Steps to finding a Wife material

1 You might want to check you attitude because in my mind "bitch" is not a word that any self respecting gentleman will use to describe a woman.

Atreus:
God forbid bad thing! 30 men! Ke?

Whats the biggiie?Dating 30 men don't mean you slept with them. Or are is your primary concern the emotional baggage?

I'll pull out a shotgun and waste both parties

This is a very insightful note. The woman has the gift of presentation. In the past, I have thought of writing a piece like this but i didn't know the right words to use.To cut long story short, this thread is tres tres bien. I wish every one on NL would get the chance to read it.Btw Asha no send all the peeps that are hating on the write up before reading it. You need to annalyse a situation b4 u pass judgement.duh!

Presentation is everything. Everybody has standards but whatever happened to the good old virtues that mama taught us?Rememeber that thing called modesty and humility? I guess its the manner in which you phrased it. I don't know about you but I find it rather odd when some says "Oh I am very smart." I guess you are just a really arrogant person which is a good thing- whatever works for you. I just can't stand proud people.

If your girl cracked a joke at your expense. Maybe she joked about the fact that you always forget to comb your hair. That really isn't that bad so you can point it out later. On the other hand if she was with her friends and you want to talk to her and she was doing you strong thing or when you go out together she acts like she is single(then space is definately the solution to your problem). Space is not coming around her to often.God bless the soul that invented work.It is always a good excuse. When she calls, sound a bit distant like you aren't there but you are there.before you know it her eyes will clear and she will be like "babe, you've been acting wierd lately wats up wih you."

If she has the kingsize pride then it will always be a barrier in your relationship.Except you are ready to apologise for both your wrongs and hers for the rest of your lives.

It just sounds like you are on the "the bachelor", and 25 hot girls are vying for your attention and you are dishing out orders. What do you mean by girls have to score a mininum of so and so on your chart before they can be awarded the marriage certificate.Excuse you!

C2H5OH:
Messes up your swag or subtracts from your street-credibility?

lol. . .I just wanted to insert that somewhere in my post. Rita really cracked me up with that one. Btw being called a doll or a teddy is a really admirable thing, but not in the middle of a heated feminist discussion.

C2H5OH:
How good is this one? What's underneath all that front I feel like you're putting up? I said it's fluff but you disagreed so tell me what exactly it is.

I like it when people mistake me to be stern, controlling and stuck up when they just met me. Thats like a defense mechanism or a protective layer that shields me from opportunist.

C2H5OH:
I like this. To whom much is given, much is expected. If you give a man your respect, there's a high possibility that the respect you have given that person will be requited.

You are probably right, but even if it isn't requited-wats the worst that can happen? People really need to breathe in between relationships. I don't know about guys but some girls around me can get so desperate. If you ask me desperation is not sexy at all . .Dude!You need to be comfortable in your own skin then you'ld be able to hold relationships.Sorry I got a little carried away. I plan to have a talk show in the future. And yep!I jump at any opporunity to practice.

Afamdman:
@stilletos true with the under achiever stuff but
Looking at the history log of your profile i couldn't help but notice how many comments u posted between yesterday and today. Don't look at me u were the one pointing fingers at them

True talk. I still stick to my under acheiver speech from before. I don't come on NL everyday because I'm usually busy.And when I do come, I don't spend all day.I've been on Nl for some years now. An annoymous passerby tryna get the days stress off ma shoulder. If you're gonna use the amount of times I posted on NL ysdai as a yardstick for seperating the under acheivers from the bucaneers then be my guest. I still stick with wat I had said earlier. If a guy spends 60 hours outta a 24 hour day on social networks, he is an under acheiver and I can identify with girls that will have to do with him.

C2H5OH:
I love this. It makes a lot of sense but let's be real with ourselves: If a successful, polite, respectful, young gentleman attracts women from all angles and walks of life - loudmouths, chickenheads, drug-abusers, etc, it's not because of what he has done wrong, but because he has become "somebody" and his success is admired. and those women would love nothing more than to be with somebody like him. Being with him does not automatically change who they are. There are men who love their women with great respect and are faithful to them, and yet their admirable traits do not stop these women from cheating on them. It's not because these men deserved the dirt; it's because those women are bad news.

I was nodding when I was reading your post, until I got to the bolded.Okay yes a man that holds his own is gonna have the honeys all over him. The good part is he still reserves the right to choose from the battalion who he is gonna roll with. If a woman is bad news do you need consult the okija shrine b4 u keep her at arms length? Some people are so bitter about relationships. They speak like the world has thrown the most sour lemons at them. The bolded statement sounds like you are threading on dangerous grounds. SO the reason for your failed relationships in the past or perhaps any self respecting man's relationship was because the girl was bad news? We should all learn to be take responsibility for our actions- atleast some of it.

No Other Way - Jack Johnson

1. I have reservations to being called a fluffy sweet bunny.You might want to try that line with Paris Hilton.I am not a teddy bear and but I certainly don't do demons

C2H5OH:
Take me for example, I give what might seem like a decent chunk of "Shit" on here, but off it I'm very reserved and gentle, I think. lol

I guess words can be deceptive.We all come off a little stronger than we really are. Its all a facade I presume. But a good one I would say.

C2H5OH:
Why must you "bitch slap" the sucker? Before I misinterprete what you mean by "bitch slap", I will give you a chance to explain what you mean by that. Isn't it obvious that if your first instinct or resolve to settling a conflict with a man who is in your business is to slap him, you are not to be taken lightly?
If he is your man he has some kind of right to be in your business, am I right?

By bitch slap I don't mean it in the literal sense. That was mostly in reference to my posting on NL. If some sucker throws shit at me, I'll have no choice but to duck and then throw right back atchu. I can't really remember ever slapping any one ever in my life. I believe violence is for cowards who are too scared to look reality in the face. Well something tells me I must have slapped lots of juniors in high school cos the oppounity is too good to pass off. Anyhoo I would never raise a hand at a guy accept he violates me. This however has never happened and it never will.

At 12 I picked up a very valuable life lesson from one of the sayings from the ancient folklore of my people. According to them a picture will come out exactly how you have posed for it, so don't go blaming the photographer. In the same vain you attract what you are. If you are some insecure bastard looking for some one to batter. You will most likely find a bitch with diarheaa of the mouth. As for all those self respecting men,if a woman don't respect- she don't deserve you.It really isn't rocket science. Personally I don't see why anyone would put themselves through an abusive relationship(phyiscal/verbal). Life is darn 2 short. Me sha death b4 dishonor. I'ld choose being single a billion times over than being with an abusive guy.

C2H5OH:
how self-sufficient are you if i may ask? can you handle a real man. sounds like you would be too scared to even confront men with strength.
what say you

women who want to stand toe to toe are theones who usually need us in their lives

The bolded word is often misinterpreted. Heck!yeah!As a wise girl I will certainly be afriad to confront a man with the type of strength you are talking about. Does the strength of a man lie in his ability to beat up his girl if she dare challenges him? i think that is cowardice if you ask me. I believe the strength of a man lies in his ability to be patient- yet have have an aura that commands respect.
The fact that I am very diplomatic and don't pick quarrels with peeps unneccessarily don't mean I won't bitch slap a sucker if they were up in ma buzi. . .

Hmm I answered the question in the end huh? Although it wasn't on the same thread. I'll tell you this much you didn't waste that $3000 on that intro to psych class. Whoever said the best way to get a man to do something is by suggesting they can't do it was certainly talking about me.

I love to marry an athlete, perhaps a soceer/basketball player.Most of those guys are cuties with hot bodies. The down side is that you would have to beat other women with a stick off your man.I beg I no get energy.

C2H5OH:
Lol someone's butt hurt

Not at all am just applying my God giving talent to be objective as I read away and comment on NL. Wethin concern agbaro with overload

a sour plum crumb pie with lowfat ice cream
I kinda like the contrast.It sounds gross but it is a healthy yet tasty way to snack.

Lol
I can't believe am actually replying but what ever shit happens!

C2H5OH:
Someone's been drinking too much today
I bet you like hearing your boyfriend tell you that you are self-sufficient because you want so badly to believe it. Oops o well it slipped so what

What was that?What did you say?I have absolutely no comment. This is not the case of the butterfly thinking himself a bird.Then again beautiful people don't go around screaming"hey everybody, I am beautiful!" This is not to say that they aren't flattered by admirers.